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Finding Peace in Hospice: Alyssa’s Stage 4 Stomach Cancer Experience

Finding Peace in Hospice: Alyssa’s Stage 4 Stomach Cancer Experience

If you have ever been to our YouTube channel, chances are you have seen Alyssa and her stomach cancer video on the home page. Millions of people have watched her story. Thousands have left messages of support or started conversations under the video to share their own experiences, ask questions, and talk honestly about cancer. Alyssa isn’t just telling her story. She’s helping create a community of people who could see themselves in her, who maybe felt more empowered and less alone because she was willing to be so open.

Most of the stories we share focus on diagnosis, treatment decisions, and what it looks like to live throughout care. Alyssa has invited us into a different chapter, one that many people are afraid to talk about.

Interviewed by: Taylor Scheib
Edited by: Katrina Villareal & Jeff Forslund

Since her original interview, Alyssa has gone through 38 rounds of chemotherapy, three rounds of immunotherapy, a total gastrectomy with part of her esophagus removed, and surgery to remove both ovaries and fallopian tubes. After exhausting all available treatment options and seeing her stage 4 stomach cancer continue to progress, Alyssa made the decision with her care team and family to begin hospice care at home.

In this new video, she talks honestly about what hospice means to her, how she is focusing on comfort, connection, and memories with her family, and why she still feels called to use her voice for others.

From the beginning, Alyssa and her care team were honest that the treatments were not curative, only meant to slow the cancer and buy time. As scans eventually showed further spread, she faced the reality that the treatments were no longer working for her stage 4 stomach cancer. Hospice became a way to prioritize symptom management, reduce pain, and focus on comfort and presence with the people she loves. Even as a young woman, she navigated the strange, often stigmatizing process of calling hospice agencies for herself and not for a grandparent, and she found a program that respected her and took her needs seriously.

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In hospice, Alyssa centers self-care, connection, and meaning. She talks openly about planning her funeral arrangements to ease the burden on her family, recording videos and writing cards for her son’s future milestones, and savoring the little things, like skincare, makeup, and feeling the grass under her feet. She describes each new day as a blessing, often reflecting at night on how precious life feels now that time is so limited. Her hospice experience is not just about decline; it’s also about redefining strength as accepting support, asking for honest communication from her care team, and embracing the love that surrounds her.

Alyssa also uses her voice to advocate for more awareness and research in the stomach cancer community. By sharing her symptoms, treatment side effects, and hospice experience, she hopes to encourage earlier diagnoses, better options for future patients, and a culture where people with advanced disease are seen, heard, and honored.

Watch Alyssa’s video or read the transcript of her interview below to get an update on her story:

  • The importance of honest communication with the care team to help understand treatment options
  • Why hospice is not “giving up” but choosing comfort, pain relief, and presence with family after exhausting all available treatment options
  • How small acts of self-care become powerful tools
  • Why it’s okay to feel scared, sad, or guilty, and to seek support so you do not stay stuck in those feelings for too long

  • Name: Alyssa B.
  • Diagnosis:
    • Stomach (Gastric) Cancer
  • Staging:
    • Stage 4
  • Symptoms:
    • Fatigue
    • Elevated resting heart rate
    • Heartburn
    • Difficulty swallowing
    • Weight loss
  • Treatment:
    • Chemotherapy
    • Immunotherapy
    • Surgeries: total gastrectomy; partial esophagus removal; bilateral oophorectomy and fallopian tube removal
    • Clinical trial
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This interview has been edited for clarity and length. This is not medical advice. Please consult with your healthcare provider to make informed treatment decisions.

The views and opinions expressed in this interview do not necessarily reflect those of The Patient Story.



Introduction and Summary of My Cancer Journey

My name is Alyssa. I was diagnosed with stage 4 stomach cancer in May 2023. Since being diagnosed, I have gone through 38 rounds of chemo and three rounds of immunotherapy. I have had my entire stomach, part of my esophagus, and both my ovaries and fallopian tubes removed. I have done a clinical trial.

I have also lost my ability to eat or drink anything. I have a complete blockage due to the cancer, so I was on total parenteral nutrition (TPN) for three months and then transitioned to a feeding tube, which I have had since March 2025 and is how I receive all my nutrition and hydration.

I have exhausted all lines of treatment that are available to me and with the cancer continuing to progress, we have decided to start hospice. I am now in at-home hospice care, which brings me to today.

How I Transitioned to Hospice Care

From the beginning, we knew that there weren’t any curative treatment options available and at a certain point, we would switch to hospice care. We just didn’t know how long we had. We knew how many lines of treatment we had available. My care team and I had the conversation that once we exhausted these options, hospice would be something to consider.

As we got closer and I transitioned to the final line of treatment, we asked, “What does this line of treatment look like? How long do we expect this to slow down the cancer?” Of course, we didn’t know exactly, but we wanted an estimate. Then we asked, “Once we realize that the cancer is continuing to progress, will we be switching to hospice?” They said yes, if that is what I want.

With hospice, the goal is to manage symptoms and make me as comfortable as possible as I prepare for my final transition. For me, that was a no-brainer. I want to be comfortable; there are no other options available.

I had some extreme pain in my abdomen that I had never experienced before. It was so severe that I went to the emergency room. When I was there, they did their workup, blood work, and scans. The scans came back showing that the cancer had continued to progress to other organs. We concluded that the chemo I was on was not working. Then we had to make the decision: What do we want to do next?

We weren’t going to continue with treatment that wasn’t working and since there were no other options available, I could just continue with life and let things happen naturally. Or I could utilize this great resource of hospice, where they focus on making me comfortable. They explained what that looks like. I definitely want to be comfortable. I’m in a lot of pain, so I’m ready for that.

They shared some hospice facilities that I could utilize. I was told to interview them, which was overwhelming because I thought, “How do you even begin to interview? I had no idea what I needed, what I wanted, or what I would need in the future.” The good thing is that my cancer center sent me a resource with some questions that might be important to me.

I called different companies, asked questions, and then chose the company that I felt best met my needs. That process was a little weird because I am so young. Calling these companies, I would tell them I wanted to set up hospice care for myself and explain where I am at. A lot of them would say, “Okay, so for your grandma, we are going to do this,” and I kept saying, “No, this is for me.” It brought me back to the realization that, yes, I know I sound very young, but unfortunately, this is where we are. It’s a weird process, but I feel at peace with it, knowing that it will make me as comfortable as possible.

Because I have had these conversations with my family, it has helped them be more comfortable and prepared them along the way. I would say, “Once we get to this point, it is hospice,” and now that we’re here, of course, it still feels heavy. It feels like this is the final chapter and that we’re down to the last days or weeks, if we’re lucky. It definitely feels heavy, but I’m grateful for my care team, my family, and my friends. Without all that support, I don’t think I would be handling it as well.

Why Open Communication with My Care Team Matters

Keeping the line of communication open is very important to me because I need to know that my care team is being transparent with me. I need to know that they are aware of what I want and what’s important to me, and that we are constantly on the same page. Things may change; I may start to feel differently, or things may change with my health, and we may need to discuss that. So open communication is very important.

I go into appointments with questions and they know I am going to circle back on what is important to me. They are often prepared and will say, “I went ahead and did this beforehand because I know you’re going to ask about this.” That makes me feel better as a patient, knowing that I’m not just a patient to them and that they care about me and what matters to me.

Coping with My Final Line of Treatment

Being on the last line of treatment available, I knew this was the final shot. This was the last thing we had to slow this down and buy me more time, which is heavy. I know that once you switch to hospice, that turn is very quick — from being up, moving, and talking to not talking, being in bed, and not being able to communicate with my loved ones. That makes me sad because I carry a lot of guilt with that.

I focused on self-care, self-love, and self-soothing during my last line of treatment. On chemo weeks, if I went in on Wednesday, starting Monday, I did all the things to help my mind prepare for the next round. Each round was so intense. It was painful and emotionally draining. I would choose some of my favorite foods. I’m not able to eat, but I would chew them and spit them out to get the flavor. I knew my taste buds would change once I was on chemo, so I wanted to get that in beforehand.

I made sure not to take on too many tasks or stress about cleaning and all the things that needed to be done. Those would be pushed to next week because chemo week is so intense. I know what I’m facing and I want to be in the best frame of mind that I can be. I focused on skincare, meditating, journaling, and lots of grounding. I love to stop on the way to get the mail and put my feet in the grass, put my arms up, feel the breeze, listen to the sounds of nature, and connect with what’s going on in the world.

Being present in those moments helped soothe my soul and ground me because there is so much out of our control. If I can do these little things here and there, it helps me feel better about the situation.

My Mindset Now That I’m in Hospice

It’s heavy being in hospice because I know we’re no longer doing anything to slow this down. There’s nothing available. I know my days are numbered even more than ever before and I feel like there is so much I want to do to help my family and friends. I want to leave videos and letters behind. I want to write cards for my son.

I’m going to be missing out on a lot of things, so I have cards for his 18th birthday and his high school graduation. I have so many things to fill out and write, but I don’t know how much time I have, so it’s a lot. It’s heavy, but I try not to allow that to stress me out too much because I don’t want to stress so much that I miss the moments. I am down to my final moments. I want to create memories with my family and enjoy every moment that I have.

Every day that I wake up, I think, “I saw another day. This is amazing. What am I going to do today? Who am I going to spend time with?” I have been very blessed. I have had a visitor every single day since I started hospice, whether that’s a friend, coworker, or classmate. People from different parts of my life have been visiting me every day. I feel covered in love and I am enjoying those moments.

It’s a lot, balancing what I want to do and not knowing how much time I have. I know it’s going to be a quick turn once I’m no longer able to do these things. Day to day, I try to take it one moment at a time. Nighttime is heavy because I reflect and think, “I just got another day,” and every night it hits me that life is precious. You feel the weight of that when going through something like this.

Creating Special Memories with My Son in Japan

From the time my son turned seven, he told me that he no longer wanted birthday parties and just wanted to travel places with me. At that time, I was a single mom, and I thought, “What do you mean no more birthday parties? You’re only seven.” I thought it was so sweet that he wanted that, so that year, we went on a little trip.

That was also the year I met my spouse and our dynamic changed. Now we were a family doing family trips, but we didn’t get to do a lot because life was crazy. It was one thing after another, and we wanted to save money and were struggling financially. We didn’t travel much, but we had a few trips. Traveling was always important to me and something I didn’t get to achieve.

When I was faced with cancer, it felt like it wasn’t going to happen. Then someone reached out to me and said he wanted to gift me something. He asked me to rank 10 places from where I would most want to go to least. He asked who I would want to meet and what was on my bucket list.

We met up and he surprised me with a trip for my son and me to go to Japan for a week. That meant everything to me, to have the opportunity to go out, live life, and step away from everything that was going on. We had been living with this diagnosis for so long. Even though we tried to enjoy our time together, there was no escaping it; it was always there. In that moment, I got to escape. I was able to go to another country, something I thought I would never get to do, and I did that with my son.

We got to see the beauty of Japan. It was so peaceful. We rode a helicopter over Tokyo and had so many great experiences. I had been struggling with bone pain and fatigue with everything going on, but while I was there, I didn’t experience any of that. I was pain-free. I was so happy. We embraced the trip and each other and made beautiful memories. I didn’t think about cancer or how much time I had left. I got to live and be in the moment with my son, which is something we will cherish forever.

What I Hope People Remember About Me

There are so many moments. There are big moments in my life that are important to me: my son being born, getting married, and our recent vow renewal. But as far as what I hope others remember, something that has been important to me throughout my life is leaving a positive impact on others, in whatever way that may be.

Whether it’s inspiring people to go after their dreams or encouraging them to advocate for themselves, I wanted to be someone who left some type of positive impact, even in the smallest ways. I hope that when people think of me, they remember that.

How Online Support and Kind Words Have Helped Me Keep Going

I cannot express enough how much kind words have meant to me. They have lifted me during some of my deepest struggles. I try to stay positive every day, but oftentimes, I feel weak and tired. There were times when I was scared and felt like my body was failing and there was nothing I could do.

Then I had people reminding me: You are strong. You are doing this. Even though you are struggling, you are still in it and that makes you strong. They would say that coming out and sharing this with the world makes me strong. Some people reminded me that making a video takes energy. I had to pause and think about that because it does take energy. I have to prepare and afterwards, I’m exhausted.

For me, it felt like something I was called to do, so I didn’t think about the energy cost. Having people remind me and lift me, telling me that I am strong and inspiring, helped me to continue to be strong, to fight, and to stay positive. That was important.

It’s okay not to be okay and to struggle. But I never wanted to allow myself to stay in that struggle too long because I knew that would be additional stress on my body, which weakens the immune system. My goal was to try to be as strong as I could be because that could buy me more time.

I’m incredibly grateful for all the support and love I have received over these years.

What I Have Learned About People and the World

I have learned that there are so many amazing people in the world who are very selfless. The way they have given their time, energy, and resources, and taken moments to share kind words with me, is something they didn’t have to do. There are so many people willing to do that simply because they care.

My vow renewal was especially eye-opening because it was completely gifted to us. Over 20 vendors gifted their time and resources. We had food, a DJ, photographers, and so many amazing people who made it a dream come true. None of them had to do that, but they chose to make that day special for my spouse and me. That restored my faith in humanity and showed me how selfless people can be. These businesses need money to operate, but for them to give like that to a complete stranger warmed my heart.

Tomorrow is not promised. We never know when our time is going to be up, so it’s important to prioritize what’s important to you.

Family has always been a priority. I always wanted to take trips with my family, but I kept saying I wanted more savings built up or to pay down debt first. I feel like I lost out on a lot of time when I could have made many more memories. I don’t want to say I regret it, but it is eye-opening.

Book the trip. Do what you want. Don’t wait until some “perfect” time. Things can be figured out. Prioritize what’s important to you. If it’s important to make these memories, you will find a way. Don’t miss out because you think you need a little more saved. Go after it. You will be grateful you made those memories.

Why I Started Sharing My Story Online

I was diagnosed after two years of going to the doctor and not having answers. During those two years, I was trying to research what was going on and what it could be, but I wasn’t finding anything. After being diagnosed, I wanted to know what to expect next, but I still wasn’t getting many answers. It’s a complex question, but even with research, I couldn’t find much information about stomach cancer or the treatments.

I felt called to share my symptoms because I thought, “This is an unfortunate situation, but how many other people are having these vague symptoms and not getting answers? Maybe by sharing my symptoms, I could encourage someone to push a little harder, ask for a second opinion, or ask for additional testing. Even if it doesn’t lead to a cancer diagnosis and they find out it is something completely different, if I can help one person, it will make this all worth it. As much as it sucks, I do not want this to happen to anyone else.” That was my “why” in the beginning. I wanted to help anyone I could.

After my videos took off, I started updating people about what it looked like going through chemo and what happens when the unexpected happens, like when my liver enzymes spiked. What do you do when that happens? I don’t know everything, but by sharing what I experienced, I share what I have learned in my particular case, which could help others.

I kept feeling called to keep sharing, piece by piece. I received great feedback from people thanking me and telling me how it impacted them, along with people asking additional questions and wanting to know more. That is why I continued.

Looking back, I never thought it would become this, but I’m grateful that I have been able to reach so many people and hopefully help many throughout all of this. I cannot change my situation or circumstances, but if I can help one person, that will make this all worth it.

A Message to the Stomach Cancer Community

I would tell the stomach cancer community that we are the future. Stomach cancer is so underfunded, which is why we cannot get the necessary research. It’s insane that there aren’t more treatment options. It’s crazy that some stomach cancers cannot be seen on imaging. Many people have never heard that before.

If we cannot observe this through imaging, why haven’t we come up with a better way to follow this? Without that, how do we know how bad things are getting and how fast they’re progressing? For the stomach cancer community, the more we speak up and share, the more we can fight for a better future, not only for ourselves but for anyone else who may be impacted.

We can use our voices to push for more research and more funding. A lot of people don’t know this information, but when we share it, it might land on the right person who says, “I want to invest in this. I want to look into this further.” We hold so much power that we do not realize we have. It shows in how many people I have been able to reach and help simply by posting and sharing. There is power in numbers. If we all continue, we can hopefully see a better future for those impacted by stomach cancer.

What My Days in Hospice Look Like

As of now, I still have quite a bit of independence compared to others who may have entered hospice. I’m very lucky that my mind is still alert and that I can express what I want.

I have a nurse and an aide who both come weekly. The aide helps with bathing and things like that, while the nurse stays on top of my medications and asks how I’m feeling. As things continue to progress, those visits will increase in frequency.

My son is with me every day. He is homeschooled and we made that decision so we could have more time together, which has been great. My spouse is here, too, but he works long hours five days a week, so we try to make the most of the time we get together.

I have a visitor every single day. At least one family member, friend, coworker, or classmate comes to spend time with me. I see different people every day and I enjoy reconnecting with them. We take pictures and create more memories.

A lot of what I do depends on my pain. I’m in a lot of pain. I’m in pain 24/7 now. I cannot remember the last time I was without pain. It’s at a tolerable level most of the time. It spikes at times, but I have medications to help. Regardless, I’m constantly in pain and have to plan my days around it because I never know how I will feel. I might start the day feeling great and then suddenly feel horrible and be unable to do anything else for the rest of the day.

Recently, I have been trying to keep the house tidy and slowly set up my Christmas décor because I love Christmas. My son and I set up the Christmas tree. I did most of it, but didn’t put the star on top, and then needed a break. I make sure to take breaks. Family and friends offer to get me out of the house to do things I want to do. If I need a few things from the store, my mom offers to pick me up and take me, even if it’s a long drive, because she wants to support me.

I’m not doing a lot of moving around, but I’m enjoying the time and memories I’m making with my friends and family.

How Makeup, Self-Care, and Community Help Me Feel Like Myself

I still do my makeup. I love makeup and feel like it is a form of self-care, just like skincare. If I’m able to do it, I like to. Recently, I have been getting on TikTok Live and doing my makeup while chatting with my friends and supporters.

As I get ready, everyone joins and says things like, “We love you! How are you feeling?” It’s so nice to have all of that while I’m also pouring love into myself by doing my makeup. They ask me about the products, so I feel like I’m in my influencer era. I always wanted to be a makeup artist, so I feel like a little makeup artist, even if I am not officially one.

Being able to do anything for yourself — taking a shower, doing skincare, doing your makeup, fixing your hair — makes a huge difference.  Kind words from others can make someone’s day. If you see someone and tell them that you love their hair, they might have been having a horrible day, but now you’ve made them feel better because you took the time to say something you didn’t have to say.

Living with Guilt and Trying to Ease My Family’s Burden

I have come to terms with the fact that guilt is something I will always carry, but I also know deep down that I did not cause this. I know it’s not in my control. I still carry guilt because it’s happening to me and I see my family watching me and hurting because it is happening to me. I feel like I’m putting them through it, even though I know that I’m not. I try to remind myself that it’s not in my control. There’s nothing I did to cause this and there’s nothing I can do to undo it. I try to do little things to make myself feel better.

One thing I’m doing now is planning my funeral arrangements. If I can take that off their plate, I feel like that is the greatest gift I can give them right now. When the time comes, it will be heavy. If they can focus on grieving and being there for each other instead of answering a million questions about what I would have wanted, I think that would be amazing. I try to do things like that to bring them peace and comfort. It doesn’t erase my guilt, but it makes me feel a little better. Anything I can leave behind for them — videos, letters, or anything to make this easier — helps ease that feeling a bit.

How My Faith Shapes the Way I Think About Death

A lot of my perspective comes from my faith. I have known from a very early age that the only thing we are promised in this life is death. This was always going to happen; I just didn’t know when or how. I still don’t know exactly how it will happen because anything can happen in the next few days.

Death is a very normal thing and something that will happen to all of us. It’s heavy, but if I can talk to my family about how I feel about it, it helps. I’m at peace because, as much as this will hurt and be heavy for them, I also believe I will be in a better place. I know it sounds cliché, but I truly believe I will be without pain. I will have beaten cancer. I will be done with it. My family will no longer have to watch me suffer. Those are things I look forward to.

I don’t know what the next life looks like, but I believe it will be more beautiful than I can imagine and that I will be at peace. By sharing that with my family, I feel I have brought them peace and comfort. Sharing this with others who have family members going through something similar or who are in hospice for whatever reason might help them consider that their loved one might feel similarly. We often struggle with hurting for the person going through this transition, but a lot of it, for me, is faith and acknowledging that, as much as it sucks and as heavy as it is, there is still beauty within it.

Why Having Platforms and a Voice Matters to Me

I’m very grateful that I have a voice and that I’m able to share this. I have thought about how meaningful it is that I was able to be on this platform and share my symptoms. Then, share a follow-up after we did the trial that we hoped would find a cure, but it did not. And now share about transitioning into hospice and preparing for my final transition.

I’m grateful that I still have the opportunity to be here and share this because that’s not always the case. My initial prognosis was 2 to 11 months, which is not a lot of time, but here we are, 2 ½ years later. I am grateful for that extra time and the opportunity to share what I have been going through.

Sharing is how I show my gratitude. I did not live quietly. I decided I was going to do something meaningful with my time and try to help others. Now, as I get close to my final transition, people ask if I am scared; I’m not. Being able to share what I am feeling is amazing and I hope it continues to help others.

I’m grateful for all the platforms, including The Patient Story, for giving me the opportunity and the space to share this. We touched on so much — living life to the fullest, advocating for yourself, and how precious life is. Those are the main messages I wanted to get across. I cannot think of anything else to add.


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Finding Light Through Advocacy in Stage 3 Synovial Sarcoma: Sorcha’s Experience

Finding Light Through Advocacy in Stage 3 Synovial Sarcoma: Sorcha’s Experience

Before cancer entered her world, Sorcha’s life in El Paso, Texas, was full of family, engineering work, and hands-on creativity. She spent her days as a mechanical engineer in the oil and gas industry and her evenings quilting, crocheting, or making friendship bracelets with her young daughter. Their bond showed up in bright, memorable moments, like planning a Taylor Swift concert trip together and crafting bracelets in anticipation. It was within this full and grounded life that Sorcha first began navigating what would become a diagnosis of stage 3 synovial sarcoma.

Interviewed by: Nikki Murphy
Edited by: Katrina Villareal

Before her stage 3 synovial sarcoma diagnosis, Sorcha’s days were defined by work, parenting her daughter and son, and finding joy in movement and learning. She went to New Orleans for a Taylor Swift concert, which she remembers as a safe, joy-filled space, especially for girls, women, and families. She, her daughter, and her sister immersed themselves in the music, traded hundreds of handmade bracelets, and created memories that would later stand out as a “protected, beautiful time” just before everything changed.

Sorcha B. synovial sarcoma

Soon after, Sorcha began noticing symptoms: right-sided abdominal pain, changes in her breast, and a frightening episode of vision loss in her right eye. Despite seeing multiple doctors and being told the symptoms were likely stress or migraine-related, she continued to push for answers. Her stage 3 synovial sarcoma experience quickly became one of self‑advocacy as she tracked patterns, returned to primary care, and insisted that seemingly “unrelated” symptoms might, in fact, be connected. Eventually, severe pain, nausea, and vomiting led her to the emergency room, where a chest CT revealed a large mass.

From there, Sorcha moved into an intense treatment path that included chemotherapy and protective medications to shield her kidneys and bladder. She describes the shock of sudden hair loss, shaving her head with her kids at a local salon, and the mounting fatigue and cognitive effects that linger even now. Yet she also highlights support from friends who flew in before surgery, an employer who offered housing during treatment, and a tight “village” of long‑time friends who celebrated “No Mo’ Chemo” with a beach photo shoot. Through it all, her stage 3 synovial sarcoma experience is defined not just by medicine, but by motherhood, community, and a fierce commitment to self‑advocacy.

Watch Sorcha’s video or read her interview transcript to find out more about her story:

  • Strong self‑advocacy helped Sorcha push past initial “it’s probably stress” responses and eventually get imaging that revealed her synovial sarcoma
  • How small, joy‑filled experiences became powerful emotional anchors once symptoms and treatment began
  • Maintaining a “village” of long‑time friends across multiple moves created a support system that showed up in tangible ways
  • Learning that patients often need to trust their own sense that “something is wrong” and keep asking questions until their concerns are fully addressed
  • How Sorcha’s perspective shifted from simply enduring treatment to intentionally using her time and health to be present with her children and to share her experience to help others

  • Name: Sorcha B.
  • Age at Diagnosis:
    • 36
  • Diagnosis:
    • Synovial Sarcoma
  • Staging:
    • Stage 3
  • Symptoms:
    • Right upper quadrant pain
    • Changes in the right breast
    • Temporary vision loss in the right eye
    • Nausea
    • Vomiting
  • Treatments:
    • Chemotherapy
    • Cytoprotective therapy: mesna
    • Surgery: lobectomy of the middle lobe of the right lung and associated ribs and soft tissue
Sorcha B. stage 3 synovial sarcoma
Sorcha B. stage 3 synovial sarcoma
Sorcha B. stage 3 synovial sarcoma
Sorcha B. stage 3 synovial sarcoma
Sorcha B. stage 3 synovial sarcoma
Sorcha B. stage 3 synovial sarcoma
Sorcha B. stage 3 synovial sarcoma

This interview has been edited for clarity and length. This is not medical advice. Please consult with your healthcare provider to make informed treatment decisions.

The views and opinions expressed in this interview do not necessarily reflect those of The Patient Story.



My Name is Sorcha

My name is Sorcha. I was diagnosed with stage 3 synovial sarcoma at the beginning of 2025, and I live in Texas, in El Paso.

I am a mechanical engineer by degree, and I work in oil and gas. I have worked at the same company my whole career. I’m passionate about learning. I’m curious about the world and the people around me. I think the stereotype of mechanical engineers is that they do stuff with cars. I don’t do anything with cars. I like to make stuff with my hands, though, so I enjoy crafting, arts and crafts. I quilt, crochet, knit, and make friendship bracelets. I’m a big Taylor Swift fan and so is my daughter. I am married with two kids. I have a daughter who is six and a son who is four. I also like to read and lift weights. 

Taylor Swift Trip to New Orleans

That trip was on Halloween weekend, which, if you’ve ever been to New Orleans around that time of year, it’s like festival season but spooky. There are a lot of locals, music, and artistic expression. It’s such a cool city for a ton of reasons, but also very cool to be there the week of Halloween, and the concert was that weekend. I went with my daughter and we got the tickets a year beforehand, so we had made our costumes. It took about a year for me to make my costume. It was very intricate, and my daughter went from knowing the songs to knowing all the lyrics to all the songs because she’s developing and growing up, so it was so cool. It was a fun mother-daughter time.

We handmade hundreds of bracelets together, and then we got to hand them out and trade them with people in New Orleans. We have a little memory box with all of our bracelets. She has a whole bunch in her room, but those are the ones that I have little memories about.

My sister came down. It was a cool experience. That whole concert vibe is very girlhood. It’s safe. Everyone’s so positive and kind, and it was a great experience for my daughter. It was a whole bunch of moms and sisters and kids and women of all ages, also some men, too, but just a very safe place for her to experience the city for the first time. It was a beautiful experience.

I went to the emergency room for the first time a little less than a month later, so it stands out for me as this gem of this protected, beautiful time before I became ill. 

Girls’ Beach Trip and No Mo’ Chemo

As part of my career that I’ve chosen, I’ve moved a lot. I’ve probably moved, I want to say, seven times. It becomes important not to rely on an external village. You need to make your village. I think part of that is making sure you maintain strong, connected, intimate friendships even as you move. That takes work and effort, and it has to be reciprocated.

This group of girls, not all of them are there in that picture, but that group represents that village of adult friends I’ve had now for, I mean, a couple of the girls since I was two or three, and I think the newest friend I have is maybe 12 years ago. They’ve been extremely supportive through this whole experience. We wanted to celebrate the end of chemo, so we did a “No Mo’ Chemo” photo shoot and had my family come in right after. We actually had a photographer take pictures and memorialize that experience of being done with being sick and turning the page towards surgery and recovery. 

Wigs and Hair Choices

Everyone thought I would wear wigs, I think, so it was a little bit like, hey, wigs are cool, wigs are in. But I never did. No shade or hate to anybody; I just found them a little bit itchy. So it was kind of fun to wear them for the first time and then be neon, you know. 

Early Sarcoma Symptoms and Dismissed Concerns

I would say in the summertime, maybe July, I had some right-quadrant pain. It was dull, aching pain over the course of a few days, with some sharp stabbing pains. It lasted for a couple of days and I thought, “That’s kind of weird. Maybe I hurt myself. Maybe something happened.”

A few weeks later, I had the pain again, except it was bad enough that I couldn’t sleep. It affected my sleep, and the sharp pains were really sharp. I was on Google asking what it could possibly be and came up with it’s probably gallstones. I had lost weight. I’d finished nursing my kids and was coming back to my normal weight, so maybe that’s what it was. That was around July, and then I had the pain again. 

Along with that, I had had a couple of other symptoms and I thought they were unrelated. I thought I felt something in my right breast. Something seemed different. Something seemed off. I went and saw a gynecologist to check me. He said he didn’t feel anything. Everything felt normal. I was like, “Well, one of these feels different. My right one feels like something’s off with it. I can’t really explain why; it feels higher or something.”

Around then, within those weeks, I lost vision in my right eye while I was getting ready for work. It was as if you stared into a light and you can’t see for a while, except it didn’t recover and my eye looked normal. My pupils were equal and reactive. I saw several doctors. I saw the gynecologist, an optometrist, and an ophthalmologist about my eye. They said I was probably having a migraine. I didn’t have a headache, but they said an aura around a migraine can result in that vision loss. After seeing a few doctors with all these unconnected things, it came down to I was probably stressed out. 

Primary Care, Tests, and ER Referral

Then I had the pain again in August, and I went to a primary care doctor and said, “Hey, look, I’m having A, B, C, X, Y, Z. I know I’ve been told by other doctors that [they] are unrelated. I think they’re related. I think there’s something wrong.” She took me very seriously. She ordered a whole bunch of tests. She ordered a head CT. She ordered an ultrasound of my gallbladder area, just checking on that. I also saw a gastroenterologist.

All my tests came back normal. All my blood work was normal. My head CT looked normal. Although my doctor was very supportive and said, “I agree, if you say there’s something wrong, there’s something wrong, maybe it’s something hormonal. Let’s meet back again in six months and see if anything has changed. But in the interim, if you experience this pain again, immediately go to the emergency room because they may be able to image and see if there’s some intermittent thing happening. They may be able to see it while it’s happening.”

Emergency Room Visit and Mass Discovery

That was in August. September, October: Taylor Swift concert. Towards the end of November was the next time I had the pain. I had discomfort, pain, and nausea at work after eating a meal, which again sounded consistent with gallstones. I went to see our LPN, and whenever he was probing around to see if everything was okay, I started vomiting and I couldn’t stop. Concerned that this might be something cardiac or more complex or serious, I went to the emergency room. At the emergency room, I was triaged and waited several hours to be seen. 

Once I was seen, again, scans were showing nothing. I said, “Hey, I really think something’s wrong over here. Can you please look over here, see if you see anything?” They went back and consulted and said, “Okay, we might see something. If you’re saying you’re having pain there, we see a little, it might be a blood clot. We can’t really tell. We’ll do a chest CT.”

Once the chest CT was done, everyone’s mood changed. I wasn’t given the results immediately. I have an idea of how long the results should take. They said, “We’re going to wait. We’re going to put you in a room.” I had just been behind a curtain before then, so I thought a room opened up. They put me in the room. I think they were trying to be very considerate of my feelings and my experience, but they put me in the room privately so that they could tell me that they found a large mass and it didn’t look good. 

Timeline to Official Diagnosis

I had an emergency room visit where they found the mass, and then we drained the fluid, re-inflated my lung, biopsied the mass, and then they tested the biopsied tissue. I was diagnosed on January 2nd. My ER visit was around Thanksgiving, and my diagnosis was in New Year’s.

Hearing the Diagnosis and Treatment Plan

What’s crazy is I knew what it possibly could be, and I had self-referred to the sarcoma group at MD Anderson before even having the FISH result that confirms sarcoma. So I knew that this was a significant chance, but I hadn’t done any research into what the treatment protocol would be because it’s so different based on your individual case. It basically went, “Hey, yes, we have this result, you have synovial sarcoma, you have this high-grade malignant mass that makes you stage 3, we need to start chemo immediately, it’s going to be really bad, you’re going to get really sick, and you’re going to be rendered infertile. So, are you done having kids?”

In their defense, they’re not saying this stuff boom, boom, boom, but the experience of it is like, “Oh, that’s a lot of information,” trying to take it in. She said, “If you want to have more kids, we need to freeze these eggs now, and we need to get you in here next week to start chemo. You’re going to be out of work for six months, and then you’re going to have surgery, and it’s going to be this significant surgery.”

I was clinical in my response. I was like, “Yep, I’m done having kids, that’s perfect. I’m young, I can handle difficult chemo, but I’m old enough that I already have my children. Okay, perfect. We live close to MD Anderson.” I was responding in a very unemotional way, but I think that I just wasn’t able to experience the emotions in the moment. 

Telling My Husband, Parents, and Friends

My husband was with me in the room the first time. At first, we were amongst ourselves, like, “It has to be benign, it has to be benign. I’ve never smoked. I work out. I eat healthy. I’m a healthy person. Of course, I don’t have cancer.”

When I found out that they had ruled out a benign mass, I came in and woke him up and told him it was cancer. I think we were both surprised, asking the same questions over and over again, like, “Well, why? You don’t do any of this stuff that makes a risk factor.” But that was his biggest shift, realizing that it was cancer.

The actual diagnosis of the sarcoma and the treatment protocols were more intense than I expected, but we didn’t know that much about what cancer patients go through. Most of my friends who had had cancer had had skin or breast cancer that was mild enough not to affect their life or their appearance significantly during the treatment, just because of the type of cancer they had. 

I called my boss on the way home and said, “Hey, I have to be out of work for six months. I need to leave immediately.” He said yes and even offered his home to me. They had an apartment that his wife and daughter were using while she was in her last year of high school, and they offered to let me stay there while I was going through treatment. That was generous and helped support me a lot. 

Then I called my dad. He was distracted and packing and said, “Hey, can you call your mom? I’ve got to get this done.” I said, “No, it’s serious. Can you sit down for a second?” I told him, and I asked him to call my mom first so that she could have a reaction to it and not feel like she had to not react to protect me or something.

My dad’s an engineer. My mom’s more like a biologist-artist type. That just felt like the right way to do it. Then, everybody else, I sent a text message that said, “Hey, I have cancer, and here’s this three-paragraph-long thing of all your questions answered. I pre-wrote it with everything and put it in my notes.” Everyone got the same message. This is what I’m comfortable with you sharing with others and this is what I’d like you to wait to share. So I guess being my friend is kind of a wild ride. You might get that text one day, I don’t know. 

Researching Care Teams and Protocols

I reached out to a few places. One place in the Northeast, I’m blanking on what it’s called, and I self-referred to Mayo Clinic and MD Anderson. I called a few people I knew and trusted. I reached out to my family and said, “Who do you know that works in oncology? Who do you know that knows about clinical trials or knows about this type of cancer that I believe I have?”

I wanted to understand who is most respected. I did a lot of research going into it before I had that January 2nd meeting, not so much about what protocol they would prescribe, but which care teams are respected and have the most options and the most robust systems for support.

The care team came in and said, “This is what it is. In general, sarcoma is resistant to chemo; you’re going to have to have an intense chemo regimen. Our goal is to prevent or reduce the chance of recurrence.” They were transparent that this is not going to solve my cancer. This is going to make it less likely to recur. It probably will come back, but this is going to hopefully make that further away or less likely. 

They were direct with me and clear about the chances and the intent behind each portion of the protocol and the surgery. They recommended that I reach out to other people. They said, “Here are your scans. Here’s your information. You can send it to these people or whoever you choose and see what they recommend.”

I had also seen a local oncology team in El Paso, and they said, “Full disclosure: we see certain types of cancer, and this is a really rare one. This is really aggressive. You need to go to the best in the country, and we’re not them. But here are different people to talk to.”

Everybody recommended pretty much the same protocol. All of what the best people in the industry recommended was consistent, so I didn’t have concerns around that. I felt like all my questions were answered. When it came to deciding whether or not to do portions of treatment, I decided to do every step that would increase my chance of success and decrease recurrence, and I had the benefit of having no risk factors that would preclude me from doing those things. 

Chemo Before Surgery

I got my PICC line put in on January 13th, which was great, and started chemo around January 15th. I was on a pretty heavy dose. I think it’s called doxorubicin; it’s called Red Devil as a slang term. I had that on Mondays. Then I had four days of what’s called AIM treatment, basically a chemo that’s formulated for your size, spread out over however many days they need to give you your dose.

Then I had a Mesna bag, which is a continuously pumping bag that provides protection for my kidneys and bladder. The Red Devil is cardiotoxic and can be, I guess, brain toxic, so there’s medicine for that, and then I had the bag the rest of the time to continually flush my kidneys and bladder to help protect those. That would be a week of that, a week of feeling like crap, having all my levels go down — my red blood cells, white blood cells, and platelets — and then a week of trying to get back up into a range where I would qualify for chemo again. 

It was that three-week cycle. I think I had six of those for 18 weeks. It ended up taking around 20 weeks because I wasn’t always able to qualify back towards the end of my treatment.

Hair Loss and Shaving My Head

It was crazy how fast my hair fell out. I thought weeks in, I was going to start having hair fall out, and it was not like that. I think it’s that Red Devil; I think that’s what most people experience. It came out in clumps. I had long, thick hair, so I’m used to being able to play with my hair, pull on it, braid it, and it keeps on ticking. But I would run my hands through my hair and hair would be falling out everywhere, even my body hair falling out, which was weird. 

When I was having all the clumps fall out, I was getting big bald spots and my part was super wide. There were big sections with no hair. I’d already cut my hair short coming into this, and I decided that the next time I was home — because I was trying to see my kids on my recovery week for the two days before I went back to restart chemo — I would like to shave my head since it looked like it was all going to fall out. That was after my first cycle.

I had my kids shave my head at a chain place that does free haircuts for cancer patients who are transitioning, so that was free of charge. They let my kids hold the clippers. My son didn’t want to, but he watched. I just wanted it to feel not scary, not for me to come back and look completely different. The hair was the first thing. I didn’t feel so bad at first, but each successive chemo cycle, each time I did chemo for a week and then recovered, it got worse. 

Chemo Side Effects and Lasting Impacts

I was more sick. I had cognitive impacts from the Red Devil, like I didn’t know where I was or couldn’t think. I still have that. I have memory issues now, short-term memory problems, and it feels like a lot of my memory during that time was wiped. Almost all the stuff they list — fatigue, nausea, weight loss, weight gain, bloating, sensitive skin, hair falling out — you have at least some of it. 

The thing that I didn’t experience, which I’m grateful for, is pain from the shot to stimulate T cell growth from my bone marrow. Bone marrow reproduces rapidly and is disproportionately impacted by chemo, hence your white blood cell, red blood cell, and platelet counts go down. You get this shot to stimulate T cells to get you some white blood cells. A lot of people have a lot of pain with that — acute pain — but I didn’t have any, so I was grateful for that.

Anticipation and Strategy for Surgery

I was excited; I was so excited for surgery. I knew there was potential for a negative outcome, but it felt like no matter what, it was probably going to be better after surgery in some way. Two of my best friends came in town — one I’ve known since I was two, and one I’ve known since sixth grade — and they stayed with me before surgery so I could say whatever I was feeling, just be honest, just experience it and not be performative.

On the day of surgery, I felt like I was informed about what the doctors were going to do. I felt supported by the care team. I asked a lot of questions and all my questions were answered beforehand. I was concerned they could go in and decide they needed to remove my whole right lung, which would have reduced my lung capacity and put strain on my heart, which was already affected by my chemo. That affects how you move around through the world and what other illnesses down the road may do to you. I knew there was this domino effect of how bad it was going to be when they got in there.

They were going to remove it en bloc, basically take everything out that it touches, plus a range around it. I knew it could affect my pec muscle and my breast — my pec muscle is function, and my breast is form, aesthetics, ego, and self-image. I knew I’d be waking up bald with no lashes, so I was like, “Okay, hopefully it’s the least scope possible.”

Surgical Outcome and Sharing Tumor Photos

When I woke up and they said they’d only taken one lobe of my lung and we thought they had clear margins, I was so thrilled. I was so excited. I felt so happy. The first thing I told my mom was, “Okay, now I can sign up for a marathon next year and do that. We’ll see.” It might be a walking marathon because I’m actually not that into running; I don’t know why I said that.

The reason I chose to share [tumor photos] is that I’d be super curious if someone said, “I had this tumor removed and it was this big.” I’d be like, “How big? How vascular was it? Where was it?” I have those questions, so I felt comfortable showing someone. I also thought it was cool that two ribs were involved. I thought it was cool that we have technology to still help me be fine with that.

Sharing on TikTok and Helping Others

After sharing my story on TikTok, I had a couple of people reach out and say, “What you’re describing, I experienced that, and I went to a doctor, they said it was fine. They ran my blood tests and they said it was fine. What should I do? What do you think?” I said, “I’m not a medical professional. I don’t have any medical training at all. But if you feel like your questions aren’t being answered by the doctor you saw, I think you should go see someone else and write down what you’re going to say and the questions you’re going to ask before you go in, so you feel less confused and more confident. This is what I asked for in your situation, but, obviously, yours might be different.”

Two people got back to me, saying that they had found out they had cancer. I’m sure thousands of people saw that video, but that was moving to me. It felt like even if there is a little bit of discomfort, I’d rather share my experience and hopefully one person gets a diagnosis a little bit earlier, so they have more options and treatment. That first video was before surgery, and that was part of what drove me to do my video after.

NED Status and Upcoming Surgery

I don’t think I’m in remission yet. Maybe I don’t know the right words, but I was allowed to go back to work. I went back four weeks after my surgery. I had scans after three months and my scans were all clear. I’m NED, or no evidence of disease. I have surgery scheduled next weekend on November 1st. I think after five years of being NED, I’m considered in remission, but I think that’s how the words work.

The surgery I’m having is a reconstruction. Not cancer-related. Just repairing and helping, hopefully, maybe some scar tissue adjustments.

My Biggest Emotional Challenge

I think the biggest challenge is the mortality aspect of it, the knowledge that no matter how this goes, I’m less likely to survive as long. I’m more likely to have a more complex health outcome if I live to an older age and have something else that’s just normal that happens to older people. It’s going to be more complicated because of my history.

There’s a chance it comes back and next time, it’s not something that can be surgically removed. I’ve already had the lifetime maximum dose of the Red Devil chemo, so I can’t have that again, and that’s one of the more effective treatments.

The thing that I struggle with is that my children didn’t do anything. They didn’t do anything to deserve to have a mom with cancer. I hate that they’ll be negatively impacted by my diagnosis. I don’t want them to wonder if their mom will be at their wedding, their high school graduation, or hold their first child. It’s not as much about me and what I may or may not experience, because I don’t worry about that. I just don’t want them to miss out on something or not have the support that they deserve. 

Parenting Through Treatment

To a pretty significant extent, it’s been a huge blessing to have children because it made all of this so easy, all the decisions so easy. I was going to do the hardest chemo. I was going to do the surgery. I was going to do all of it because there was no other option. After all, I needed to be there for my kids.

Maybe if I didn’t have those motivators, I would have thought longer or taken a little bit of time, or maybe I wouldn’t have gone back and asked for answers as many times as I did. But my health was more than just myself; it was for my kids. They responded in different ways to the stress of my being gone and being sick, but I don’t think they ever worried that I would be there. They were just sad at how long it was between seeing me. In that way, I was successful as a parent in protecting them from a lot of the worst parts, the uncertainty. I don’t think they felt that much. They were a very important part of my ability to move through the treatment.

Meaning of Survivorship

I guess technically it means living, right? I think it means using the time that I have and the health that I have in the best ways that I can, and never forgetting or letting go of that sense of vulnerability that allows me to appreciate my life and my kids as much as I do now. I think I took a lot for granted. I was hard on myself in ways I didn’t need to be. So I think, it sounds perverse, but I desperately want to hold on to some of the realizations that this experience has given me.

Hopes, Dreams, and Everyday Goals

I don’t think I have huge new dreams. I want to be a better friend. I want to be a better mom. I’m starting to think about giving myself a year from the date of my surgery to push myself in certain ways. I do want to do a marathon; I think I want to do it walking. I want to travel. I want to do an international trip. I have it planned a little bit. Between work and kids and everything, I want to do that. I want to be more in the moment and less in my own head, thinking about what the next thing is. I think I robbed myself of a lot of joy in fellowship with other people or being with my kids by thinking about the next thing I needed to do. That’s what I want to hold on to.

My Advice and Message to Others

My biggest message I would want people to take away is that of advocacy, self-advocacy, and trusting yourself. If you think something is wrong, you don’t think you’re getting the answers you need, or you don’t understand what you’re being told, ask again. Advocacy is not about being a pain. There’s nothing inconvenient about needing answers when you have something suspicious going on in your body.

I think that’s so important, especially in women’s health, because there are so many things going on between hormones and changes in life stages that can affect the way that you experience your own body. Those things don’t have to be mysteries. There could be something else going on. In my case, several of the doctors I saw were looking for horses. I joked with my mom: they were looking for horses, but it was a zebra. You have to keep asking questions and keep advocating for yourself.

My Thoughts on Mental Health and Hope

I don’t know that this is part of my story necessarily. It feels like it’s part of everybody’s story. Just the importance of mental health hand in hand with physical health, and not toxically positive, but a positively-oriented attitude. Visualizing success, making sure that you’re using resources that are available to you, and setting goals that are external and outside of your cancer treatment and diagnosis. Choose a concert you want to go to eight months after your diagnosis and start making plans and outfits. Whenever you feel bad, don’t feel like you have to hide it. Make sure you’re asking for help.


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Non-Hodgkin Lymphoma at 29: How Ashley Navigated Motherhood and DLBCL

Non-Hodgkin Lymphoma at 29: How Ashley Navigated Motherhood and DLBCL

Ashley’s experience with diffuse large B-cell lymphoma (DLBCL), a type of non-Hodgkin lymphoma, began during a period that should have been filled with new beginnings and joy – the arrival of a new baby into her life. Instead, Ashley, now a mother of three, confronted a growing list of symptoms shortly after her pregnancy when dizziness, cardiac complications, and difficulties breastfeeding all led up to an unexpected, and life-altering cancer diagnosis.

Interviewed by: Keshia Rice
Edited by: Katrina Villareal

Being diagnosed with DLBCL weeks before her 30th birthday set Ashley apart from the typical patient profile, as most individuals face this diagnosis later in life. Her youth contributed to challenges in being heard by her medical team, intensifying her frustration as treatments like chemotherapy caused debilitating side effects. Emotional struggles compounded Ashley’s physical battles: fear of leaving her children, grief over lost moments with her newborn, and the continual responsibilities of motherhood that do not pause for illness.

Ashley P. stage 4 DLBCL

Despite assurances from leading cancer doctors regarding advances in treatment options, Ashley’s cancer responded poorly to initial therapy, necessitating additional interventions, including CAR T-cell therapy, which required extended separation from her family. The transition from hope to uncertainty was difficult, but new developments with bispecific antibodies and ongoing research provide Ashley and other patients reasons to hold onto hope for recovery and better outcomes even amid refractory disease.

Ashley’s experience is marked by transformation, not just physically but emotionally and spiritually. She learned to lean on her family and faith for support, grappled with feelings of guilt and anger, and emerged with the conviction to advocate for herself and encourage others to trust their intuition. Her story is a testament to the unseen emotional dialogue cancer patients navigate, and to the importance of self-advocacy, community, and accessible innovations in cancer care.

Key Story Takeaways:

  • Trust and advocate for your own body; patients know their symptoms best and should persist until they are heard.
  • Emotional struggles, like fear, guilt, and anger, are often invisible but just as challenging as the physical aspects of disease.
  • Family support and faith provided critical anchors for Ashley, helping her endure even the most difficult days.
  • DLBCL can affect patients of any age, and younger individuals may face unique challenges in being taken seriously by the medical team.
  • New therapies, including CAR T-cell therapy and bispecific antibodies, offer hope even in refractory cases.
  • Advocacy and self-acceptance are vital; patients experiencing life-altering conditions deserve compassionate care and respect for their experience.

  • Name: Ashley P.
  • Age at Diagnosis:
    • 29
  • Diagnosis:
    • Diffuse Large B-Cell Lymphoma (DLBCL)
  • Staging:
    • Stage 4
  • Symptoms:
    • Feeling like holding breath when bending down or picking up objects from the floor
    • Waking abruptly at night, feeling “off”
    • One episode of fainting (syncope)
    • Presence of a large mass in the breast
  • Treatments:
    • Chemotherapy
    • Bridge therapy of chemotherapy and radiation
    • CAR T-cell therapy
Ashley P. stage 4 DLBCL

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I didn’t realize how big the lump was. It was literally the size of a baseball. But it didn’t raise any red flags.

Ashley P., Stage 4 DLBCL Patient

Facing the Unexpected: Early Signs and Diagnosis

Ashley P.: I’m not afraid to die by any means. I would say I fear leaving my children and leaving them without a mom.

What should have been one of the happiest times in her life became filled with worry when Ashley was diagnosed with a cancer she hadn’t heard of before: non-Hodgkin lymphoma, specifically diffuse large B-cell lymphoma or DLBCL.

Ashley: I started having symptoms while I was pregnant. I had our baby in December 2023 and at the end of my pregnancy, I was having a lot of complications with my heart rate. In February 2024, I started to feel super lightheaded, as if I was hanging upside down for a very long time. It reached a point where I was getting concerned about being alone with the baby. I felt like I was going to pass out. What if I’m holding him and something happens?

Ashley P. stage 4 DLBCL
Ashley P. stage 4 DLBCL

Dizziness wasn’t her only concern. Ashley also started to have trouble breastfeeding. A trip to see her midwife helped lead to the diagnosis.

Ashley: I went to nurse him one day and I couldn’t extend my nipple. It was completely caved in. I tried everything to get it unclogged, like hot showers and massages, but they didn’t work, so I reached out to my midwife.

I didn’t realize how big the lump was. It was literally the size of a baseball. But it didn’t raise any red flags. When I saw my midwife, she looked at it and said, “Ashley, this is very, very large. You need to go to the breast cancer center,” which was wild to me.

I went in and they did biopsies on both breasts and the lymph nodes in my armpits, and that’s how I found out.

We have more FDA-approved medicines for lymphoma than for any other cancer… It’s awesome because it means we have more options for patients

Dr. Joshua Brody, Hematologist-Oncologist

A Young Mother and a Rare Diagnosis

The average age for a DLBCL diagnosis is in the mid- to late-60s. Ashley says being diagnosed at a much younger age made the treatment process even more frustrating.

Ashley: I found out I had cancer literally two weeks before my 30th birthday. They said that I was so young and that everybody they usually see with this cancer is in their late 70s. They told me that it was going to be an absolute breeze.

I had a very hard time being heard because I was so young. Chemotherapy rocked my world. I was extremely sick. I barely had time to recover between rounds. I kept telling my oncologist that I was so sick and miserable, and the response that I kept getting was, “You’re young. You shouldn’t be.”

DLBCL can be a devastating diagnosis. But top cancer doctors, Dr. Amir Steinberg from Westchester Medical Center and Dr. Joshua Brody from Mount Sinai, want people to know that there’s a lot of hope. Watch their discussion.

Ashley P. stage 4 DLBCL
Dr. Joshua Brody

Dr. Joshua Brody: We’re very lucky because, even though lymphoma is technically the fifth most common cancer in America, we have more FDA-approved medicines for lymphoma than for any other cancer, even more than for breast cancer, which is so incredibly common. It’s awesome because it means we have more options for patients

Dr. Amir Steinberg: There’s so much that’s changed in the last 20 to 30 years, most especially in the last five years. Things are changing for the better so rapidly for patients. As doctors, we have so much to catch up on and stay up on in terms of the knowledge out there, but it’s totally worth it because it will make patients’ lives better and more fulfilling.

Despite assurances from doctors, treatment was daunting.

Ashley: I don’t think people understand that you can see all the physical changes. You can see the hair loss, the bloating, the puking, and even the literal color draining from their face. But you cannot see their inner dialogue. You can’t see them fighting for their lives. You can’t see the anger or the conversations with God about why. Questions of, “Did I do something wrong to deserve this?”

The world doesn’t stop… You still have to show up and be a mom and a wife… and that is such a hard challenge.

Ashley P., Stage 4 DLBCL Patient

The Unseen Struggle: Emotions Behind the Experience

As a mom of three, Ashley dealt with mixed emotions of guilt, stress, and sadness over the experiences she lost.

Ashley: I honestly think I got robbed of the joy. He’s my last baby and I had this huge goal of nursing. It was easy with him. I had all these plans, but I was in so much pain from my cancer.

Then I have a nine-year-old and an almost five-year-old, so it was difficult juggling that and trying to figure out the best way to tell them what I was going through. That was probably the roughest part.

Ashley P. stage 4 DLBCL
Ashley P. stage 4 DLBCL

The world doesn’t stop and that thought came into my head so many times while I had cancer. You still have to show up and be a mom and a wife. You still have to be all of these things while battling the biggest physical challenge that you’ll ever go through and the biggest emotional and mental struggle that you’ll ever have to battle. You still have to show up for everybody around you and that is such a hard challenge.

One of the hardest emotions Ashley had to deal with was anger.

Ashley: I knew that I was mad and not the best version of myself. Then you have this feeling of complete guilt. What if you die and this is who you showed up as and who you left as? This is how you treated your fiancé and your kids? Don’t you value life? Didn’t you say that you wanted to show up differently? Didn’t you say that you were going to be a completely different person because now you know the value of life and how it can be taken away? Now, you have this complete guilt trip of who you’re showing up as. But at the same time, you’re so mad. You’re so mad.

I thought, ‘What if I go through all of this and then I still have cancer?’ That was something that I didn’t want to face.

Ashley P., Stage 4 DLBCL Patient

During those moments, Ashley leaned into her family and her faith.

Ashley: I’ve seen other people talk about it, but there is a sense of peace and knowing that I have not experienced in my life. Definitely not the peace that carried me through. I had to be here for my kids. There were so many times when I thought that if I were doing this for myself, I wouldn’t have gone through it. It was too much. It was so hard that I truly don’t know if I would have shown up in the same capacity.

Ashley P. stage 4 DLBCL

CAR T-cell Therapy and Next Steps

After six rounds of chemo, Ashley thought the hardest part was over. But her DLBCL was refractory, meaning it did not respond well to initial treatment.

Ashley: When I did my chemo, they didn’t even talk to me about the steps and what they would do. Again, age was a huge factor. We did have conversations about other things out there. It went from a 70% chance of beating this and the odds are good of going to Mayo, to my odds going down to 10%. The biggest concern was waiting for the CAR T-cell therapy. But after, they told me, “This is your last option. If this doesn’t work, there isn’t anything more out there for you to do.”

CAR T-cell therapy came with new challenges.

Ashley: When you go through CAR T-cell therapy, you have to be gone and by the hospital for 47 days, away from your family. I thought, “What if I go through all of this and then I still have cancer?” That was something that I didn’t want to face. I didn’t even want to have that be a possibility. I just wanted to be done.

Whenever possible, we try to offer trials because that’s how we advance the science and get higher cure rates. They’re essential.

Dr. Amir Steinberg, Hematologist-Oncologist

Ashley’s experience reflects the complexity of DLBCL treatment. It’s one of the reasons why doctors are constantly looking to new research in clinical trials for answers. One of the answers is a newer option in immunotherapy called bispecific antibodies.

Dr. Brody: Even for people who relapse in the first year or in their third line, there is great evidence for bispecific antibody plus chemotherapy. Overall, it certainly seems to be a bit safer than transplant, maybe even safer than CAR T-cell therapy, and it’s a lot more accessible to folks who are being treated in the community when they don’t have a CAR T-cell therapy center nearby. If you’re getting more options, then that can only be a good thing. People would rather have a clear answer. But they would rather have better therapies and better options.

Dr. Steinberg: Whenever possible, we try to offer trials because that’s how we advance the science and get higher cure rates. They’re essential.

Dr. Amir Steinberg
Ashley P. stage 4 DLBCL

Advocacy and Self-Empowerment: Lessons Learned

While Ashley eventually found a great and supportive medical team, she wishes she had advocated for herself more from the beginning.

Ashley: That is one thing I regret and one thing I always tell somebody. You have to advocate for yourself. I’m not that person. I’m very shy. I don’t want to make people upset. I want to make everybody happy. I struggled very much with advocating for myself.

Advocate for yourself. If something doesn’t feel right, if you know something’s wrong, or if you feel sick or in pain, talk about it until you’re blue in the face and somebody listens to you.

Ashley P., Stage 4 DLBCL Patient

Advice for Others: Faith, Family, and Resilience

Ashley’s advice to others? Advocate for yourself, lean into your faith, and learn to accept the changes.

Ashley: Be honest with how you feel. Have those hard conversations. Lean into God as much as you possibly can because at times, that’s literally all you have. You would be very surprised at what you’re willing to go through and what you’re willing to overcome for the people that you love. It’s almost like an adrenaline rush to make it through.

Advocate for yourself. If something doesn’t feel right, if you know something’s wrong, or if you feel sick or in pain, talk about it until you’re blue in the face and somebody listens to you. You know your own body. You have that intuition for a reason and you know when something is wrong.

Moving Forward: Transformation and Community

Ashley: You make it. You make it out alive. You will never be this version of yourself again and that is completely okay. Sometimes we have to go through something completely terrifying and life-changing to figure out who we want to show up as and what’s important to us. It’s going to suck so badly. But you find out who your people are. So many people love you. And you make it.

Ashley P. stage 4 DLBCL

Ashley P. stage 4 DLBCL
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Treatments: Chemotherapy, bridge therapy of chemotherapy and radiation, CAR T-cell therapy
Melissa B. DLBCL

Melissa B., Relapsed Diffuse Large B-Cell Lymphoma (DLBCL)



Symptoms: Lump in the left breast, persistent rash (started near the belly button and spread), intense fatigue and energy loss

Treatments: Chemotherapy (R-EPOCH), Neulasta, radiation therapy, surgery (to remove scar tissue and necrosis), autologous stem cell transplant
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Jen N., Diffuse Large B-Cell Lymphoma (DLBCL), Stage 4B



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Treatments: Chemotherapy, immunotherapy, lumbar puncture, autologous stem cell transplant
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Jim Z., Diffuse Large B-Cell Lymphoma (DLBCL)



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Navigating Brain Cancer While Pregnant: Caroline’s Grade 4 Glioblastoma Story

Navigating Brain Cancer While Pregnant: Caroline’s Grade 4 Glioblastoma Story

Glioblastoma during pregnancy is not a scenario most people ever imagine for themselves, yet that is exactly where Caroline found herself at 20 weeks pregnant. What began as something she dismissed as “pregnancy brain” and stress from work, escalated into slurred speech and the sudden inability to read from her own teaching materials in front of a full class.

Alarmed, she went home and searched “brain tumor while pregnant,” a phrase no expectant parent ever wants to type. An emergency room visit and MRI revealed a large mass on her language center, but because she was pregnant, her team could not yet fully characterize what they were seeing.​

Interviewed by: Carly Knowlton
Edited by: Katrina Villareal

Caroline and her medical team wrestled with impossible choices, including whether to attempt an awake craniotomy while she was pregnant, knowing there were no guarantees of getting a clear diagnosis or preserving her speech. She chose to go home briefly and try speech therapy, but her symptoms sharply worsened. Within days, her language had deteriorated so much that she could not accurately say the month or year. A repeat scan showed the mass had nearly doubled in size, and an emergency craniotomy followed.​

When she woke up, Caroline was relieved simply to be speaking again, even if imperfectly. But the pathology news was devastating: glioblastoma, a fast-growing grade 4 primary brain tumor. Because of how urgently she needed treatment, her doctors told her they could not both aggressively treat the tumor and safely continue the pregnancy. Ultimately, Caroline chose to terminate her pregnancy at 21 weeks, while grieving the possibility that she herself might live less than a year and her 22‑month‑old daughter would not remember her.​

Caroline W. grade 4 glioblastoma

Treatment moved quickly. Caroline underwent six weeks of chemoradiation and then high‑dose chemotherapy, which she had to stop early when her platelets could no longer tolerate the regimen. She also used a wearable device with electrodes on her scalp.

Caroline reoriented her life completely around simply being present with her daughter and focusing on small daily goals, like getting out of bed and walking. Over time, her scans showed no evidence of disease or stable findings, and her neurologist encouraged her to use that window to heal while continuing close MRI surveillance. Knowing how low glioblastoma survival statistics can be, she told her doctor she intended to be among the small percentage who reach five years.​

Caroline describes living with terminal cancer as both a blessing and a curse. The experience stripped away much of her lifelong anxiety and fear, leaving her more grounded in each day. She had already survived other trauma before cancer, but this diagnosis — and the agonizing decision to end a wanted pregnancy to pursue treatment — became a stark turning point.

Today, she frames her life less in terms of how long she has and more in terms of how fully she can love her daughter, inhabit her relationships, and refuse to be intimidated by a world that once felt overwhelming.

Key Story Takeaways:

  • Persistent or worsening symptoms should be checked by a doctor.
  • Patients are never to blame for how their bodies respond to disease or treatment; cancer and the limits of current therapies are at fault, not choices or willpower.
  • Caroline advocated for herself, accepted help, and defined success as time with her child and healing in her body.
  • Even with a terminal diagnosis and difficult statistics, Caroline focuses on becoming a five-year survivor and living one day at a time.
  • Caroline lives with both grief over ending a wanted pregnancy and deep gratitude that treatment has given her more time with her daughter.

  • Name: Caroline W.
  • Age at Diagnosis:
    • 37
  • Diagnosis:
    • Glioblastoma
  • Grading:
    • Grade 4
  • Symptom:
    • Loss of the ability to speak and write
  • Treatments:
    • Surgery: craniotomy
    • Chemotherapy
    • Radiation
    • Wearable electric field therapy for glioblastoma
Caroline W. grade 4 glioblastoma
Caroline W. grade 4 glioblastoma
Caroline W. grade 4 glioblastoma
Caroline W. grade 4 glioblastoma
Caroline W. grade 4 glioblastoma
Caroline W. grade 4 glioblastoma
Caroline W. grade 4 glioblastoma

This interview has been edited for clarity and length. This is not medical advice. Please consult with your healthcare provider to make informed treatment decisions.

The views and opinions expressed in this interview do not necessarily reflect those of The Patient Story.



Early Symptoms Mistaken for Pregnancy Brain

I started thinking that I was having pregnancy brain.

When I was diagnosed, I was exactly 20 weeks pregnant. They didn’t know if I would survive the pregnancy.

Caroline blamed her first symptoms on pregnancy and stress.

I was a massage therapist and a yoga instructor. I had my own business in the neighborhood for 10 years. I thought it was a little bit of stress, maybe.

Struggling with Speaking and Reading During Pregnancy

But her symptoms intensified.

I taught a class of about 30 students. During class, I was stumbling on my words. I knew something was wrong because when I went to read the book that I had made for the course, I couldn’t read it. I was able to perform the physical part completely, but that’s all I did for the rest of the class for two hours. I could respond, but I was slurring. I went home and searched on Google, “brain tumor while pregnant.”

Searching for Answers: Google and Emergency Room Visit

Caroline went to the emergency room. An MRI led to answers and more questions.

One of the residents came and he was excited. He said they found a mass on my language center. I was excited at first because it felt like validation that it wasn’t me having a mishap. It was a big mass right on my language center. But they didn’t know what it was. Is it a brain bleed? Is it a stroke? Is it a tumor? They couldn’t do an MRI with contrast since I was pregnant.

Discovering the Brain Mass and Facing Uncertainty

I stayed in the ICU for a couple of days. While they tried to decide whether they could do an awake craniotomy to see if they could do a biopsy, the problem was that they were afraid that the blood had already coagulated inside my brain and they would not be able to get a good sample.

ICU Stay and Difficult Diagnostic Decisions

My ability to speak was already declining every day. They gave me the option to try the awake craniotomy, knowing it may or may not work, or go home, go to speech therapy a couple of times a week to see if it was a stroke, and come back in three weeks to see if they can do something then. I chose that option because I wanted to go home.

Worsening Symptoms and Fast-Growing Brain Tumor

I was doing speech therapy and feeling good for a couple of days, but then it started going downhill quickly. My husband took me back to the hospital a few days later and the mass had nearly doubled in size.

Loss of Speech and Cognitive Confusion

By the time I got in, I didn’t know who the president was. I knew what month it was, but I couldn’t say it. I tried to say March and it would come out as May. If I tried to say 2022, it came out as 2002. I couldn’t get the words right.

We’re here now, so let’s get it taken care of. They said it could have been a hemorrhagic stroke. I was hoping for that because I can live with that. I might not be able to talk again, but I could live with that. They were also thinking it could be some sort of bleed.

Emergency Craniotomy and Return of Speech

After an emergency craniotomy, Caroline was able to speak again.

It wasn’t the best, but to go from not being able to speak to speaking again, I was so excited. When they brought me back to my room, I was told that it looked like it was a tumor and that it looked malignant. I said, “Okay, we’ll talk about it tomorrow.”

Devastating Diagnosis: Glioblastoma While Pregnant

In my heart, I felt it was going to be a primary brain tumor.

They came in and said it’s a glioma. I said, “Oh, no. That’s the worst one.” She said, “Not necessarily. It could be a grade 2. You could continue your pregnancy if it’s a grade 2.” I said, “What if it’s a grade 3 or 4?” She said, “We throw the kitchen sink at it.”

And it was grade 4.

Forced to Make a Heartbreaking Pregnancy Decision

Before she could fully comprehend her diagnosis, Caroline was forced to make a heart-wrenching decision.

When you hear that news, you think, “Is there any other way to get around this?” They said they wouldn’t be able to treat me if I kept the baby. It would have been too long between having the baby and being able to get chemotherapy.

Undergoing Pregnancy Termination for Cancer Treatment

When I was diagnosed, I was exactly 20 weeks pregnant. I was diagnosed on the same week as my 20-week scan and the scan was perfect. I met with the fetal medicine specialist and the genetics specialist to find out if there’s any way they could take my baby out sooner, but the answer was no.

Radiation would be too far away if I were to have the baby. They wouldn’t even do the radiation because it was too far from the surgery.

I was encouraged to have a termination because they felt like I needed to start treatment as soon as possible. That way, I could extend my life to maybe a year. The prognosis for glioblastoma is about a year to a year and a half. It’s usually six months to a year and a half, so they didn’t know if I would survive my pregnancy.

I scheduled my termination, which was a two-day procedure, and had it done at 21 weeks. Making that choice and knowing that I might not even live a year was the hardest thing. My other baby at home was only 22 months then. She won’t remember me. My biggest concern was that she wouldn’t remember who I am. Those two moments were definitely the hardest.

I was afraid of leaving my daughter, but I wasn’t afraid of dying. If it weren’t for my daughter, I probably wouldn’t have been as worked up.

Caroline’s fight continued, with no time to pause.

Caroline’s Fight Continued, with No Time to Pause

After the night I came home from my termination, I had to go back the next morning to be fitted for my radiation mask. It was fast. I did six weeks of chemoradiation. I was told that they wanted to do a year of high-dose chemo. The treatment would be five days on, three days off for a year. But I only made it six months because my platelets couldn’t take it anymore.

I had radiation scheduled at 7:40 a.m., Monday through Friday. We got up, got in the car, and listened to a glioblastoma podcast on the way there, trying to learn more.

Chemoradiation, Podcast Learning, and Side Effects

Fatigue was the worst part for me. I lost my hair not from the chemo, but from the radiation. I got a crazy radiation haircut. I lost my taste for a lot of different things that I used to like and different smells. I had nausea and constipation from chemo, which wasn’t as difficult as I imagined it would be, especially the lower-dose chemo. The higher dose is what got me.

Daily Life Adjustments During Treatment

After I shaved my head, I had something attached to my head and I had to shave every day to get all the prickles off. I put these electrodes on my head that came with a little backpack. It’s a little stimulation for the brain.

Obviously, I wasn’t going back to work, so I didn’t even close my own office. The main thing in my life that I wanted was to be with my baby. Keep the nanny as long as possible so she can take care of her and I can be here to see them, even if I can’t help with anything. In the beginning, my goal every day was to get out of bed and walk.

Support System: Focusing on Family and Motivation

Then, Caroline finally got encouraging news.

My original neurologist… Her idea was that I have no evidence of disease right now. My tumor was not showing up. It was either no evidence of disease or stable or unremarkable, whatever it was. I was getting MRIs every other month. She said, “If you want to take this time off to heal, then we’ll continue the MRI every other month. When your recurrence happens, you will go back on chemo.” I let my body heal and returned because my body was responsive to chemo.

Encouraging Medical News: No Evidence of Disease

I said to the doctor, “If I’m doing this, I’m going to be a five-year survivor,” because of the statistics. It’s hard to say. A certain percentage makes it to five years. I said that I would be in that 5%.

Five-Year Survival Hope and Living with Terminal Cancer

Having terminal cancer has been a blessing and a curse, but I live for each day now. I had experienced a lot of trauma growing up and I feel like I’ve been a survivor my whole life. I had bad anxiety and I don’t have that kind of anxiety anymore because I have gone through the hardest thing I could ever have gone through in my life. The world does not scare me anymore.


Caroline W. grade 4 glioblastoma
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Why Clinical Trials Matter: How New AML Treatment Options Saved Shelley’s Life

Why Clinical Trials Matter: How New AML Treatment Options Saved Shelley’s Life

Just after celebrating her 70th birthday, Shelley began feeling unusually tired on her walks. Her heart raced and she couldn’t go half a block without needing to rest. Concerned, she saw her doctor and soon learned she had chronic myelomonocytic leukemia (CMML). The diagnosis was frightening, but her daughter’s constant support helped her face it head-on.

Interviewed by: Taylor Scheib
Edited by: Katrina Villareal

Months later, Shelley sensed something wasn’t right again. Her blood tests confirmed it: her CMML had transformed into acute myeloid leukemia (AML) with an NPM1 mutation. It was a devastating moment, yet she stayed determined, crediting her daughter and her care team for keeping her strong.

Shelley went onto chemotherapy in preparation for a stem cell transplant but her AML did not respond well. That is when her doctor approached her about clinical trials because her leukemia had the NPM1 biomarker and she decided to take part in a clinical trial designed for AML with that tumor marker. She appreciates the importance of research and data, and as importantly, a clinical trial means something deeply personal: hope for herself and others. She takes part knowing that her participation helps shape future AML treatments.

Shelley G. feature profile

Shelley’s clinical trial participation lead to her being approved for a successful stem cell transplant. She now advocates for a better understanding of clinical trials. She reminds others that these studies don’t withhold treatment for people with active disease. Instead, they offer real opportunities for medical progress. Shelley believes her survival came from three things: her daughter, her medical team, and her clinical trial.

Today, she’s grateful for every day she can return to her music and live fully. Shelley’s story shows that knowledge, research, and hope can come together to make a real difference for people living with acute myeloid leukemia.

Key Story Takeaways
  • Shelley’s honest look at life after an acute myeloid leukemia diagnosis
  • How knowing her tumor’s genetic makeup helped her enroll in a clinical trial, making a stem cell transplant possible
  • The truth about placebos and real treatment in clinical trials
  • How research and resilience helped Shelley return to her music

  • Name: Shelley G.
  • Age at Diagnosis:
    • 70
  • Diagnosis:
    • Chronic Myelomonocytic Leukemia (CMML) that progressed to Acute Myeloid Leukemia (AML)
  • Biomarker(s):
    • NPM1 mutation
  • Symptoms:
    • Fatigue
    • Rapid heartbeat
    • Shortness of breath
    • Low blood counts
  • Treatments:
    • Chemotherapy
    • Stem cell transplant
    • Clinical trial (oral medication)
Shelley G. acute myeloid leukemia

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I’m Shelley

I am Shelley. I was originally diagnosed with CMML just after my 70th birthday in August 2022. After more testing, by July of the following year, my diagnosis evolved into AML. There was a bone marrow biopsy in July 2023 that confirmed it. That’s the initial part of my diagnosis.

My work is my biggest passion

I’m most passionate about my job. I feel very lucky to have a great job—it’s very interesting. I work for a labor union that represents educational employees in Illinois. I’m assigned to a specific geographic area, covering about fourteen small local unions—teacher unions, support staff, custodians. I help them with all sorts of issues, mainly collective bargaining. I prepare and conduct trainings, sometimes specific (like First Amendment rights for educational employees). I am a lawyer by background. I’m extremely passionate about my work and can’t imagine not wanting to do it. I learned, when I was on medical leave, how bored I was without it.

Shelley G. acute myeloid leukemia

My life outside of work

Aside from work, I do have outside interests. I’m interested in music. I play an instrument, though not a virtuoso, and have done photography for many years, with a lot of my photos on Flickr. Since being diagnosed, I haven’t taken many pictures or had time to use my big Nikon camera; I started using my cellphone camera, which really isn’t adequate for good photography. I’m also interested in politics (local, state, federal), history, and, strangely enough, economics. I like to read crime novels, mysteries, and watch movies- anything that gets me thinking.

My musical journey with the hammered dulcimer

The instrument I play is pretty ancient: it’s called a hammered dulcimer. Most people haven’t heard of it. It’s actually the great-great-grandmother of the piano. The Italian inventor of the piano adapted the mechanism from instruments like the hammered dulcimer, replacing pluckers with mechanical hammers. Most people don’t know the piano is actually a percussion instrument—a melodic percussion instrument.

I thought my leukemia symptoms were maybe a heart condition

After my 70th birthday in August, I was excited and celebrated with a surprise birthday party. A month later, in September, I noticed my heart would race and I was exhausted after walking only half a block. I thought it was a heart problem, so I saw my doctor. He ran tests, found nothing wrong with my heart, but my blood counts were dangerously low. He told me to go to the emergency room for a blood transfusion immediately.

Shelley G. acute myeloid leukemia

My CMML diagnosis

At the hospital, they did more tests and soon a doctor told me, “We think you have leukemia.” They needed more testing, including a bone marrow biopsy, and scheduled follow-up appointments. I was released from the hospital and soon found out for sure.

After the doctor visit, Shelley was diagnosed with chronic myelomonocytic leukemia (CMML).

It was pretty scary. I thought, “Oh, no. What’s going to happen to me?” If my daughter weren’t there to say we were going to get through this, I don’t know what would have happened. I would have been pretty much at a loss. But she was there to back me up, so I bucked up and proceeded with the initial treatment.

Over time, Shelley and her care team began to grow concerned about her blood work again.

I tracked my numbers carefully and noticed my hemoglobin and platelets were going in the wrong direction. I thought that it wasn’t right, so I sent MyChart messages to the doctor through the portal. I asked, “Do I need to be concerned? I think I need to be concerned.” Finally, he agreed and said, “Yeah. You do need to be concerned.” So they scheduled another bone marrow biopsy.

Her CMML transformed to acute myeloid leukemia (AML), which happens in about 15 to 20% of patients over five years.

Emotions upon learning my AML diagnosis

I was very distressed and freaked out. It felt like a death sentence. The only image I had of leukemia came from the tearjerker movie “Love Story,” with these people who were madly in love and it was all very sad because eventually she got leukemia and she died. So that’s all I could think about. But my new care team gave me hope, and things started to change for the better.

I’m a lawyer, so I like to win

I don’t give up easily. I’m a lawyer, so I like to win.

I would say that one of the things that kept me going, more than anything else, was my daughter. I have to stay alive for my daughter. She has no brothers or sisters and no cousins. Her father died in 2017. I need to stay alive for her. And I want to stay alive for myself because I like living.

A clinical trial helped me prepare for a stem cell transplant

My doctor—the friend’s neighbor, a stem cell expert—said my best chance at survival was a stem cell transplant. In September 2023, I went on medical leave for work and started chemo in the hospital, but it didn’t work well. My leukemia doctor then offered a clinical trial, which I accepted immediately because I thought, “Why not?” Over a period of time, including several hospital stays, the clinical trial seemed to work well enough that they cleared me for the stem cell transplant. I underwent the procedure late February, stayed in the hospital for six weeks, and went home at the end of April 2024.

Clinical trials are crucial for science and medicine

I was aware that there was such a thing called clinical trials, and I always thought, “That’s great. That’s fantastic. Hopefully, it will save my life and help other people because of the data.” I’m familiar with data. I know they’ll be collecting data, and if this drug works, then it’s all going to be part of getting it eventually approved by the FDA.

Shelley G. acute myeloid leukemia
Shelley G. acute myeloid leukemia

The importance of understanding clinical trials

Clinical trials are absolutely necessary to develop any kind of cure or treatment to prolong life. I believe there are several factors that saved my life: the clinical trial, my daughter, and a great team of doctors.

If, God forbid, the person who has a problem understanding clinical trials should ever have a loved one who is sick with a terrible disease, there would be a real treatment plan for them because of a clinical trial. It’s all about saving lives. It’s all about eliminating, minimizing, or mitigating misery.

Shelley has been asked the one question that is often a misconception about clinical trials.

I’ve had this question asked of me: how do you know you’re not in the group that’s getting a placebo? That’s not what happens in a clinical trial. It would be medically unethical. They can’t do that. That’s not how clinical trials work. That’s for a different kind of research. You don’t tell someone with active disease, “I’m going to give you something that may be a sugar pill and, well, we’ll see what happens.” No, that’s not how it works.

Editor’s Note: In cancer trials, no one is given only a sugar pill when an effective standard treatment exists. Instead, participants typically receive either the current standard-of-care treatment or the standard-of-care plus a new therapy being studied, and everyone is closely monitored for safety and benefit. Many of the oncologists we interview describe cancer clinical trials as “getting tomorrow’s medicine today.”

Clinical trials are absolutely necessary to develop any kind of cure or treatment to prolong life… clinical trials saved my life.

Shelley G. – AML Patient

She’s devoted herself now to helping people understand how her clinical trial actually works.

I take three pills a day and I have a diary where I have to write down information. This is the data collection part. They prefer you do it at the same time of day if possible, but you have to do it within at least 12 hours. Sometimes it’s not perfect, depending on what time I wake up, but there are certain rules.

As Shelley looks ahead, she’s grateful for her care team and her treatment, which she hopes will help keep music in her life.

I don’t ever want to relapse. I always want to be on this medication because I want to live.

You can survive. Don’t give up. You have to be a fighter. You have to fight for a lot of things in this world. You need to be here for yourself and for other people, so fight on.

Shelley G. acute myeloid leukemia

Living with hope and gratitude

I guess hope is a part of my vocabulary, even if I don’t think of it that way. We all have concerns about the world and the future, but for me, I focus energy on moving forward and helping others feel hopeful, too.

For anyone with AML or cancer, my advice is: with the right doctors, the right team, and the right treatment plan, you can survive. Don’t give up. Be a fighter for yourself and others. Fight on.


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Love, Stress & Strength: What It’s Really Like to Be a Cancer Caregiver

Love, Stress & Strength: What It’s Really Like to Be a Cancer Caregiver

Jamel Martin is a devoted son and caregiver for his father, Joseph, who was diagnosed with prostate cancer. When he first learned about the disease, Jamel researched and turned to his family and church community for strength. Joseph’s diagnosis brought them even closer, reminding Jamel of the importance of time, communication, and faith through uncertainty.

In this cancer vlog, Jamel and Joseph open up about caregiving, emotional healing, and what it means to support one another through fear and recovery. They share how community, love, and open conversation can help men overcome stigma around going to the doctor and seeking help. Their story is one of patience, gratitude, and the power of family connection.


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Meet Jamel

Jamel: My name is Jamel Martin, and I’m a caregiver for my dad, Joseph Martin.

The Diagnosis

Jamel: When I first found out, I didn’t know much about prostate cancer until they made me do a little research. I also started asking my mom to find out more about it. It doesn’t necessarily mean it’s detrimental. Once I found that out, I was a little bit more okay.

Jamel M. prostate cancer caregiver
Jamel M. prostate cancer caregiver

Joseph: I’m a happy-go-lucky guy. When something goes wrong with me, I try to uplift myself and not let things bring me down. I get back up and start all over again.

Learning About the Cancer Awareness Network (CAN)

Joseph: Once I found out that I had prostate cancer, we had Minister Loretta Herring at the church, who was with the Cancer Awareness Network. I got involved with her. She was one of my backbones and helped me walk through it and everything.

Cancer Awareness Network (CAN) is a non-profit community organization based in Birmingham, Alabama. CAN strives to empower cancer patients, survivors, and their caretakers. The organization has played an important role in the Martin family’s cancer journey.

Jamel: We have always been close and tight-knit. But going through that time made me value his life more because I realized that he wasn’t always going to be here with me. Any given day, he could be gone, and all I’d be left with are memories and reflections on what he taught me and instilled in me as a child. I take it wholeheartedly to try to spend more time with him. Once you grow older and have your own family, you tend to spend more time with your family, but you still need to make time for your parents as well. It helped me think about those things more, too.

Jamel M. prostate cancer caregiver
Jamel M. prostate cancer caregiver

Life as a Caregiver

Jamel: It was basically things that I was taught, like helping to take out the trash, cutting the grass, and cleaning the cars. I was helping move different things around for him that he couldn’t do. As a caregiver, what I was doing for him wasn’t as extensive as giving him a bath and picking him up from the tub. It was more about helping him around the house, so it wasn’t that much of a burden or very hard for me to turn into the role of a caregiver for him. Uplifting him was the hardest part. Keeping him happy and in a happy space.

Through Joe’s cancer journey, Jamel didn’t carry the weight of caregiving alone. He says his mother, a nurse, stepped in as Joe’s primary caregiver.

Joseph and His Wife Reflect on Their Shared Journey

Joe: You know what? I learned to be patient and to do what you ask me to do when you ask me to do it. I stopped being so stubborn and hardheaded. It all worked out well.

Wife: Anytime you work together, teamwork makes the dream work. We worked through the healing process, other side effects that occur with the surgery and how you dealt with them, and tried options for impotence and how you felt about that. We started out saying we’re going to get through it and that’s what we did. But still, we’re going to watch and follow up with the primary care physician annually. You always have to tell me when something is different about your body. You have to let me know.

Jamel M. prostate cancer caregiver
Jamel M. prostate cancer caregiver

I would say a lot of Black men don’t go to the doctor. However, I know you had to go because you didn’t have a choice but to go to find out what was going on. I think a lot of men are afraid to find out what may be going on and what the outcome will be. Just like your recent hospital stay, you didn’t know what the outcome was going to be and what was causing your problems.

Joe: That’s why I went.

Wife: You had to go. [Laughs] However, I think that men as a whole are afraid to find out the true diagnosis and how it would affect them.

Joe: But, yeah, they don’t go to the doctor.

Wife: As you get older, it’s important that you take care of yourself because the key is in early detection. If you see something going on, you have to get it evaluated.

Becoming More Health-Aware After Dad’s Diagnosis

Jamel: Most men don’t think about going to the doctor. They don’t want to go. It made me aware of my health by getting checkups on my heart, my prostate, and everything. It made me aware of how cancer can hit you at any age and how it can hit anybody. It doesn’t discriminate on race, religion, or anything.

Jamel M. prostate cancer caregiver
Jamel M. prostate cancer caregiver

I think the stigma is finding out the worst that can be going on with you. It’s scary because we’re not taught about those things health-wise. It’s not talked about. When you’re thinking about having something going on, you don’t know how to react to it. The unknown scares you. You’re scared of what can happen and what’s going on that you don’t want to find out. But that’s not the case. You need to find out so that you can hurry up, jump on it, and attack it.

A study of cancer caregivers showed that they deal with a multitude of different stressors. 50% reported high emotional stress connected to the caregiving role, 25% reported high financial strain, and 72% helped with medical-related tasks, all for an average of two years of caregiving. (Source: National Alliance for Caregiving)

Jamel: I can relate to that statistic, especially emotional stress. It was a very emotional time because I didn’t know what was expected and what was happening.

When you see him, you can’t tell. He’s a happy-go-lucky guy, so he’s always smiling and always happy. You can never tell what he’s going through on the inside. But I’m a bit more emotional. I still hide it, but it’ll come out now and then, which was what I had to deal with.

Jamel M. prostate cancer caregiver
Jamel M. prostate cancer caregiver

How Cancer Affected Their Marriage and Intimacy

Wife: I was concerned about how you would heal or what the result would be as far as intimacy, which was somewhat affected, but we worked through that as well. A relationship or a marriage is not entirely based on intimacy. You still love each other, and if true love is there, the relationship will remain.

Joe: I agree.

Wife: You’re a good support person for me. We support each other.

Joe: I was about to say. We do that for each other, whatever the case may be.

Wife: We have our differences. We don’t always agree.

Joe: No, we don’t.

Wife: It’s better to express your feelings than to assume what someone is thinking.

Joe: True.

Jamel M. prostate cancer caregiver
Jamel M. prostate cancer caregiver

The Power of Communication and Emotional Support in Caregiving

Jamel: Being able to communicate and talk with them about anything they want to talk about during that time is best to keep them emotionally sound.

Take your time. Be patient with the loved one that you are caregiving for and help them embrace life. Lift them up. Bring joy and peace back into their life. They’re going through a lot during this time and a lot of things can be very emotional for them.

It’s a hard time to go through because they don’t know what’s going on. They don’t understand what’s going on with their bodies. They know it’s different. It feels different. But they don’t know what to do about it at the time. They may want to simply vent. Let them vent. Let them talk to you. Hold their hand while they’re talking to you. Let them know that it’s okay to cry. They can cry. Give them a shoulder to lean on. That’s what I give them. Be there for them. Be a listening ear. It helps.

Jamel M. prostate cancer caregiver

In the previous episode, Joseph shared how he navigated his diagnosis, chose robotic surgery, and learned to open up to his loved ones about his health.


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“Go Get a Checkup.” – Joseph’s Prostate Cancer Advice

“Go Get a Checkup.” – Joseph’s Prostate Cancer Advice

Joseph Martin was living a full life surrounded by family when he was diagnosed with prostate cancer. The news came as a shock and forced him to face questions about his health, future, and faith.

In this cancer vlog, Joseph shares how he navigated his diagnosis, chose robotic surgery, and learned to open up to his loved ones about his health. With his wife, a nurse, by his side, and his children offering support, Joseph found strength in family conversations and regular checkups. His message encourages others to take care of themselves, seek medical guidance, and cherish every moment with family.


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Edited by: Katrina Villareal

Every 13 minutes, a Black man is diagnosed with prostate cancer. (American Cancer Society, 2022)

Meet Joseph

My name is Joseph Martin. I’m a survivor of prostate cancer.

Learning He Has Prostate Cancer

I didn’t know that much about it. I just heard of it. I didn’t ever think that I would have cancer, but you never know what life is going to bring you.

Joseph M. prostate cancer

Black and African American men are much more likely to develop prostate cancer. 1 in 6 Black men will develop prostate cancer in their lifetime — compared to 1 in 8 men overall. (American Cancer Society, 2022)

Joseph M. prostate cancer

Talking with His Wife and Doctors

When you hear something that you don’t know whether you can live with or without, it makes you think. I talked with the urologists, the doctors, and my wife, who was a nurse. We sat down and talked about the possibilities of what could be and what could not be. Once I decided that I wanted to do the robotic surgery, it was a challenge and something to get used to, but we overcame it, and I’ve been doing great.

Today, there are over 3 million prostate cancer survivors in the United States. Black men in the U.S. and Caribbean have the highest documented prostate cancer incidence rates in the world. (American Cancer Society, 2022)

Sharing Everything with His Family

Whenever something goes on with me, I let my wife, my son, and my daughter know. I used to hold back from them to see first what’s going to happen. But now, when I go to the doctor and find out something serious, I tell them that we have to talk.

Joseph M. prostate cancer

The National Comprehensive Cancer Network (NCCN) recommends that Black men and those with a family history should begin talking to their doctor about screening as early as age 40.

Joseph M. prostate cancer

Importance of Regular Checkups and Why Early Detection Matters

You don’t have to be sick to go to the doctor. Get a checkup every six months, every three months. Do it on a regular basis. That way, if anything goes wrong, you will find out before it’s too late. Some people don’t want to do anything but work and then die. I had more life in me. I wanted to retire and do anything that I wanted to do afterward.

Go to the doctor. Sit down and talk with your family. Let them know what’s going on in your life, whether it’s good or bad. Do what it takes and what’s necessary. Live a productive life. See your grandkids grow up. See your grandkids’ kids, if you can. I would love to see my grandkids grow up and, if possible, their kids. I have two great-grandkids now. Most people never get to see great-grandkids at my age. Do the right thing and go to the doctor.


In our next episode, we introduce you to Joe’s son, Jamel, who has played an important role in his father’s cancer journey.


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Treatments: Surgeries (radical prostatectomy, artificial urinary sphincter to address incontinence, penile prosthesis), radiation therapy (EBRT), hormone therapy (androgen deprivation therapy or ADT)
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Symptoms: Nocturia (frequent urination at night), weak stream of urine

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Mical R., Prostate Cancer, Stage 2



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Symptom: None; routine PSA test, then IsoPSA test
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Symptom: Urination changes
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Symptom: None; elevated PSA level caught at routine physical
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Symptom: Rising PSA level
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Bladder Cancer Breakthroughs 2025: New Treatments & Bladder-Sparing Advances

Bladder Cancer Breakthroughs 2025

New Treatments & Bladder-Sparing Advances

Bladder cancer care is evolving rapidly, with new treatments offering the potential for longer survival and better quality of life—including the possibility of preserving the bladder.

In this expert-led discussion, MD Anderson’s Dr. Ashish Kamat breaks down the latest in research, emerging therapies, and what patients and care partners need to know now to make informed treatment decisions.

Bladder Cancer Breakthroughs 2025: New Treatments & Bladder-Sparing Advances
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Bladder cancer care is evolving rapidly, with new treatments offering the potential for longer survival and better quality of life—including the possibility of preserving the bladder. In this expert-led discussion, MD Anderson’s Dr. Ashish Kamat breaks down the latest in research, emerging therapies, and what patients and care partners need to know now to make informed treatment decisions.
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Introduction

Stephanie Chuang: My name is Stephanie Chuang. I’m a cancer survivor, patient advocate, and founder of The Patient Story. The mission came from my experience of trying to deal with a diagnosis and navigating through all of the questions and not knowing.

Here at The Patient Story, we try to humanize this information for you and part of that is to provide access to topic-specific cancer experts, such as Dr. Ashish Kamat from MD Anderson, so that you can learn more and empower yourself or your loved one in your care. We’ve had more than 100 million views of our in-depth story videos that mostly feature patients, sometimes caregivers, care partners, and doctors. Our goal is to help promote self-advocacy and connection.

We want to thank our sponsor, Johnson & Johnson, for its support of our independent educational program. This allows us to do more content like this for free. The Patient Story retains full editorial control. While we hope this is helpful, this is not a substitute for medical advice. Please consult with your healthcare team when making treatment decisions.

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Bladder Cancer Breakthroughs 2025 - New Treatments and Bladder-Sparing Advances
Dr. Ashish Kamat

We’re talking about bladder cancer treatments in 2025 and beyond. This follows big meetings, including the 2025 American Urological Association (AUA) annual meeting, where top researchers gather to learn and discuss the very latest. Our focus is on what’s new and promising, all through the lens of what patients and care partners need and want to know about to stay informed and empowered.

Leading this important conversation is Dr. Ashish Kamat, an endowed professor of urologic oncology at MD Anderson Cancer Center in Texas. He leads many patient advocacy groups and efforts, including the World Bladder Cancer Coalition. He’s a global leader in bladder cancer research, clinical trials, and bladder-sparing strategies. He’s been in the field for over 20 years and has published a few hundred publications. He’s the president of the International Bladder Cancer Group (IBCG) and the International Bladder Cancer Network (IBCN).

Dr. Kamat, I already told you, I’ve got to pause after that. You’ve got so many things and accolades, but what I want to say is thank you for joining us.

What Inspires Dr. Kamat to Work with Bladder Cancer Patients?

Stephanie: I’ve seen your name in so many patient-facing efforts and discussions and I’d love to ask you. What drives you to go beyond the clinic, to try and get as much information and awareness to as many patients and care partners as possible, even those who are not in your direct care?

Dr. Ashish Kamat: First, thank you so much for having me. As you said, it’s very important to reach out to patients, not just because that is what we do, but if we don’t do that and we don’t get patients and their carers to be educated, involved, and understand the disease process, then we can’t give them the best chance of a cure. It’s not just surgery, medication, or radiation, but it’s a true partnership. In some ways, it’s a selfish motive to get patients more educated because it helps me give them the best results, which in turn helps both of us.

Stephanie: I love that. In the spirit of this conversation, I read one of your quotes, which was, “Nothing is more rewarding than hearing a patient say, ‘We made the decision together,’” and I loved reading that. Thank you so much for all that you do.

Bladder Cancer Breakthroughs 2025 - New Treatments and Bladder-Sparing Advances

Categories of Bladder Cancer Patients

Stephanie: Let’s start this conversation by addressing some of the basics of bladder cancer for those who are newer to the diagnosis. Of course, this conversation is not individualized, so we’re not able to address every single potential situation on diagnosis. But in broad strokes, how do you categorize patients in determining what treatment options you might recommend? Would that be muscle invasive or not, high- or low-grade, and staging? What goes into your ultimate recommendations when you’re talking to patients?

Dr. Kamat: The first thing I always want a patient to understand is what disease state they have. From that perspective, I always try to have the patient think of their bladder as a balloon and the muscle layer as the rubber of the balloon. Just like a balloon, when the bladder’s empty, it’s collapsed and crumpled. When it fills up with urine, it gets larger and thinner.

It’s important for the patient to understand that just because it’s not muscle invasive, if it’s high-grade, it can still be a threat to life.

Dr. Ashish Kamat

With that analogy, think of the muscle layer being the rubber of the balloon — the two layers on the inside and the muscle layer on the outside. When these tumors start, they start on the inner surface of the bladder, but they set their roots down towards the muscle of the bladder. That muscle of the bladder getting involved — or the rubber of the balloon, so to speak — is the key determining step as to whether it’s safe to save the bladder or not. That’s the first thing that I like patients to understand.

Do you have muscle invasive disease, where our focus shifts to whether we can save the bladder and, if not, do we need to do radical surgery? Do we need chemotherapy? Do we need to do trimodal therapy with radiation? Or is the tumor not even in the muscle yet? In that case, we’ll aim to save the bladder, but then what do we need to do?

Once I go through that broad categorization, then I help the patient understand: is it a low-grade disease or a high-grade disease? When the tumor is noninvasive, you can have a low-grade disease, which again is still cancer, but for most practical purposes, you can almost treat them like warts. They’re nuisance factors and require intervention, but they’re not going to threaten our patients’ lives.

On the other hand, you have high-grade tumors, which may be small — smaller than just a point of a pencil — but they can kill the patient. It’s important for the patient to understand that just because it’s not muscle invasive, if it’s high-grade, it can still be a threat to life. That’s the majority of patients that we see.

Of course, there is a small percentage of patients who present with novel metastatic disease, where the cancer’s already spread outside the bladder to other parts of the body. When that happens, I try to help the patient focus our discussion. If the tumor’s left the bladder, we focus on how we have to treat the rest of the body first and then bring our attention to the bladder to see if, at some point, we still need to address what happened in the bladder to begin with.

How Common are the Different Types of Bladder Cancer?

Stephanie: How many patients typically land in these categories?

Dr. Kamat: The most common presentation for a patient is non-muscle invasive disease. Usually, about 70 to 75% of patients will present with noninvasive disease. Roughly 20 to 25% patients will present with muscle invasive disease, where it’s already in the muscle of the bladder. Fortunately, only about 5% of patients present with metastatic disease because that’s where a cure is hard.

If you see blood in the urine, don’t ignore it. Let someone know.

Dr. Ashish Kamat

Unfortunately, it is gender-differentiated. Women tend to have a higher risk or percentage of presenting with more advanced stages of disease. Partly because when the most common presenting symptom of bladder cancer is blood in the urine, you can imagine many women, especially young women, get told, “It’s not anything to worry about. It’s probably that time of the month. It’s probably a contaminated sample.” It’s important for primary care physicians and females to know that if you see blood in the urine, don’t ignore it. Let someone know.

Stephanie: I appreciate that. We’ve certainly done lots of these stories and that’s something we hear commonly. Especially as a woman, it’s easy to dismiss or attribute it to something else. Always, if you don’t feel well, if something’s not right, or if something’s concerning, you’re saying to advocate for yourself. Find someone who’s going to address that. Is that right?

Dr. Kamat: Absolutely. The best advocate a patient can have is themselves and their family, and, of course, us as partners, but they have to find the right advocate. Before they find someone to advocate for them, I want patients to empower themselves to say, “I’m not willing to take this response that you’re giving me, saying it’s nothing to worry about. I hope it’s nothing to worry about, but tell me why it’s nothing to worry about.”

Getting Patients and Care Partners Involved in Treatment Decisions

Stephanie: I also read that non-muscle invasive bladder cancer, which, as you said, most people are diagnosed with, behaves more like a chronic condition that requires ongoing care, but it does require that because of high recurrence rates. Can you talk more about how that informs your approach with patients?

Dr. Kamat: Stephanie, that’s where it’s important to get the patient and their family involved early to set expectations a little bit. But also, I like to ask patients, “Tell me what’s important to you.” Non-muscle invasive bladder cancer is a chronic condition and we want to make it a chronic condition. We don’t want to make it such that a patient is diagnosed and then they die from their cancer. If you do the right thing and we treat the patients correctly, we are saving their bladder, but then the bladder is at risk of the tumor recurring.

In some ways, I allude to this with patients to make it easy to understand. Think of your backyard. You have a couple of weeds. You see them and you want to treat them, but then you still have the backyard in place, right? And unless you remove the entire sod, you’re going to have weeds pop up.

Some patients will say, “You know what? I can’t keep coming to the doctor’s office every three to six months. I live too far away. I had to have my grandson or granddaughter take time off to bring me there. Can you give me one-and-done treatment?” In that situation, sometimes even for a noninvasive disease, we will do a radical cystectomy, which is to remove the entire bladder. Yes, that is a drastic step, but for particular patients — unfortunately, a small number of patients — that is something that they want because it’s one and done.

I don’t encourage that, but since you asked, it’s important for me to know from a patient their desire for their treatment paradigm. If a patient tells me that they want a one-shot treatment, then we have to take a drastic step. But for most patients, it involves regular checkups, regular treatments, evaluation of the bladder, cystoscopy, cytology, imaging, etc.

How Important are Biomarkers in Making Treatment Decisions?

Stephanie: For a lot of people, their decision-making is largely based on efficacy, like how well this will treat the disease, but also the impact on quality of life, which is something we talk about across all kinds of cancers. Is there anything else upfront that you want to make sure that patients and their families understand? Are there other factors, for instance, that might inform a different way of treating them? We hear a lot about biomarkers in the space of solid tumors, in particular.

Dr. Kamat: Biomarkers is a field where we and most of us in this oncology space are very interested in. They help us understand the biology and differentiation of bladder cancer treatments, paradigms, and development, etc. But in some ways, we’re fortunate in the sense that the best treatment for non-muscle invasive bladder cancer is biomarker-agnostic. It’s an immune therapy called intravesical BCG, which works so well that we haven’t needed to use biomarkers to change or inform the treatment paradigm.

Don’t spend your own money doing all of this. It’s not going to help you or us upfront.

Dr. Ashish Kamat

Sometimes I see patients walk in with sheets of paper where they’ve paid out of pocket to get all this testing done. It’s not helpful, other than as a research or educational tool. If a patient wants to understand, “Is my cancer being driven by FGFR3, PD-1, or something else?” That’s great for education, but it doesn’t help us in today’s day and age with the upfront treatment.

Now, if the tumor doesn’t respond to first-line therapy, then we will want to do biomarker analyses because there are FGFR-directed therapies and specific Rb-directed therapies. But for that, we want to look at the tumor that develops after the treatment hasn’t worked. Looking at the first tumor itself is not cost-effective for the patient. From a research perspective, we do biomarker analyses all the time. This is more for patients. Don’t spend your own money doing all of this. It’s not going to help you or us upfront.

Stephanie: Thank you. That’s important because we hear things in the world of science and major news publications, and it’s hard to understand what applies to our specific situation and cancer.

Treatment for Low-Grade vs. High-Grade Bladder Cancer

Stephanie: Before we dive into more of the latest and promising therapies and options, what typically is the treatment decision-making path or the options given based on these larger categories of patients? If you’re talking about the non-muscle invasive bladder cancer and then high-grade versus low-grade, here’s how we usually do this for low-grade and here’s what we normally recommend for high-grade. Could you provide a more basic picture of what that landscape is?

Dr. Kamat: So let’s assume a patient is sitting in front of me and he or she has low-grade, non-muscle invasive bladder cancer. The first thing is to explain to the patient that that’s great news. If you’re going to have any kind of bladder cancer, this is the one to have. Yes, it is cancer, but it’s extremely treatable and even though it might recur at some point in your life, the recurrence is not a problem

For the treatment of low-grade, non-muscle invasive bladder cancer, the treatment is removing the tumor, which is usually done with the transurethral resection (TURBT). We look in the bladder with a scope. Currently, we use electricity to remove the tumor. Some places use lasers, but there’s no real benefit to one over the other. Then we give a single shot of chemotherapy into the bladder. That’s what the majority of patients need and what the majority of patients respond to.

Now, some patients have a recurrence of the tumor and as long as the tumor stays low-grade, that patient then transitions into intermediate-risk. It’s not high-risk. The only reason we call it intermediate-risk is because we want people, physicians especially, to understand that it’s gone from low-risk to intermediate-risk, so we might need something more. What is that something more? Intravesical therapy, either in the form of chemotherapy maintenance — so once a week for six weeks and then monthly chemotherapy maintenance — or intravesical BCG.

Now there’s a shortage of BCG across the globe. In today’s day and age, we don’t tend to recommend BCG for patients with low-grade disease, not because it doesn’t work well, but because there’s not enough BCG and it is something we need to reserve for our high-risk patients. For the low-grade, intermediate-risk patient category, the treatment is still intravesical chemotherapy.

Now there are paradigms for patients who are too sick to go to the operating room or who’ve had a recent myocardial infarction (MI) or heart attack and they’re on blood thinners, an antiplatelet drug like clopidogrel (Plavix), or aspirin, and we want to avoid a procedure. We can ablate these tumors with chemotherapy upfront. There are newly-approved agents, like the recently FDA-approved MitoGel (now known as Jelmyto), which is mitomycin in a gel format, where you can ablate the tumor. But that’s, in some ways, a select group of patients who are trying to avoid resection of the tumor or we are trying to buy some time before we can take them to the operating room.

Now, moving from the low-grade patient with low-risk or intermediate-risk category, the next category is the high-risk patient. Any patient with high-grade tumors is considered high-risk, which includes carcinoma in situ (CIS) or T1 disease. There are a lot of factors that come into play with regard to treatment recommendations.

Patients who have high-risk tumors can be further categorized according to their actual risk. If they have certain parameters that make them extremely high-risk — and I’m talking about risk of progression and metastatic disease — I might recommend to a patient, saying, “Your tumor is non-muscle invasive, but it’s getting there. It’s getting to become muscle invasive, so you might still want to consider radical treatment upfront.” Fortunately, that’s a small percentage of patients. For the majority of patients, we can still recommend treatments that allow us to spare their bladders.

The gold standard for many years — for the last 40-plus years and it’s not been dethroned yet — is intravesical immunotherapy with BCG. BCG (Bacillus Calmette-Guérin) is developed from the tuberculosis vaccine. It’s been used for other cancers in the past, like melanoma and leukemia, but it was toxic because you had to give it in the blood. With bladder cancer, we can put it in the bladder.

Early data suggested that it was fairly toxic to patients, which is because people didn’t understand how to use it. If it’s used appropriately with appropriate pre-medication or interval spacing, etc., 90% of patients can finish the whole three-year prescribed course. If you use adequate BCG, the recurrence rates are in the teens and the progression rates are in single digits. An efficacy rate of 90% when it comes to preventing progression of disease of high-grade bladder cancer allows 90% of patients to spare their bladder.

Again, nothing’s 100%. If it doesn’t work or patients can’t tolerate it, we have to use other treatments and that’s where you’ve seen this explosion of drugs coming up recently. There’s gene therapy with nadofaragene firadenovec-vncg (Adstiladrin). There’s cretostimogene grenadenorepvec. There’s an intravesical pretzel device. There is nogapendekin alfa inbakicept (Anktiva), which is the bioshield that Dr. Soon-Shiong has been talking about all over the world recently. All of those come in after BCG has not worked for a particular patient.

Stephanie: Thank you. I know it’s a lot to talk through. We will be talking about all this, but, of course, the explosion, so that people understand what they can consider and weigh might be good for them personally.

The Role of Biomarkers in Muscle Invasive Bladder Cancer

Stephanie: Biomarkers haven’t been a thing yet in bladder cancer. That’s largely a good thing, in that most people don’t require that. The standard of care has worked well. But as you have mentioned, there are meetings and gatherings where people are trying to figure out more about how they may play a role in bladder cancer, is that right?

Dr. Kamat: Absolutely, Stephanie. We were talking about noninvasive disease. If we move into the muscle invasive space, there, the biomarkers are showing more promise and slightly more utility. They’re still not used in the clinic. They still don’t inform us of how we counsel a patient, but they help us inform the patient about their prognosis. For patients who have muscle invasive disease, the discussion becomes, “How can we get you the best chance of long-term cure?” And that usually involves some form of bladder removal.

There is trimodal therapy, which, in selected patients, can offer the option of sparing the bladder and providing long-term control, but that’s the minority of patients. The majority of patients do require radical cystectomy, unfortunately, to remove the bladder. And then to give them the best chance of long-term cure, there is neoadjuvant therapy and with the new paradigm, sandwich therapy that comes into play.

Neoadjuvant therapy essentially means getting treatment before the surgery. Traditionally, it involves cisplatin-based chemotherapy, which can be fairly toxic. Roughly 40% of patients can’t even get cisplatin because of cardiac disease, renal dysfunction, age, neuropathy, or something else, so other drugs have been studied and are being studied to see how they can help us give patients who are not as cisplatin candidates some treatment.

In more recent times, the cisplatin combination has been combined with immunotherapy, immune checkpoint inhibitors, and the NIAGARA protocol, which is the most recent development in the space. This protocol essentially suggests that combining combination chemotherapy with a checkpoint inhibitor before surgery and then continuing the checkpoint inhibitor after surgery can offer the patients the best long-term chance of cure in the muscle invasive space.

This is where the biomarkers have come in handy. There are biomarkers that people have developed, trying to help us understand which patients may respond so well to systemic therapy that we don’t have to take the bladder out. Again, this is being studied. It’s not something that I can say a patient should go to their physician and say, “I have this biomarker. I don’t want my bladder out.” No, it’s not ready for primetime, but we’re looking at those. There are DNA repair genes. There are other agents and other markers we’re looking at.

The biggest buzz is around circulating tumor DNA (ctDNA) because data and evidence have come out that suggest that in patients who have detectable levels of circulating tumor DNA, it puts them in a category for prognosis that is not as good. And if they don’t have circulating tumor DNA, then it gives them a better prognosis. Again, this is a research field.

But it’s been studied in the sense that if a patient has elevated ctDNA, do we need to escalate their treatment? If they don’t have circulating tumor DNA, can we de-escalate that treatment? In other words, less toxicity but the same efficacy. A trade-off, of course, is that we need to offer patients shared decision-making because, like I said, it’s currently not standard of care. It still is a research question.

Everything is crucial because bladder cancer is not one of those diseases that you get second chances with, so you want to get the best treatment right up front. The whole team effort is very important.

Dr. Ashish Kamat

Your Bladder Cancer Team: Who’s Involved?

Stephanie: Before we dive even deeper into the details of what’s the latest, typically — and I know it depends on whether someone’s getting care at an MD Anderson versus a community provider or a different practice — what is the makeup of the bladder cancer care team and does that impact what you recommend to people?

Dr. Kamat: For all the time I’ve been doing this and in many parts of the world when I travel and help set up their cancer programs, one of the things I’ve been a champion of is to emphasize that bladder cancer is a multidisciplinary cancer. In order to give our patients the best chance of a cure, it has to be such that everything is considered. Yes, I’m a urologic oncologist on the surgical side, but bladder cancer is not a surgical disease, a medical disease, or a radiation disease. We have to look at the patient holistically.

That’s why whenever we’re guiding patients as to where to get their care, I can’t have everybody flying to Houston to be treated here at MD Anderson, but I tell them, “Wherever you seek your care, make sure that the care team over there is not just one person. That it involves not just the surgeon, but also the medical oncologist, the radiation oncologist, the nursing team, and the support staff.” Everything is crucial because bladder cancer is not one of those diseases that you get second chances with, so you want to get the best treatment right up front. The whole team effort is very important.

Concerns from Patients About Their Bladder Cancer Treatment

Stephanie: I’m sure a lot of people have traveled to see you, given your expertise. Are there common situations you’re hearing from them? Like, “Hey, I saw such and such. They’re not bladder cancer specialist and they wanted to immediately go to this step.” Or maybe things that you’re seeing at different levels that might make it harder for patients to understand what’s good for them?

Dr. Kamat: Yeah, and that’s why organizations like The Patient Story are very important because I see that very often. Patients will come in and say, “This is what I was told. I have no choice. I have to do this.”

First off, every patient has a choice, so when I hear that, it makes me not very happy because patients always have a choice. Our role is to guide them to make what I think is the best choice for them, but it’s very patient-specific. Like I said earlier, what may be right for one patient, like surgery, may not be right for someone else and it might be purely based on their beliefs or their support structure.

Patients always have a choice. Our role is to guide them to make what I think is the best choice for them, but it’s very patient-specific.

Dr. Ashish Kamat

But the other thing that often gets us is that if a patient goes to see someone who doesn’t do bladder cancer all the time, it’s not their fault. It’s not the physician’s fault. The physician is trying to do the best they can, but if they’re treating 10 other cancers or 10 other problems, I can’t expect them to be at the forefront of the latest in that arena. So they’re now offering the patient what is the best treatment in their honest opinion, which might not be the latest cutting-edge.

I always recommend that patients get a second opinion. Even if they come to see me and they want a second opinion from somewhere else, go get it from somewhere else. It’s good for patients to hear, from at least two separate people, if that treatment truly is the best treatment for them and then make the decision.

Now, of course, when patients have to get treated — like with chemotherapy, for example — I often tell them, “You don’t have to be stuck in Houston for the entire duration. Go back home. Your physicians are extremely qualified.” Everybody can give chemotherapy. As long as they’re willing to follow our protocol or our recommendations, get the chemo where it’s easier for the patient.

When it comes to surgery, it’s slightly different because surgery for bladder cancer is extremely specialized; it’s not something that most people can do unless they’re highly trained and it’s not something that I recommend patients go to someone who does it once in a while. It’s very important to go to someone who does it all the time, has a team to support them, not just the surgeon, but the nursing staff, the ICU staff, the anesthesia, the stoma nurses, etc.

Surgery for bladder cancer is extremely specialized; it’s not something that most people can do unless they’re highly trained and it’s not something that I recommend patients go to someone who does it once in a while.

Dr. Ashish Kamat

Ironically, in many ways, people forget that that’s just as important when it comes to radiation therapy. Even in radiation therapy, it’s not the machine that’s necessarily important. There might be multiple places in the country that have a good machine, but it’s the radiation technologist and the radiation oncologist that’s planning the treatment paradigm who can make a difference between radiation that helps save the patient’s bladder versus radiation that causes so many side effects that the patient then loses their bladder and their rectum. That is very important.

How to Find the Right Provider

Stephanie: Where can people go to figure that out? MD Anderson is world-class and people know about it. But in terms of figuring out if someone is the right surgeon or the right institution with people who can do radiation therapy with the precision that we need, how would people go about finding that?

Dr. Kamat: There’s a lot of junk online, but there are some good resources. Your institution, of course. The Bladder Cancer Advocacy Network (BCAN) is a very good, reliable place where patients can go because it’s all for patients and by patients. I recommend that patients make that their first stop. On a global scale, the World Bladder Cancer Patient Coalition has good resources.

It’s the radiation technologist and the radiation oncologist that’s planning the treatment paradigm who can make a difference.

Dr. Ashish Kamat

But I always tell patients to ask their family doctor and local physicians. “Who do you trust here? Who would a patient’s family doctor send their own family to?” Because that’s important as well. Not everybody who does bladder cancer makes it onto these resource sites. Just because I haven’t trained someone or haven’t heard of them, but they’re in Boise, Idaho, doesn’t mean they’re not doing excellent work. The local community of physicians often knows who is good. Conversely, often they know who may have published 5,000 papers, but is horrible. It’s not just academia. It is taking care of a patient that’s important.

Stephanie: I appreciate a lot of what you said. I also want to go back to what you said earlier, which is that it’s not that the practicing physicians aren’t smart; it’s that they are generalists. There’s no way, with all the advancements happening at the pace they’re happening at, that they could keep up with all of the things that are happening in the research. Thank you for that.

Exciting New Cancer Treatments on the Horizon

Stephanie: Let’s dive in more. You already talked about some of the explosion of options that have come up recently. You talked about gene therapy, pretzel devices, and BioShield coming in after BCG hadn’t worked. Can we go through some of the ones that you’re most excited by? And again, in the spirit of what patient group would be most interested in each of these options?

Dr. Kamat: The biggest explosion of data has been in two separate spaces. The first one is for the patient who has high-risk bladder cancer, has tried BCG and it hasn’t worked, and is now faced with a conundrum as to what to do next. The standard treatment for many years was to remove the bladder because there were no real drugs approved and there was nothing available. Unfortunately, when drugs were approved, they had a 4 to 5% success rate at two years. No patient wants to hear, “I’m going to try something with a 4 or 5% success rate.”

Because of that, different organizations came together and the FDA partnered with a lot of us and developed this paradigm of BCG-unresponsive disease. As many patients might know, there was an explosion of drugs studied in that space and currently has the most activity. If a patient has tried BCG and still has recurrent high-grade disease in the bladder, what are the options? That’s where the drugs have been approved, that’s where drugs are being studied, and that’s where some of the agents that I talked about come into play.

The first drug that was approved in that space is pembrolizumab (Keytruda), which is a systemic immuno-oncology (IO) therapy and the results were very exciting at that time, but there were some toxicities. Not many patients today will get single-agent pembrolizumab (Keytruda) for BCG-unresponsive disease, but there are studies using pembrolizumab (Keytruda) with other agents that I think will offer patients the opportunity to get that systemic therapy backbone plus something else.

The next agent that was approved in that space was intravesical gene therapy, nadofaragene firadenovec-vncg (Adstiladrin). Now this is a gene therapy that allows the patient’s bladder to, in some ways, become a bioreactor because it transfects the bladder cells with an adenovirus that then helps with the production of local interferon-alfa 2b (IFNα2b).

That has the advantage in the sense that it’s given in the bladder once every three months, so the patient doesn’t have to come to the clinic every week or every other week. It’s once every three months. The efficacy number, roughly at about 12 months, is that 25% of patients will have a positive result and be in disease remission. And that’s great, right? Because we can tell the patients, “It’s approved for BCG-unresponsive CIS. Let’s try it. If it doesn’t work, we’ll know and we can switch to something else. But if it works, it’s great because it’s once every three months and you might have at least a 25% chance of saving your bladder just with this treatment.”

The third drug that was approved in this arena is the IL-15 superagonist, which I’ve seen a lot of buzz about. It’s been called the “BioShield” by some people because there is some evidence that IL-15 might have efficacy across different cancers, but that’s a different topic. For bladder cancer, it’s given in combination with BCG and helps boost the patient’s bladder’s immune response to BCG itself.

That has excellent results in the sense that more than 50% of patients have a response in a year. The downside of that is that it has to be given in combination with BCG. Again, kudos to the company because they have gotten the FDA to agree to allow non-US BCG to be brought into the country and used in combination with this agent, especially in places where there is no BCG.

Those are the approved drugs. The same space now has multiple different drugs that are being studied. One is cretostimogene grenadenorepvec, which is another gene therapy that focuses on the retinoblastoma (Rb) pathway. It’s an oncolytic virus. It has excellent results. It’s not approved yet, but many of us expect that it will be approved.

Then there’s the intravesical pretzel device, which is where chemotherapy — in this case, gemcitabine (Inlexzo) — is put in a little silicone device that looks like a tiny pretzel. The company doesn’t like us calling it the pretzel, but it’s what helps patients understand. It’s put in the bladder and releases the drug at a slow rate. It’s great for patients because you put the device in once and then the patient just has to come in after three weeks or 12 weeks, depending on what stage they’re at, and have the device removed, but it’s constantly releasing gemcitabine (Inlexzo). Again, it’s not approved, but the data is looking promising. Everything that was presented at AUA, American Society of Clinical Oncology (ASCO), and elsewhere looks like this is something that’s going to be beneficial to our patients.

Then there are other agents. There is non-viral gene therapy, such as enGene, which allows patients to get gene therapy without using a virus. Some patients are afraid of the whole viral paradigm when it comes to gene therapy. Some hospitals in smaller communities can’t get certification to use gene therapy that’s viral-based. We don’t know yet, but if it’s approved, it’ll allow patients in smaller centers and smaller communities to get this drug.

Beyond this, I could go on for two hours, but there are so many more drugs being looked at, like laser therapy, etc., in this space. If you’re going to have bladder cancer, this is a great time because there are potentially many options that are going to be available.

Stephanie: I know that we could spend much more time going through every single amazing potential development and promising research happening, but let’s dive into some of the ones that you already talked about and then I have follow-up questions about how you would offer what therapy at what time. In any space, there are questions about whether you use a lot upfront first and try to hit hard in certain diagnoses or not.

First, you talked about gene therapy. Can you say the name of the therapy and share a little bit more about how close we might be? I know you don’t have a crystal ball, but how close are we to seeing this in a clinic? You can’t tell if the FDA is going to approve something, but if it’s promising and it does get approved, in six months, could it be something off of clinical trial, approved, and available?

Dr. Kamat: To clarify, the gene therapy nadofaragene firadenovec-vncg (Adstiladrin) is already approved. That’s interferon-alfa therapy. It’s already approved and patients are using it, and we can actually offer it to patients.

The other gene therapy is cretostimogene and that’s the gene therapy with CG Oncology. That’s not approved yet. We think that they will go in front of the FDA within 12 months, and hopefully, it’ll be approved and used for patients at that time. The results look great, but it’s not approved, so we can’t recommend it at this point.

There’s not one clear drug that’s better for every patient. It’s a personalized decision.

Dr. Ashish Kamat

Current Clinical Trials

Stephanie: We will also talk about clinical trials before the conversation is over and how you explain them to your patients. The term itself is not very friendly, I think. “Clinical trial” is pretty daunting for people, so we’ll humanize it.

There’s already gene therapy approved, like you mentioned, but cretostimogene is still in research. When you’re thinking about gene therapy for patients, let’s say that someone is able to go on to a clinical trial if it was recruiting or let’s say that it was already approved, why is this one better for certain patients than the one that’s already approved?

Dr. Kamat: There’s no one particular drug that’s better for a patient. In fact, when it comes to sequencing the right drug with the right patient, this is a very complex problem. The international bladder cancer group that I lead convened a think tank and spent months thinking about this. We had a hundred faculty members from all over the world go to Houston, sit in one room, and hash this out to try to figure out how to best sequence these drugs for the patients.

The short answer is that there’s not one clear drug that’s better for every patient. It’s a personalized decision. Some patients might benefit from treatment that’s given once every three months and, in which case, it’s obviously the nadofaragene firadenovec-vncg (Adstiladrin).

If the CG Oncology’s cretostimogene is approved and it’s available, that’s every week for six weeks and then there’s maintenance that goes with it. But the efficacy numbers there are higher than with the published data with nadofaragene firadenovec-vncg (Adstiladrin), so a patient might say, “I want to try this. I don’t mind coming every so often. I don’t mind the side effects of it. I would like this drug.” That becomes a discussion with the patient.

It’s not just these two gene therapies. Other treatment options are available as well. For example, the IL-15 NAI (nogapendekin alfa inbakicept), patients might like the fact that it’s given in combination with BCG and say, “BCG worked for me. It just stopped working after some time. I would rather get that treatment.”

Then some patients might say, “I don’t want any of this intravesical therapy. I want to get the device that you can put in my bladder because I like the fact that you can put it in, I don’t have to come back for X number of weeks, it’s constantly releasing the chemotherapy in my bladder, and I’m having good results with it.”

I don’t mean to dodge your question, but the real answer is there’s not one treatment that’s the best treatment for everybody.

Stephanie: I appreciate that and I probably should have said it differently. That’s exactly what I think the question is. We’re getting to a space of personalized treatment, not just in terms of the disease, but what a patient prioritizes for his or her life. Again, I appreciate that that’s how you approach your patients and how you bring this to light and at the forefront of these discussions, because it is different. People are optimizing for different things in their lives.

I know you said that they don’t like the pretzel name, but can you talk about the device and whether it’s in clinical trials? We’ll also be putting up the clinical trial names for people in case they are interested in asking their doctors. Do you have the clinical trial name for the gene therapy from CG Oncology?

Dr. Kamat: That’s the BOND-003 study. The pretzel is TAR-200 and TAR-210, and that’s Johnson & Johnson’s MoonRISe and SunRISe paradigms, and there are five SunRISe studies. Full disclosure: I’m part of advising pretty much every company in the bladder cancer space, so I help advise all these companies as well. The SunRISe paradigm is SunRISe-1, SunRISe-2, SunRISe-3, SunRISe-4, and SunRISe-5, and then MoonRISe, which is using TAR-210.

We don’t know what the company is going to call this when it actually gets approved in the clinic. There are a lot of names being thrown around and I can’t reveal that anyway, but we don’t know what the final name is going to be. That’s all in the noninvasive space.

I also want to enlighten the patients on the muscle invasive disease and the metastatic disease. In the metastatic space, this is not brand new, but using enfortumab vedotin with pembrolizumab (EV+P) clearly has changed the treatment paradigm. About eight to 10 months ago, we would tell patients with metastatic disease that the median survival is 14 months, which means half the men and women will not live 14 months.

Once EV+P was studied and presented by Dr. Tom Powles at ASCO, he got a standing ovation, as many of you know, because it changed the paradigm for patients. Now we can tell patients who have metastatic disease that the median survival has jumped from 14 months to 30 months, so half the men and women will live 30 months and that’s great.

In the metastatic space, a lot of second-line and third-line therapies are being studied. That’s where you have FGFR-directed therapies, platinum-based combination therapies (cisplatin or carboplatin), and other antibody-drug conjugates (ADCs) that have been developed for patients with biomarkers, etc There’s still a lot of work that needs to be done. It’s not as though EV+P is a full stop. We still need to get patients to live longer than a median survival of 30 months.

Traditionally, what’s happened is if you don’t take the patient’s bladder out, these tumors recur and when they do, they recur with a vengeance

Dr. Ashish Kamat

In the muscle invasive space, where patients have muscle invasive bladder cancer, but they’re trying to save their bladder, a lot of research is being done on whether we can avoid a radical cystectomy. The treatment paradigm there is to give neoadjuvant therapy, whether it’s platinum-based with gemcitabine-cisplatin plus X, and then get the patient to where there is no tumor left in the bladder.

Traditionally, what’s happened is if you don’t take the patient’s bladder out, these tumors recur and when they do, they recur with a vengeance and get worse and then you’ve missed that window of opportunity. Now, with the improved tools that we have where we can use good cystoscopy bladder MRI, using circulating tumor DNA, there is data emerging — and it’s still being studied in a clinical paradigm though — that we might be able to select a subgroup of patients where it might be safe for them to get systemic therapy and not necessarily have the bladder removed. But that, again, to caution people, is a clinical trial paradigm.

One of the trials being done in that space is the MODERN study. Dr. Matt Galsky is the principal investigator for that. It’s great because that gets patients to see, “I’ve achieved this particular endpoint. Now, on a clinical trial, can I continue on and not have my bladder removed?” That’s the clinical trial part of it.

But in the actual clinic, we are looking to improve results for patients who want to have their bladder taken out. That’s where the NIAGARA protocol, which is using gemcitabine and cisplatin, which used to be used alone as a combination, but now you can combine this with durvalumab (Imfinzi), which is an IO (immuno-oncology). They give this to patients upfront, they undergo radical cystectomy, and you continue the durvalumab (Imfinzi) after the surgery.

This has improved their survival and it’s the first time that the overall survival has shown an improvement in patients who are undergoing radical cystectomy. For many years, we’ve used neoadjuvant therapy and the benefit to patients is about 5%. Nothing has improved upon that. People have tried. They’ve used different types of chemotherapy regimens, dose-dense MVAC (ddMVAC or methotrexate, vinblastine, doxorubicin, and cisplatin), spacing out chemotherapy, etc. This is the first time that this combination therapy has been shown in a randomized phase 3 study to improve overall survival for these patients. Clearly, it changes the treatment paradigm.

Again, in the interest of time, I’m not going to go into too much detail, but there’s so much in between that is being developed and has been developed. I encourage patients who are faced with the conundrum of having muscle invasive disease to ask their physicians. “I know that this is standard of care for me, but if it doesn’t work, what else do you have available?” Because there’s a lot of stuff that’s available.

Stephanie: Thank you. I’m glad you explained it all in a very concise way, given the time crunch. I do want to go back to some of these because when people are hearing about it, it’s great that they have the information, but there are lots of questions about efficacy and impact on quality of life. You’ve talked a lot about bladder sparing, which is a huge part of what we’ve heard in terms of questions from patients as well, since there is such a high degree of impact on them.

There doesn’t appear to be any major difference between the side effect profiles of one over the other.

Dr. Ashish Kamat

Are New Bladder Cancer Treatments Decreasing Side Effects?

Stephanie: Going back to non-muscle invasive, with gene therapy, you have different considerations. One of them is once every three months and the other is once every week for six weeks. What about side effect profiles? Are you seeing something much better in the one that’s in clinical trial now, for instance, for the quality of life for people?

Dr. Kamat: Again, it’s not as though the side effect profile is majorly different or better or worse in some ways. Patients who will get side effects, you’ll see that upfront. Most patients will have some localized side effects in the bladder, but they’re very manageable and very tolerable, especially since we can give patients antispasmodics, etc. But there doesn’t appear to be any major difference between the side effect profiles of one over the other.

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Understanding TAR-200 (“Pretzel” Device)

Stephanie: The pretzel device is novel and people will have questions about how this works. Do people go to the doctor or to the hospital and then it’s put in for them and it automatically releases the treatment? How often are you going back in? Is that indefinite or is there a particular amount of time that you’re supposed to have that pretzel device in?

Dr. Kamat: The way the clinical trials are designed is essentially the TAR-200 device, which we colloquially call the pretzel, is put in the bladder with a device that is like a catheter, so it’s not a major surgical procedure. It’s done under local anesthesia. You put it in the bladder and the patient keeps that in place.

Most patients will initially feel like there’s a little bit of a foreign body in there, but patients are, in some ways, used to it because they’ve had prior treatment and it’s something that you can easily treat with an antispasmodic. After a while, patients sometimes forget that they have this in there.

The TAR-200 device, which we colloquially call the pretzel, is put in the bladder with a device that is like a catheter, so it’s not a major surgical procedure. It’s done under local anesthesia.

Dr. Ashish Kamat

Now, in the early stages of treatment, the device has to be changed more often. They come in every three weeks and get the device changed. In the maintenance phase, it has to be changed roughly every three months, so they can leave it in there for that long.

It doesn’t bother most people. Sometimes we have to remind patients that they have a stent in place. We don’t want them to forget that they have it and never come back. Hopefully, that’s a good problem to have, but we don’t want them forgetting that they have it in there.

Like I said earlier, that’s where the discussion on personalized treatment with the patient comes in. Some patients are more than happy to come into the office every so often, while some don’t and prefer to come in once every three months. We’ll have different things to offer to patients, but if we look at the efficacy numbers, it looks like one of these newer agents that are not approved might end up with the best efficacy numbers. We don’t know that for sure yet.

Stephanie: We’re still waiting for that actual data.

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Understanding Treatment with EV + Pembrolizumab (EV+P)

Stephanie: Lastly, as we’re wrapping this, the EV+P, which you’re talking about, the ASCO and the standing ovation, can you put into perspective what this means for patients who typically were looking at pretty rough numbers before?

Dr. Kamat: Traditional first-line chemotherapy for patients was cisplatin-based chemotherapy. Many patients could not get cisplatin because of the various comorbidities that our older patients tend to have, especially those with bladder cancer, with prior smoking history, cardiac disease, etc., and they had to get non-cisplatin-based therapy. There was a lot of push to study IO therapies, like pembrolizumab (Keytruda), atezolizumab (Tecentriq), etc. Then the antibody-drug conjugate, which is enfortumab vedotin (Padcev), targets nectin-4.

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Long and short, this combination was studied in the patient population and compared head-to-head with standard chemotherapy, and clearly improved survival over standard chemotherapy. Now, it’s become the de facto first-line therapy for patients with metastatic disease.

But a caveat. It’s not available everywhere in the world. It’s expensive. There are many places in the world where patients still don’t have access to EV+P, or if they have access, it is something that can break the bank. Again, that’s a practical problem that we all face: resource allocation. Who gets the treatment? Who can get the treatment? Who can afford to get the treatment? But as long as the patient has access to it and it’s available and affordable, EV+P has become the de facto standard of care.

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Humanizing Clinical Trials

Stephanie: We’ve talked about clinical trials. Without going into the details of these specific trials, they’re something that a lot of people are not familiar with. What tends to be the way that you have found most effective in describing what a clinical trial is and why patients whom you bring this as an option to might want to consider it? How do you humanize the concept of a clinical trial to them?

Dr. Kamat: That’s a very important question. Patients need to understand that a clinical trial does not mean that they are being treated like guinea pigs. That’s the furthest from the truth. There are some patients who, unfortunately, don’t have any options because they haven’t responded to anything; at that point, it’s a matter of life or death. It’s either a clinical trial or nothing. But for most patients, that’s not the situation.

For patients in front of me who have different options available, but there’s a clinical trial in the space, what I tell them oftentimes is, “This particular agent that’s being studied in the clinical trial is something that we believe in. We know from early data in the preclinical space that it has good mechanistic reasons to maybe be better than the standard of care at some point. We don’t know that yet. We have to study it.”

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The advantage of taking part in the clinical trial for every patient is that they are at the forefront of the research, but they also get better care. If a patient is on a clinical trial, by definition, they are being followed very closely. There’s usually a nurse that’s assigned to them. Everybody’s looking at the pathology very carefully because the company doesn’t want any mistakes. We, as investigators, want to make sure patients are getting the best care across the board, but especially on a clinical trial because there’s that much scrutiny.

Patients need to understand that a clinical trial does not mean that they are being treated like guinea pigs. That’s the furthest from the truth.

Dr. Ashish Kamat

In some ways, the patients are most catered to in a clinical trial. There’s very little room for error. The pathology is often double-checked at a central pathology. Everything’s done on a well-defined protocol and schedule, and it’s made patient-friendly. I often tell patients, “If you take part in the clinical trial, you will be getting the highest standard of care of any patient that’s getting treated for a particular disease. And you’ll not only be helping yourself, but hopefully you’ll be helping inform the field and help other patients as well.”

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But we have to be practical. We always tell patients, “Clinical trials are a commitment. It’s not as though you can skip appointments. It’s not as though you can not take part in every part of it. If it’s too much of a social or financial burden, let us know upfront because there’s no obligation.”

I never want patients to feel that if they say no to a clinical trial that I’m recommending, I’m going to take it personally. No, not at all. It’s not a personal thing. It’s me trying to get them to take part in something that I think will help them. But if they can’t participate, they’re not going to hurt my feelings at all and they still will get treated.

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Conclusion

Stephanie: Dr. Kamat, thank you for spending time today with us and for everything you do for patients and care partners in this space. We appreciate it.

Dr. Kamat: It was my pleasure. Thank you so much.

Stephanie: I hope this conversation with Dr. Kamat helped you. Please feel free to share this discussion with others in your community.

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Take Charge of Your MPN: Tracking Symptoms & Advocating for Better Care

Take Charge of Your MPN

Tracking Symptoms & Advocating for Better Care


Living with an MPN (myeloproliferative neoplasm) brings challenges that aren’t always visible—but tracking your symptoms can make a powerful difference.

Take Charge of Your MPN: Tracking Symptoms & Advocating for Better Care
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Living with an MPN (myeloproliferative neoplasm) brings challenges that aren’t always visible and tracking your symptoms can make a powerful difference. In this free patient-led discussion, MPN advocates Ruth, Nick, and Demetria open up about what it means to live proactively with ET, PV, or MF.

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Introduction

Ruth Fein: This conversation is focused on living with myeloproliferative neoplasms, or MPNs, and how tracking symptoms can empower you to advocate for the care that you need or the care of a loved one.

My story spans over 30 years. I was initially diagnosed with essential thrombocythemia (ET), which transformed into polycythemia vera (PV), and then eventually became myelofibrosis (MF), which is what I have now. I’ve had several symptoms and I’ve been on a few different drug therapies along the way. I’ve had life-threatening clots and life-threatening bleeds, which, of course, conflict with each other.

Now, I’m on a clinical trial and doing great. They call me the poster child for this clinical trial and it’s been five and a half years. I’m always proud and happy to speak to other people living with MPNs, particularly since I didn’t know anyone else living with an MPN for the first 20 years that I had this disease.

Ruth Fein and husband Danny

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Meet Our Panel

Ruth: I’m joined by two other amazing people who also advocate for those living with MPNs.

Nick Napolitano: Hi, Ruth. My name is Nick. I’m a polycythemia vera patient. I was diagnosed in 2016, so I’m approaching the 10-year mark, which is a big deal. Like you, Ruth, I’ve experienced a range of symptoms throughout my journey — everything from itching to bone pain. I have experienced different treatment options and am currently on a drug, doing very well.

I’m a husband to my beautiful wife, Kara. I have two boys, Jake and Nick. They keep me very active.

Demetria J: I’m a wife, a mother, a mother, a business owner, and a coach and mentor. I’ve been a business owner for nearly 20 years. I initially started in the beauty industry and owned a nail salon. Then in 2021, I pivoted to salon suites and an event space. And then life happened.

I received a diagnosis of ET in 2018. I went through a series of different doctors and ended up at Emory in Atlanta, where the oncologist put me on a new medication that had just come out of clinical trials and was showing positive results. He believed that, at that point, I would benefit better from that.

Eventually, my levels began to level out. My platelet counts went down tremendously, so I thought we were in the clear. Then in 2023, I found out it had progressed to myelofibrosis. I was experiencing different symptoms, such as fatigue and stomach pain. I went to the emergency room, was given some pints of blood, and a diagnosis of myelofibrosis after having a bone marrow biopsy.

Ruth: Thank you both for being here. Let’s dive in.

Demetria J. myelofibrosis

What Were the First Symptoms of Your MPN?

Ruth: We’re talking about understanding symptoms and what to track. One of the main challenges with MPNs is that the symptoms are often subtle and can easily be mistaken for normal aging or other conditions, like menopause. Nick, what symptoms did you notice first? You alluded to a few, but what was the first symptom that prompted you to start tracking?

Nick: The itching, for sure. Like you mentioned, a lot of symptoms can be dismissed, like headaches and fatigue, but the itching stood out. It wasn’t something I experienced before, so that raised the red flag and made me start tracking and monitoring the details around when it would happen.

Demetria: Probably the fatigue. I have a high pain tolerance level and the fatigue that I experienced would probably get to most people, but it wasn’t getting to me. My adrenaline was running, being a mom, a wife, and a business owner. I had a very demanding life, so I was going and going, and not paying attention to my body as much as I probably should have been.

It wasn’t until the day before I went to urgent care. I was having bad stomach pain, which I now know was because of my enlarged spleen. My doctor informed me that when your bone marrow is not making enough white blood cells that the spleen will kick in and try to do the job of the bone marrow and that’s not its job. In the process, your spleen gets enlarged because it’s doing something that it is not designed to do.

That day, I also had some shortness of breath, which was very unusual for me because I usually don’t get out of breath. My body was sending me signs and I ignored them until it gave me a dire warning. “We can’t go anymore. Something needs attention.”

I want to know every little detail about what I’m feeling and then I use that as part of my conversation with my doctor.

Nick Napolitano,
Polycythemia Vera Patient & MPN Patient Advocate

Tracking Your MPN Symptoms

Ruth: What kinds of things do each of you track now to manage your MPN and how has that been helpful?

Nick: I track everything, but that’s me personally. I want to know every little detail about what I’m feeling and then use that in conversation with my doctor. I let my doctor tell me whether I’m crazy or not with respect to the symptoms I’m feeling. But I think it’s important to track everything.

So much of our disease is a journey over time. Things pop up and go away. I think you need to track everything and have the details around it. Make sure you’re communicating with your doctor because you never know what part of the journey or what symptoms you’re experiencing at any given time actually matter until you look at everything.

Demetria: I didn’t track symptoms until towards the end, maybe that last week before I received my myelofibrosis diagnosis. Each day, I was saying, “Wait a minute. I am really, really tired.” I would go to the grocery store, come back home, lie down, and would need to sleep for like an hour and a half.

The other thing I dismissed was a little bit of dizziness because I had just had a sinus infection, so they were thinking it was vertigo from the sinus infection. I thought everything was isolated and not related to one diagnosis. I thought they were all individual symptoms of something else.

The last week before receiving my diagnosis, I was noticing a little bit of progression. The fatigue was feeling a little bit more intense each day until that last day when I had severe stomach pain.

Ruth: How do you track symptoms? Is it through an electronic app or do you use a notebook?

Nick: It’s a combination of an app and a spreadsheet. I would say the most basic and useful tool for me is the notes app on my phone. I open it up almost daily and log stuff there. Then I use that as the basis for my conversations with my doctor. Everything is there between visits, so I can go over questions and things I notice.

It’s the fear of missing something that may play a role in changing the course of my disease or progression.

Nick Napolitano,
Polycythemia Vera Patient & MPN Patient Advocate

What Motivates You to Track Your Symptoms?

Ruth: Nick, what’s helped you be consistent with your tracking? What’s made it easier and what helps you remember to keep it up?

Nick: It’s fear, to be honest with you. It’s the fear of missing something that may play a role in changing the course of my disease or progression. I’m very fearful of not tracking something, going to a doctor’s appointment, and being asked, “Have you experienced this before?” And then having to say, “I don’t know. I haven’t been tracking it.” Then, realizing that it’s too late. Quite literally, it’s fear.

Ruth: That’s real.

Noticing Your Symptom Patterns

Ruth: Let’s talk about symptom patterns. Do you ever notice your symptoms come and go, get worse at certain times, or come in waves?

Demetria: I don’t know that I necessarily noticed any patterns. It was an everyday thing. I was starting to notice that the fatigue was increasing every day. I don’t necessarily know the time of day, whether it was in the morning or the evening. I just knew that when I woke up, I was fatigued. When I went to bed, I was fatigued. Throughout the day, I was fatigued.

It’s unpredictable… You don’t know what’s going to happen from one day to the next when it comes to symptoms.

Nick Napolitano,
Polycythemia Vera Patient & MPN Patient Advocate

Ruth: What about you, Nick? I assume that’s why you started tracking, because our symptoms do come and go. Do you ever notice that they get worse at certain times of the day or on certain days? What have you found in your tracking?

Nick: Yeah, I think that’s probably the most important part of tracking. I’ll give an example with itching. Itching was dormant for a while and then it popped up over the last couple of years. It’s not just random — it happens at certain times of the day. It pops up in the morning and at night, and then it goes away in between. When I take a shower, whether hot or cold, it pops up. When I roughhouse with my kids, the rubbing of my skin activates it. I used to have a lot of bone pain, but that’s gone.

One of the challenging parts of the disease is that sometimes it’s unpredictable. Things come and go. You don’t know what’s going to happen from one day to the next when it comes to symptoms.

Now I feel better prepared because I understand how important it is to pay attention to everything concerning your body.

Demetria J.,
Myelofibrosis Patient & MPN Patient Advocate

Tracking Symptoms to Better Inform Your Care Team

Ruth: I think that uncertainty is palpable. A lot of us experience anxiety and stress related to that. Does tracking ease some of that anxiety because it helps make sense of things, or is it the opposite? Do you see those ups and downs and worry more because of it?

Nick: That’s a great question. It helps me because I feel like I’m educated and prepared when I go to my meetings. I call them meetings with my doctor and I treat it very much like a work meeting. I want to have all the information I possibly can when walking into that meeting. I feel a little more prepared. Having the knowledge of the ups and downs, and maybe the reasons why, is very, very important for me.

Demetria: Yeah, absolutely. One of the things my transplant surgeon pushed for was for me to be very observant of my body, like skin changes, because not only in terms of cancer coming back, but also graft versus host disease with having the transplant. Sometimes your body can reject the transplant. They were huge proponents of me making sure that I am paying attention to everything — not just how I’m feeling, but any changes in my skin, my eyes, my throat, my ears, or my range of motion.

Now I feel better prepared because I understand how important it is to pay attention to everything concerning your body and to make sure that I am letting my care team know, so that we can be ahead of it to be more proactive instead of reactive. Sometimes those subtle things that we don’t pay attention to could absolutely be the start of something. If you catch it early enough, you can stay ahead of it.

Don’t think, ‘Oh, this is probably not related to this.’ Express everything that’s going on in your body.

Demetria J.,
Myelofibrosis Patient & MPN Patient Advocate

How Tracking Symptoms Can Inform MPN Treatment Options

Ruth Fein: Now we’re tracking our symptoms and thinking about when it’s important to share with our care teams. Has that directly led to any action or changes in your treatment? I’d love to hear any examples. We’re not talking about specific drugs, but has it led to a change in your treatment or your activities, Nick?

Nick: Yeah, for sure. I talked about the itching and brought that up with my doctor. We talked through the details of when it happens and when it doesn’t. He recommended a couple of different options and one in particular that has worked. I very much appreciated the dialogue and brainstorming. That’s one of the aspects I want from my doctor is brainstorming and idea generation. That’s been a life changer, to be honest with you.

Ruth: Tracking your symptoms and bringing that information to your health team can make a big difference. What tips do you have for talking openly, honestly, and clearly with your doctor and your entire care team about how you’re feeling? Do you have any specific tips? What helps you maintain an open conversation with your care team?

Demetria: One of the things, looking back, is I wish I hadn’t seen my symptoms as isolated incidents. I wish I had known to say to somebody, “I’m having these symptoms,” and list them all out, instead of thinking, “This may be related to the sinus infection. Maybe this is related to this.”

I wasn’t sharing with my oncologist or different people early on about other symptoms that seemed random. I didn’t mention those things when they could have been related to the progression of the disease. When working with your care team, it’s important to tell them everything that you’re feeling. Don’t think, “Oh, this is probably not related to this.” Express everything that’s going on in your body.

Ruth: Nick, do you have anything to add or something that specifically works for you to have an open and honest conversation with your practitioners?

Nick: I make sure that at the beginning of the appointment, we talk about how I’m feeling — mentally, physically, and symptom-wise. I try to talk about how I’m feeling in between visits. I’ve learned that doctors and caregivers want details. They’ll ask about what you’re experiencing and how you’re experiencing it. Coming prepared to the conversation right up front to talk about some of the details of what you’re feeling creates a nice dialogue with your doctor.

Ruth: It sounds like you have a perfect doctor because we’re always talking about how to have productive conversations with your doctor and care team. You’ve got it down and I’m sure our audience will learn something from that.

Nick: Ruth, I learned that over time. Believe me, I learned that over time. It’s not always perfect.

You can learn so much from other people’s experiences and gain real courage and support that way.

Nick Napolitano,
Polycythemia Vera Patient & MPN Patient Advocate

Ruth: Same here. And it’s not easy for everyone. You’re communicative, I’m communicative, but some people aren’t. We always encourage bringing a care partner, someone who can interact on their behalf or listen closely, especially if they might miss something the doctor says. For those who aren’t as outgoing or find it hard to share how they’re feeling, that care partner can step in and say, “Remember last week, when…” or add important details. All of that helps. Thanks for sharing that!

Nick: I totally agree. That’s exactly why programs like this are so important. Connecting with the patient community makes such a difference. You can learn so much from other people’s experiences and gain real courage and support that way.

How Has Tracking Symptoms Changed Your Treatment?

Ruth: As one more follow-up to that, has any of your tracking changed not just your treatment, but raised new concerns that you then brought to your doctor? Questions and answers that perhaps would not have come up before?

Nick: It was the tracking of phlebotomies when I was being treated solely with phlebotomies and the impact that was having on me physically. For a while, I was able to deal with them well, but over time, they affected my overall health and well-being. I wasn’t tolerating them as well as I had in the past, so we started talking about different options. Not only were they not making me feel well, but I was also getting them too often, which is usually a red flag with MPNs. That changed the conversation toward exploring different treatment options for my care.

Ruth: That speaks to how important it is, as a patient or patient advocate. Sometimes doctors ask us yes-or-no questions, like, “Are you doing well with your phlebotomies?” and it’s either yes or no. But if you expand on that and say, “Yes, I’m going, and yes, they’re helping my blood counts, but I’ve been experiencing this or that.” If a person living with MPN or their care partner doesn’t step in to add to that yes-or-no question, we don’t progress in our knowledge and, therefore, better care. Thanks for going there. It’s important for others living with MPNs to hear different experiences.

I’m a woman of faith, so I rely heavily on my belief in God. It has anchored me throughout my journey.

Demetria J.,
Myelofibrosis Patient & MPN Patient Advocate

Dealing with Fears About Your MPN Symptoms Returning

Ruth: Now, let’s talk about progression. It’s a topic nobody wants to face. Or maybe we all want to talk about it, but we don’t want to go there. We know MPNs can progress over time — for example, ET to PV, or for me, PV to MF, and MF can progress to acute myeloid leukemia (AML). That can bring up a lot of emotions, stress, and sleepless nights.

Sometimes we hear that sleeplessness is a side effect of living with an MPN, but I believe it’s not always a biological or molecular response from the disease itself. A lot of it is the stress. Personally, I don’t think about these things during the day, unless I’m doing a webinar like this. But when I close my eyes at night, that’s when everything starts swirling and it keeps me from sleeping.

It’s important to talk about the balance between facing reality, staying present, and being grounded in daily life. We don’t want anxiety or stress to take over, but it’s also important to acknowledge that it’s real. I believe it’s equally important for others to acknowledge that it’s real because sometimes we feel misunderstood. Demetria, are you worried about MPN symptoms coming back?

Demetria: I’m a woman of faith, so I rely heavily on my belief in God. It has anchored me throughout my journey. I don’t believe in crossing over into fear. It’s healthy to have concern and caution about things, but I try not to go too far into the future because that’s when anxiety sometimes can arise, because you’re thinking about the what-ifs. And sometimes the what-ifs never happen.

For me, I rely on my track record that God has always pulled me through. I believe that if something else were to arise, because I’m anchored in that belief that I’m taking care of spiritually, that it’s going to be okay. Sometimes we do have to go through journeys and valleys, but it’s how you respond to those valleys that makes the difference.

Ruth: Nick, what about you? How do you balance living in the moment and not worrying about progression? I also wonder: have you talked with your doctors about this? Because some doctors don’t always ask about mental health or make that connection, while others do.

Nick: I’ve been very open and public about some of the mental health struggles that I went through, especially early on. It was a very shocking and confusing diagnosis. I kept everything inside. I didn’t communicate at all with my wife or my family, and it was deteriorating my mental health.

What helped me was communicating. I communicated a little bit better with my wife. I did that through a documentary that I did, which was life-changing, to be quite honest with you. It wasn’t necessarily about the documentary, but it was about getting involved in the cause. It made me feel like I was doing something to help. You quickly realize that it’s not about you. There’s a greater cause out there. There are other people that you can help by sharing your story and communicating, and that was the turning point for me.

Connect with other patients. It’s so life-changing to speak with someone who is going through something similar and may have a different perspective.

Nick Napolitano,
Polycythemia Vera Patient & MPN Patient Advocate

I did seek professional help. I remember going to the emergency room a couple of times because of the anxiety pains that I had, which I thought then was a heart attack. At that point, everything was all bottled up inside. Again, that was another pivot point to seek professional help.

Both of those things were life-changing. I talk about this all the time: don’t be afraid to communicate. You have to communicate because it is a release point. Get help and also connect with other patients. It’s so life-changing to speak with someone who is going through something similar and may have a different perspective. It is valuable.

Ruth: All of that is thanks to the internet. Obviously, when I was diagnosed 30 years ago, the internet was in its infancy. I didn’t have resources like The Patient Story, which are invaluable for those of us living with any chronic disease, particularly chronic cancer and an MPN.

Primarily my husband and then my mother… With both of them on my team, things that I didn’t say, didn’t know to say, or forgot to say, they would jump right in to say those things for me.

Demetria J.,
Myelofibrosis Patient & MPN Patient Advocate

How Care Partners Can Help You Track Symptoms

Ruth: Let’s move on to the role of care partners in symptom tracking. Do either of you have someone helping you track symptoms or notice changes that you might miss?

Demetria: Primarily my husband and then my mother. My mother has a background in the medical field. Sometimes she would accompany me on my visits and would ask questions that I may not have known to ask because of her background.

When I had my bone marrow transplant, I had to have a caregiver with me. My mother and my husband alternated because I had to go to another city to have the bone marrow transplant, which was two hours away from where we lived. My daughter at the time was 10, so he had to navigate caring for her as well as caring for me.

They were some of my biggest supporters. I remember one doctor visit. I was starting to itch a little bit. I hadn’t said anything to my oncologist about it and he said, “You need to tell him about the itching.” The doctor asks, “What about the itching?” I said, “Yeah, I’m having a little bit of itching.” With both of them on my team, things that I didn’t say, didn’t know to say, or forgot to say, they would jump right in to say those things for me.

Kara, my wife, is my caregiver and I don’t know where I’d be without her… She’ll ask me questions to make sure that I’m being honest about what I’m going to talk to the doctor about.

Nick Napolitano,
Polycythemia Vera Patient & MPN Patient Advocate

Ruth: I know a lot of times people will go to their doctor and say, “No, I’ve been fine.” “Are you fatigued?” “No.” “Have you been tired?” “No.” Then the care partner says, “Well, we’ve had to rest a lot when we’ve gone on our two-mile walks every morning or when going up the stairs.” People in our lives play a role that I think is important. Have there been times when your caregiver noticed something you hadn’t picked up on at all yet?

Nick: Kara, my wife, is my caregiver and I don’t know where I’d be without her. We do a lot of communicating now. I’ve mentioned that I treat the doctor appointments like business meetings, so I will prep with her by going over my notes and what I’m feeling. She’ll ask me questions to make sure that I’m being honest about what I’m going to talk to the doctor about. Then we’ll do a debrief about what the doctor said, what the numbers looked like, and everything in between.

I give her a lot of credit for this. I was having trouble with my vision. I’ve had blurry vision before, but all of a sudden, I was having issues seeing. Everything was coming up blurry and she says, “You’ve been on a certain drug for a while. Do you think that has any effect? Why don’t you bring it up to your doctor?” Lo and behold, it does. There is an impact taking certain drugs with your vision. She’s fantastic. She’s a lot smarter than I am, so I rely on her a lot.

His presence and being willing to sacrifice to go through the journey with me were enough for me.

Demetria J.,
Myelofibrosis Patient & MPN Patient Advocate

Ruth: Demetria, how does your care partner support you emotionally, particularly when you’re dealing with anxiety?

Demetria: Surprisingly, my husband and I have had these kinds of conversations, and he said that the way that I was so calm and remained calm through all of this helped him to stay calm. People look at the husband as the protector, as the one to shoulder the emotional burden to keep the household calm. But he shared that he watched me and how calm I was, which helped him. He felt as if there was nothing he could do to help me in terms of getting through this. We had to work through the process.

There is an emotional and mental component to someone simply being there. It makes you feel confident. It feels like you are seen. He sees me. He sees that I’m going through this. I feel secure because he’s here. He’s not leaving me by myself to go through this journey. Even though he may not have offered any specific emotional or mental help in the traditional sense, his presence and being willing to sacrifice to go through the journey with me were enough for me.

I heard from an MPN doctor that if we ask every person living with MPN if they were willing to participate in a study, 90-something percent would probably say yes.

Ruth Fein Revell,
Myelofibrosis Patient & MPN Patient Advocate

Participating in Clinical Trials

Ruth: We’re moving on to clinical trials and looking ahead, which is important because some of the best drugs for MPNs are still in clinical trials. I like to say that clinical trials are no longer a last resort and I’m a perfect example of that. I’ve been in one for five and a half years, and I’m doing extraordinarily well on that trial.

There are challenges, however. I have to go back and forth 3.5 hours each way to the major academic center where I’m being seen, but I’m having a life-changing result, and to me, that’s worth it. By the same token, not everyone has access to clinical trials, which is difficult, and we acknowledge that.

Has your doctor ever brought up the idea of clinical trials as part of your treatment plan? I heard from an MPN doctor that if we ask every person living with MPN if they were willing to participate in a study, 90-something percent would probably say yes. The only obstacle is that they’re not asked. What about you, Demetria? Have you ever been offered a clinical trial?

Demetria: I haven’t ever been asked. But I have been told about them, especially when I was at Emory, because they do participate in a lot of clinical trials. The conversation was, “If this medication does not work well for you, then we could look at putting you in a clinical trial.”

He heard of a diet study that Dr. Angela Fleischman was doing to take a look at the Mediterranean diet and the impact that it has on MPNs. He thought that would be of interest to me.

Nick Napolitano,
Polycythemia Vera Patient & MPN Patient Advocate

Ruth: What about you, Nick? Is that something you’ve been asked about?

Nick: I will answer this a little bit differently. When I first got diagnosed, I focused on my diet. I tried to take out a lot of the inflammatory foods I was eating and made that a focus of my overall care. My doctor knew that at the time because I talked about that openly with him.

He heard of a diet study that Dr. Angela Fleischman was doing to take a look at the Mediterranean diet and the impact that it has on MPNs. He thought that would be of interest to me, so I participated in it and it was nothing short of fantastic. It validated some of the things that I was doing were correct, but also exposed some of the things that I wasn’t doing, and some of the nutrients and proteins that I wasn’t getting based on my diet, and iron. We don’t need too much iron as MPN patients, obviously, but we need a base level of iron.

It was great and it was educational for me. It’s important for people to know that those kinds of studies are out there, outside of the drug clinical trials that we typically see.

Ruth: Thanks for mentioning that. Dr. Fleischman’s studies are interesting. We can learn a lot, not just from the Mediterranean diet, but from the Mediterranean diet’s influence, if you will — picking and choosing what works for us, but understanding inflammation’s effect on MPNs.

Have an open dialogue throughout your care with your doctor. I never want to feel complacent with where I’m at in my care.

Nick Napolitano,
Polycythemia Vera Patient & MPN Patient Advocate

Considering Clinical Trials in the Future

Ruth: If you were asked, whether it’s today or when things change, what would your care team be able to do to make you feel comfortable exploring a clinical trial?

Nick: For me, it starts before talking about the clinical trial. I feel like you need to have an open dialogue throughout your care with your doctor. I never want to feel complacent with where I’m at in my care, so I’m constantly challenging my doctor. What’s out there? What can we be doing differently, if anything? What’s on the horizon? What if this happens, what do we do? Those are the type of questions that I ask my doctor, maybe every other appointment, and brainstorm.

If you’re having those discussions, it makes that conversation about clinical trials a little bit easier and more comfortable because you’ve already talked about it. Starting with having a regular cadence of talking about the what-ifs and what we could do if things change will help with the conversation about clinical trials and ultimately participating in them.

Ruth: Totally agree. Sometimes we have that conversation long enough that the clinical trial becomes an approved drug, and we don’t have to have that conversation anymore.

If there were newer things out there or that are coming, I want to be in the know and figure out how I can benefit.

Demetria J.,
Myelofibrosis Patient & MPN Patient Advocate

Doing Your Own Research on Clinical Trials

Ruth: Have either of you ever come across a clinical trial in your own research that seemed interesting, but you didn’t know how to move forward or how to talk to your doctors about it?

Nick: I would say I think that’s where the communication part comes in with the patient community. Also, with organizations like The Patient Story, they can get you resources and someone to talk to to further vet that out, and then ultimately maybe find an MPN expert to talk through that in a little bit more detail.

Demetria: Initially, when I was diagnosed with ET, I was very young. I was about 34 when I was diagnosed. I did some research on the medication that she put me on and said to her, “My husband and I may still want to have children, and this medication is not going to fare well if that is the case.”

I researched some new medications and clinical trials that were out. There was one particular doctor whom I mentioned to her that I saw was making headway and introducing new concepts and treatment plans. I asked her, “Is there a way that you can see if these things would work for me?” I didn’t feel like she was willing to do anything other than what she suggested, so that’s how I ended up at Emory.

This is my life. I have to be an advocate for my life. I have a husband and a daughter. I want to live. And if there were newer things out there or that are coming, I want to be in the know and figure out how I can benefit from the newer things that could be better than what she was offering.

All options are on the table. I want to live as long as I possibly can and I will do whatever is necessary to make that happen.

Nick Napolitano,
Polycythemia Vera Patient & MPN Patient Advocate

Ruth: If things change, Nick, are you open to participating in a drug clinical trial, if at some point that becomes the right choice for you?

Nick: Of course. The way I look at my disease and the care is that all options are on the table. I want to live as long as I possibly can and I will do whatever is necessary to make that happen.

Ruth: Thank you for sharing that. I will just add that science is advancing at unprecedented speeds. Thirty years ago, things were so different. Twenty years ago, ten years ago, even five years ago, for that matter. Within the last two or three years, our options have expanded exponentially. The longer we’re well enough to live a good quality of life while we wait for new and better treatments to come along, those decades add up, and that’s a good thing.

Do not think that any symptom is too insignificant. Track everything and let your doctor tell you whether you have to worry about a particular symptom or not.

Nick Napolitano,
Polycythemia Vera Patient & MPN Patient Advocate

Final Words of Advice

Ruth: To move on to final reflections, what advice would you give to someone who was just diagnosed with an MPN about tracking symptoms specifically? Is there anything you’ve learned over time about how to talk to your doctors so they hear what’s going on and see that you’re a knowledgeable patient?

Nick: I would say track it all. Do not think that any symptom is too insignificant. Track everything and let your doctor tell you whether you have to worry about a particular symptom or not.

Be prepared for your doctor’s appointments. Do the research. Communicate how you’re feeling. Be open-minded with treatment options. Be open-minded in getting the care that you need, whether it’s an MPN expert or a mental health expert, if you’re struggling with that. But be open-minded, please.

Demetria: I would say to pay attention. Life is fast. I call this the microwave generation. We do everything fast. We want everything fast. And sometimes when you’re moving as fast as I was, you don’t get a chance to pay attention to what’s going on inside of you. Sometimes when you’re driving on the highway, you’re going so fast that you can’t see anything. But if you’re on the back roads, you have to slow down. You can’t go fast, but you’re able to see the scenery. When you slow down, you can pay attention to see what’s going on.

Sometimes, we need to slow down to pay attention and be intentional about looking at ourselves, looking at our bodies, and evaluating how we feel. How long have I been feeling this way? Don’t discount it as a fluke or an isolated incident. Take it seriously. Take it to your doctors and find out what’s going on so you can live.

Sometimes, we need to slow down to pay attention and be intentional about looking at ourselves, looking at our bodies, and evaluating how we feel.

Demetria J.,
Myelofibrosis Patient & MPN Patient Advocate

Conclusion

Ruth: Thank you so much, Nick and Demetria, for sharing so openly. Your stories are powerful reminders of how even small steps, like tracking symptoms and writing them down, can have a big impact and make a real difference in managing your health.

We’d like to also thank our audience. If you’re living with MPN or caring for someone who is, we hope that this discussion has left you feeling more informed, supported, and empowered, and a little less invisible and misunderstood.

We want to thank our sponsors, Incyte and Karyopharm, for their support of our independent educational program. This allows us to be able to do more content like this one and at no cost to you. The Patient Story always retains full editorial control. While we hope that this is helpful, this is not a substitute for medical advice. Please still consult your own healthcare teams when making your healthcare decisions.

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Symptoms: Night sweats, severe itching, abdominal pain, bone pain

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Treatments: Phlebotomy, aspirin

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Symptoms: None, caught at routine physical
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From Confusing Symptoms to Motherhood and Advocacy: Taja’s Polycythemia Vera Story

From Confusing Symptoms to Motherhood and Advocacy: Taja’s Polycythemia Vera Story

Living with polycythemia vera, a rare myeloproliferative neoplasm, changed Taja’s path entirely. She was diagnosed in 2015 after fainting spells and abnormal lab results. For months, doctors dismissed her concerns, telling her she was too young for cancer. By tracking her own labs and bringing them to a clinical director, she finally received the correct diagnosis.

Interviewed by: Ruth Fein Revell
Edited by: Katrina Villareal

At the same time, Taja was caring for her grandmother with pancreatic cancer. Experiencing illness both as a patient and a caregiver shaped her belief that gratitude reveals hidden beauty, even during pain and uncertainty.

Taja S. polycythemia vera

When told she could not safely become pregnant, Taja and her husband sought specialists and pursued IVF (in vitro fertilization) during the COVID pandemic. Their efforts succeeded and they welcomed their daughter, Miracle. Afterward, her disease accelerated and she underwent a bone marrow transplant with her father as the donor.

Though the transplant caused ongoing side effects, Taja chooses to use her voice through Miracle Circle Hands, an advocacy group that supports people with invisible illnesses. Her hope is to show that even in hardship, life can still offer light and connection.

Key Story Takeaways
  • Self-advocacy can be life-saving when symptoms are overlooked or dismissed.
  • Gratitude became Taja’s core practice, helping her find meaning through illness.
  • IVF gave her and her husband the chance to welcome their daughter, Miracle, despite doubts from doctors.
  • The bone marrow transplant brought difficult side effects but also a path forward.
  • Taja transformed her experience into advocacy, creating support networks for others with invisible illnesses.

  • Name: Taja S.
  • Age at Diagnosis:
    • 23
  • Diagnosis:
    • Polycythemia Vera (PV)
  • Symptoms:
    • Chronic fatigue
    • Fainting
    • Stroke-like episodes
    • Elevated hemoglobin, hematocrit, and platelet count
  • Treatments:
    • Emergency surgery for ruptured cyst & bowel obstruction
    • Chemotherapy
    • Radiation
    • Bone marrow transplant
Taja S. polycythemia vera

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Meet Taja

Friends and family describe me as compassionate, caring, and someone with a giving heart. I am very concerned about others, often less about myself.

When My First Symptoms Started

During my junior year of college, I was working two jobs. I was feeling off and not feeling like myself. I had multiple visits to emergency room doctors, primary care doctors, and a GI specialist (gastroenterologist).

Taja S. polycythemia vera
Jeremy S. polycythemia vera

The GI doctor wasn’t concerned about any gut issues, but he pulled up some lab work and he was extremely concerned about my red blood cells, my hemoglobin, my hematocrit, and my platelet count. At that time, I was working for the bone marrow transplant unit at a children’s hospital, which was pretty amazing and is why I’m where I am today.

My numbers were extremely high and very alarming, so I went to my primary care doctor and said, “I went to my GI doctor and he was extremely concerned.” But she blew me off, said that I was too young, and that there was nothing to worry about. She said it was probably an infection, so she would put me on antibiotics and I should be fine, and everything should level out. Afterward, I went back to my daily routine of going to school and work.

Then I had a car accident where I blacked out, which was alarming and extremely concerning. It wasn’t like I was deprived of sleep or it wasn’t my routine. At that point, I took it upon myself to do some research within my chart. I pulled some labs and got a visual of exactly what I was dealing with.

I was a health unit coordinator and doing a clinical rotation for social work. I brought my labs to the doctor, and then she looked at me and said, “You need to leave right now. You need to go see my husband,” who was also a hematologist. One of my coworkers took me straight to see him. He looked over my labs and gave me an idea that something was definitely going on, but he wasn’t quite sure what. But he drew some labs, did a full work-up and a week later, on February 14, 2015, I was diagnosed with polycythemia vera.

Taja S. polycythemia vera
Taja S. polycythemia vera

When Life Throws Everything at You at Once

My grandmother was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer around the time that I was diagnosed. At that time, her diagnosis was considered to be a death sentence. They told her that she had six months to live. But I took it upon myself to be there for her as much as I could, even while being in my last year of college and trying to be there for my family.

I was experiencing headaches and feeling fatigued. I couldn’t figure out what was wrong with me. I felt completely off. I was having fevers here and there. I was also having itchy skin and redness. Showers would bother me. I was getting extremely frustrated. But outside of that, I was so concerned about my grandmother and being there for her. I didn’t feel as if my family was on the same page, so I found myself overextending myself to make sure that I was there for my grandmother.

She was planning on retiring soon. One day, I noticed her eyes were yellow, so I asked her, “Why are your eyes yellow? Have you been at work all day and no one told you your eyes were yellow?” We were supposed to go to a family outing and I said, “No, we’re going to the emergency room.” Within that hour or two of being in the emergency room, she was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer.

Taja S. polycythemia vera
Taja S. polycythemia vera

Could I Start My Own Family?

I was told that pregnancy wasn’t an option and that I shouldn’t get pregnant because it wasn’t safe for me. At the time, research studies were very limited, so I didn’t have much information on what would happen if I were to bear a child. I got a second opinion at the hospital where I was at the time and they told me the same thing.

I went to my hematologist at the time because my fiancé and I were discussing it with her. After all, we were concerned about having children and we both wanted to have children, but she was totally against it. She said, “No, I don’t advise it.” She was so concerned.

I don’t think there’s enough conversation around reproductive health when it comes to women who have either had cancer or have been through cancer treatment. There are options.

My husband and I are faith-based people and understand that God has the last say. We went and did our due diligence and research, so we went to a reproductive specialist to get a second opinion. They did share some concerns with me about having children, but it wasn’t impossible, so we went through the IVF process. They told us, “This usually doesn’t happen on the first try, so don’t be upset if it doesn’t happen for you,” and put an emphasis on that. Knowing who God is and my relationship with God and how I’ve always tried to align who I am with God’s purpose, I put it in His hands.

We started the IVF process and did it during the COVID-19 pandemic, so a lot of the things were done at home. My husband and I did the process together, which was pretty amazing. He did all my shots and went to all the appointments.

After they did the implantation of the embryo, two weeks later, I found out I was pregnant.

Taja S. polycythemia vera
Taja S. polycythemia vera

Navigating My Pregnancy While Having Cancer

What’s funny, which I thought was eye-opening, was that during my pregnancy, my condition became dormant. I had no symptoms of polycythemia vera. All my numbers were normalized, which was pretty cool. I would go in weekly for labs and everything was normal throughout my pregnancy. No issues at all. No signs of stroke and no headaches. All I had were the typical pregnancy symptoms.

First, they told me that I couldn’t have children. Then, I had her, but I went through a traumatic experience of having a cyst rupture while six weeks pregnant and in the midst of COVID. Then they told me that our child may not live through the procedure. Her making it to this world was the main reason we call her Miracle. And she’s every bit of her name.

My Disease Progressed After Having Our Baby

Right after having our daughter, Miracle, my disease went haywire. Weeks after giving birth, my numbers skyrocketed. My platelet count was in the 2 million range weekly. They were also doing plateletpheresis (a procedure where platelets are separated from whole blood and collected) weekly. At the start of the week, I would have plateletpheresis and I would go down to a normal range, but by the end of the week, my platelet count was back to 2 million.

Taja S. polycythemia vera
Taja S. polycythemia vera

At that point, life-threatening things could occur. My hematologist said, “There’s no other option outside of having a bone marrow transplant.” He wanted me to understand exactly what would happen.

They started the process of preparing me for transplant, but mentally, I thought that we should probably speed it up. They felt that as well because my platelets continued to be in the 2 million range and a high number of platelets can cause clotting. They said that my blood was like syrup. Whenever they would draw blood for my labs, it would clot in the tube, which created an issue for them as they needed to do my labs weekly and had to repeat draws over and over.

Making the Decision to Do a Stem Cell Transplant

I had no options other than a stem cell transplant. I wouldn’t wish it on anyone. Being a person of color, I had no donors. There were no matches.

I had my bone marrow transplant at 29 years old. Having a transplant at 29 came with many uncertainties, especially not knowing whether I would ever be able to have children. Thankfully, because we decided to do IVF, my eggs had already been retrieved and frozen. However, for many young women who undergo a bone marrow transplant, things move so quickly that there’s often no time to consider fertility preservation.

Taja S. polycythemia vera
Taja S. polycythemia vera

In my case, if I hadn’t had Miracle when I did, I wouldn’t have had the chance to freeze my eggs at all. My only choices were to proceed with the transplant or not survive. My experience taught me how crucial it is for women to take charge of their reproductive health early in life, because without that foresight, I may never have had the option to have children.

After I had my transplant, my body was thrown into menopause. My hormones are completely shot. I don’t have a sex drive whatsoever and I’m only 34, which is hard being married. Being a woman, it’s hard for your hormones to be off because you experience moodiness, hot flashes, and irregularities within your body. It’s extremely difficult. I’ve spent a lot of time researching different options, trying to understand what might work best or be most helpful for me.

I will be forever grateful that I was able to have the transplant and that I’m here, but it’s definitely stressful to be in this space now. The uncertainty I faced before the transplant — wondering whether I would survive or not — still weighs more heavily on me than where I am today. I’m extremely grateful that I did the transplant, but it has taken a toll on my mental health. I now try to raise awareness and help others understand the challenges that come with the experience.

Life After a Stem Cell Transplant

During my transplant, I had to go on disability. After a year, like many corporate organizations, they put someone else in my role. I eventually went on full disability and haven’t been able to return to work, as it’s been one challenge after another. However, following my heart and pursuing what I believe I was meant to do led me to create the organizations I now run, allowing me to give back to the community and find purpose again. While I’m a mother and a caregiver, I still feel a deep desire to do more because I believe my voice and experiences have meaning and need to be heard.

In my advocacy work, I focus on starting those uncomfortable but necessary conversations. Yes, the main goal is to save your life, but what happens after the transplant? What does life look like then? I believe those are the kinds of questions that need to be discussed from the very beginning.

Taja S. polycythemia vera
Taja S. polycythemia vera

From the research I’ve done, I’ve learned that many marriages end either during or after a transplant, which is partly because families and loved ones aren’t given enough information upfront about what to expect. Mental health support is so important from the very start. I truly believe it’s essential to find a therapist, counselor, or someone who can help you navigate those challenges — whether that means starting antidepressants or just having someone ready to talk about it.

During my transplant, I was on antidepressants and even then, it was very lonely. No one really prepares you for that part. You feel completely isolated because no one can truly understand what you’re going through except for another patient. But since you’re immunocompromised, you can’t even connect with them in person. I lost a lot of friends during that time; they just disappeared and no one warned me that might happen. Honestly, there should be a survey asking, “After your transplant, what did you go through? How did you feel? What could we do differently?”

Right now, I’m focusing on helping others in the community, not just myself. I previously had an organization called “Invisible to the Eye,” but I’m now in the process of creating “Miracles Circle Hands.” This new organization is all about building advocacy in the community, not only for those living with invisible illnesses, but also for seniors. I’m dedicated to speaking up for those who can’t advocate for themselves.

Taja S. polycythemia vera
Taja S. polycythemia vera

I named the organization after my daughter because she’s truly been our miracle. The “Circle Hands” part represents the idea of coming together — when you’re advocating for people, you’re out in the community connecting resources and joining hands to make sure patients, loved ones, or anyone in need gets the support they deserve. To make that possible, we have to create a safe space where people feel comfortable being vulnerable and sharing what they’re really going through. Unfortunately, many individuals are taken advantage of — whether because of illness or age — and I want to be someone who steps in to help. My goal is to show families, loved ones, and people in the community that they’re not alone, that someone truly cares, and that there are resources available to help them find their way.

My Message of Hope

My hope is simply to wake up each day. I hope to pour back into others and to do what My Father did for me: give someone else another chance at life, something I’ll always be grateful for. I remind myself every day that the more grateful your heart, the more beauty you see, and I truly live by that. Even though I face challenges, I’m thankful to still be here. The more gratitude I have, the bigger my heart feels, and the more I can give back to my community and serve others. I also want people to know that there is light at the end of the tunnel. Yes, there are ups and downs, but that’s part of life. And when you finally reach that mountaintop, you realize you’ve triumphed. I was told many times that I wouldn’t still be here, but I am.

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Taja S. polycythemia vera
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