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Living with an Ostomy: Discovering Confidence, Community & Choices

Navigating Life with an Ostomy: Tips from Patients and Medical Experts

Undergoing an ostomy procedure involves major changes. To offer guidance, The Patient Story hosted a live discussion with colorectal cancer patients Amy Hart and Jason Randall, who both have ostomies, along with Dr. Vanessa Wookey, a gastrointestinal oncologist from Fox Chase Cancer Center

From their real-life expertise, they offer practical advice about living with an ostomy, from diet and clothing tips to cleaning and skincare. Plus, Amy and Jason share how they wear an ostomy with body-positive confidence.

Living with an Ostomy full video conversation

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9cSK97yVCN8

What is an Ostomy?

An ostomy is a surgical procedure that brings a section of the intestine or urinary system through an opening (stoma) in the abdomen. Waste passes through the stoma into an external pouch or ostomy bag attached to the skin. 

Ostomies allow the bowels or bladder to function after injury, disease, or birth defects. Reasons for getting one include colorectal cancer, Crohn’s disease, bladder issues, and birth abnormalities according to the United Ostomy Associations of America, Inc.

Catherine has an ostomy and shares her experience.

“You can still do everything you could do before. You can swim and go in hot tubs. You can do everything. It’s not limiting like you might think it is. There’s so many different kinds of bags you can use, so figuring out what’s best for you is a process.”

Catherine P.| Explore her Stage 3 Adenocarcinoma Rectal Cancer Story

Seeking Support for Daily Living Tips

Jason, who has had both an ileostomy and colostomy, highly recommends joining an ostomy support community. “It’s really helpful to ask people questions and dive into the more in-depth stuff,” he says.  

Amy, who shares her experiences online, agrees. “Seeing other people, maybe four years down the road, allows you to see what your life could look like after this massive change.”

Dr. Wookey stresses the value of connecting with those living with ostomies day-to-day: “The best thing patients want is someone who can help them figure out some of the troubleshooting.”

Finding the Right Bag System

There are various ostomy pouching systems available. Jason emphasizes trying different products patiently to see what works best. 

“What one person may work well for them, may not work for another person,” he explains. He started with a two-piece system but found a one-piece pouch simpler.

Amy switched her ostomy bag based on a friend’s recommendation. “It worked out great,” she says. Reaching out to manufacturers for samples helps find the optimal ostomy bag.

Jason modeling for On The Rise, a Colon Club magazine

“Any closed system is not a good idea if you have an ileostomy, because you’d be changing it all day long. Whereas with a colostomy, it’s a little more predictable. It’s easier to manage. People tend to go with closed systems for convenience. 

I used to be a 2-piece ostomy person for both my ileostomy and my colostomy. I’ve had about 2 years of colostomy and 3 months of ileostomy. With the colostomy, I’ve gone down to a 1-piece system.”

Jason Randall | Explore Jason’s Stage 4 Colorectal Cancer Story

Diet Tips

According to Dr. Wookey, there’s no singular best ostomy diet. She advises starting with a low-fiber, low-fat diet after surgery and then slowly reintroducing foods. 

Amy adds, “I eat everything. I just introduced it in small quantities and with a lot of liquids.” She stresses thoroughly chewing food to aid digestion.

Jason recommends tuning into your body’s signals if certain foods cause discomfort. He takes supplements to relieve symptoms of obstruction when needed.

Preventing Leaks and Skin Irritation 

To prevent ostomy pouch leaks, Jason uses special rings around the stoma opening for protection. “Getting a pre-cut bag and not cutting it yourself creates a much better seal,” he says.

For skin irritation, Dr. Wookey advises gentle cleaning around the stoma: “Using just water or a gentle soap is really the most you need.” See your doctor for significant redness or wounds.

Ostomy Clothing Tips

“My life as far as using the bathroom is altered but the only part that’s really impacted by that is the part that happens when I close the door and no one’s in there with me.

[As] life does, it takes a really long time for it to re-settle down, but it does settle back down.”

Amy Hart. | Read Amy’s Stage 3B Colorectal Cancer Story

Amy suggests stretchy, high-waisted clothing styles to accommodate ostomy pouches. She also wears bike shorts under dresses for security. 

For men, Jason fuses a belt called Stealth Belt to keep his pouch securely in place during activity. This also helps prevent abdominal hernias.

Life after ostomy surgery involves adjustments. But support groups, finding optimal products, and an adaptable mindset makes thriving with an ostomy completely possible.

Colorectal Cancer Stories

 

Shannon M., Colon Cancer, Stage 1




Cancer Details:
Found the cancer as a result of her Lynch Syndrome
1st Symptoms: Routine colonoscopy found polyp
Treatment: Partial colectomy

Hugo T., Colon Cancer, Stage 1



Cancer Details: Diagnosed 2 weeks after 5 years remission from testicular cancer
1st Symptoms: Inflamed bowel
Treatment: Subtotal colectomy, immunotherapy

Rachel B., Sigmoid Colon Cancer, Stage 1



Cancer Details: The sigmoid colon (or pelvic colon) is the part of the large intestine that is closest to the rectum
1st Symptoms: Stomach discomfort, nausea, bloating, blood in stool
Treatment: Colectomy

Chris T., Colon Cancer, Stage 2



Cancer Details: Discovered Lynch Syndrome after genetic testing
1st Symptoms: Found the cancer as a result of family history, early colonoscopy
Treatment: Partial colectomy

Shannon C., Colon Cancer, Stage 2A



Cancer Details: Diagnosed at 29, tested positive for Lynch Syndrome
1st Symptoms: Severe pains after eating
Treatment: Partial colectomy
Barbara smiling

Barbara M., Colon Cancer, Stage 3



Cancer Details: Family history wasn’t flagged, should have had colonoscopy earlier
1st Symptoms: Stomach discomfort, difficult to process food
Treatment: Colectomy, Chemo (FOLFOX, CAPOX)

Shelley B., Colon Cancer, Stage 3B



Cancer Details: Had no usual first symptoms, found as a result of routine colonoscopy and endoscopy
1st Symptoms: None
Treatment:Partial colectomy, chemotherapy (FOLFOX)
Lindsay

Lindsay D., Colon Cancer, Stage 4



Cancer Details: Diagnosed at 32, cancer spread to ovary and lung
1st Symptoms: Lump in pelvic area, funny-smelling food, weight loss
Treatment: Chemotherapy, colectomy (surgery)
Lee

Lee J., Colon Cancer, Stage 4, Recurrence



Cancer Details: Recurrence then remission
1st Symptoms: Discovered stage 4 cancer from unrelated CT scan
Treatment: Neoadjuvant chemo (FOLFOX), hemicolectomy (partial colon surgery), adjuvant chemo (FOLFOX), chemo post-recurrence (FOLFIRI), liver surgery

JJ S., Colorectal Cancer, Stage 4



Age at Diagnosis: 27l



1st Symptoms: Abdominal pain, blood in stool



Treatment: Surgery to remove tumor, chemotherapy, clinical trial of Keytruda (pembrolizumab)
Haley P. feature profile

Haley P., Colon Cancer, Stage 3C



Symptoms: Constipation, fatigue, shortness of breath
Treatment: Surgery, chemotherapy
Amanda G. feature profile

Amanda G., Colon Cancer, Stage 2A



Symptoms: Gurgly stomach, blood in stool, chronic constipation
Treatment: Surgery (hemicolectomy), chemotherapy (CAPOX), Zarxio
Jason Randall describes his colon cancer journey
Jason R., Colorectal Cancer, Stage 4 Diagnosis: Colorectal Cancer Symptoms: Abdominal pain, constipation, belly button discharge Treatment: Liver surgery, chemotherapy, radiation
Angelica A., Bowel Cancer, Stage 3

Symptoms: Fatigue, anemia, irregular bowel movements, loss of appetite, heavy periods Treatment: Laparoscopy, chemotherapy, partial hysterectomy
Danielle shares her stage 4 metastatic colon cancer
Danielle A., Colorectal Cancer, Metastatic Stage 3 Diagnosis: Stage 3 Colorectal Cancer Symptoms: Abdominal pain, constipationTreatment: Surgery, Chemo
Keith shares his stage 4 colorectal cancer story
Keith H., Colorectal Cancer, Stage 4 Diagnosis: Stage 4 Colorectal Cancer Symptoms: Abdominal painTreatment: Surgery, Chemo
Sherrie shares her stage 4 metastatic breast cancer story
Sherri O., Metastatic Breast Cancer & Colon Cancer Diagnosis: Colon & Metastatic Breast Cancer Symptoms: Shortness of breath, lump under armpit, not feeling herself Treatment: Chemotherapy, Transfusions
Dania M.

Dania M., Colon Cancer, Stage 4, with Liver and Peritoneal Carcinomatosis



Symptoms: Constipation, diarrhea, terrible bloating, swollen belly, as if pregnant
Treatment: Surgery, immunotherapy (KEYTRUDA)
Stephanie K.

Stephanie K., Colon Cancer, Stage 3



Symptoms: Very bad cramps, bloating, indigestion, burping
Treatment: Surgery, chemotherapy (CAPOX)
Jason A. feature profile

Jason A., Colon Cancer, Stage 3B



Symptoms: Abdominal pressure, fatigue, small amounts of blood in stool
Treatment: Surgery (colon resection), chemotherapy (FOLFOX: folinic acid, fluorouracil, and oxaliplatin)
Kelly shares her cancer story
Kelly B. Diagnosis: Stage 3 Colon CancerSymptoms: Blood in stool, cramping, bloating Treatment: Chemo, surgery
Courtney shares her colorectal cancer story
Courtney H. Diagnosis: Stage 1 Colorectal CancerSymptoms: Blood in stool, fatigue Treatment: Chemo, oxaliplatin, capecitabine, surgery
Zykeisha shares her stage 4 colon cancer story
Zykeisha L. Diagnosis: Stage 4 Colon CancerSymptoms: Anemia, stool changes, blood in urine, back painTreatment: Chemo, Avastin, FOLFOX, FOLFIRI, surgery, Neupogen shots
Kyle R.M. Diagnosis: Stage 4 Colon Cancer Symptoms: Constipation, blood in stoolTreatment: Chemo, FOLFOX

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