Rachel’s Stage 3B Ovarian Cancer Story

Rachel was diagnosed with stage 3B ovarian cancer when it was discovered after a year of trying to conceive. She was having annual gynecological check-ups and normal blood work, so she dismissed her symptoms as common female issues. It wasn’t until she underwent fertility testing that a mass on her left ovary was discovered, confirmed by a high level of CA-125. Surgery was quickly scheduled, during which the tumor and her left ovary were removed, and she was diagnosed with stage 3B ovarian cancer.

Before starting treatment, Rachel underwent two rounds of IVF to preserve her fertility, producing five embryos. She began chemotherapy, underwent a second surgery to remove her remaining ovary and undergo HIPEC, and finished her treatment with another three rounds of chemo.

Throughout, Rachel relied on her strong support system, including her husband. They moved back to Pittsburgh to be near family during her treatment. Mentally, she found strength in the temporary nature of her ordeal, journaling, daily devotionals, and staying physically active when possible. A friend’s advice to shift her mindset from “I have to” to “I get to” was a crucial part of her coping mechanism.

Despite the initial relief of finishing treatment, Rachel faced the disappointment of learning that, despite her tumor not being genetic, it resembled BRCA-positive cancer, requiring her to be on a PARP inhibitor for two years. This affected her plans for immediate motherhood, with the possibility of using a surrogate for their first child while she heals.

Rachel’s experience transformed her perspective on life. She values her connections with others more deeply and approaches life with greater intention and appreciation. While she acknowledges the challenges and fears of cancer returning, she emphasizes that this difficult experience has made her stronger, more fulfilled, and more grateful for the life she has.