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Starr’s Stage 4 Colon Cancer Story Highlights the Importance of Second Opinions

Starr’s Stage 4 Colon Cancer Story Highlights the Importance of Second Opinions

At 44, Starr was living a busy, joyful life centered on her kids. “I’m most passionate about my kids,” she said. “Whatever they’re into, that’s what we’re doing. So whatever sports or school activities we’re going to, we’re always running kids somewhere, doing something with them, or having friends over.” She felt healthy and strong, but that changed when she was diagnosed with stage 4 colon cancer that had already spread to her liver and other areas. Her journey toward remission highlights self-advocacy, community, and a whole-body approach to care.

Interviewed by: Carly Knowlton
Edited by: Chris Sanchez & Jeff Forslund

It all began with mild abdominal pain that didn’t feel right. Even though Starr was young and seemingly healthy, she trusted her instincts and insisted on getting scans after her primary doctor thought it could just be a UTI. Those scans revealed multiple liver masses, setting off a flurry of ER visits, biopsies, and the life-altering words: “stage 4 colon cancer.”

Starr S. colon cancer

From the start, Starr understood that conventional medicine was crucial, but she also embraced alternative therapies and integrative medicine strategies. While her first oncologist focused solely on aggressive chemotherapy, Starr listened to her body and her intuition. She sought multiple opinions, discovered targeted therapy, and explored supplements, nutrition, and emotional wellness. This approach not only helped her endure treatment but also prepared her for two major surgeries, which successfully removed her colon and liver tumors.

Throughout the process, Starr leaned into self-advocacy. She didn’t stop at one opinion; she asked the hard questions, researched options, and refused to settle for a plan that didn’t feel right. Her persistence led to care that respected her voice and ultimately helped her move into remission.

Starr’s reflection on awareness is equally powerful. Colon cancer doesn’t always require a family history or obvious risk factors. Starr exercised, drank her green juices, and maintained a healthy weight, but she still got cancer. Her story is a gentle but firm nudge for everyone to listen to their bodies, stay proactive, and seek medical advice even if they believe they’re too young or too healthy to get sick.

Today, Starr calls herself a survivor and a thriver. She’s committed to living her days with gratitude and presence. She celebrates being able to take her kids to school, enjoy nature, and fill her calendar with meaningful experiences. She wants to remind us that while colon cancer might change your life, it doesn’t define it. You can nourish your body, advocate for yourself, and still live fully.

Watch Starr’s video and scroll down to read through the transcript of her interview for more on her story. You’ll learn about:

  • How she felt healthy, but still got stage 4 colon cancer
  • Why Starr refused to settle for one doctor’s plan
  • The whole-body approach that changed everything
  • How self-advocacy can save more than your life; it can save your hope
  • Living fully after colon cancer remission

  • Name: Starr S.
  • Diagnosis:
    • Colon Cancer
  • Age at Diagnosis:
    • 44
  • Staging:
    • Stage 4
  • Symptom:
    • Abdominal pain
  • Treatments:
    • Chemotherapy
    • Surgeries: colectomy, hepatectomy, lymphadenectomy
    • Targeted therapy
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Starr S. colon cancer
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Starr S. colon cancer
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Starr S. colon cancer
Starr S. colon cancer

This interview has been edited for clarity and length. This is not medical advice. Please consult with your healthcare provider to make informed treatment decisions.

The views and opinions expressed in this interview do not necessarily reflect those of The Patient Story.



My name is Starr

I’m 45 years old. I was diagnosed last year with colon cancer. Stage four, because it metastasized to my liver and other locations. And I live here in Arizona.

I’m most passionate about my kids. Whatever they’re into, that’s what we’re doing. So whatever sports school activities we’re going to, we’re always running kids somewhere, doing something with them, or having friends over. Our lives revolve around the kids, which is how it should be. I love it.

When I first started feeling “off”

I was having a little bit of abdominal pain, and I thought, “Okay, well, this just doesn’t feel quite right.” As soon as I got the abdominal pain, I was like, “I’m going to urgent care.” So it was like two days. So I’m glad I didn’t waste time.

They thought it was UTI. I went to my primary school. I got a scan, and it showed all these masses in my liver. She wasn’t too concerned because of my age. Just being young. And I was healthy, too, but I wanted to do a CT or MRI or PET scan or something. And she said, “Okay, well, to ease your mind. Yes, of course, we’ll do the scan.”

The moment everything changed

That’s kind of a life-altering moment for sure. But I went to my follow-up appointment to go over the scan with my doctor, and she said that, you know, I almost had your husband come in with you for this to go over this, but because she personally knows my husband. But let him come in, and she said, You need to go to the emergency room right now. I have someone there. They will meet you.

So she got me right into the emergency room and set me up with somebody so I didn’t have to wait. And then they did the biopsy there at the hospital, and I found out very quickly. So it all happened really fast. They said, “It’s cancer in your liver, and it’s not the primary location. It actually started somewhere else.” 

So that was all of a sudden. Not only did I have cancer, but I had metastatic stage 4 cancer. And it didn’t even start in my liver. It’s spread. It’s in other locations in your body as well. So, I just remember being in the hospital, and thank goodness my friend was with me, and she’s like, I’m going to get your husband down here now. He’s coming down. And it was very scary. 

When you hear the words “stage 4” and “terminal,” that’s almost an out-of-body experience.

My treatment plan

My first oncologist was just focused on chemo. Regarding surgery, she was like, “Let’s not even talk about it, because we’re not there. You’re not even close to surgery. It is not an option. Maybe it will be, down the road, but for now, it’s in too many locations and the masses. We need to get the tumors down.”

I did five different treatments for chemo. One is a targeted therapy. I did the intense chemo for eight rounds.

What side effects I experienced

The biggest side effect was the most intense fatigue that you can imagine. I mean, even just talking, I’m sitting there trying to talk to somebody, and it’s just too much effort. Just, you know, keeping my eyes open. I had so much fatigue and nausea. I didn’t want to eat. I lost a lot of weight — over 30 pounds. And I didn’t have a ton to spare. 

I also had pretty intense neuropathy in my feet. It’s still there. It could be permanent. I’m working on trying to fix that. 

At one point, my skin was peeling off my hands and my feet because of one of the chemos that I was doing. It didn’t really hurt, but it was just really creepy to have your skin just falling off your body. 

Right now, from the targeted therapy, I have a red rash. The skin is not like it should be. All through my back, my face, my chest, my stomach. So that’s an ongoing one.

I wouldn’t just be tired but exhausted beyond belief, and I would do the chemo treatments. So it would be like a week of just being down. I’m on the couch, I’m on the bed. I’m not going anywhere. I’m not doing anything. I’m not really eating due to the nausea. Because if I eat, then I throw up. So I want to avoid that. And then after that week, I just start feeling better. More normal. And then the second week would be closer to normal life, but still tired and all that. 

But literally half the time, I was just completely not there, just not living my life. And it was really hard. And for my kids to sit there and see their mommy on the couch and go, “We’re going to go out and play,” and I couldn’t even get up to go out there and be with them. So I was losing a lot of time with them.

It was over four months total; I did eight rounds of that. And then after that point, I switched oncologists.

Finding the right care team

My original oncologist wanted to just continue that treatment regimen. And what I kept on hearing from not just him, but also from my second and third opinions, was that this is the standard of care. You continue doing chemo until it stops working, and then we switch. And to me, that didn’t sit right in my brain. So you want me to continue doing something that feels like it’s killing me. 

I met my current oncologist at City of Hope, Orange County. He gave me information that I didn’t know about. “Hey, your liver is enlarging because of the chemo.” My oncologist never said that. When I went to a second opinion at MD Anderson, they gave me information that my oncologist hadn’t told me either, that it was also in my peritoneum and lymph nodes. The communication wasn’t quite there with the first one.

He recommended that I stop chemo. We talked about targeted therapy, and that’s what I did. And everything changed after that.

I would take six pills a day. Three in the morning, three at night. And then the biggest thing was I would get infusions every other week. 

I was able to get surgery

Every past oncologist told me, “You know, surgery is not an option. Continue with chemo.” But I was able to have the surgery thanks to the targeted therapy.

I started with the new oncologist at the end of November 2024. And I had my first surgery at the end of January. Just two months later. He was able to remove the colon, lymph nodes, and the left side of the liver. And then we waited two months. And then in March 2025, I had my second surgery, which took care of the right side of my liver. It actually had more tumors in it. 

But the amazing part is that in both surgeries, when they took out all of the cancer, it was between 95% and 100% dead already. These numbers are amazing. I see numbers that are between 10 and 30% and those are already great numbers. And then when I had the second surgery, 99 to 100% of the cancer was dead. 

So the targeted therapy was working. And they just went in with the surgeries and got it out.

I was there for 4 or 5 days. You know, it was an intense surgery. They did a lot. And I have the scar to prove it. I got my warrior scar; I deserve it.

Luckily, I had friends with me. My husband kind of rotated because it was out of state. All my care has been out of state; it’s not just 15 minutes down the road to the hospital or something. To get to the cancer center, I would have had to drive for hours or fly. But it was great to have. I needed support from my husband. Being in the hospital, that’s not fun. A lot of people have a recovery time. I mean, I’m still recovering at six months out. Having all that done to your body is a lot. So just recovery time was a lot of couch and bed time, that’s for sure.

I was not in the mood to eat. They did a good job of getting me up. You know, day one, moving around. I didn’t really want to a couple of times, but they got me moving around, which I think was really best for me. This is good for me. Keep on going. But eating, getting food into my body, was difficult.

My kids made this big welcome home sign. Mostly my daughter did it, but my son helped. But yeah, they made this great sign. It was after my first surgery. I got to come home, and then they were just standing there with the welcome sign, and that was really sweet. I cried, of course.

The value of multiple opinions

I recommend getting a second, even a third opinion. You know, technically, I started with my small-town oncologist. I was sure I wasn’t going to stay here in a small town. Then I went to San Diego and got another opinion in Texas, and then went back to California, where I am now. 

So, absolutely get second opinions. Get third opinions if you can. I also called a bunch of other places that I never got in with because they were so far out. So I was looking at other people calling, making other calls, because I just didn’t feel right.

I think that I would have been doing that intense chemo for months, and who knows where that would have led me. It would have knocked me down so much that I couldn’t recover and move on to the next thing. Or maybe it just would have been, yes, more chemo and months worth of that agony. And then maybe the doctor would finally have switched me to this other targeted therapy, and I could have ended up in the same place. I don’t know. But I do know that I would have wasted time.

I did call a cancer coach. And it was interesting. She gave me a lot of information. “Hey, do you want to travel to New York and get a third opinion?” And that helped me open my mind to the possibilities. Wow, I really don’t have to just do what this one doctor in a lab coat says, just because they’re the doctor. There are other options. And she was talking about all these things and possibly even getting treated in other countries. She opened my eyes to different trials and things out there that nobody was telling me about. That helped me be a little bit more courageous and open to the idea that I don’t have to just listen to this one person. “Yeah, you know, you’re doing chemo, and it seems like the tumors are shrinking.” That’s great. But you don’t have to just listen to one person. 

How my diagnosis impacted my kids

That was a big question: how much should we tell them? I wanted to be open. My kids were nine and 11, and I wanted them to know what was going on. I wanted them to know why their mommy was on the couch all the time, why I didn’t feel good. And they needed to know that I needed their help. 

The main thing was, yes, I missed out on a lot of time. We would try to do things around the couch, or maybe do a puzzle or watch movies. We’d try to do whatever activities we could. But it was harder missing their games and not being able to take them to school and having my husband do that instead. Just missing out on a lot.

But we did our best. And I made them into little runners. They would run and get mommy a blanket, a pillow, water, or food. They were great helpers, but I wanted to be as open and honest as the kids could understand, but not terrify them, because I was terrified that I was going to die. And so I didn’t. I said, “Mommy’s sick.” And yes, people do die from cancer, but I don’t think that’s going to be me. So they were going to think that mommy’s going to be okay, but I’m just not the same right now. And I’m going to need your help. And they stepped up. 

So in a way, it’s kind of a little gift. It’s kind of good for them because they learned to be more empathetic and more sympathetic. So learning a little bit more responsibility, needing to help out more, carrying things because I couldn’t carry anything. They were carrying everything for me. So in a way, they’ve grown a little bit from this, too.

The hardest part of my diagnosis

The hardest part was the weight of getting the initial diagnosis. Stage 4 terminal cancer. What does that mean? Am I going to beat this or not? That was really low. 

After going and seeing that second opinion, when they told me, “Oh, we would do the same thing,” and I hoped I’d walk away with a magic pill or something for me, but they didn’t have anything for me, and then learning that it was also in my lymph nodes, which in my mind meant that I was done because it can travel anywhere — that was a really low point. And that’s when I made goodbye videos to my kids, which was hard.

I’m glad I did, because I can look back at them and think, “Wow, I was on the verge of saying goodbye to my kids and my husband.” That was probably the lowest point — coming to terms with having to make these videos.

I had actually put on makeup and fixed up my hair so that it was a good video for them. I didn’t want them to think, “Mommy looks really sick and bad.” They were going to have those videos forever.

I told my husband, “You can remarry, but I know you’re not going to.” He responded, “I’m not getting married again. I’m glad I made it so wonderful this first round.” 

So I made those videos, and I’m glad I did, because I have them, and I can look back and be like, “Wow, that was me in a really not a good place to come to that point, to say goodbye.”

How my identity has shifted after my diagnosis

My identity has changed immensely. Not only my lifestyle, but also starting with that. Like the things that I eat, I put in my body what I put on my body. I avoid processed food and eating out a lot. Cutting out alcohol, cutting down on sugars and meat.  

But the biggest thing is that my outlook on life is completely different. When I was sitting there, you know, just wanting to go outside and just sit outside, and I couldn’t do that. So now, I treat every day like it’s so precious. I want to squeeze so much out of every day. I have to do this, I have to do that. What’s my to-do list? Got to go to work. Got to get the kids to school. Got to do. Gotta check off that list. Now it’s like, I get to take my kids to school. I get to go to work. I get to go to the grocery store. I get to watch a movie. I get to go outside and listen to birds and waste time.

And so my biggest realization is that you don’t know how long you’re going to be here. And people say that all the time, but it doesn’t sink in until you truly face death. And this could all be over very soon, was what was going through my mind. So when you have that, then you just really appreciate everything. 

And now I’m in remission, I’m filling my calendar with all these places that I want to go, things I want to do, friends I haven’t seen. I am just filling it up with things that I really want to do. Versus, wow, why did I fill up my calendar with stuff I didn’t really want to do or waste time doing, when I could have been enjoying more time with my kids or my husband or just reading a book?

I’ve definitely gotten more in touch with myself and my emotions. My whole identity has really shifted to being grateful, taking care of my body, and helping others. Now, that’s what I want to do, pay it forward. And my outlook on life is so much better.

Reaching no evidence of disease

I had a clear first scan after my second surgery, and it showed nothing on there, which was amazing. It’s funny. I didn’t even let that enter my mind because I was just thinking, “We just want to see that the tumors are gone.” But in my mind, it didn’t add up to the possibility that I could be cancer-free. Like, I didn’t let myself get my hopes up. 

I finally talked to my oncologist, and he said, “Yes, we don’t see anything, but we have to do these other bloodwork tests.” I remember I was at Sea World with my family, and I got the email, and thought, “Should I open it now? Because this could be good or bad. Okay, I think it’s going to be good. But either way, I want the information. I’m doing well, and I think it’s going to be good.” 

I just looked at it and I saw the number zero, indicating no tumors. And that was the moment  I thought, “Wow, I think I’m in remission.”

I had my appointment the following week, and then I was like, “Can I say I’m in remission?” And he said, “Yes.” So I knew it a little bit. And it was slow, it wasn’t like, boom, a moment you faint or like scream or something. It was definitely wonderful to hear those words out of his mouth and then to share them with everybody. 

I immediately called my husband and a couple of close friends. I sent it to my girlfriend star squad, those girls who have been helping me through this and taking care of me. I let them know. And then I was like, “I’m going to put it on Instagram and tell the world, because this is great news.”

It’s still sinking in, but yeah. It’s amazing.

My support system

My husband, my kids, they’re the reason why I’m here. I fought so hard for them. I want to see my kids grow up. I want to experience all that. And it’s wonderful. I was in the mindset for a while that I’m not going to see them even drive or go to their first dance, or first kiss. And I believe that I will now.

I had my star squad, the smaller group, 12 women, in a group text. It would be like, “Okay, who’s going with Starr to this treatment?” “I’m going to drop off some food.” “Do you need any help with the kids?” Words of encouragement. And then I had two or three friends who were just there every single day. How? Constantly checking in on me. Showing up, even being there when I didn’t know I needed them.

Talking through things and just having that girlfriend connection that you need. So not only taking care of me physically and all the things that I need, but mentally, it was just to let emotions out. 

What I want others to know

One of my books talks about radical remission, radical hope. This thing is amazing. It just gets into not only supplements and good food, but also all these other things that you can be doing. Nourish yourself as a whole, not just physically, but also emotionally, spiritually, and mentally. It’s your outlook. Oh my gosh, that could be half the battle right there. 

I had stage four terminal cancer; I could have thought that I’m not going to make it. Not to say that I didn’t get in that mental space, of course, I did at some portions throughout this, but I’ve tried to stay as positive as possible. And I think that really, really helps. 

I read in these books about people experiencing spontaneous remission. Reading about somebody who was literally put in hospice and they were expected to die in a week or two — but they don’t, and they’re still living many years later. And really, if they can do it, I can do it.

People want to hear that. People need to hear that. Just because you’re given this diagnosis doesn’t mean that you’re going to die. You can beat it. You can live a much longer life than the doctor said. 

You’re your own statistic. You are your own person. You can really do a lot of things in your life, rather than just taking chemo and radiation or even just food supplements that you’re putting in your body. There’s more that you can do. And I want people to know that you can empower yourself. You can really change the odds. Those stats in my mind went from, “Oh, you have a 15% chance to live to 85 or 90, to: I expect to be here in five years.”

I really have the mindset and the changes that I made. I want people to know that it’s not a death sentence. People are getting cancer younger and younger. Even though you’re young and you think you’re healthy. And that’s what I thought I was. I drank the green drinks. I went, I exercised. I kept my body weight down. And I thought I was healthy, and wow.

Cancer made me really look at my life and realize that I had a lot of imbalances. And I thought, “Maybe I should address those. This is cancer; it is my wake-up call. Let’s not focus on the fact that I have cancer. Why did I get cancer in the first place? What are the things that I can change in my life? To not only beat the cancer. My goal now is to stay in remission, to not let it come back.” And so I need to really nourish my body in multiple ways.

At first, it was uncomfortable. I am a survivor, I am a warrior, and I am a thriver. And I’m proud of that because I’ve been through a lot. What’s scary about it is that at my next scan in three months, I could have cancer back. You know, it can come back at any point. I really do believe that I’m going to be okay. But there is that chance that it’s going to come back and that I will need to continue this battle. But survivorship to me is just a wonderful feeling. And I hope that other people take some hope from this, that this can be you, too. You can do it. And you can be a survivor, a thriver, and a warrior too.

And in the meantime, whether you have cancer or not, just live your life.

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Laurent Gemenick’s Bladder Cancer: A Story of Second Opinions and Self Advocacy

Laurent Gemenick’s Bladder Cancer: A Story of Second Opinions and Self Advocacy

Laurent’s story is a reminder that, as overwhelming as it is, living with bladder cancer can be filled with hope and learning to advocate for yourself can lead to opportunities to help others. This inspired the birth of a national organization to help bladder cancer patients across all of Spain.

Laurent was relatively young and didn’t fit the usual profile of a bladder cancer patient. So when he first noticed blood in his urine, urologists assumed an infection, but the blood in his urine continued. He then had an ultrasound which came back negative, but the blood in his urine continued. So he had a cystoscopy, which allowed them to look at the bladder from the inside and this procedure was what led to a bladder cancer diagnosis in October 2022. 

Getting the right diagnosis had proven tricky, but his need to advocate for himself was just beginning as an even bigger turning point was just around the corner. After a difficult surgery to remove the bladder tumor, Laurent received a rushed recommendation for bladder removal. He and his partner, David, decided to seek second opinions. Five second opinions. Visiting five specialists gave them clarity and hope, as four of the five encouraged bladder preservation, proving how vital self-advocacy can be.

Laurent G. bladder cancer

Throughout this experience, Laurent realised how isolating bladder cancer can feel. He struggled to find patient-friendly information and supportive communities. That’s why he joined a French support group and eventually co-founded CANVES, Spain’s first bladder cancer patient group, to help ensure that no one faces bladder cancer alone. By sharing experiences, hosting events like Spain’s first National Bladder Cancer Patients’ Day, and advocating for early detection, he empowers patients to ask questions, connect with others, and make informed decisions. 

Laurent wants every patient to know that life doesn’t stop with a diagnosis, and that reaching out for support and timely access to reliable resources can make all the difference. Watch his video and read his interview below for more on:

  • How second opinions changed one bladder cancer patient’s life
  • Why Laurent believes no patient should ever feel alone
  • A candid look at life after a harrowing bladder cancer diagnosis
  • The inspiring birth of CANVES
  • Practical tips for self-advocacy and early detection

  • Name: Laurent Gemenick
  • Diagnosis:
    • Bladder Cancer
  • Symptom:
    • Presence of blood in urine
  • Treatment:
    • Surgery: transurethral resection of bladder tumor (TURBT)
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Interviewed by: Taylor Scheib
Edited by: Chris Sanchez and Jeff Forslund

There is no need to be afraid. When you get this news [that you have bladder cancer], you just have to keep going and keep living.

Laurent Gemenick – Bladder Cancer Patient Advocate

About Me

I’m Laurent. I’m from Belgium. I was diagnosed with bladder cancer.

I’m a happy-go-lucky person, always smiling. My friends and family describe me as talkative and positive. I love to garden. 

When I was diagnosed with cancer, my world, my life, fell apart.

Laurent G. bladder cancer
Laurent G. bladder cancer

My First Symptom Was Blood in My Urine

The first symptom I had was blood in my urine. In my case, it was different, because it only became obvious at the end of urination. It wasn’t easy to see with my naked eye.

That’s what first made me go to the doctor.

Trying to Get My Diagnosis

At the appointment with the urologist, I discovered that I didn’t fit the age for having bladder cancer.

This kind of cancer usually affects older men or people with a family history of cancer. Neither was true in my case. So my doctor said that the blood in my urine could’ve been caused by a strain instead. He told me to come back another time. 

But then I produced bloody urine again. I went back to the doctor and got an ultrasound. They suggested that I get an ultrasound because it can reveal if there is a tumor in the bladder. 

Still, nothing came out, but I continued to have blood in my urine. This time, they did a cystoscopy. This procedure places a camera into the bladder and lets doctors confirm the patient’s diagnosis for sure. 

That’s how they ended up diagnosing me with bladder cancer at the end of October 2022.

My relationship with the doctor wasn’t great. I was in the ICU for three days because of a procedure called transurethral resection of bladder tumor (TURBT). It didn’t go well, which is why it took three days. 

Then the doctor took a sheet of paper out and said they would have to remove my bladder. He told me to “sign here” on the paper, and they’d do the surgery in 10 days. 

I didn’t even know at the start that you could get bladder cancer, and I went from that to the point that this doctor was telling me, “I’m going to need to take out your bladder.”

Luckily, I had David by my side. He was always by my side. 

We started looking for second opinions. We went to five specialists and got five opinions. 

Four of those five specialists presented the same thing. They agreed that for treatment, they recommended preserving the bladder because of my young age, and that you don’t remove the bladder from a young patient.

They actually didn’t even use the word “cancer.” They kept saying “polyps.” The doctor I’m seeing now, who’s treating me, even took a long time to say the word “cancer.”

Laurent G. bladder cancer

I didn’t even know at the start that you could get bladder cancer, and I went from that to the point that this doctor was telling me, “I’m going to need to take out your bladder.”

Laurent Gemenick – Bladder Cancer Patient Advocate
Laurent G. bladder cancer

It’s So Important to Get a Second Opinion

The issue of second opinions is very important. 

The patient may forget to get one because they go into shock after hearing the diagnosis or because of the mindset that the doctors are always right, and “what the doctors say is what we should do.”

But this is life-changing surgery. If they take out this organ, it’ll change your life because you’ll need to have a colostomy bag put in. 

It requires seeing more than one doctor and getting more than one opinion so you can make an informed decision. If they are on the same path or not, if they have the same ideas.

My Treatment and Follow-up

I get follow-up appointments every six months. I get a urinalysis and cystoscopies. 

The first resection surgery during the ICU stay in the beginning removed most of the bladder cancer. Since my biopsy results have been good, I have the check-ups every six months.

I Found it Hard to Find Information For Patients

We tried looking for information on the internet. You will find everything online — including the worst-case scenarios. David was my filter because he kept me from searching online. 

On Facebook, I found a group of bladder cancer patients, but they were from France. Luckily, my first language is French. They welcomed me to the group and supported me. I joined at the same time as four other patients. Three had their bladders removed. One has passed away.

It’s a support group — they live what I live with bladder cancer. We discuss treatments. We experience anxiety at every appointment. We know the shared pain.

We were introduced to the World Bladder Cancer Association in Madrid, and that’s how we started CANVES.

Why I Decided to Start a Patient Organization

I don’t think what happened to me happens to all patients —  being told that they would need to have their bladders removed, and “sign the paper here.” I think it has to be nuanced, and it depends on the experience and empathy of the doctor who’s taking care of you. 

In Spain, there are two healthcare systems. You have the public healthcare system and the private healthcare system.

The private healthcare system works well. The public system does, too, but it takes more time to get things done there. You can’t get an appointment as quickly or often. Doctors usually don’t have more than five or ten minutes to talk to each patient. That’s actually a Europe-wide problem. In Belgium, the same thing happens.

That’s why we created CANVES. We understand that doctors don’t have a lot of time to dedicate to their patients, to give them the explanations or support they need. So we want to give the patients the information they need.

That’s our motivation. To make sure no one has to be alone with this.

Laurent G. bladder cancer

That’s our motivation. To make sure no one has to be alone with this.

Laurent Gemenick – Bladder Cancer Patient Advocate
Laurent G. bladder cancer

Fighting the Stigma in Bladder Cancer

There are 22,000 cases of bladder cancer each year in Spain, which makes it one of the most frequently diagnosed cancers here. There was no patient association here. Nothing. Resources? Nothing. Support? Nothing. 

Most patients who have bladder cancer are indeed men, and those who are older. But we have to consider that more and more young people are getting diagnosed with bladder cancer. Patients used to be 70 or 80 years old, but they’re getting younger, 60 or maybe even younger. 

And men don’t talk; they don’t go to the doctor. 

It seems different for women. Starting when they are little, we tell them to go to a gynecologist as soon as puberty starts, to get tested. We don’t have similar conversations with boys to see a urologist for testing until they are typically 40 or 50 years old. 

A milestone — this year, we organized the first National Bladder Cancer Patients’ Day. This was so important because we had the support of the Spanish scientific societies. This was huge because it happened in a short time, and united all these professionals to help people in one room. 

That’s the most important thing for us: helping people. We get emails, and we talk and speak to people every day. This is the best thing we can do. This is why we exist.

We hope to have better information and build a faster line of detection, so if a patient goes to the emergency room with blood in the urine, we can help implement a protocol of tests to see whether it’s bladder cancer. Most of the time, if it’s caught early enough, bladder cancer is curable.

My Message of Hope for You

There is no need to be afraid. When you get this news, you just have to keep going and keep living. That’s the most important thing. 

Many people think, “Why me?” Cancer diagnoses are becoming increasingly common.

You have to keep on living because life is short.

Laurent G. bladder cancer

You have to keep on living because life is short.

Laurent Gemenick – Bladder Cancer Patient Advocate

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Symptom: Presence of blood in urine

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Symptom: Darkening urine, blood in urine, dull right flank pain

Treatments: Surgery(transurethral resection of bladder tumor or TURBT), antibody-drug conjugate, chemotherapy
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Michael V., Bladder Cancer (Non-Invasive High-Grade Papillary Urothelial Carcinoma), Stage 1



Symptoms: Frequent urination, burning sensation when urinating

Treatments: Surgery (transurethral resection of bladder tumor or TURBT), immunotherapy (Bacillus Calmette-Guérin or BCG treatment)
Dorinda G. bladder cancer

Dorinda G., Bladder Cancer



Symptom: A significant amount of blood in the urine

Treatments: Surgery (transurethral resection of bladder tumor/TURBT, surgery for papillary lesion), immunotherapy (BCG), chemotherapy
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Danny G., Non-Muscle Invasive Bladder Cancer



Symptoms: Fatigue, back pain, erectile dysfunction, nausea

Treatments: Surgery (transurethral resection of bladder tumor or TURBT), chemotherapy, immunotherapy

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Stage 2 Esophageal Cancer Changed My Life for the Better

Stage 2 Esophageal Cancer Changed Mark’s Life for the Better

When Mark was diagnosed with stage 2 esophageal cancer in June 2024, his life took a scary, unexpected turn. But despite the initial shock, he was able to find a sense of peace amid all the chaos. That’s because he used his diagnosis as a catalyst to slow down and reflect on what truly mattered to him.

Interviewed by: Nikki Murphy
Edited by: Chris Sanchez

Before his diagnosis, Mark was thriving and healthy. He ran and worked out regularly and was healing from past emotional wounds. However, subtle, ominous signs started to emerge in February 2024. He started to experience difficulty swallowing, and initially dismissed this symptom as being due to dehydration.

He found it increasingly difficult to swallow, prompting him to seek medical advice. Doctors reassured him, though, due to his young, healthy appearance. It wasn’t until he was unable to swallow liquids that he rushed to the emergency room. A CT scan revealed a mass the size of a strawberry in his chest, and the biopsy confirmed stage 2 esophageal cancer.

Mark received the news alone in his hospital room. He was overwhelmed and faced a deluge of questions, for which he found few immediate answers. However, he didn’t succumb to his fear; he openly communicated with his children, answering their questions honestly and warmly.

Mark’s treatment plan for stage 2 esophageal cancer included four initial rounds of chemotherapy, surgery, and four additional chemo sessions. Initially, he followed his doctors’ advice without questioning it. But during a break before surgery, when he was able to reflect and research, he learned to self-advocate and make informed decisions about his treatment.

Armed with this knowledge and thinking of his personal health goals, he chose to undergo fewer of the additional chemo sessions. Chemotherapy was grueling. The side effects, like fatigue and nausea, were immense and took both a physical and emotional toll. But Mark was determined to stay positive and present for his family. He managed his stress by focusing on the present, taking each day at a time so he wouldn’t overwhelm himself by worrying about the future.

Mark urges others to realize that he didn’t just survive stage 2 esophageal cancer. He also learned to navigate his life: to live authentically, advocate for himself, and find meaning in adversity. He wants others to know that early detection, listening to one’s body, and seeking second opinions when necessary are all crucial.

Watch Mark’s video and delve into his story:

  • Discover how a simple swallowing issue led to a life-changing diagnosis.
  • Mark’s candid conversation with his kids will touch your heart.
  • See how Mark found peace and clarity through the chaos of cancer.
  • Discover the moment Mark realized he could advocate for his health.
  • Learn the stress management tips that helped Mark stay positive.

  • Name:
    • Mark S.
  • Age at Diagnosis:
    • 40
  • Diagnosis:
    • Esophageal Cancer
  • Staging:
    • Stage 2
  • Symptom:
    • Difficulty swallowing that got progressively worse
  • Treatments:
    • Chemotherapy
    • Surgery: esophagectomy
Mark S. stage 2 esophageal cancer
Mark S. stage 2 esophageal cancer
Mark S. stage 2 esophageal cancer
Mark S. stage 2 esophageal cancer
Mark S. stage 2 esophageal cancer
Mark S. stage 2 esophageal cancer
Mark S. stage 2 esophageal cancer
Mark S. stage 2 esophageal cancer
Mark S. stage 2 esophageal cancer
Mark S. stage 2 esophageal cancer
Mark S. stage 2 esophageal cancer
Mark S. stage 2 esophageal cancer
Mark S. stage 2 esophageal cancer

This interview has been edited for clarity and length. This is not medical advice. Please consult with your healthcare provider to make informed treatment decisions.

The views and opinions expressed in this interview do not necessarily reflect those of The Patient Story.


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Symptom: Feeling the need for constant urination
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Symptoms: Stomach pain, back pain, chest pain, extreme exhaustion, shortness of breath after short walks

Treatments: Chemotherapy, immunotherapy
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Alyssa B. feature profile

Alyssa B., Stomach Cancer, Stage 4



Symptoms: Fatigue, elevated resting heart rate, heartburn, difficulty swallowing, weight loss
Treatments: Chemotherapy, surgery (gastrectomy & oophorectomy)
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Brittany D., Stomach Cancer, Stage T1b



Symptoms: Choking suddenly while eating and attempting to speak, neck and right shoulder pain, neck tightness, trouble swallowing certain food items

Treatments: Surgeries (subtotal gastrectomy, D1 lymphadenectomy, gastric bypass)
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Camilla C. stage 4 stomach cancer

Camilla C., Stomach Cancer, Stage 4



Symptoms: Issues swallowing, swollen gland in the neck

Treatments: Palliative chemotherapy was offered but declined, nutritional changes to support her comfort and energy, meditation and mindfulness practices, self-directed healing methods

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Emily D. stage 4 stomach cancer

Emily D., Stomach Cancer (Gastric Adenocarcinoma), Stage 4



Symptoms: Persistent postpartum stomachache, early satiety, difficulty swallowing, vomiting

Treatments: Chemotherapy, immunotherapy

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Maria C. stage 4 stomach cancer

Maria C., Stomach Cancer, Stage 4



Symptoms: Rapid weight loss, fatigue, inability to hold food down

Treatments: Chemotherapy, surgery (robotic distal gastrectomy), radiation therapy
...
 
Starr S. colon cancer

Starr S., Colon Cancer, Stage 4 (Metastatic)



Symptom: Abdominal pain

Treatments: Chemotherapy, surgeries (colectomy, hepatectomy, lymphadenectomy), targeted therapy
Jackson L. stage 4 colon cancer with BRAF mutation

Jackson L., BRAF Mutation Colon Cancer, Stage 4



Symptoms: Severe stomach pain, fatigue, lack of motivation, anemia, blood in stool, thinning stool

Treatments: Surgeries (emergency bowel obstruction surgery with temporary colostomy, possibility of HIPEC in 2026), chemotherapy, immunotherapy

Heather C. stage 4 colon cancer

Heather C., Colon Cancer, Stage 4 (Metastatic)



Symptoms: Severe bloating, indigestion, vomiting, rectal bleeding

Treatments: Chemotherapy, surgery (liver transplant, upcoming)
Nicole S. stage 3 colon cancer

Nicole S., Colon Cancer, Stage 3



Symptoms: Dull lower abdominal pain that sharpened and was focused on the lower left side, appearance of dark blood in stool, difficulty retaining food due to near-complete blockage of sigmoid colon

Treatments: Surgery (colectomy), chemotherapy
Ian D. stage 3C colon cancer

Ian D., Colon Cancer, Stage 3C



Symptoms: Fatigue, unusual blood test results during annual physical, blood in stool

Treatments: Surgery (partial colectomy), chemotherapy, clinical trial
Lauren G. stage 4 colon cancer

Lauren G., Colon Cancer, Stage 4



Symptoms: Frequent urges to have bowel movements (up to 27x/day), incomplete evacuation, abdominal bloating
Treatments: Surgeries (colectomy, colostomy bag placement), chemotherapy
Monica D. feature profile

Monica D., Colorectal Cancer, Stage 1



Symptoms: None; caught at a routine colonoscopy
Treatment: Surgery (low anterior resection with temporary diverting ileostomy)

Edie H. feature profile

Edie H., Colorectal Cancer, Stage 3B



Symptom: Chronic constipation

Treatments: Chemotherapy, radiation, surgeries (lower anterior resection & temporary ileostomy)
Shayla L. feature profile

Shayla L., Colorectal Cancer, Stage 4



Symptoms: Stomach sensitivity, food intolerances, exhaustion, blood in stool
Treatments: Chemotherapy, surgery (hepatectomy)
Tracy R. feature profile

Tracy R., Colorectal Cancer, Stage 2B



Symptoms: Bloating and inflammation, heaviness in the rectum, intermittent rectal bleeding, fatigue
Treatments: Chemotherapy, radiation, surgery
Paula C. feature profile

Paula C., Colorectal Cancer, Stage 3



Symptoms: Painful gas, irregular bowel movements, blood in stool, anemia, severe pain, weight loss, fainting spells
Treatment: Surgery (tumor resection)
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Nick S., Colorectal Cancer, Stage 4A



Symptoms: Change in bowel habits, size & consistency, blood in stool, abdominal pain, fatigue
Treatments: Surgery (sigmoid colectomy), chemotherapy (capecitabine, oxaliplatin), immunotherapy (bevacizumab, pembrolizumab)
Kalei M. stage 4 rectal cancer

Kalei M., Rectal Cancer, Stage 4 (Metastatic)



Symptoms: Presence of mucus and tissue-like substance and blood in stool, stomach cramping

Treatment: Radiation therapy, chemotherapy, surgeries (two lung resections)
Jessica A. rectal cancer

Jessica A., Rectal Cancer, Stage 4 (Metastatic)



Symptoms: Changes in bowel movements, blood in stool, abdominal pain, back pain, difficulty sitting comfortably, constipation, feeling of incomplete evacuation (as if some stool remained after bowel movements), mucus-like stool consistency, bloating

Treatment: Immunotherapy under a clinical trial
Shiva S. T2 rectal cancer

Shiva S., Rectal Cancer, T2, and Renal Cancer, T3



Symptoms: Pressure and urgency of bowels, back pain
Treatments: Chemoradiation (for rectal cancer), surgery (ileostomy, combined bowel and kidney surgery), immunotherapy (for kidney cancer)

Jeanine B. stage 3 rectal cancer

Jeanine B., Rectal Cancer, Stage 3 (T3bN0M0)



Symptoms: Long history of bleeding that was blamed on hemorrhoids, pain in the tailbone, urgent need to use the restroom, unusually narrow stools, presence of mucus in stools, fatigue

Treatments: Chemotherapy, radiation therapy
Devon B. stage 4 rectal cancer

Devon B., Rectal Cancer, Stage 4



Symptoms: Pain when trying to move bowels, increased frequency of bowel movements alternating with periods of constipation, passing mucus instead of feces, narrow stools

Treatments: Surgery (ostomy surgery), radiation therapy, chemotherapy
James K. rectal cancer

James K., Rectal Cancer, Stage 3C/4



Symptoms: Occasional rectal bleeding, increasing fatigue

Treatments: Chemoradiation, surgeries (coloanal pull-through, temporary ileostomy, ileostomy reversal, permanent colostomy), adjuvant chemotherapy
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Chemotherapy Clinical Trials Patient Stories Radiation Therapy Rhabdomyosarcoma Sarcoma Soft Tissue Sarcoma Surgery Treatments

Choosing Quality of Life in Her Rhabdomyosarcoma Treatment

How Brittany Chooses Quality of Life in Her Stage 4 Rhabdomyosarcoma Treatment Decisions

Brittany received a life-altering diagnosis of stage 4 rhabdomyosarcoma in July 2024. What started as a small lump on her jaw quickly escalated into a whirlwind of hospital visits, major surgeries, and tough decisions. But throughout it all, Brittany has remained grounded in her values, fiercely committed to preserving her mental health, self-worth, and autonomy.

Interviewed by: Nikki Murphy
Edited by: Katrina Villareal

When Brittany first noticed the lump, doctors thought it might be a cyst. But after it rapidly swelled during a biopsy, further testing confirmed it was cancer. That moment, she recalls, shattered her sense of normalcy. Getting that phone call was a deeply painful turning point. From there, she had to quickly learn how to advocate for herself.

Initially, Brittany’s first oncologist didn’t offer many choices. She sought a second opinion, and that’s when things began to shift. Despite being a young adult, Brittany learned that stage 4 rhabdomyosarcoma is often treated as a pediatric condition, which brought its own emotional weight. But the new oncologist gave her options, including fertility preservation, which was emotionally and physically taxing but important to her.

Brittany C. stage 4 rhabdomyosarcoma

Brittany started chemotherapy and endured severe nausea, weight loss, and exhaustion, only to find out that the treatment wasn’t effective. In October, doctors removed the tumor surgically, replacing her jaw with titanium and using bone and muscle from her leg for reconstruction. She lost some facial movement in the process, a harsh reminder of the physical toll this diagnosis has taken.

Radiation therapy came next, damaging her salivary glands without improving her condition. Then the cancer spread to her lungs. After more chemo and even a clinical trial, Brittany made the decision that her treatments and their impact on daily life were stealing the quality of life she wanted. She bravely chose to stop her clinical trial treatments and take a more holistic approach, focusing on diet, lifestyle, and emotional healing. She is monitoring her lungs and scheduling a second surgery to work on her jaw.

Mental health has been the toughest part. Losing her physical strength, independence, and even pieces of her identity has been crushing at times. But Brittany has also grown immensely. With unwavering support from her boyfriend and his community, she’s learning to trust herself again, reclaiming her life on her own terms.

Brittany wants others to know they aren’t alone. Stage 4 rhabdomyosarcoma is terrifying, but fear doesn’t get to make the rules. You do. And she’s living proof that, even in the darkest hours, hope and strength can coexist.

Watch Brittany’s video to find out more about:

  • How Brittany found clarity and control after a devastating diagnosis
  • Why she has a titanium jaw
  • The emotional toll of stage 4 rhabdomyosarcoma
  • Why Brittany walked away from treatment to protect her quality of life
  • What it means to find your voice when the world tells you what to do

  • Name: 
    • Brittany C.
  • Age at Diagnosis:
    • 22
  • Diagnosis:
    • Rhabdomyosarcoma
  • Staging:
    • Stage 4
  • Symptom:
    • Small, sharp lump on the right side of the jaw
  • Treatments:
    • Surgeries: tumor removal & planned corrective jaw surgery
    • Chemotherapy
    • Radiation therapy
    • Clinical trial
Brittany C. stage 4 rhabdomyosarcoma
Brittany C. stage 4 rhabdomyosarcoma
Brittany C. stage 4 rhabdomyosarcoma
Brittany C. stage 4 rhabdomyosarcoma
Brittany C. stage 4 rhabdomyosarcoma
Brittany C. stage 4 rhabdomyosarcoma
Brittany C. stage 4 rhabdomyosarcoma

This interview has been edited for clarity and length. This is not medical advice. Please consult with your healthcare provider to make informed treatment decisions.

The views and opinions expressed in this interview do not necessarily reflect those of The Patient Story.


Brittany C. stage 4 rhabdomyosarcoma
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Treatments: Surgery, radiation, chemotherapy
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Symptom: Lump in right armpit
Treatments: Chemotherapy, radiation, targeted therapy, clinical trials, surgery, including forequarter amputation
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Symptoms: Aching in arm, lump in forearm
Treatments: Chemotherapy (14 rounds), surgery (of radius), radiation (36 sessions)
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Brandi B., Ewing Sarcoma (Soft Tissue), Stage 1B



Symptoms: Extreme fatigue, lump in pelvic area
Treatments: 17 cycles of chemotherapy in-patient at hospital with (leg-sparing) surgery in between
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Sophie F. Ewing sarcoma

Sophie F., Ewing Sarcoma (Soft Tissue), Stage 2



Symptoms: Appearance of a nickel-sized, blue, and solid but soft and spongy mark on upper left arm

Treatments: Surgeries (cyst excision surgery, wide excision surgery), chemotherapy
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Louis D., Gastrointestinal Stromal Tumor (GIST)



Symptom: Feeling the need for constant urination
Treatments: Surgery to take out the tumor, maintenance chemotherapy (3 years)
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Kara L., Synovial Sarcoma, Stage 1B



Symptoms: Pain behind left knee, needle-like sensation in left foot
Treatments: Surgery to remove what was thought to be benign tumor, chemotherapy, final surgery, radiation (36 sessions)
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Jillian J., Synovial Sarcoma, Stage 3



Symptom: Pain in leg for over 15 years
Treatments: Surgeries (tumor resection, thoracotomy)
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Marisa C., Synovial Sarcoma, Stage 4



Symptom: Small bump on the foot (stable for years, then grew during pregnancy), pain when pressed

Treatments: Surgeries (below-knee amputation, pulmonary wedge resections, segmentectomy), chemotherapy, radiation (lungs & hip)
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Julie K. stage 4 synovial sarcoma

Julie K., High-Grade Poorly Differentiated Spindle Cell Synovial Sarcoma, Stage 4



Symptoms: Chest and back pain after car accident, trouble breathing

Treatments: Chemotherapy, surgeries (lung resection, video-assisted thoracoscopic surgery or VATS, neurectomy, rib removal), radiation therapy (CyberKnife)

...
McKenna A. synovial sarcoma

McKenna A., Synovial Sarcoma, Stage 3 Grade 3B



Symptoms: Insomnia, weak immune system resulting in persistent illnesses such as UTIs and strep throat, severe swelling in left leg

Treatments: Surgery (tumor excision), chemotherapy, radiation therapy (proton radiation), integrative therapies
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Monica

Monica H., IDC, Stage 2B & Undifferentiated Pleomorphic Sarcoma



Symptoms: Tightness and lump in left breast
Treatments: Chemotherapy, radiation, surgery

Nicole B., Undifferentiated Pleomorphic Sarcoma, Stage 3



Symptoms: Severe intolerance to food, nausea
Treatments: Surgeries (cholecystectomy, Whipple), chemotherapy (Gemcitabine and Taxotere)

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Alli’s Integrative Approach to Appendix Cancer (LAMN & PMP)

Joining Forces: Alli’s Integrative Approach to Appendix Cancer (LAMN & PMP)

Alli’s story is one of resilience, self-advocacy, and the power of holistic care. Diagnosed with a rare type of appendix cancer (low-grade appendiceal mucinous neoplasm, or LAMN) that lead to a second rare cancer diagnosis — pseudomyxoma peritonei (PMP) — on Christmas Day in 2023, Alli faced a whirlwind of emotions and medical decisions, leading to personal growth. Living in Perth, Australia, but originally from the UK, she navigated this challenging time far from her extended family. Yet, through it all, she found a new purpose, deeper connections, and a fresh appreciation for life.

Interviewed by: Taylor Scheib
Edited by: Katrina Villareal

Looking back, Alli realizes she had symptoms for years — persistent bloating, constipation, severe abdominal pain, unexplained weight fluctuations — but they were often dismissed. As a nurse practitioner, she knew her body and pushed for answers, yet traditional scans failed to detect her low-grade appendiceal mucinous neoplasm (LAMN) with pseudomyxoma peritonei (PMP). Even after relocating to a different state, her symptoms intensified. It wasn’t until she demanded another scan in December 2023 that doctors discovered a suspicious fluid-filled mass. Days later, she found herself in emergency surgery.

Alli B. feature profile

Waking up from surgery, Alli was told her appendix had ruptured and cancer had spread throughout her abdominal cavity, affecting multiple organs. The news was devastating, but Alli’s medical background kicked in and she immediately started researching her options. With only five surgeons in Australia performing the complex peritonectomy surgery needed for her condition, she faced long wait times. Instead of succumbing to feelings of powerlessness, Alli took control of her health, exploring integrative treatments.

Alli traveled to Thailand where she underwent low-dose chemotherapy, hyperthermia, and high-dose vitamin infusions. This integrative treatment approach helped her reduce inflammation and tumor burden, making her stronger for the major surgery ahead. When the time came, Alli flew to Melbourne for the peritonectomy — a grueling 15-hour procedure. Waking up, she was overwhelmed with gratitude. The surgeons believed they had removed all visible cancer.

However, the road to recovery wasn’t easy. Just weeks later, Alli was hospitalized with a bowel obstruction and was told she was too high-risk for another surgery. She managed to avoid emergency intervention, but the experience was one of the most emotionally taxing of her life. Through holistic approaches and self-care, she has since managed her health while embracing a renewed sense of purpose.

Alli now dedicates herself to raising awareness about appendix cancer, self-advocacy in medical settings, and the importance of seeking second opinions. She emphasizes that no one should settle for a single diagnosis without exploring all options. Through social media, she provides hope to others facing cancer, proving that a diagnosis doesn’t define you — it’s how you approach it that matters. Every day, she wakes up grateful for life, her family, and the strength she’s built along the way.

Watch Alli’s story to find out more about:

  • How Alli’s medical background helped her fight for a proper diagnosis.
  • Why she chose a combination of alternative and traditional treatments before major surgery.
  • The mental and emotional impact of possibly dying young, like her mother.
  • The power of community and self-advocacy in navigating a rare cancer diagnosis.

  • Name: Alli B.
  • Age at Diagnosis:
    • 45
  • Diagnosis:
    • Appendix cancer – also known as Low-Grade Appendiceal Mucinous Neoplasm (LAMN) with Pseudomyxoma Peritonei (PMP)
  • Symptoms:
    • Bloating
    • Severe constipation for over a year
    • Severe abdominal pain
    • Stabbing pains over gallbladder area
    • Inability to walk or stand due to abdominal pain
    • Unexplained sharp weight gain and loss
  • Treatments:
    • Chemotherapy
    • Surgeries: appendectomy, peritonectomy
    • Integrative cancer care
Alli B.
Alli B.
Alli B.
Alli B.
Alli B.
Alli B.
Alli B.

As described by the Mayo Clinic regarding complementary and integrative therapy: treatments promoted in integrative medicine are not substitutes for conventional medical care. They should be used along with standard medical treatment.


This interview has been edited for clarity and length. This is not medical advice. Please consult with your healthcare provider to make informed treatment decisions.

The views and opinions expressed in this interview do not necessarily reflect those of The Patient Story.


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Lindsay B., LAMN Appendix Cancer



Symptom: Increasing urge to urinate

Treatments: Cytoreductive surgery (CRS), Hyperthermic Intraperitoneal Chemotherapy (HIPEC)

Faye L., Pseudomyxoma Peritonei (Rare Appendix Cancer)



Symptoms: Severe bloating, bad stomachache, elevated CA 125 and tumor markers

Treatments: Chemotherapy, surgery

Alli M., Appendix Cancer, Stage 4



Symptom: Severe abdominal pain

Treatments: Surgeries (right hemisphere colectomy, appendectomy, HIPEC), chemotherapy

Ariel M., Appendix Cancer, Stage 4, High-Grade



Symptom: Sharp pain with gas & bowel movements

Treatments: Surgery (radical hysterectomy), chemotherapy, PIPAC clinical trial (pressurized intraperitoneal aerosol chemotherapy)

Hannah R., Appendix Cancer, Stage 4



Symptoms: Bloating, fullness, UTIs, blood in urine, pain during intercourse, high blood pressure, spotting

Treatments: Surgery (appendectomy, cytoreductive surgery), chemotherapy, radiation (to treat recurrence)

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Chemotherapy Immunotherapy Myxofibrosarcoma Patient Stories Sarcoma Soft Tissue Sarcoma Treatments

A Second Opinion Changed Joel’s Grade 2 Myxofibrosarcoma Treatment Plan

Why Getting a Second Opinion Changed Joel’s Grade 2 Myxofibrosarcoma Treatment Plan

Joel has always valued family, faith, and community. Married for 31 years with a daughter and several foster children, he never imagined cancer would be part of his life. However, in a life-changing moment, in December 2024, at age 57, he was diagnosed with a grade 2 myxofibrosarcoma, a rare soft tissue cancer.

Interviewed by: Nikki Murphy
Edited by: Katrina Villareal

A small lump on his shin seemed minor at first, and he initially dismissed it as a fatty growth. However, over several months, it grew larger, prompting him to visit his doctor. As a precaution, though the doctor believed it was likely benign, they ordered tests to rule out any serious issues. An ultrasound came back inconclusive, leading to an MRI, which heightened concerns. Seeking a second opinion, Joel consulted a friend who connected him with a sarcoma specialist at the University of Iowa. Within hours, Joel received a call confirming that he had myxofibrosarcoma.

Joel S. feature profile

The uncertainty of his diagnosis was overwhelming. Not knowing whether he had months or years left to live was a heavy burden. However, after a biopsy confirmed it was grade 2 myxofibrosarcoma and contained, he felt a sense of relief. His doctor reassured him that they could treat his condition and manage it if it recurred.

Joel’s grade 2 myxofibrosarcoma treatment plan consists of radiation therapy, which he undergoes daily for a few minutes. Though he hasn’t experienced significant side effects yet, doctors have advised him that he may develop skin irritation in later weeks. After radiation, surgeons will remove the tumor and perform a skin graft and muscle repositioning to help the area heal properly.

Despite these medical interventions, Joel remains physically strong, continuing his workouts and daily routine without pain. Emotionally, Joel finds strength in his faith, family, and supportive community. His wife has been his rock and his close-knit group of friends offers him unwavering encouragement. His belief in God provides reassurance, removing the fear of death and allowing him to focus on living fully.

Beyond his experience with grade 2 myxofibrosarcoma, Joel emphasizes the importance of seeking medical advice early, especially for men who often downplay health concerns. He considers how his initial reluctance to get checked could have caused worse outcomes. Now, he encourages others to listen to their bodies and take proactive steps.

His outlook on life has shifted, centering on gratitude and using his experience to uplift others. He firmly believes in leveraging crises to bring awareness, comfort, and inspiration to those in need, rather than letting them go to waste. Instead of letting cancer define him, Joel is choosing to make a difference, reminding others that hope and purpose can thrive even in the face of adversity.


  • Name: 
    • Joel S.
  • Age at Diagnosis:
    • 57
  • Diagnosis:
    • Myxofibrosarcoma
  • Grade:
    • Grade 2
  • Symptom:
    • Lump on shin (gradual growth over several months)
  • Treatments:
    • Radiation therapy
    • Surgery: tumor removal & reconstruction of affected area
Joel S.
Joel S.
Joel S.

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