The Patient Story Podcast: I’m a Young Cancer Patient
(Ep. 01) From Cancer Caregiver to Patient: Taylor’s Story
What do you do when you get a cancer diagnosis? Where do you go? Whom do you call? How do you become your own patient advocate?
There are so many overwhelming questions that hit the people who’ve been diagnosed and those in their closest circles. Here is the first-ever episode of a new video podcast hosted by The Patient Story founder and lymphoma survivor Stephanie Chuang.
This inaugural episode features a special guest: Stephanie’s colleague at The Patient Story and fellow former TV journalist, Taylor Scheib, who shares her experience navigating a cancer diagnosis, shifting from her role as a patient advocate and the daughter of a cancer survivor — her mom, Kelly — to becoming a cancer patient, herself.
Interviewed by: Stephanie Chuang
Edited by: Chris Sanchez, Stephanie Chuang
Taylor shares the moment she discovered her diagnosis. She was sitting on her couch and casually checking her MyChart when the words “oncocytic carcinoma of the thyroid gland” appeared. (Editor’s Note: Oncocytic carcinoma of the thyroid gland is a rare, aggressive kind of thyroid cancer. It’s also known as Hürthle cell carcinoma.)
She was devastated by the diagnosis, but her background in patient advocacy helped her regain her footing. Her experience and knowledge built from working closely with both patients and caregivers helped her recognize symptoms and push for answers. This reinforces a crucial message: You are your own best advocate.

Taylor’s ability to listen to her body played a pivotal role in her experience. She had first noticed a nodule in her neck three years before her diagnosis, and had continued monitoring it through regular check-ups. When the nodule grew, she trusted her instincts and insisted on further evaluations, even when her concerns weren’t met with urgency. This underscores the vital lesson of trusting your body and speaking up when something feels off.
Taylor experienced further challenges when she tried to navigate the healthcare system. Her patience was tested by insurance hurdles, delays in scheduling surgeries, and having to wait for tumor board evaluations. She candidly discusses the frustration of feeling like just another case number. But her experience and resilience won through as she managed both the system and the mental toll of cancer. She found strength in support from her husband, family, and friends.
Taylor’s patient advocate experience also underscores the power of storytelling. At the start, it wasn’t easy for her to share her story publicly, but when she did so, she found it cathartic. Through opening up, she not only helped herself heal but also offered enlightenment and hope to others with similar struggles. Taylor’s authenticity is a good reminder that behind every social media highlight reel, real struggles do exist, and sharing them can be profoundly empowering.
Please scroll below to read the full transcript from The Patient Story Podcast Episode 1!
- Name:
- Taylor Scheib
- Age at Diagnosis:
- 30
- Diagnosis:
- Thyroid Cancer (Oncocytic Carcinoma of the Thyroid Gland)
- Staging:
- Stage 1
- Symptom:
- Appearance of neck nodule that grew over three years
- Treatments:
- Surgery: thyroidectomy
- Radiation therapy: iodine therapy (upcoming)

- Podcast Summary
- Introducing Taylor: A Patient Advocate Becomes the Patient
- The Shock of Diagnosis: Getting News from MyChart
- Emotional Fallout: Processing a Cancer Diagnosis
- Self-Advocacy: Trusting Your Instincts and Pushing for Answers
- Barriers and Delays: Navigating the Healthcare System
- The Waiting Game: Coping with Uncertainty and Lack of a Plan
- Community and Connection: Reaching Out and Trauma Bonding
- Telling Others: Navigating Reactions and Support Systems
- Supporting a Loved One: Tips for Friends and Family from a Patient Advocate
- Sharing the Journey Publicly: The Power and Healing of Storytelling
- Give Yourself Grace: Final Reflections and Words of Wisdom
Give yourself grace. But do it on your own time.
Editor’s Note: This transcript has been edited only for simple clarity.
Podcast Summary
- When It Rains, It Pours
- Taylor shares her mom’s own brush with cancer and how this was her first touch point in joining The Patient Story.
- Taylor and Stephanie talk about the unpredictability of medical challenges, including those faced by cancer patients.
- Introducing Taylor: A Patient Advocate Becomes the Patient
- Taylor discusses her role at The Patient Story and how it made her more aware of cancer and its impact.
- Taylor and Stephanie delve into the unexpected turn Taylor’s cancer experience took.
- The Shock of Diagnosis: Getting News from MyChart
- The moment Taylor learned about her diagnosis and the emotions that welled up.
- The challenges associated with getting life-changing news like she did over a digital platform like MyChart.
- Emotional Fallout: Processing a Cancer Diagnosis
- The immediate emotional impact when Taylor heard the word “carcinoma.”
- The questions that surfaced afterwards.
- Self-Advocacy: Trusting Your Instincts and Pushing for Answers
- Taylor discusses the importance of self-advocacy and being a patient advocate in healthcare, as well as the power of listening to one’s body.
- She also opens up about her persistence in getting her nodule checked and how it helped her get results.
- Barriers and Delays: Navigating the Healthcare System
- Taylor and Stephanie delve into the problems many patients experience when they try to navigate the healthcare system, including systemic delays and provider shortages.
- They also explore the frustration patients can experience when urgent concerns face logistical roadblocks.
- The Waiting Game: Coping with Uncertainty and Lack of a Plan
- Taylor and Stephanie discuss how difficult it can be to wait for clear next steps post-diagnosis.
- They outline and explore strategies to help manage mental health during periods like these.
- Community and Connection: Reaching Out and Trauma Bonding
- Taylor shares how reconnecting with old friends and the support from her community have been vital during her journey.
- “Give yourself grace, but also do it on your own time.”
- Telling Others: Navigating Reactions and Support Systems
- Taylor and Stephanie reflect on how to talk about a new diagnosis, the variety of reactions from others, and maintaining boundaries in relationships.
- Supporting a Loved One: Tips for Friends and Family
- They offer tangible advice for supporters: what to say, what not to say, and how to truly show up.
- “The small stuff means more.” — Some of the most thoughtful and meaningful gifts aren’t the most expensive ones.
- Sharing the Journey Publicly: The Power and Healing of Storytelling
- Taylor explains why she chose to be open on social media and the cathartic role of storytelling.
- She offers advice for those who are also considering sharing their experiences.
- Give Yourself Grace: Final Reflections and Words of Wisdom
- In closing, Taylor and Stephanie share uplifting thoughts on the importance of being a patient advocate, self-compassion, and owning one’s narrative.
Introducing Taylor: A Patient Advocate Becomes the Patient
Stephanie Chuang: Hi, everyone. It’s Stephanie here with The Patient Story. I’m just starting something new here. Wanting to be able to touch base more with everyone out there who’s finding us. If you remember, I had my own cancer experience when I was diagnosed suddenly with a non-Hodgkin lymphoma. Diffuse large B-cell lymphoma. I was 31 at the time, two months from getting married, and it was a complete whirlwind, to say the least.
But joining me today, I’m so excited to introduce someone who many people may be familiar with on our channel, Taylor. Taylor is on our team at The Patient Story. An amazing leader. And Taylor’s joining us for not-so-great reasons, but I am so grateful that she’s coming on to share her story. So, Taylor, do you want to share a little bit about yourself first, of course, outside of the cancer diagnosis?


Taylor Scheib: Stephanie, thank you so much for the warm welcome. So crazy being on this side instead of being the one guiding the conversation. I live in the Pacific Northwest with my amazing husband Justin and our dog Sage. She is our world. She’s our Chocolate Lab. And we love to hike. We love to be outdoors, and we love to camp. I’m originally from Illinois, from a really small town. My high school graduating class was 30 people, and so I’m from a very rural area. And I’m so grateful where I grew up, though I have amazing friends and family back home, I’ve lived away from home for a long time, so that’s been an interesting part of navigating my situation. But yeah, my mom is a colorectal cancer survivor. She was diagnosed with stage 3 colon cancer in November of 2023.
Stephanie Chuang: Taylor has been someone who’s led so many of these conversations with people, with patients, caregivers, care partners, and you know, the first personal touch point in joining The Patient Story was you introducing your mom, Kelly, to the process. She shared her story of going through colorectal cancer. And I’m so grateful again to both of you for being so open about that. But you may see that Taylor has a throat scar. Yep. And that her voice sounds hoarse. She doesn’t normally sound like that. I was on a work trip, actually, and then, got a late text from Taylor, and that was, of course, not usual. So, Taylor, just walk us through what was happening at the time.
The Shock of Diagnosis: Getting News from MyChart
Taylor Scheib: Yeah, it was a Monday night. 5:15 p.m.. I was about two weeks post partial thyroidectomy for a nodule on the right side of my thyroid. And that night, I just got a message from MyChart with my pathology results. And when I got the pathology results, it was out of sight, out of mind, from my surgery. Because not once did anyone say, “Hey, be on the lookout for your pathology.” I knew that the nodule and the mass were going to be sent off, of course, but I never thought that when I got those results, it would read anything but benign. And unfortunately, when I got those results, I was sitting on my couch, my husband’s cooking dinner. I get into MyChart, and the first thing I see is “oncocytic carcinoma of the thyroid gland.”
I immediately shoot up. I’m crying. My husband is like turning off the burners in the kitchen because I just bluntly, out loud go, “I’m pretty sure I have cancer.” And my husband goes, “What? What do you mean?” And that word ‘carcinoma’. I know what that means. And I don’t know if, before starting at The Patient Story and dealing with my mom’s diagnosis that I would have known what carcinoma meant. And so, because I am educated, because I’m privileged to work for such an amazing company where I’m learning so much every single day, I knew carcinoma meant cancer. We immediately came to this very spot, right where I’m sitting. We got on my laptop, we started researching, and the word oncocytic was a word I had never heard. I’d never seen or heard anything. Yeah, you start to Google. And that’s where my patient advocate story began, with my diagnosis.


Stephanie Chuang: Oh, wow. Yeah, there’s a lot there, I know. When I got the message, and then I got on the phone with you and you told me, first of all. I mean, it just took me right back to that feeling of, wait a minute. What’s going on? Right. And cancer and all the things.
And of course, my diagnosis was years previous. I was diagnosed back in December of 2016 and into January 2017. So it’s been a minute, which I’m very grateful for. But really, no matter how long the time, I remember that feeling of, What the hell just happened? And in your case, to spell it out for people, they would go, “Oh, you have this nodule, and you need to get it removed.” It’s benign, though, and nowhere, never did anyone ever say it might be something.
Now, I can understand, by the way, why, without the information of a biopsy and without other, maybe contextual clues that they might say this is benign. But at the same time, there’s this whole thing of, oh, my God, you said the results had actually been in for a while, and then it just popped up on MyChart. What was hitting you in that moment about your life? What were the thoughts and the emotions?
Emotional Fallout: Processing a Cancer Diagnosis
Taylor Scheib: Yeah. I already have tears in my eyes thinking about this answer. Because when you work for an amazing organization like The Patient Story, you’re hearing these stories every single day. You’re writing scripts and you’re creating this beautiful content. The underlying thing is tragic, and that is a cancer diagnosis. And so I would be lying if I said I never thought I’d get cancer. I’ve thought it. And you become just so much more aware of your body and the feelings that you’re feeling, and going to the doctor and getting your checks, getting your women’s health exams when you’re listening to these incredible people every single day.
And then when your mom goes through it as well. So I was shocked. But when the dust settled, I wasn’t that shocked because cancer can happen to anybody. And so being so young, I had just turned 30. My husband and I just came back from this incredible trip to Puerto Vallarta that he planned for my 30th birthday.
And this year was going to be filled with amazing trips and celebrating friends who are getting married. And you know, we’re doing all of those things still, of course. But in that moment, I just thought, what are the next six months going to look like? I’m such a planner, as Stephanie knows.
And I just kept thinking, what is this going to look like for me? And then the unknowns started. That started the spiral of, How do we know for sure that it’s all gone? But, going back to the emotional part of it, it was devastating for my husband and me. We have heard about cancer a lot in our families, so cancer was not new to us even before starting my job. But it was still just heartbreaking, devastating.


How could cancer be growing in my body for three years and I not know it, because I found the nodule three years ago? And so it was a hard moment. But because of my husband and his personality, and how just fun and outgoing and level-headed he is. It didn’t take me long from the initial spiral to come down and realize, this is not going to be my whole life. This is hopefully going to just be a moment in time. That was sad and devastating, but we’re going to look back at the beauty of it.
Stephanie Chuang: Yeah, that is so beautifully said. Thank you, Taylor. What I’m hearing you say is a few things. And by the way, I think this applies to people outside of cancer diagnoses. It’s like anything, anything in general, but definitely with healthcare, something that is about your body, maybe feeling like I’ve heard people, including myself, you know, talk about betraying us, you know, in a way. And you have the initial shock. There’s a lot of sadness, and there’s a lot of, how did this happen?
And then for you, what I’m hearing is that you went, okay, well, now it’s time to tackle this. This is not going to be my life. This is one thing that I’m just going to look at and get and get through. Right. And one of the things I know you exemplify, and I think you did before you started here, and maybe even more so now. But this idea of self-advocacy, which we hear so much about for you, started really early on because no one was really that concerned about your nodule except for you. And I think there’s a message in there. And what is that message for other people?
… you know your body best, and you know how comfortable you are with something inside your body or making a decision.
Self-Advocacy: Trusting Your Instincts and Pushing for Answers
Taylor Scheib: Yeah, that message would be, you know your body best, and you know how comfortable you are with something inside your body or making a decision. And for me, when I found the nodule. It was after my 27th birthday. We had just karaoke all night. It’s one of my favorite pastimes.
And I immediately went to the doctor, got bloodwork, got an ultrasound of the lump, and from there, it was my choice, what I would do with that information. So I continued getting my yearly exams, getting full blood work done. And last year was when I was like, okay, this is getting bigger. People are starting to notice it.
And I want to say this part as well, because I had a friend who, and this is where advocacy comes in many different ways, not only for yourself, but other people doing it for you. She noticed the lump, and her dad had thyroid cancer. So she asked me, “Have you gotten that checked out?” And I said, “Yes, I have.” But at that point, I realized that it’s been a year since I had done it previously. Why not get it done again? So I started the process all over. Routine blood work, ultrasound, you know, did that. And then I just wanted to get it out at that point because it was really large. It ended up being 5.7cm.
And so after that ultrasound, it was up to me to schedule the ENT appointment. You know, getting into the ENT took months. As we all know, those specialty appointments just take a long time to get into. So I finally got into the appointment in November, and my ENT was very casual about it. Looked at the ultrasound.


At this point, no one ever said, “Let’s do a biopsy,” and we don’t know if the biopsy even would have caught it anyway, so I’m not going to dwell on that. But she went, “Yeah, this is benign. The features are all normal. It’s your choice to get it out. Are you ready to have a scar? And I said, “Yeah, let’s go.” I just couldn’t do abs anymore. Like working out without it choking me. Being in bed, lying on it. I could feel it all the time at that point. So I advocated to get it out because I knew that was the best choice of action for me. It was also something my mom was telling me, “Maybe you should just get it out.”
But at this point, it had compromised that whole side of my thyroid. So I was going to have to get a partial thyroidectomy. So I was a little scared. But coming back to the self-advocacy part of this, you know your body best, and it’s okay to push and not necessarily get it removed. Did I push because they got me on the schedule, but I was non-emergent, so very limited spots to get. Surgery was scheduled for surgery in January. My insurance referral did not go through in time. So the morning of that original surgery in January, I’m on the phone with my ENT, and they’re like, well, you could just chance it. And I’m like, facing a large medical bill without the correct referral.
Stephanie Chuang: Right.
Taylor Scheib: And my husband’s in the military, so I knew there were a little bit more hoops to jump through with that type of insurance. And so I was on the books for April. It just automatically got pushed back three months.
Barriers and Delays: Navigating the Healthcare System
Stephanie Chuang: Yeah. So I just have to interject there because I feel like that part of the patient advocate story, right, is like it’s one of the parts of the experiences that we all experience to some degree, but isn’t talked about a lot, which is when you’re dealing with cancer. I remember, you know, getting told that this might be cancer and then being like, but it’s probably mono. And I was like, mono? And then it was like, but you need an ultrasound to one here, one here.
I got on the call to get it scheduled. And they said, “We don’t have an appointment for weeks.” And I’m thinking, you can’t tell me that there’s this thing and that I have to wait. So my point is that there’s the system, there’s like our situations, and this message of self-advocacy is, it truly is the squeaky wheel gets the grease or whatever, because you know, you know your body best what you just said and also you I mean, there’s some things that are out of our control. But you see, the system we’re working with and the unexpectedness of being like, how come I’m the only one who’s concerned about this? Did you feel that?
Taylor Scheib: Yes, I felt that. And it was. That’s been the whole thing over the last six months of seeing the NT. Getting the surgery scheduled is why there is no sense of urgency behind this. Every time I’ve seen my ENT. She’s so busy. When I had my follow-up for my surgery, it was not her. It was her [physician’s assistant] PA.
And it continued past my diagnosis. First of all, I found out through MyChart, which is a story I’ve heard, unfortunately. And every time someone I’m talking to tells me that story, instant goosebumps. Instant. Just feeling what they’re feeling through the screen. Then it was okay. Your case is going to be presented to the tumor board, and I want to make sure that I’m explaining what a tumor board is correctly.
So Stephanie, please help me with this color. But basically, when you have a unique case like mine, where we thought it was benign for three years, the mass was 5.7cm. And then on top of that, it is a less common subtype of thyroid cancer. It’s being presented to the tumor board. Well, they only meet once a month. So and it was at the end of the month when this happened in April, so it wasn’t going to be until a month for the tumor board.


Stephanie Chuang: You talked about self-advocacy, which we’ll talk about throughout the entire conversation. But this idea of waiting, waiting for your appointment, waiting for insurance to approve or not approve, waiting for a tumor board. For me, it was like getting a diagnosis on the phone and then being told by a family friend. You know, oncology is going to take forever at your large academic institution, so just go to the emergency department.
So that’s another tip for people, by the way: just get into the system. So you get seen, and then they put you somewhere that you’re supposed to be. But I was waiting to understand. I remember they did so many procedures, I had biopsies and bone marrow biopsies and lymph node extractions and blood tests upon blood tests. And then it was the whole week in the hospital. What is it like? We know it’s lymphoma. Is it Hodgkin or non-Hodgkin? Are we talking about, you know, aggressive or indolent? Are we talking… So? Not this period, and you’re still in it. That’s what I want to acknowledge, is you’re still in it, is it feels like there’s still no plan of action.
And I think for different people who are dealing with a diagnosis that it varies. Like sometimes it’s very short and, you know, right away for other people like you, you’re waiting weeks to understand, well, what are we going to do about this? So how have you been able to manage the mental part of that, the waiting part of it?
I have my good days. I have my bad days, more good than bad days, which is good. But it’s just about occupying your mind.
The Waiting Game: Coping with Uncertainty and Lack of a Plan
Taylor Scheib: It’s so hard, honestly, and I have my good days. I have my bad days, more good than bad days, which is good. But it’s just about occupying your mind. And when I was diagnosed and I started telling my close friends and family, I think, like trauma bonding, it’s very powerful. I have some friends that I don’t talk to every day, of course, but they’re your best friends no matter what. You pick up right where you left off.
So, as crappy as this was to get this diagnosis, it gave me a chance to actually kind of get closer with some of my friends. That has been such an amazing distraction since my diagnosis, catching up with old friends, catching up with your family again. My dad is calling me so much more, he calls all the time in general, but even more so now, my grandparents are reaching out like every so often. So I would say that’s been one solid thing.
Then the other part has been my husband. He has been my rock, of course, through this. Then we’re super active people. So we went and bought really expensive bikes to get on the trails. Stay active. And we’re just trying to find ways to continue living our lives. And for us, that is planning a trip. So, sorry, Stephanie, in the next year or so, I’m going to be going on some trips.
Stephanie Chuang: Oh, 100%. And you should go out and live your life 100%. No apologies. That’s 100% what you should be doing. And it makes me so happy to hear that. Those are the steps that you guys are taking. So many things came up when you were talking about that. You know, when you talk about trauma bonding, I’ll talk about the flip side of some of the experiences I’ve had, too. But this is the question of why we need a reason? But we do. I love that it just automatically gave this a thumbs up.


Community and Connection: Reaching Out and Trauma Bonding
Stephanie Chuang: People come from different places, whether you’re close. My friends started a campaign called #SpicyStrong. And I think it’s because when I was in my delirium, when they put me under for the lymph node biopsy, I had to go under full anesthesia, and I don’t know if I was going in or coming out, but I was super loopy. And so I was talking to the nurse. And I went, “I’m so spicy and strong,” or something, I mean, ridiculous. And then that just became the hashtag.
They printed shirts, and it got to people, and they were posting on social media. This is making me remember a lot of things I forgot. But people who are super close to me, people who I hadn’t seen in years. And that is such a beautiful part of this, right? One of the silver linings. I’d rather not have this, but the fact that I do and people like me are showing how much they think about me. I mean, what was the most powerful? I mean, I know you had lots of people reach out, but is there one situation where it took you by surprise, or a message that came from someone you hadn’t talked to in a while?
Taylor Scheib: Yeah, there’s one example where, and I’m sure you can relate to this, being formally in the news. You bounce around all these towns and cities, and you have friends everywhere, like I mentioned. And even when I just had the partial thyroidectomy, a group of friends in Denver sent me a care package, and that was before I even got my diagnosis. And so I was just so taken aback and just so thankful for them sending that. And so that was one thing. And then the other has been again, when I was in sports broadcasting, and I’ve heard from so many people from the little towns that I was covering, you know, seven, eight, nine years ago. And they’re commenting on my post, just saying, you know, we’re supporting you. This community is supporting you.
That’s just meant the world to me. And so those have been instances where it kind of stops you in your tracks. I don’t know if you’ve felt that way, but you just think, humanity is good. Yeah, yeah. Decency still. And there is a way to break through the screen. There’s a way to break through the phone call, the FaceTime, the message. And so I’m not sure if you felt that same way in those instances, but it stops you in your tracks, and you just realize, I have so many amazing people in my life.
Stephanie Chuang: Yes, 100%. It does resonate. Taylor. It’s 100% humanity is amazing. These are the beautiful moments of humanity when people come out. And, you know, I think a lot of the social stuff might be we are scared to, you know, reach out to someone from before because we think, well, what if they think I’m weird or they don’t even remember me or whatever? And these situations just take us completely out of that. Right. It’s like, no, I care about this person, or I just want them to know that I’m thinking about them, and it’s okay if they don’t reply or all those things. I think that is beautiful, and I wish more of us could get to that.
Yes, 100%. It does resonate. Taylor. It’s 100% humanity is amazing. These are the beautiful moments of humanity when people come out. And, you know, I think a lot of the social stuff might be that we are scared to reach out to someone from before because we’re like, well, what if they think I’m weird or they don’t even remember me or whatever? And these situations just take us completely out of that. Right. No, I care about this person, or I just want them to know that I’m thinking about them, and it’s okay if they don’t reply or all those things. I think that is beautiful, and I wish more of us could get to that.

… whatever other people’s reaction is, it is not about you. It is, of course, about concern for you and what you’re going through for the people who love you.

Telling Others: Navigating Reactions and Support Systems
Stephanie Chuang: I do want to touch on just because, for anyone who’s tuning in who is dealing with something again, it could be a diagnosis, cancer, or otherwise. It could be something else. When you have something to tell other people that they’re not familiar with. So I don’t know, sometimes I’ve found that military people find that with civilians. It’s like a walking-around language with sickness. Or maybe if someone’s announcing, say, a divorce and other people aren’t familiar with it, it could be any of those things.
I think the way other people react is very – it can be very jarring. And so I’d like to spend some time here, which is that, you know, people have different kinds of people in their lives. Some people have tons of friends, some people have a tighter circle and and all these things. I’ll start with an example, which is a newer friend, but I’d known her for a few years at least. More of a social friend, maybe.
But when I was diagnosed, she kind of disappeared, and she was one of the people I saw more often in that time frame. You know, a lot of my friends, to your point, are scattered around the country. And so it was very disappointing, and it was hurtful because here I am thinking about my mortality, not sure about what I’m going to do, worried about my hair loss, and all these things. I’m 31, and she just dropped off.
I just want to say this, not to harp on her as a person, but really to say, I think what I learned in that is whatever other people’s reaction is, it is not about you. It is, of course, about concern for you and what you’re going through for the people who love you. But for any of the weird stuff or the things that might be surprising, I would just say, broad strokes, the reaction is about their discomfort. They don’t know how to show up. They do care about you, but they’re worried about how they’re going to come across.
Maybe they think other people are talking a bunch to you, and so they’re trying to be respectful of you. Not right or wrong. But I do feel like that’s something I’d want to share with other people who are going through something, because it can be very tough when it’s unexpected. I don’t know if there’s something that resonated for you there a lot.
Taylor Scheib: It is. When I first started telling people, I realized very quickly, the way you present it will help determine how they react. So in the first couple of conversations I had, it was kind of very emotional. A lot of information, whoa, what is going on? But then the more I told people, the more I started setting the precedent of, right at the beginning, I’m going to be fine. I’m going to be okay. And then that’s when I think people went, okay, she’s she’s she’s going to be okay. And I have been very positive throughout this whole situation. And I think that has helped the way people are reacting.
Now, I will say on the positive side, kind of the opposite of what you experienced was I’ve gotten a lot closer to one of my high school best friends, like my childhood best friends. We have been friends literally since kindergarten. Wow. And we talk every once in a while. And when we see each other, we pick up right where we left off, like I’ve said. But we’ve talked more since this happened to me. And even when I just did the partial thyroidectomy, she called me that weekend, and I sounded like crap. Did not have a voice.
Taylor Scheib: She was crying on the phone. And it makes me emotional because that’s an experience where she’s showing up for me. And that, and her mom, and her. They are like my OGs, but I don’t see them very often. And so it’s kind of the flip side of what you experienced. But what you experienced with someone dropping off like that is likely going to happen for me in the next six months or however long this process ends up being.
But my mom experienced that. She was shocked by the people who she didn’t hear from again, or they didn’t show up for, you know, she had a benefit. They didn’t show up for that, or just a text message or a phone call. She was shocked by the couple of people. And you don’t forget those things, but I think it makes you become a better human in a way, and it makes you check up on your people a little bit more. That’s how I’m trying to spin it, at least.
Stephanie Chuang: And knowing you from what I know of you, Taylor, I don’t even think it’s a spin. I think you have that. That’s just the way you approach life. And I appreciate that. Yeah. No, 100%. I would say that was the only example of that. And everything was largely positive. I think I do want to call out that it may not happen to you, by the way. Right. I think it’s good to understand that if it does, though, that it’s normal and it’s not about you. It’s about them. And the other drop off, someone had warned me when I was just going through it, and she had gone through the same cancer just six months before I did. And she said, “Look, I’m struggling now that I’m done with treatment. People are like, you’re fine now.”
And then, the medical help drops off, and then the support also, because, well, you’re all good. And so that’s another conversation for another day. But I think my point is that at different parts of this, you know, it doesn’t mean, oh, I’m past this now. It’s that there’s different versions depending on where we are as patients, as people supporting other people, that these same emotions can come up or these same situations can come up. I also want the chance to drop in this video of my best friend in New York, she flew out with her husband, and at the time, I had to give myself blood thinner injections every day.
And those are freaking large. You know, I did IVF shots to freeze embryos at the same time. So I had to do the little needles and then the spring needles for the blood thinners. And, oh my God, it was terrible. And there’s a video of the way they supported me, trying to make fun sometimes. So, you know, the song that goes, shots, shots, shots, shots, shots, shots, shots. Yeah. So I was about to give one, and they go, “Oh, we’re just gonna sing the song for you.” And those are moments for sure where this is me getting loved on by people who are trying to lighten the situation for me in the way that they think might be helpful. So anyway, I think that’s awesome.


Stephanie Chuang: I want to ask about your mom. I know other people may not have this specific example where it’s like their parent also went through a similar diagnosis, but in terms of other people’s reaction to when you’re telling people what that was like, what’s your guidance to other people who feel like there’s an extra layer there? Whatever the reason is for you, it was that your mom had gone through her cancer recently, even. But for anyone who feels like there’s an added pressure in making sure the other person’s okay, what is your guidance there?
Taylor Scheib: Yeah, I would just say the biggest thing is give yourself grace, but also do it on your own time. That is so important. Yes, there’s pressure to tell people and update people and do all the things. I totally get that. But do it on your own time. You and I also think that what helped as well is I just I’m a very factual person. I’m blunt. I’m not going to sugarcoat things. So I think it was my messaging to them. These are the facts, I know. I don’t know anything else. And then I think that helps with them asking a bunch of questions.
You know, like deep dive spiraling. I think it’s just about giving yourself grace and giving the situation grace and not feeling like you have to always be giving updates to your friends and family or talking to them. Or it can take about a day to respond to someone. And my friends and family know that. They know that I’m very busy. My husband and I, Justin. We live a very active life. We are always doing something. And so yeah, I think it’s also if you get a text message, don’t feel like you have to respond right away or call them back or anything, right? This is on your own time, and that goes beyond just your friends and family. I’ve heard this so many times from people that I interview. You are the CEO of your life, of your body, of what you do. You are the leader of your own life. And I think that’s just so important.
Stephanie Chuang: Yeah. I mean, in the future conversations, I’m going to be pulling up from our patient advocate interviews because they have so much wisdom in what they’re saying. I mean, there are so many things that I want to talk to you about. Let’s talk for three hours. No, that’s fine with the audience. No. But I think, you know, whatever way you want to look at it. In terms of tips. There are some tips for the person who’s dealing with the diagnosis. Diagnosis? I agree with you, Taylor. 100% of the give yourself grace. I think in life in general, we could stand to hear that more often anyway, right? We give other people the compassion we don’t give ourselves. But on that note, give yourself grace and do not worry as much as you can about the other person’s reaction. You don’t have that space to carry that burden. So don’t tip on the other side.
Supporting a Loved One: Tips for Friends and Family from a Patient Advocate
Stephanie Chuang: I would give to people who are looking to support patients, because I’ve heard that a lot. Right? They might go, “Oh my gosh, my friend, my family member was just diagnosed. How can I support them?” I think in terms of messaging, I would always lead with whatever. If it’s an email or a text or whatever, or a voicemail.
No pressure to respond. I just wanted to, and that just takes off the pressure. So you get to send the message, and you’re letting them know. I get that you’re super busy and you’re occupied, and I’m not trying to take away your bandwidth. Another tip would be people ask about, “What can I send someone who’s just been diagnosed with cancer?” I’m going to ask you about this, too, so you can brainstorm. But I’ve often thought, if you can figure out if they know their treatment, I would base the care package on that. So if you know that they’re going through radiation, you can look, and we’re going to create this online to have some guides at The Patient Story, but it is to really look at what that modality of treatment is, and then try to send stuff. So, you know, I’ve sent organic lotions to people because they were going to get dry skin, blankets because one of the side effects was going to be feeling cold, things like that. I don’t know if there are things that you feel would be great advice for people trying to help people dealing with the new diagnosis.
Taylor Scheib: Yeah. You made such a great point. Blankets, things like that. But then I also think, like anything, that the person who’s going through the treatment or diagnosis, self-care, they should just put self-care out there.
So yeah, if it’s maybe organic products or maybe it’s a bath bomb, or of course, depending on their treatment, like we said. But for me, everyone knows I’m going through the waiting period. So I think a lot of people went, “How does she want to relax and sew face masks and bath bombs and electrolytes and different things like that?” So I would say anything that you can think of that person likes, that is self-care.
Books, a journal. You can never have enough journals. Something to preoccupy them, too, whether that’s like a coloring book or, you know, crossword puzzles. Not that I do any of that, I’m not going to lie. But if you know that person enjoys that kind of pastime. Right. Or maybe something like, this is old school, but a CD with their favorite songs on it.
Stephanie Chuang: Right, right.
Taylor Scheib: And I also think, too, when it comes to what you could give that person or send them in these moments, it does not have to be elaborate. The small stuff means more. And so maybe it’s a Spotify playlist, maybe it’s a $15 Amazon gift card, maybe it’s a gift card to their favorite restaurant. The self-care food.
Don’t overthink it. When you want to give something to that person. It can be something very small, even just a Venmo. I had a good friend, one of my best friends from home, send me a Venmo the day of my follow-up ENT appointment, and the caption was, Go get a cheeseburger after this.
Stephanie Chuang: Oh no, I love that it is. It’s the small things. It is that thought that counts. It is true. I think there are a couple of things that came to mind, too. And then we’ll and then we’ll wrap this conversation, which, by the way, I’ve enjoyed having with you. I think one quick note is if people are waiting. You’re not in the hospital. I know when I was waiting, and I was in the hospital for a shorter period of time, the nurses at one point said, “Don’t send flowers, or we’re telling people, don’t send flowers.” And that’s for when people are immunocompromised.
The knee-jerk sometimes is like beautiful flowers, but just to make sure.

… why I decided to share my story so openly was because at the core of who I am, I’ve always been very transparent, very honest, and I am an empath. I need empathy at the core of who I am, and that’s where the storytelling part of my life, like my whole life, has been storytelling at the core.

Sharing the Journey Publicly: The Power and Healing of Storytelling
Stephanie Chuang: The other point that happens to matter both in terms of support, but also in terms of talking about messaging and not having to respond to text messages right away. What was helpful for me was to designate people who knew the information, and if other people needed to know or wanted to know about the diagnosis or where I was in that, specifically, they would go through those people. You know, it’s funny, we both were on TV before, but we were also very private people, actually, and I never imagined that I would bare my soul online or continue to have a presence after my news career.
But I had a blog, and the initial point of the blog was a it just helped. It was cathartic to get stuff out on, like just journaling, essentially. But then it was like, well, two things: if I can help other people not feel alone. And also then it helped in terms of people getting updates without me having to like constantly. But then that slowly became cathartic as a storytelling mechanism.
And by the way, you know, we’ll have like the storytelling, you could share yours. There are the prompts below in the description. But for you, Taylor, what has it been? This is my last question to you. What has it been like? I guess, how did you decide to want to share? I didn’t even realize you were going to share your story on social media. And it happened. But like what? What drove you to want to do that? And what has been maybe the most cathartic part of the process, especially a message for people who do feel like I’m private. I don’t think this is for me. Right?
Taylor Scheib: Yeah. I resonate so much with when you get out of a job that is so public, like we were in in TV, I don’t find myself posting at all anymore, but why I decided to share my story so openly was because at the core of who I am, I’ve always been very transparent, very honest, and I am an empath. I need empathy at the core of who I am, and that’s where the storytelling part of my life, like my whole life, has been storytelling at the core. I’ve always been a storyteller. You know, I can get along with anyone, and I just am amazed and mesmerized by other people.
I just love people so much, and they teach me so much about life and about the way you should live life. You know, there’s no guidebook to that, of course, but when I decided to share it publicly, I just wanted people to know that we say it all the time, that they’re not alone. They might be going through anything, and they’re like, “Wow, this person feels just a little bit like I do.” And that’s what keeps people going. And so behind sharing my story and trying to keep people up to date, I just. It’s kind of. It’s hard to explain. I just wanted people to know that everyone is going through something that is a big part of it, and to social media.
If you look at my Instagram, you will see my husband, my friends and family, my dog, and you go, wow, that girl has a really good life, and I do. We live an amazing life. But behind the curtain, behind social media. I’m going through something that really sucks, and I’m still finding ways to navigate that. So why not be open about that conversation? Let people in. I have a big tribe. I have a lot of people in my corner. I’m so thankful for that. But. Those strangers. Those are the strangers who come to you. Those are so impactful. Just the little comments of, “Wow, I thank you so much for sharing your story.” I’ve had so many people say, “Thank you so much for sharing your story.”
Taylor Scheib: And it’s not even about the cancer. It is about making sure you are getting your physical exams, that you are getting your women, your women, health, health exams, your PAP smears, your full blood work, whatever it may be.
I’m getting emotional about it because I feel like people get so lost in how they’re feeling, and they don’t know if it’s something, if it’s their life, because they’re really busy, or if it’s something underlying. And so I just want people to know that it’s okay to go to the doctor. It’s really scary. I totally get it. I was so scared to get this surgery, and now I’m dealing with voice loss, and I can’t get my voice back. So trust me.
Oh my gosh, it’s so, so scary. But it doesn’t have to be. And find your partner, find your friend. Find your family. Find someone like The Patient Story who can hold your hand through that. So that was really the ‘why’ behind sharing the story publicly. The most therapeutic thing for me in this process, honestly, has been talking freely like this. When I posted those videos, they were maybe 15 minutes long, and I had to cut them down.
But talking so freely about it has been so cathartic and so therapeutic for me. Those are like my blogs, like you did. I’m just doing it as a vlog. And after I get done, I go, “Wow, I kind of look cute.” I’m going to take a couple of selfies, you know? Yeah, go do things anymore.
You know, like those moments. You go, “Wow, I just feel so stinking good.” Yeah. And so that’s been super helpful. And then just keeping the lines of communication open with me, with my partner, with my husband, with my friends and family. You know, I just want to say this one part fast. My mom and I are best friends. We talk all the time, but recently we haven’t been able to talk a whole lot because she’s two hours ahead of me. We don’t work the same hours, or we do work the same hours. So, we’re constantly working. We’re not finding time to talk.
And last night, I told her, I said, “I’m sorry. I have not been able to call you. I have just been so busy. There’s been so much going on.” And she goes, “It’s okay.” And I go, “But it’s not okay.” She goes, “I know, but I don’t know what to say.” And so it’s there, that balance of course, she knows I’m busy. She’s not pressuring me, but she just wants to have a conversation like this. She wants to just openly have the conversation. And we did talk today, and it was very therapeutic for me. So open communication and just kind of setting up my phone and talking. But that’s also because I’ve been doing that for so long, and I’m a storyteller by nature.
Stephanie Chuang: So you are. You really are.


Give Yourself Grace: Final Reflections and Words of Wisdom
Stephanie Chuang: Taylor, I thank you so much for opening up, being vulnerable. You are such an empath. I know you bring it to your life and also to work every day, and I’m so grateful that you’re part of The Patient Story team doing that. Yeah. For anyone who’s you know, wants to hear the tips that were part of this conversation, I think we can come up with something that you can download. We’ll put it into a link somewhere on the description, not at the time of this discussion. Thank you for being such an open book. And looking forward to being able to share more of your incredible voice throughout all of this. So thank you.
Taylor Scheib: Yes. Thank you. And I’ll just leave this here. We’ll talk about it more, of course. But when I got my diagnosis, I didn’t feel overwhelmed. And that’s because, of course, in moments I did, but I didn’t overall because of The Patient Story. And I’ve said this so many times to my friends and family and to people who I’ve told my story to when I’m interviewing them, because now I’m openly sharing my story, is that when someone gets a diagnosis, I never want them to feel overwhelmed, and I want them to have a place like The Patient Story where they can go and think, wow, okay, I have someone, I have an organization that can support me. So when I got that diagnosis, I didn’t feel overwhelmed. And I want other people to feel that way. And that’s why I’m so passionate about our work at The Patient Story.
Stephanie Chuang: Yay! I couldn’t say that better. That was amazing. Thank you. Taylor. All right. And this was like the first of many conversations that will happen with Taylor with different folks. Really looking forward to this. All right. Great. So for The Patient Story, that’s Taylor. I’m Stephanie. Gift yourself grace. Take care. And we hope to see you next time.

This interview has been edited for clarity and length. This is not medical advice. Please consult with your healthcare provider to make informed treatment decisions.
The views and opinions expressed in this interview do not necessarily reflect those of The Patient Story.

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