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Kina’s Stage 4 Colorectal Cancer Experience Highlights Fierce Self-Advocacy

Kina’s Stage 4 Colorectal Cancer Experience Highlights Fierce Self-Advocacy

Living in Canada, Kina always thought her intermittent IBS symptoms were just another part of her daily life, especially after becoming a mother. It was only when she noticed a flare-up in her IBS symptoms and, more ominously, blood in her stool that her doctor finally scheduled a colonoscopy, revealing a mass and launching her into a world she never expected as a stage 4 colorectal cancer patient. For months, doctors assumed it was an early-stage disease. But pneumonia-clouded scans hid cancer that had spread to her lungs, and only through persistence and a PET scan was the correct, advanced staging determined.

Interviewed by: Carly Knowlton
Edited by: Chris Sanchez

Self-advocacy became her focus. When an Ottawa surgeon offered limited surgical intervention, Kina joined patient groups, found others who also had colorectal cancer, and connected with a Toronto surgeon willing to attempt a more extensive procedure. Chemotherapy was followed by lung surgeries and a highly specialized procedure known as a chemoperfusion. Kina endured side effects like debilitating fatigue, neuropathy, and nausea, but the greatest burden was not being the present mother and partner she wanted to be. But her advocacy, networking, and relentless pursuit of the best treatment shifted her colorectal cancer experience from “incurable” to “no evidence of disease.”

Kina L. colorectal cancer

Kina’s colorectal cancer experience deepened her gratitude and reshaped her worldview. Instead of regret over “Why me?” she reflected on why she deserved a second chance when others did not. She now encourages others to value every moment and says, “You just appreciate the beauty of nature, the wind in your face, the beauty of life, the little moments.” Kina’s transformation is profound: she shifted from a busy, overextended mom and professional to a fierce self-advocate and champion of preventive care. As she says, “The most difficult patients are the ones that survive: the ones that fight back, the ones that challenge the status quo.”

Watch Kina’s video and read through her interview transcript below. You’ll learn more about how:

  • Early symptoms of colorectal cancer can easily be missed or mistaken for IBS. Advocate for yourself if symptoms change or worsen
  • Getting a second opinion and connecting with others facing similar diagnoses can help make more treatment options available
  • Peer support groups, research, and information-seeking are critical allies in complex or advanced cancer cases
  • Kina’s cancer experience made her more grateful, present, and empowered to help others prioritize health and demand the best care
  • The most stubborn patients are most often the ones who survive

  • Name: Kina L.
  • Diagnosis:
    • Colorectal Cancer
  • Staging:
    • Stage 4
  • Age at Diagnosis:
    • 39
  • Symptoms:
    • Flare-up of IBS symptoms
    • Appearance of blood in stool
  • Treatments:
    • Surgeries (through a clinical trial): double thoracotomy, lung resection
    • Chemotherapy, including chemoperfusion (through a clinical trial)
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This interview has been edited for clarity and length. This is not medical advice. Please consult with your healthcare provider to make informed treatment decisions.

The views and opinions expressed in this interview do not necessarily reflect those of The Patient Story.



My name is Kina

I’m from Ottawa, Canada. I was diagnosed with colorectal cancer that had spread to my lungs.

I’m passionate about my family more than anything else. I love being outdoors: hiking, running, biking, camping, and just being among the trees. Reading and the written word are also big passions for me.

My long history with IBS

I’ve had IBS symptoms on and off for my whole life. They would come and go, so they became normalized, which was unfortunate because that can happen with colorectal cancer. 

After I gave birth to my kids, my IBS symptoms disappeared for quite some time. I chalked it up to hormonal changes in my body, and I was no longer intolerant to some foods I had been before.

About six months before my diagnosis, my IBS symptoms started flaring up again. I cut dairy and coffee, and I saw some mild improvements. But then, at the end of summer and beginning of fall, I started having blood in my stool. That’s when I thought something was definitely wrong. 

I booked an appointment with my doctor, who was already aware of my IBS symptoms. As a woman in my late 30s, I’m always dealing with symptoms and hormone stuff, so we didn’t look into it further at first. She booked me for a colonoscopy at the end of December, and that’s when they found the mass in my colon.

How I advocated for myself before diagnosis

My doctor is very good, so she booked the colonoscopy right away. 

At the time, I had a new gig at work that I was excited about, so I was transitioning and initially put off the colonoscopy a bit. As a mom with two kids and two stepkids, plus a busy job, the last thing I was doing was taking care of myself. I had booked it for the end of January, but my partner pushed me to get it done sooner. 

I called back and asked for the earliest appointment, so we did it on December 23rd. Christmas wasn’t fun, but at least I got the surgery at the end of January because of the quicker appointment.

My hardest moments leading up to my diagnosis

The hardest moments extend beyond just cancer for women my age; we’re very busy and overextended. 

A lot of my girlfriends are dealing with different things, like one working on a PCOS diagnosis and another suspecting endometriosis. We push off getting checked because we’re constantly getting sick from our kids’ colds, and our immune systems are shot down. 

I never felt healthy for maybe 6 to 10 months before diagnosis, but it was normalized. My immune system wasn’t working well, and I was getting all the illnesses, which impacted my family. 

It wasn’t the cancer symptoms themselves, but my body not working right that was toughest.

My initial diagnosis and staging surprises

When I got the results back, they thought I was early-stage. The mass was pretty small, just four centimeters, and intact in the colon, not going through the wall. 

My surgeon, GI doctor, and everyone had a good feeling about it. They removed 47 lymph nodes during surgery on January 31st. 

But when I talked to my surgeon about the pathology afterward, he said eight of the nodes were cancerous, and I’d need preventative chemo. That was the first shock — I really thought it was early-stage and I’d go back to work. 

Two weeks later, a CT scan showed the lung nodules had grown. I had a bad feeling it was cancer there too, but after the lymph nodes news, I already knew my journey would be long. 

For four months, it was shifting from early stage to stage three with chemo, then to stage four and inoperable. I got diagnosed in December, and March was when they officially said stage four.

Colorectal cancer didn’t click for me

I didn’t know much about colorectal cancer at the time. The narrative is that older people get it, so even when I Googled my symptoms, it was worded as risks for people aged 50-plus. 

I had a colleague, a bit older than me, who was diagnosed and unfortunately passed away, but because of how people viewed colorectal cancer, it just didn’t click that I could be facing the same situation. The early onset affecting younger people wasn’t discussed much back then. Even with a bad IBS night, googling symptoms didn’t point me to cancer. 

Now I’m adamant: even if you have one symptom, get checked, because if I’d gone before the blood showed up, I might have caught it earlier. By then, it was already advanced, very focused on chemotherapy.

Initial treatment options, and my chemotherapy experience

My oncologist described therapy and chemotherapy options. She referred me to the Ottawa surgeon, but she’s not a surgeon, so discussions were limited to chemo and hoping for the best. 

I wasn’t eligible for immunotherapy, and clinical trials were more like something down the line. There’s a gap there; I understand standards of care and protocols, but my doctor likely didn’t know about other options like the Toronto surgeon. 

If I hadn’t researched and advocated, I’d still be on chemo with the nodules grown and inoperable. They basically put me on chemotherapy for life until I found the surgical option.

The only reason we stopped chemo was for the Toronto surgery. I did six rounds in three-week cycles, about 4 or 5 months. 

Chemotherapy is not fun at all. I was lucky to tolerate it well compared to others, but I had neuropathy, fatigue, a kind of metallic mouth where everything tastes like metal (it’s disgusting), and nausea. It was hard to do day-to-day stuff, especially near the end when I was on the max dose. 

It was tough being the mom, partner, and friend I usually am. It impacted everything, but I have good people around me: a present partner, my mom always helping, and good co-parenting with my ex-husband. They picked up the slack when I couldn’t.

I rested the first few days after treatment, then tried to be there as much as I could. Sometimes I’d crash or overdo it and feel like garbage the next day on the couch. I forced myself to stay active; a short walk around the block helped manage symptoms. If I felt okay, we’d bike to school, go for a run, or hike to keep that outdoor connection.

I researched, found better options, and had surgery

I did a lot of research right away; I joined virtual conferences and exposed myself to everything I could. At first, it was difficult hearing tough things on a weekend, like attending two online conferences, but now it’s part of my reality. 

I started researching to help myself immediately. That’s how I found the Toronto surgeon through Facebook groups. 

My doctor accepted the referral, and he was removing nodules via a clinical trial. 

After CT scans confirmed eligibility, we stopped chemo, and six weeks later, I had my first surgery on September 25th, a double thoracotomy on both lungs.

They then resected three nodules on my right lung and five on my left, plus a suspicious lymph node that turned out not to be cancerous, which was, of course, great news. The surgeon performed chemoperfusion on my left lung as part of the trial. 

I was supposed to be in the hospital for a week, then stay in Toronto another week for a total of two weeks. But I had complications: blood transfusions, atrial fibrillation, lung collapse, and pneumonitis from the chemo inflammation. It was the highest dose they’d done, 40mg, and previous patients didn’t inflame, but I did. 

Two weeks in, pneumonitis set in; I was on high oxygen, steroids, and antibiotics. I stayed a month and came home on October 22nd. 

Improvements are slow, but happening. I’m still on oxygen when walking or talking; short of breath after almost two months. Recovery from that takes time.

I’m now NED

Technically, I have no cancer in my body right now, and I’m hoping for the best. 

We haven’t confirmed with a CT scan yet, but before surgery, the removed lung nodules were the only ones left. 

I stopped chemo for the surgery, so no bell-ringing yet, but my friends and family talk about it. I think I should ring it to recognize everything I’ve been through, no matter what comes next in the next year.

When I came home, my mom stayed for five days to help. We were lucky; people took good care of us. My girls are seven and ten, my stepkids are six and eight, so it’s busy and awesome. 

Having me away for a full month was hard, but we made it through. They’re so happy to have me back emotionally.

My thoughts on clinical trials

Clinical trials are great for advancements, but they come with risks, and I’m a great example. I found a couple of people who’d gone through this trial before and spoke with them via the Facebook group. 

The early-onset stage four colorectal under-50 community is small but growing. Do your research, talk to people if you can, and know the risks because side effects are real. 

Sometimes it’s worth it, not just for you but for others who could benefit later. As I mentioned earlier, I’m still recovering; not at full capacity, walking slowly with oxygen.

My mental and emotional journey

I don’t think “why me?” It’s the opposite, like imposter syndrome: why would I deserve to be cured when others aren’t? 

The hardest part is knowing that if I’d found it earlier, I wouldn’t be here now. There’s regret for not paying more attention. 

I encourage my girlfriends: don’t delay, a colonoscopy is the gold standard for colorectal cancer. So just do it. Many around me took it seriously, got colonoscopies, and had polyps removed; that’s when you want to catch it, not too late. 

If there had been more advocacy for early-onset colorectal, it would have clicked sooner, and I’d have acted differently, 100%. 

It’s not a gift, but it gives perspective. Right after stage 4 diagnosis, I went for a walk and appreciated everything: the beauty of nature, wind in my face, and little moments. Before, I was busy, saying yes to everything, always on the go with work. No matter what, I won’t operate that way again—life’s too short, take care of yourself.

What I want others to know

Work as hard as you can to advocate for yourself. Make sure the option presented is the best for you. 

There are so many treatments, clinical trials, and other things out there. Don’t take the first answer; challenge your doctors. Books say difficult patients, namely the ones who ask questions, fight back, and challenge the status quo, are the ones who survive. Don’t be afraid. You have to take care of yourself. 

I think my self-advocacy may have saved my life. If I hadn’t, I’d be in a very different situation.

I was lucky to be positive and resilient; it carried me through. I focus on gratitude because it could be worse. I responded to treatment, found a surgeon, and have people around me. 

I have so much to be grateful for. It’s ingrained in me to keep a positive mindset. Colorectal cancer in young people is rising. If you’re experiencing just one symptom, look it up, go for a colonoscopy. 

Getting the appointment is tough, but don’t ignore the symptoms, and advocate for yourself.


Kina L. colorectal cancer
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Lindsay D., Colon Cancer, Stage 4



Symptoms: Lump in pelvic area, funny-smelling food, weight loss
Treatment: Chemotherapy, colectomy (surgery)

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Will’s Experience with Stage 4 Liver Cancer is Marked by Moments of Joy

Will’s Experience with Stage 4 Liver Cancer is Marked by Moments of Joy

Will found out that he had stage 4 liver cancer in December 2022. Before that, his life felt like a blur. He struggled with unexplained exhaustion, frequent diarrhea, sporadic vomiting (especially after eating pork or rich food), and a sense of discomfort he couldn’t put his finger on.

Interviewed by: Taylor Scheib
Edited by: Chris Sanchez

One day, in the middle of a badminton game, Will felt an unusual hardness in his abdomen. This led him to seek medical advice. He ended up going to a hospital, where doctors ran tests and procedures and eventually uncovered a massive tumor that took up nearly 70% of his liver.

Will M. stage 4 liver cancer

The ER doctor compassionately delivered the grim news that Will had liver cancer, and this thoughtfulness and consideration helped him find his footing despite the overwhelming odds. He also found solace in actionable steps. He initially underwent immunotherapy and targeted therapy. These treatments weren’t successful, but he and his medical team didn’t stop there. Clinical trials offered Will hope and insight into medical advancements. These trials were grueling, but they supported his resilience and determination to get better.

Stage 4 liver cancer introduced a new rhythm to Will’s life. He learned to accept his situation, which became his basis for adaptation and also formed a surprising foundation for moments of joy. He found that physical activity helped him feel free and helped him reclaim his autonomy. Despite Will’s physical limitations, sports, including swimming and cycling, became a refuge and source of comfort. His ambitions grew bolder: he aimed to complete a triathlon. Every move he made, further emboldened his defiance against any thoughts of despair and helped him enjoy life’s simple freedoms.

Will’s tumor shrank significantly, and his health stabilized remarkably, thanks to treatment, which was made available through applying for compassionate-use medication or using a new treatment not yet approved even if you are not taking part in the clinical trial. Uncertainties linger regarding his stage 4 liver cancer, but he remains laser-focused on living fully. He urges fellow patients to be proactive regarding their health management and to ask questions, prepare for medical appointments, and embrace discomfort as part of the process. He’s found that happiness isn’t dependent upon one’s health status; one can enjoy meaningful moments even during times of adversity.

Watch Will’s video to find out more about:

  • How badminton led him to uncover a stage 4 liver cancer growing right under the surface of his abdomen
  • The unexpected role that swimming and cycling played in his health transformation
  • Why a dead phone during Will’s diagnosis became an oddly pivotal moment
  • How he found happiness amid treatment for advanced cancer
  • The power of asking the right questions during medical appointments and pushing for compassionate use medication

  • Name:
    • Will M.
  • Age at Diagnosis:
    • 29
  • Diagnosis:
    • Liver Cancer
  • Staging:
    • Stage 4
  • Symptoms:
    • General uneasiness
    • Exhaustion
    • Diarrhea
    • Hard mass in the abdomen
    • Worsening abdominal pain in the upper right quadrant
  • Treatments:
    • Surgery: kyphoplasty
    • Chemotherapy
    • Targeted therapy
    • Transarterial chemoembolization (TACE)
    • Radiation therapy
    • Clinical trial
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Will M. stage 4 liver cancer
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Will M. stage 4 liver cancer

This interview has been edited for clarity and length. This is not medical advice. Please consult with your healthcare provider to make informed treatment decisions.

The views and opinions expressed in this interview do not necessarily reflect those of The Patient Story.


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Symptoms: Constipation, diarrhea, severe bloating, swollen belly as if pregnant
Treatments: Surgery, immunotherapy

Brittany B., Liver and Bile Duct Cancer, Stage 4



Symptoms: Amenorrhea, unexplained weight loss, loss of appetite, pain in right upper quadrant of abdomen

Treatments: Surgery, immunotherapy

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Emily’s Stage 4 Colon Cancer Story

Emily’s Stage 4 Colon Cancer Story

Emily, a 32-year-old from Alabama, was diagnosed with stage 4 colon cancer at age 27, despite having led an active and healthy lifestyle since her youth. Initially, she experienced abdominal pain and blood in her stool, which led to a life-changing ER visit. Doctors found a tumor in her colon, determined that it was cancerous, and also found that it had already spread to her lymph nodes. This discovery began a grueling series of surgeries, chemotherapy, and setbacks, including bowel obstructions and pancreatitis.

Interviewed by: Taylor Scheib
Edited by: Chris Sanchez

Emily endured multiple chemotherapy regimens with debilitating side effects like neuropathy, nausea, fatigue, and early menopause. Despite these challenges, her faith and determination kept her strong. When standard treatments failed, she turned to immunotherapy and clinical trials at Dana-Farber Cancer Institute. Although some therapies stopped working, she found hope in a clinical trial medicine that reduced her lung tumors by 20%. Despite the trial’s discontinuation, the treatment remains available to her, for which she feels immense gratitude.

Throughout her stage 4 colon cancer journey, Emily and her husband have relied on their faith, community, and a desire to help others. Recognizing the emotional and physical toll of cancer, they founded Fighting with Hope, a nonprofit that sends free chemo care boxes to patients worldwide. These boxes contain over 20 thoughtfully chosen items, such as blankets, ginger candies, and other sweets to help with port flushes, alongside handwritten notes of encouragement. With support from volunteers and media coverage, the organization has delivered just over 1,000 boxes to date.

Emily’s advocacy also emphasizes the importance of early detection. Reflecting on her missed diagnosis due to her young age, she urges healthcare professionals and patients alike to remain vigilant.

Despite ongoing treatments and the unpredictable nature of cancer, Emily remains a beacon of hope. Her faith provides her with peace and strength, enabling her to inspire others through her story and nonprofit work. She advises fellow patients to fight relentlessly, embrace their support systems, and accept help when needed.

Emily’s mission goes beyond her personal battle. She hopes her journey demonstrates the power of resilience, community, and faith in facing life’s greatest challenges. Through her advocacy, she continues to bring light and support to countless individuals navigating the trials of cancer.


  • Name:
    • Emily K.
  • Diagnosis:
    • Colon cancer
  • Staging:
    • Stage 4
  • Age at Diagnosis:
    • 27
  • Symptoms:
    • Abdominal pain
    • Blood in stool
  • Treatments:
    • Surgery
    • Immunotherapy
    • Targeted therapy
    • Clinical trials

This interview has been edited for clarity and length. This is not medical advice. Please consult with your healthcare provider to make informed treatment decisions.

The views and opinions expressed in this interview do not necessarily reflect those of The Patient Story.


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Symptoms: Severe stomach cramps, diarrhea, vomiting, anemia (discovered later)

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Symptoms: Weight loss, coughing, vomiting, sciatica pain, fatigue

Treatments: Surgeries (colectomy, lung wedge resection on both lungs), chemotherapy, immunotherapy
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Symptoms: Extreme abdominal cramping, mucus in stool, rectal bleeding, black stool, fatigue, weight fluctuations, skin issues (guttate psoriasis)
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Gigi’s Stage 1A, High-Grade Serous HER2+, PR+, ER- Endometrial Cancer Story

Gigi’s Stage 1A, High-Grade Serous HER2+, PR+, ER- Endometrial Cancer Story

Interviewed by: Taylor Scheib
Edited by: Katrina Villareal

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Gigi’s initial symptoms included hiccup-like sensations behind her sternum, gastrointestinal issues, and spotting. An ultrasound showed a thickened endometrial lining, and a biopsy confirmed her diagnosis – endometrial cancer. A month later, she underwent a radical hysterectomy.

Initially, Gigi thought a hysterectomy would suffice, but further testing revealed a more serious condition. Her tumor had 25% mixed undifferentiated cells, placing her in the top 1-2% for her cancer type.

Although additional tests showed no spread of the cancer, her oncologist recommended chemotherapy. Gigi enrolled in a clinical trial, receiving six rounds of carboplatin and paclitaxel every three weeks.

Alongside chemotherapy, Gigi took dexamethasone, anti-nausea medication, antihistamines, and gabapentin. She found chemotherapy more manageable over time, despite side effects like facial redness, dry skin, nausea, bone pain, restless leg syndrome, neuropathy, and tinnitus. Fortunately, her blood work stayed stable, allowing continuous treatment without delays.

Gigi adopted a plant-based, low-inflammatory diet and explored alternative therapies to support her body during treatment. She now has CT scans every nine weeks and follow-ups with labs every 12 weeks.

Inspired by resilient patients, Gigi actively participates in her care and treatment decisions, collaborating with respected care providers, asking tough questions, and balancing being well-informed with learning to let go.


  • Name: Gigi D.
  • Diagnosis:
    • Endometrial Cancer
    • HER2+
    • PR+
    • ER-
  • Staging:
    • 1A High-Grade Serous
  • Initial Symptoms:
    • Hiccup-like sensations behind the sternum
    • Gastrointestinal issues
    • Spotting
  • Treatment:
    • Clinical trial: chemotherapy (carboplatin and paclitaxel)
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This interview has been edited for clarity and length. This is not medical advice. Please consult with your healthcare provider to make informed treatment decisions.

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Laura’s Stage 4 Kidney Cancer Story

Laura’s Stage 4 Kidney Cancer Story

Interviewed by: Alexis Moberger
Edited by: Chris Sanchez

Laura survived stage 4 kidney cancer. 

Originally from south Louisiana, Laura now lives in Southern California. She splits her time between working full time in marketing in the gaming and hospitality industry, being a kidney cancer patient advocate, enjoying her sports and hobbies, and caring for her family. 

Laura had been struggling with her health for at least two years before her symptoms were properly diagnosed as cancer. She suffered from elevated blood pressure and fatigue so significant that she would sometimes have to nap in her car during lunch breaks, and was also found to have a very high red blood cell count. But the doctors she would consult chalked her symptoms up to lack of sleep, stress due to her demanding job, excess weight, and so on.

Later on, Laura’s health took a turn for the worse. She started to experience back pain so bad that she sometimes had a hard time walking, and her legs became so swollen that she was unable to wear pants to a dinner out to celebrate her 29th birthday. She returned to the doctors, who started taking a closer look at her symptoms and ordered more procedures. 

Blood work uncovered kidney issues. Her doctor told her to have a CT scan done that week, but she decided to take immediate action. That very night, just 5 days after her 29th birthday, she went to the emergency room. It was a pivotal and timely decision: the doctors discovered that she had stage 4 cancer and a massive 13cm tumor on her right kidney. The doctors also found that this tumor was what was causing her legs to swell, because it was blocking her vena cava–the main artery bringing blood back up to the heart from the lower parts of the body–making immediate treatment even more urgent. Laura was also diagnosed with the rare genetic disorder, hereditary leiomyomatosis and renal cell cancer (HLRCC), or Reed’s Syndrome.

Laura’s ER surgeon, a kidney cancer survivor himself, connected her with the UCLA-based surgeon who had operated on him years ago, and she ended up heading there for surgery. During a 5-hour session, the surgical team removed her right kidney, right adrenal gland, most of her inferior vena cava, and 7 lymph nodes. However, a checkup some weeks later revealed that the cancer was not only still present but had also spread to her lungs, liver, and nearly all the lymph nodes in her chest. 

Laura started seeing another doctor in Las Vegas, who recommended that she take part in the S1500 PAPMET randomized clinical trial organized by the global cancer research community, SWOG Cancer Research Network. After some deliberation, she decided to join the trial, where she ended up taking the targeted therapy drug Cabometyx (cabozantinib). 

The side effects of cabozantinib were crippling. But just a year after Laura started taking it, she was found to be in complete remission. Out of 147 patients who joined the trial, she was 1 of only 2 who had had a complete response to their treatment. 

Laura continues to be healthy to this day; she undergoes scans every six months, and to date her status continues to be “NED” (no visible evidence of disease). But not only is she enjoying her life once again, she is also now a patient advocate, and actually works with the very doctors who concluded the clinical trial she joined.

Laura is sharing her story with us to show that a Stage 4 diagnosis does not have to be a reason to give up hope; to exhort cancer patients to advocate for themselves as a lifelong responsibility; and to urge them to get to know both their bodies and their disease, in order to be able to make the best possible choices for themselves.

In addition to Laura’s narrative, The Patient Story offers a diverse collection of stories about kidney cancer. These empowering stories provide real-life experiences, valuable insights, and perspectives on symptoms, diagnosis, and treatment options for cancer.


 
  • Name: Laura E.
  • Diagnosis:
    • Genetic condition: hereditary leiomyomatosis and renal cell cancer (HLRCC) (Reed’s Syndrome)
    • Type 2 metastatic papillary renal cell carcinoma
  • Staging:
    • Stage 4
  • Symptoms:
    • Profound fatigue 
    • Hypertension 
    • High red blood cell count 
    • Severe back pain 
    • Badly swollen legs
  • Treatment:
    • Chemotherapy: Cabometyx (cabozantinib) assigned under S1500 PAPMET clinical trial

This interview has been edited for clarity and length. This is not medical advice. Please consult with your healthcare provider to make informed treatment decisions.

The views and opinions expressed in this interview do not necessarily reflect those of The Patient Story.


I’m not the same person I was before I was diagnosed. There’s no way I could be.

I definitely look at life differently now…

I try my best to live as authentically as possible. Because I know time is a gift.

Introduction

I am 36 years old. I live in Southern California, and I’m originally from outside of Baton Rouge, in the south of Louisiana.

I’m a proud graduate of Louisiana State University, where I got a bachelors and masters from National University. I’ve been working in marketing in the gaming and hospitality industry for over a decade now. Just busy with my family when I’m not at work.

I also like to read and do Zumba and watch global reality TV. I’m actually am part of an all women’s Mardi Gras krewe; I ride in a parade in New Orleans every year and it’s one of my favorite things to do. I just rode earlier this year and I’m already ready for next year.

Pre-Diagnosis

I was having symptoms of my kidney cancer probably two years before I was officially diagnosed. 

I had horrible fatigue and was actually going to my car in my lunch breaks to sleep. My blood work was really off. I would go get my blood work done and there would be this one level that I was like, why is it off? And actually had a doctor tell me, oh, if something was really wrong, it would be like hundreds off the charts.

My blood pressure was high, too. I talked to my primary care doctor and she said, well, hypertension runs in your family. And I said, I know, but I’m in my 20s. It’s usually people in their 40s and 50s in my family that have hypertension.

Everyone just kept telling me, lose weight, get more sleep, reduce your stress. And at the time I was working in marketing for a casino corporation that has multiple properties across the country. I was the marketing manager over three of their properties on the strip. And so I thought, okay, well, I probably am stressed. 

You know, I was working a lot of hours and, and had a lot of responsibilities. My kids were in middle school at the time or late elementary school. And so I just thought that’s kind of how things were. And then it was about six months before my diagnosis.

Diagnosis: Type 2 metastatic papillary renal cell carcinoma

I went to get another biometric screening done, and they almost called an ambulance because my blood pressure was so high.

So I went to my primary care doctor. But she again said, lose weight, reduce your stress. I ran my blood work and my red blood cell count came back really high, which I later found out is an indicator of kidney cancer. But the doctor said, oh, you probably just had an infection or something.

I felt like a hypochondriac at that point. These are all specialists. These are all doctors. They know what they’re doing, who am I to question it? So that was December. 

And then one day in May, ten days before my birthday, I woke up and I just had the most horrific back pain I’ve ever had in my life.

I was honestly struggling to walk. It felt like I was a puppet and someone was just pulling the strings, you know?

And so I went to urgent care because my primary care couldn’t get me in. But it was more of the same. They said, yeah, you probably pulled a muscle here. I was given some muscle relaxers. Of course, they didn’t work.

It progressed to the point that a few days later, for my birthday, we went out to dinner and I couldn’t even put pants on. I had to wear a dress because my legs were really swollen. 

So my mom was in town at the time and I didn’t want to freak her out, so I waited until she left town a few days later to go to my primary care. And when I went there, the doctors did more blood work and said, something’s wrong with your kidneys. I’m going to send you for a CT scan. Go get it done within the week. 

But I was really feeling that it couldn’t wait. Thankfully I didn’t listen. I went to the ER that very night after work. 

The ER doctor diagnosed me with a 13 centimeter tumor on my right kidney and told me I needed to have surgery as soon as possible. He told me to go to a specialty hospital, not to just let any surgeon operate on me, which now that I know so much more about my disease than I did at the time, I realized it’s because it was a very complicated surgery they had to do.

And that was five days after my 29th birthday. I know my outcome would have most likely been very dramatically different had I not gone to the ER that night.

I was also diagnosed with a rare genetic disorder, known as hereditary leiomyomatosis and renal cell cancer (HLRCC), or Reed’s Syndrome.

Reaction to the Diagnosis

It took forever for me to get diagnosed, but once I did, everything lined up into place.

I think I just kind of shut down mentally after the ER doctor said, you have cancer. And I really struggled to process it. I almost felt for a minute there like if I said it out loud, it made it real, you know? I’m a very logical person, but it was hard to process. 

I remember we got home from the emergency room, early the next morning because I had been there all night. I had to call my boss. It was a work day; I actually had a presentation that I was supposed to be giving that day. And so I’m thinking, oh my gosh, I have to call my boss and tell him I have cancer. And I actually sat in my chair in my living room and was practicing saying, “I have cancer” before I called him. I was trying to: one, make my experience a reality and, two, keep myself from crying while I’m telling him this. It just felt like a bad dream, honestly. It didn’t even feel real. 

And there was about a month between my diagnosis and my surgery, and I was in terrible pain the whole month. You know, I just wanted to sleep and just not think about what was happening. So it took me a while, even after my surgery, to really come to terms with what was happening.

And I remember distinctly after my surgery, I was in ICU for, I think, about five days. And then they moved me to a regular room, and it was there that I finally went, I should probably look at my gown and see my doctors. I hadn’t even done that at that point. I think that was the moment that it really hit me, like, oh my God, my life is never going to be the same again. Like I knew that cognitively. But that was my emotional process. This isn’t just “I have surgery and I’m done with it and I move on with my life.” This is forever going to be something that I am now identifying as a cancer patient and cancer survivor.

It’s frustrating whenever I look back, because I know that at the time of my diagnosis, I had to have had cancer for at least a year, probably two plus. And the idea that had I not been diagnosed at stage four, I could have just had surgery and been done with it, I wouldn’t have reached a point where I’m being diagnosed with a terminal phase of this disease. It’s pretty heartbreaking and it’s really frustrating.

I went back and talked to my primary care doctor a few months after I was diagnosed. Obviously, I’d switched doctors at that point. But I talked to to her and the head of the clinic and I said, look, I know that you will probably never see another case like mine again, but, you know, there’s this phrase with rare cancer patients that they tell doctors at medical school to look for horses when you hear hoofprints, not zebras. And I’m a zebra. 

Look, you’re going to go on and treat other patients. And you may never see another case like mine again, statistically speaking, but it doesn’t mean that you don’t have to see other cases that aren’t rare on their own. And I think that we are conditioned a lot of times, especially as women, to just accept diagnoses, if you’re telling me nothing’s wrong, nothing’s wrong, and I’m just going to believe that. But we know our bodies.

I really encourage people to trust their instincts when it comes to their health. You know your body best, you know if something’s wrong with you.

And I really wish I would have just kept listening to that little voice that I had in my head. You know, in my heart that said, Laura, something’s wrong.

I’m glad that I finally did, because that’s what encouraged me to go to the ER that night.

Surgery

The ER doctor told me that he’d already contacted a local urologist in Las Vegas, where I was living at the time, and that the urologist was going to help me get to either USC or UCLA in California for surgery. The ER doctor was very adamant that I needed to go to California for surgery. 

I’m now realizing how extensive the tumor was. It’s not just that it’s 13cm, which is very large for a kidney tumor, but it was also blocking my vena cava, which is your main artery that brings your blood back up to your heart from your legs and all. Which is why my legs were so swollen. And so that’s a life threatening condition, which I’m glad I didn’t know at the time because I probably would have just completely shut down at that point. 

I realize now that’s why the ER doctor was so insistent that he needed to go to California for surgery. And so the next morning we went to the urologist in Vegas, and he said there was one surgeon in town who may be willing to take your case. Didn’t want that. But he said, if you go to California, I’ll get you in at UCLA.

The doctor added, actually, I was you seven years ago, with kidney cancer. And if you go to UCLA, I will send you to the surgeon who operated on me. And sure enough, he did. He actually walked out of the exam room and called the surgeon on his cell phone and said, I’m sending you a patient from Vegas. And so I got into UCLA. 

They did a phenomenal job with my surgery. I was incredibly lucky. I had two amazing surgeons and it was a five and half hour surgery, and they removed my right kidney, my right adrenal gland, most of my inferior vena cava, and seven lymph nodes. And we were hopeful that they’d removed all the cancer. And maybe I would need to do immunotherapy afterwards to keep it from coming back. So that was in June.

Cancer metastasized

But when I had my first scans in August, the cancer was spreading like wildfire. 

And so at that point, the cancer was in my lungs and my liver and pretty much all the lymph nodes throughout my chest. 

And the doctor at UCLA said, I could put you on this one treatment.

Again, I would just go back to if something doesn’t feel right, listen to your body.

I think even as cancer survivors, we tend to dismiss things sometimes, and so even if you’re in your cancer journey or you’re a survivor, you have to.

It’s advocating for yourself as a lifelong responsibility.

Treatment

Treatment Options

The doctor said, I don’t know if it’s going to work for you. I think you probably should look into clinical trials, but if you do that, you’re going to have to come back and forth a lot. And I know that’s going to be kind of a burden for you to do that. So there’s a doctor in Vegas who is a specialist in kidney cancer, and I would recommend you go see her. 

And I was really nervous about switching my care back to Vegas because of the experiences I had before, obviously. I actually had debates with my family and friends on whether I was making the right decision to move my care from UCLA? And I said, you know what? I’m going to go ahead and try it.

And I wound up with the most wonderful oncologist, who, again, was a GU, a kidney cancer specialist named Doctor Vogelzang. And at the first appointment, he sat me down and said, look, here’s what you have. He was the first doctor to explain to me what specific type of kidney cancer I had, answered all my questions, said, I have these treatment options lined up for you. There were all clinical trials because at the time there was no standard of care for the type of kidney cancer I had.

And so he said, here’s the one I think is the best option for you. There were three other ones that he had lined up. And then he said, look, I’ll even do chemo if I have to.  Chemo isn’t usually used for kidney cancer patients. But I was so young that he just was like, I’ll do whatever I can to try to give you as much time as we can. 

So he explained the first trial and he said it’s four different types of treatments. It’s a randomized trial. I can’t promise you which one that you’ll get. We have no control over that. But there is one treatment on this trial that I think would be your best bet. He said, look, think about it. Let me know what you think in your next appointment, what you want to do.

Decision to Join a Clinical Trial

And I decided to join the clinical trial. The clinical trial that I was on was sponsored by a group called SWOG.

Even now people say to me, oh, that was so brave of you to choose a clinical trial. And I recognize now that it was a brave decision to do a clinical trial. And I’m really proud of my decision to do that. But at the time, it just felt like, what choice do I have? I have terrible choices to make. And, if I make the wrong decision, that’s my life in the balance. That’s how it felt.

I also remember having this conversation with a close friend on my next steps. I said, look, the doctor I met with in Vegas is saying he doesn’t think the treatment that UCLA recommended is going to work for me. And let’s be honest, I’m dying anyway. 

So maybe this is a Hail Mary. Maybe this will help me to live a few years. My goal at the time was to see my kids graduate high school. But if not, at least I’ll be doing something that will help other patients at some point. And so that’s why I decided to do the trial. 

Cabometyx (cabozantinib)

 And I remember when they randomized my treatment. My doctor said, oh my gosh, you hit the jackpot. This is the drug I wanted you in. It was a drug called cabozantinib. 

And, at the time, I didn’t know what that was. I thought I was going to be doing immunotherapy, which  I’m now embarrassed to admit because I know the differences between the drugs now.

And so I’m like, I can’t believe I thought I was doing immunotherapy because I just didn’t know the difference. It was a targeted therapy drug. And I started it and I was just terrified. And of course, my doctor explained the side effects and I’m going like, wait, what’s going to happen to me?

But again, I was like, what choice do I have? I mean, I can’t die now. I knew at that point that I had no more than a year and I would be lucky if I had another year. 

And so I actually pulled my kids out of school for my first day of taking my pills. They needed a mental health day anyway, I’m sure, they had been watching me go through this all summer. And so I brought them to this little hotel outside of Vegas. And they have a really nice pool and all and then I’m sitting here thinking gosh, this is probably dumb. What if I take the first pill and I have this terrible reaction and then my kids are, you know, even more scarred, because mom had to go rushing to the E.R., which thankfully didn’t happen.

Side Effects

The side effects of cabozantinib were rough, to say the least. 

What’s hard about being a cancer patient who’s doing one of these newer forms of treatments, like targeted therapy or immunotherapy, is you don’t typically have the same outward side effects that people recognize, whether they think of cancer patients. 

I didn’t lose my hair, but it actually turned white. That’s one of the typical side effects from this type of treatment. And that was heartbreaking for me because I’m 29, 30 years old. My hair is going white; even my eyebrows went white. And it’s just all those things that you try to tell yourself, okay, the prize is I live longer and it’s true. It worked for me. I don’t regret it for a second. I would do it all over again in a heartbeat. But, you know, it does a number on you. It changes who you are.

I always say, kidney cancer helped me take the best pictures of myself that I ever took, which is terrible. I mean, I lost an unhealthy amount of weight. Honestly, looking back at pictures now is honestly kind of painful because I go, oh my gosh, I looked sicker than I realized I did

And because you don’t look like people expect a cancer patient to look, when I got back to work and all, they’d go, you’re doing great now, right? And like, no, I threw up three times before I left the house and had to drag myself out of bed because I was so fatigued and also, these targeted therapy drugs actually create a lot of GI issues. You get horrible diarrhea.

I recall standing in the grocery store aisle like about six months into my treatment, trying to pick out what adult diapers I was going to wear. I’m 30 and I’m buying adult diapers. And then I go to check out, I’m thinking, oh my gosh, this woman’s going to know, right? And she probably thought I was buying it for a grandparent or a parent or something. 

You get all these side effects like it’s almost shameful to talk about. Your body is crumbling. And, again, it’s things that with traditional treatment you don’t always encounter. And of course, the side effects from traditional treatment are also horrible, too.

… if something isn’t sitting right with you even once you’re diagnosed, you know, if your doctor is telling you, oh, you should do this and something’s just not sitting right, get a second opinion. Get a third opinion if you need to.

You have to feel comfortable with your care.

NED Status

I reached NED within a year of starting Cabometyx, which is, like, insane. Incredibly hard to come across, to say the least. 

I had a very rare response where I was 1 of only 2 of the 147 patients who had a complete response to treatment.

I wound up staying on Cabometyx for another about three years, because we just didn’t know what was going to happen after I had that first med scan. And so in 2020, my oncologist said, look, I think the side effects will kill you before the cancer does. Let’s see how you do coming off of it, which was terrifying because at that point it was my security blanket, right? 

But I did successfully transition off Cabometyx. I stopped treatment in April of 2020, and now I have scans every six months. And thankfully I have had NED scans ever since. I just had a scan last January: I’m still NED. So I’m really, really fortunate. 

And now I’m actually a patient advocate for the GU committee. And so I’m now actually working with the doctors that concluded the trial that I was on that saved my life. 

So it’s honestly one of the most meaningful things that I do in my advocacy work, because it’s just a complete full circle.

Knowledge is power in every sense of the word.

You are a better patient if you are knowledgeable about your disease.

Words of Advice

I really encourage people to trust their instincts when it comes to their health. You know your body best, you know if something’s wrong with you. And I really wish I would have just kept listening to that little voice that I had in my head. You know, in my heart that said, Laura, something’s wrong. I’m glad that I finally did, because that’s what encouraged me to go to the ER that night.

Again, I would just go back to if something doesn’t feel right, listen to your body. I think even as cancer survivors, we tend to dismiss things sometimes, and so even if you’re in your cancer journey or you’re a survivor, you have to. It’s advocating for yourself as a lifelong responsibility. 

And, you know, I’ve had the unfortunate gift of being not just a patient, but also a caregiver to my mom who passed away five years ago from complications of kidney cancer and lymphoma. 

Also, I really encourage you, especially if you’re a younger patient who has a rare cancer, get genetic testing done. I encourage my family members to get genetic testing done, and receive their carrier for it as well.

And I always encourage anyone who has any kind of outliers in their health history that would indicate maybe they could benefit from genetic testing to take the tests. I know it’s scary to have a genetic disorder diagnosed, but I really wish I would have had the opportunity to know I had my disorder before I had cancer. 

Knowledge is power in every sense of the word. You are a better patient if you are knowledgeable about your disease, which is what I really try to encourage patients and caregivers to do, to understand their disease. 

And also, if something isn’t sitting right with you even once you’re diagnosed, you know, if your doctor is telling you, oh, you should do this and something’s just not sitting right, get a second opinion. Get a third opinion if you need to. You have to feel comfortable with your care. And if you’re not, you know it. 

So you’re the best person that’s most knowledgeable about yourself, your body. Honor that in all the ways.


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