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McKenzie’s Stage 3C2 Cervical Cancer Story

McKenzie’s Stage 3C2 Cervical Cancer Story

Interviewed by: Taylor Scheib
Edited by: Katrina Villareal

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McKenzie was diagnosed with stage 3C2 cervical cancer at 26. She initially experienced severe cramping following a miscarriage, which was initially dismissed as normal post-miscarriage pain. As her symptoms worsened, including severe back pain, excessive discharge, and heavy bleeding, she sought various treatments but found no relief.

After switching insurance, McKenzie visited her OB-GYN, who conducted an ultrasound and lab work. The ultrasound showed what her doctor suspected to be a hemorrhagic cyst or twisted ovary. However, during surgery, they discovered a large mass, later confirmed as cervical cancer.

Given the advanced stage of her cancer, surgery was not an option. Instead, McKenzie underwent seven weeks of daily radiation, six rounds of chemotherapy, and four rounds of brachytherapy (internal radiation), and is currently on immunotherapy, Keytruda.

The aggressive treatment took a toll on her, causing extreme nausea, sensitivity to foods, and hair loss, which was particularly difficult for her emotionally. Despite the challenges, she found solace in the support of her husband and medical team, especially her radiation oncologist, who provided cutting-edge treatment locally, negating the need to travel to distant hospitals.

The impact of her diagnosis extended beyond physical symptoms. McKenzie faced the reality that her treatment led to early menopause, eliminating the possibility of having biological children. She struggled with the emotional burden of the diagnosis and treatment, but her husband’s encouragement helped her stay focused on recovery. McKenzie also started sharing her experience online, finding it therapeutic to connect with others.

Despite the hardships, McKenzie emphasizes the importance of advocating for oneself. She advises others to listen to their bodies, seek timely medical advice, and not be swayed by non-medical opinions. Her experience underscores the unpredictable nature of cancer and the critical need for early detection and proactive healthcare.


  • Name: McKenzie E.
  • Diagnosis:
    • Cervical Cancer
  • Staging:
    • Stage 3C2
  • Symptoms:
    • Severe abdominal & back cramping
    • Persistent & extreme pain
    • Heavy discharge & bleeding
  • Treatments:
    • Radiation
    • Chemotherapy: cisplatin
    • Brachytherapy
    • Immunotherapy: Keytruda

This interview has been edited for clarity and length. This is not medical advice. Please consult with your healthcare provider to make informed treatment decisions.

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Amanda L., Cervical Cancer, Stage 3



Symptoms: Heavy periods, abnormal bleeding, large blood clots, severe cramping, severe abdominal pain, pain radiating down the left leg, loss of mobility in the left leg, loss of appetite, fatigue

Treatments: Chemotherapy, radiation therapy (external beam radiation therapy & brachytherapy)

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Mila L., Squamous Cell Cervical Cancer, Stage 1B1



Symptoms: Abnormal lump in cervix area, bleeding after sex
Treatments: Chemotherapy (cisplatin), radiation, adjuvant chemotherapy (carboplatin & paclitaxel
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McKenzie E., Cervical Cancer, Stage 3C2



Symptoms: Severe abdominal & back cramping, persistent & extreme pain, heavy discharge & bleeding

Treatments: Radiation, chemotherapy (cisplatin), brachytherapy, immunotherapy (Keytruda)
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Marissa N., Squamous Cell Cervical Cancer, Stage 3B



Symptom: Excessive and prolonged vaginal bleeding

Treatments: Chemotherapy (cisplatin), radiation, brachytherapy
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Leanne B., Cervical Cancer, Stage 4



Symptoms: Fatigue, irregular periods, pain after sex

Treatments: Radiotherapy, brachytherapy, chemotherapy (carboplatin & paclitaxel)/p>
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Kristine

Kristine M., Adenocarcinoma Cervical Cancer, Stage 2B



Symptom: Tumor found during postpartum pap smear

Treatments: Colposcopy with endocervical curettage, cone biopsy, total abdominal radical open hysterectomy with lymph node removal
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Kate R., Squamous Cell Carcinoma of Unknown Primary Origin, Stage 3C



Symptoms: Intermittent spotting during or after sex, unpredictable menstrual cycle, abdominal pain particularly under the rib cage
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Michael’s Stage 4 Head and Neck Cancer Story

Michael’s Stage 4 Head and Neck Cancer Story

Interviewed by: Taylor Scheib
Edited by: Katrina Villareal

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Michael’s cancer journey began unexpectedly after a routine CT scan of his arthritic neck revealed a significant mass. Despite having no symptoms, he embarked on an 18-month ordeal involving surgery, chemotherapy, and radiation. Initially, Michael hesitated to share the severity of his head and neck cancer diagnosis with his wife, given her health struggles, but eventually confided in her and her sister, ensuring he had a solid support system.

His treatment was intensive: a neck dissection to remove the tumor, affected lymph nodes, and salivary glands, followed by 13 chemotherapy sessions with cisplatin and 35 rounds of radiation. Despite the physical and emotional toll, including concerns about dental issues and feeding tubes, Michael maintained a sense of normalcy, continuing to work throughout much of his treatment.

Michael documented his journey on Twitter, where he built a large following and found comfort in the community he created. His first post-treatment PET scan showed no evidence of disease, and he remains determined to defy the grim prognosis he initially received. Michael credits his resilience to his proactive approach and the unwavering support of his medical team and loved ones.

As he navigated the challenges of chemotherapy, Michael initially felt out of place in the treatment room but quickly became a central, upbeat figure known as “Mr. Sunshine.” He brought positivity to others and found unique support among a predominantly male group, as head and neck cancer is more common in men.

Reflecting on the collateral damage of cancer treatment, Michael acknowledges the physical and emotional challenges, including nerve damage, depression, and financial strain. He emphasizes the critical role of online and offline communities in helping him and others cope with the disease. Particularly passionate about addressing the financial toxicity of cancer, he highlights the efforts of organizations working to alleviate these economic burdens.

In addition to cancer, Michael has faced mental health challenges, including bipolar disorder and severe anxiety. He underscores the importance of not facing illness alone and encourages others to seek support. His advocacy on social media has become a significant part of his life, offering hope and connection to others facing similar struggles.

Looking back on his journey, Michael reflects that while cancer could have destroyed him, it has instead made him a better person—more compassionate, present, and committed to helping others. Despite the hardships, he finds purpose in advocating for those affected by cancer, ensuring no one has to suffer in silence or face financial ruin.


  • Name: Michael W.
  • Diagnosis:
    • Squamous Cell Head and Neck Cancer
  • Staging:
    • Stage 4
  • Symptom:
    • None; caught at routine neck CT scan
  • Treatments:
    • Surgery
    • Chemotherapy: cisplatin
    • Radiation
Michael W.
Michael W.
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Michael W.
Michael W.
Michael W.

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Paula’s Stage 3 Colorectal Cancer Story

Paula’s Stage 3 Colorectal Cancer Story

Interviewed by: Taylor Scheib
Edited by: Katrina Villareal

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Paula initially experienced painful gas, irregular bowel movements, and eventually blood in her stool. She was often dismissed by doctors who attributed her symptoms to stomach flu, hemorrhoids, or irritable bowel syndrome. As her condition worsened, she became anemic and experienced severe pain, weight loss, and fainting spells.

After years of being misdiagnosed, Paula was finally diagnosed with colorectal cancer in 2014 after a series of urgent care visits and a failed colonoscopy. The tumor had been encapsulated in her colon and despite initial fears, it had not spread to other organs or lymph nodes.

Paula underwent emergency surgery to remove the tumor. Although doctors anticipated the need for chemotherapy or radiation, they were able to successfully remove the tumor and 34 lymph nodes. Paula’s cancer was found to be stage 3, but it had not spread to her lymph nodes.

Throughout her journey, Paula faced multiple challenges, including medical bias due to her race and sexual orientation. She experienced homophobia, racism, and misogyny, which contributed to delays in her diagnosis and treatment. Despite these challenges, she found strength in her community and in sharing her story.

Paula emphasizes the importance of early screening, particularly for those with a family history of colorectal cancer and for marginalized communities. She advocates for self-advocacy in healthcare, urging others to push for fair and humane treatment. Paula believes in the power of survival and thriving with cancer, encouraging others to know their family history, get screened, and not be afraid of a cancer diagnosis. She stresses the importance of treating everyone with dignity and respect in healthcare and encourages individuals to take control of their health.


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  • Name: Paula C.
  • Diagnosis:
    • Colorectal Cancer
  • Staging:
    • Stage 3
  • Symptoms:
    • Painful gas
    • Irregular bowel movements
    • Blood in stool
    • Anemia
    • Severe pain
    • Weight loss
    • Fainting spells
  • Treatment:
    • Surgery: tumor resection
Paula C.


I had all the signs and symptoms that they tell you to look out for when it comes to colorectal cancer, but at the time, I didn’t know what they were.

Introduction

I’m in love with my best friend and partner, Lara. We have been together for 38 years and married for 10 years. I’m a cat mom to a little cat named Trixie.

I enjoy dancing and singing. I’m a Duran Duran fan and that’s how I met my wife. For our 38th anniversary, we went to their 40-year celebration in Birmingham, England.

I’m also a great cook and I have a collection of amazing cookbooks. I’m trying to make my way to some of the best restaurants in the world.

Paula C.
Paula C.

Pre-diagnosis

Initial Symptoms

I had all the signs and symptoms that they tell you to look out for when it comes to colorectal cancer, but at the time, I didn’t know what they were.

In the early days, I always had painful gas and weird poop. When I experienced them, I would automatically blame what I ate and drank, so I would dismiss them a lot of times.

But then I started to have more painful symptoms, especially with the gas. I told my wife that I felt like I had gas going up and it was getting trapped. There were times when it hurt so bad that I wanted to scream.

I started seeing more blood. I went to see a doctor who said I probably had hemorrhoids.

PCP Appointment

I started going to the doctor by the end of 2012. I went to my primary care physician, but he didn’t think much of it at the time. When the pain was bad, I would get told that I probably had stomach flu.

Symptoms Worsen

I started to see signs of blood in late 2013. Sometimes I would be straining to poop. Other times, I would have diarrhea. I didn’t have my regular PCP at the time, so I would see whoever was available and they told me to change my diet. When I told one doctor that I saw some blood, he thought I might have stomach flu, so he gave me antibiotics.

By 2014, I started seeing more blood. I went to see a doctor who said I probably had hemorrhoids, so whenever I saw blood, I assumed it was that. I also started having bad pain and being anemic, but I didn’t know it then. I was cold all the time.

Paula C.
Paula C.
Being Dismissed

They said things that a lot of people under the age of 50 would be told because they were too young. “You probably have IBS.” “It’s probably hemorrhoids.” “You just have gas.” “I’m sure it’s nothing. You’re too young.” I heard a lot of that over the year.

By the time 2014 came around, I had been on antibiotics for nine months from different doctors I had seen since 2013.

There were times when the pain would be worse and I would have to go to urgent care. I went at least six times. The first few times, they would say I had gastritis or something stomach-related and send me home with antibiotics and painkillers. The last few times, I was bent over and freezing because I was anemic. I started to lose weight and ended up losing 45 lbs.

I have experienced a lot of bias and straight-up racism with medical care.

The doctor came into the room and before he even said his name or mine, he said, “I don’t give drugs in this room.” My wife took the doctor out and started yelling at him in the hallway while I sat there, thinking, Don’t yell. They will not help me if you yell.

I have experienced a lot of bias and straight-up racism with medical care. In 2014, I had doctors ask, “Did you tell me you were gay? Listen, it doesn’t matter what’s wrong with you because you’re going to hell.”

Paula C.
Paula C.
Losing Her Job

I got a job that year, but I was having such a hard time because I couldn’t keep up. Then I started to see my hands turn white and thought I was working too hard and planning for our wedding was too much. But the doctors kept telling me that I was okay.

I started getting depressed because I didn’t feel good. I felt that I wasn’t pulling my weight or helping my wife like I should. I was telling people I couldn’t do things, but the doctor said I was okay so it was starting to mess with my head. I didn’t want to tell people when it was bad, so I was hiding it, which made it worse.

I ended up losing my job because I kept calling in sick.

I was so sick and dizzy that I could barely see and stand up.

Diagnosis

Turning Point

The day after we got married, we went to a Broadway play, but while we were there, I felt terrible. My colon was becoming completely blocked and I was starting to have serious complications. By the time the play was over, I was so sick and dizzy that I could barely see and stand up. I was shaking, my body was red, and my skin was hot.

When we got back to my best friend’s house, I ran past the door and barely made it to the bathroom. I had the most humiliating accident. I was lying on his bathroom floor and knew that this was bad. I knew something was wrong.

Around January, I started to have fainting spells. I went to an urgent care on a Thursday and said, “Ma’am, I don’t care what you say. Nothing is coming out of me but blood. Nothing!” The person behind the counter got a nurse, who came out and said, “I’ve seen some of your records. Has anybody given you a FIT test?”

Paula C.
Paula C.

I didn’t know what a FIT test was. She was a bit worried. She said, “You probably ate something red, but I’m going to give you this test. Unfortunately, we don’t have a lab here, so I will not have the results until next week.”

I was in agony and stayed in bed all weekend. I was going back and forth to the bathroom and blacking out. I called my wife and we went back to the ER. This time, I must have looked bad enough because they kept me. I still had a 13-hour wait, but they said, “Get her a room. Get some scans. We’re going to do a colonoscopy.” 

I don’t remember much after that. I was so sick that they started to medicate me and put me out. When I woke up the next morning, it was time for rounds and the doctors were going to come and talk to me. They did scans, blood work, EKGs, and all these tests, and they tried to do a colonoscopy.

They tried doing a colonoscopy, but they couldn’t get through.

Getting the Official Diagnosis

Around eight doctors came in. My heart started pounding. One doctor said they tried doing a colonoscopy, but they couldn’t get through. I didn’t know what to say after. It was a devastating way to find out I had colorectal cancer.

Reaction to the Diagnosis

What did that man say to me? What did those people tell me? Why did all those people ignore me? How long does this cancer take to grow? Black people have a higher risk of this? I was pissed and it was messing with me as much as the cancer was messing with me. I was mad and when I’m mad, I keep it in because I don’t want to hurt other people. Doubt, depression, and misery set in, and I needed to find a way to turn it around.

Paula C.
Paula C.

Treatment

Surgery to Remove the Tumor

They said, “We’re going to do emergency surgery. Based on what we see, it looks bad. We believe the tumor has broken outside of the colon wall. It might have some interference with your liver and other organs. We’re not sure what we’re going to find. We’re possibly going to do radiation and chemo because it looks massive. We might have to shrink it first or we might have to go in, do surgery, clean it up, and fix what we can. We need to decide. We’re going to keep you here because you are completely dehydrated.” I was skin and bones, and an absolute mess.

The tumor board said it looked bad, so we weren’t going to do chemotherapy or radiation, but we were going to do surgery. They brought me back to the hospital and prepped me for surgery. I was there for about four days prior and then a week and a half after.

The tumor was encapsulated in the colon and has not broken outside of the colon wall.

I went in early morning to prep and they told us that surgery would take 12 to 14 hours. They said, “We believe you are stage 3. When we go in, we might have to take out your uterus. We will take out whatever the tumor has affected. We will take out part or most of your colon. You will probably have a permanent ostomy. We may have to take out part of your liver. If it has gone deeper into the stomach, we will decide from there. We will do what we must do and that’s all we can tell you right now.”

When I woke up, the nurses came over and said, “Ms. Chambers, your doctor will explain everything.” He came in and said, “When we got in, it wasn’t what we thought.” Lara said the doctors came to her about four hours into surgery. They found that the tumor was encapsulated in the colon and has not broken outside of the colon wall. My body was completely swollen. I was blocked. They took out 34 lymph nodes. The whole surgery took 5 ½ hours. When they got the pathology back, there was no cancer in any of the lymph nodes.

Paula C.
Paula C.

Genetic Testing & Family History

Once my doctors knew that I had colorectal cancer, they did all the right things. They asked all the questions, especially my family history. They asked me repeatedly.

I decided to stay at the county hospital because they saved my life. I found my team, so I continued my care with the oncology and GI staff. In conjunction with UTHealth, they were able to offer genetic testing, which I qualified for and was able to do through my wife’s insurance. They suggested that because they think I have a genetic component. They tested me for Lynch, but it was negative.

That same year, my father-in-law and I did a DNA test and the results said I had another brother. A cousin contacted me and we talked about what was going on and I found out about David. He allowed me to share part of his story. He is an ostomate and was diagnosed with stage 3 colorectal cancer two years before me. He didn’t know about our family because he was adopted when he was a kid. We then found out that there’s a family history of not only colorectal cancer but GI cancers, and it runs deep in the family.

Look at your own biases. Think about when you are at the doctor yourself and how you would like to be treated. Keep it professional but bring in that real spirit of caring. 

Experiencing Bias

I experienced homophobia, racial bias, bigotry, and a lot of misogyny, which I think went into some of my diagnoses. A couple of people told me I was hysterical and that it was in my head. It was so freeing to tell my story for the first time. It brought people into my life who had a similar story.

Meeting them and finding that community made me realize that it wasn’t just me and that I wasn’t too young. It wasn’t because I was Black. It wasn’t any one of these things. There’s a way that we look at cancer and at diagnosis, treatment, and preventative medicine that needs to be changed. I had whole conversations about this cancer that has stigmas around it that I did not even know I was supposed to be ashamed of.

Paula C.
Paula C.

I’m a nine-year survivor and in those nine years, I’ve seen things change. Things take time. It’s like pulling a bandage off a wound and having the wound heal. We have to treat it and give it light. We have to uncover some of the issues with which we are dealing. Because we all have our own biases, it’s important for anybody in the healthcare field, especially here in the United States, to look at things within us that we need to look at.

Innately, I think most people who go into healthcare do it because they want to. It’s their calling. It’s also their decision to be in healthcare, a space where they care for people who show up in their rawest moments. It’s important to have grace and a little bit of humility. If someone’s coming to you, they’re putting their trust in you. 

Treat people with respect and dignity. Ask them, “Who are you? What happened to you? How did you get here? How can I help you? How did you get to me? Thank you for coming here.” Listen to them and meet people where they are.

The calling in healthcare is not for everyone. We still have laws, rules, and regulations, and we are to treat everyone with dignity and respect. Look at your own biases. Think about when you are at the doctor yourself and how you would like to be treated. Keep it professional but bring in that real spirit of caring. 

I want people to not be afraid to go to the doctor. I don’t want what happened to me to happen to anybody.

People need to get screened, especially those in the Black and LGBTQIA+ community. You need to feel comfortable and know that there are more and more places with affirming care and who show it. They want you to know that you are welcome. Look for the rainbows.

Let us know that we are welcome. Ask me what my pronoun is. Is that my partner or my wife? Do not assume. Ask us what we need and be in partnership with us.

I want people to not be afraid to go to the doctor. I don’t want what happened to me to happen to anybody. Know your family history. A lot of gay kids are kicked out of the house when they are young, but a lot of them stay in touch with their family members.

Paula C.
Paula C.

Words of Advice

We need to get screened for colorectal cancer. The screening age now is 45, but if you have a family history of colorectal cancer like me, especially if you have beautiful melanated skin, you want to make sure that you’re talking to your doctors early.

Cancer affects the family and not just the individual. If there’s cancer in the family, it needs to be openly discussed. We need to be tested. We need to know our family history.

Nobody is going to care for you the way you do. Always put yourself first.

Cancer is a scary word, but it’s a word. People survive, thrive, and live with cancer. We’re called survivors from the day that we are diagnosed, so from that day, I had a choice. Am I going to live with this or am I going to let it take me? I needed to find a way to live with it and I did.

But I didn’t want to just live—I wanted to thrive. If cancer’s something that you’re afraid of and it’s the reason you’re not getting screened, you’re doing yourself a disservice.

Advocate for yourself. You have the right to advocate for fair treatment and humane treatment. Nobody is going to care for you the way you do. Always put yourself first. Put the mask on first and take care of yourself first. Nothing can be healthy and whole until you are healthy and whole. If you’re not comfortable, say so.

Paula C.

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Krista’s Stage 1A IDC Breast Cancer with ATM Mutation Story

Krista’s Stage 1A IDC Breast Cancer with ATM Mutation Story

Interviewed by: Taylor Scheib
Edited by: Katrina Villareal

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Krista’s stage 1A breast cancer journey is deeply connected to her family’s history. Her mother was diagnosed with stage 3 breast cancer at 48 and underwent various treatments like chemotherapy, radiation, and hormone therapy. She tested positive for a mutation in the ATM gene, which raises the risk of breast cancer. This finding led Krista to get genetic testing, revealing she also carried the same mutation, giving her a 69% risk of developing breast cancer.

Krista began following a rigorous screening schedule, alternating between mammograms and breast MRIs every six months. Despite a normal mammogram, her MRI detected an abnormality. Though specialists initially dismissed it as non-cancerous, Krista felt uneasy and insisted on a biopsy. This confirmed her breast cancer diagnosis just two weeks before her scheduled preventative surgery.

She chose to undergo a double mastectomy with DIEP flap reconstruction, using tissue from her abdomen to reconstruct her breasts. The process involved an initial eight-hour surgery followed by a revision surgery. After the procedure, Krista was relieved to avoid chemotherapy due to her low Oncotype DX score. Instead, she began a five-year course of tamoxifen, experiencing minor side effects like sleep disturbances and fatigue.

Her treatment plan also included daily exercise, which helped manage the side effects. Krista’s nutrition strategy focused on a plant-heavy diet, aiming for 8 to 10 servings of fruits and vegetables daily with a balanced intake of high-quality, low-quantity meat.

Mentally, Krista dealt with stress by spending quiet time, running, and leaning on her husband’s support. She emphasizes the importance of making informed, personal treatment decisions and encourages others to consider genetic testing and explore all their options.

Krista’s motivation to share her story comes from a desire to empower others with the knowledge she has gained. She hopes to help others make informed decisions and potentially prevent cancer. She advocates for taking one’s time to navigate the overwhelming journey of cancer, stressing the importance of making decisions that bring peace of mind.


  • Name: Krista B.
  • Diagnosis:
    • Breast Cancer
    • Invasive ductal carcinoma (IDC)
    • HR+, HER2-
  • Staging:
    • Stage 1A
  • Mutations:
    • ATM
  • Symptoms:
    • None; abnormality detected in breast MRI
  • Treatments:
    • Surgery: double mastectomy with DIEP flap reconstruction
    • Selective estrogen receptor modulator (SERM): tamoxifen
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Krista B.
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Krista B.

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[00:01] Hi, I’m Krista, and I am a nurse and a patient advocate and a breast cancer survivor. My story really begins with my mom’s cancer diagnosis. She was diagnosed at age 48 with stage 3 breast cancer. At that time, she was only tested for two gene mutations linked to breast cancer, which were the BRCA1 and BRCA2 mutations. She was negative.

[00:36] Fast forward, she did every type of treatment—chemo, radiation, hormone therapy, everything. She put up a strong fight for about 12 years. Shortly before she passed away, she was unfortunately offered expanded genetic testing for other genes linked to breast cancer. She did test positive for a mutation in her ATM gene, which was a pathogenic mutation and higher risk than the average ATM gene.

[01:15] She shared that with all of her children because we then had a 50% chance of inheriting that from her, so we had the option to also test for that mutation. A few months after she passed away, I decided to move forward with my own genetic testing and found out I was also a carrier of the same mutation. So, I had a 69% risk of breast cancer, a 5 to 10% risk of pancreatic cancer, and also a 2 to 3% risk of ovarian cancer.

[01:56] Because I was at high risk for these cancers, I started to follow the recommendations for more thorough and frequent screenings, which meant on top of mammograms, I was also doing breast MRI, alternating every six months. I started that process and also began considering different surgical options for preventative surgeries.

[02:20] During this time, my mammogram was normal, but my breast MRI showed an abnormality. We did some follow-up testing—ultrasound and diagnostic mammogram. At that time, they said that it did not look like cancer. I was nervous about that with my risk, so I followed up and had three specialists tell me that it was not cancer. They advised me to take my time, make my decisions, and move forward with the surgical plan that I had in place.

[03:01] So, I did that, but because it started to have a possibility of affecting the process of my surgery, I requested a biopsy. It came back two weeks before my preventative surgery and showed a diagnosis of breast cancer. It was a little bit of a shock. I went into my biopsy thinking, “Oh, I’m good. This is just a routine check to make sure it’s okay to move forward with my surgery in the order we had planned.” So, I was really surprised at the diagnosis, but I was grateful to have that plan in place already and that I wasn’t scrambling to make decisions.

[03:42] I had my first surgery, a double mastectomy with flap reconstruction, on January 30th of this year, followed by a second surgery in April. Luckily, I really believe that I owe this all to my mom and advances in genetics. I’m grateful every day for the fact that she did genetic testing because, to this day, at this point in time, I don’t think I would still have a diagnosis based on my screening schedule. I’m very grateful I was able to avoid chemotherapy and a lot of the other things that I watched her go through. I’m grateful for that every day. It saved my life.

[04:36] If you’re interested in doing genetic testing, the first step would be to talk to your medical provider. This can sometimes be your primary care provider, an OB-GYN, or any specialist in the field of cancer that you may or may not have a family history with. You’re going to want to request a hereditary cancer panel, which screens for somewhere around 79 different genes that are now linked to cancer. The first step would be to request that from your provider, and most of the time, they’ll recommend that you see a genetic counselor, which is a great idea in my opinion. They’re amazing and have the most up-to-date information on the different genes and the risks associated with each. They do a deep dive into your family history and then make recommendations for different testing.

[05:31] From that point, it has really changed my life. I have three little girls, and I just think how different it’s going to be for them and how much they can avoid. But when it comes down to choices for reconstruction, there are typically three main choices that are offered to patients or should be offered to patients. One of them is esthetic flat closure, the second one is breast implants, and the third is flat base reconstruction. Flat base reconstruction is one that’s a little less known. It was my choice, and rather than having an implant, they take tissue from a part of your body and basically transplant it with all the vessels and use that in place of the implant for your reconstruction.

[06:26] It’s pretty amazing the way that they do it, and there are different places that they can take the tissue from. One of the most common is the one that I chose called deep flap reconstruction. They take tissue from your abdomen and use that for the reconstruction. It’s a little bit of a longer surgery upfront, and it was a two-phase surgery for me. That’s very common for patients who choose this reconstruction option. It is around an eight-hour surgery usually, so a little longer.

[07:06] My advice to anyone who is facing these choices is that they’re very hard choices, right? They’re life-changing decisions that you have to make. Sometimes you aren’t given a lot of time, but the thing that I hope everyone understands is that there are different options out there. Regardless of what anyone else thinks—whether it’s your provider, your family members, or someone who has been through it—ultimately, it’s your decision, and it’s what you have to live with. It should be the choice that makes you feel the most at peace moving forward.

[07:50] I have a lot of patients who I talk to who get very frustrated because they were not offered all the options. That’s one of the reasons I like to share my story because even for me as a nurse, in the beginning, I did not have a clue that this was an option. My biggest advice would be to take your time. Even with a cancer diagnosis, you have time to make an informed decision. Consider all of your options and choose the one that makes you feel the most at peace moving forward.

[08:25] The recommendation for me, treatment-wise moving forward, was that I had a very low risk of recurrence. My Oncotype score was one out of 100, so no chemo was recommended. But I was hormone receptor-positive, HER2-negative. The recommendation for me was tamoxifen, and that would be over a five-year period. I am at this point only three months in, but very happy to say that my side effects have been very minimal so far. I know that can change, but so far, not bad—just a little bit of sleep disturbance and fatigue, but nothing that is not manageable.

[09:10] One of the things that my oncologist, who I love, recommended was making sure you exercise every day. That was going to make the biggest difference in my side effects on that medication, so he said, “Don’t stop.” So I increased it, and I’m going to keep doing that and hope for the best moving forward. I know that side effects can be really hard sometimes, and it’s always a hard choice. It was something that I never wanted to do, which is why I chose the preventative surgery. But here we are. Just try to make the best of it and take it day by day.

[09:52] I think I tend to carry stress well somehow, but after everything was finished, I felt this huge weight lifted off my shoulders. I remember saying to my husband, “I didn’t even realize how much I was carrying until I was done with the surgery part.” It’s a huge stressor, but I did try to do a few things during the last year as I was going through all of this that helped a lot.

[10:31] For me, I’m not necessarily a meditation person, but that is very helpful for a lot of people. For me, I have a swing on my back porch, and that’s kind of my space where I spend a lot of time. I guess it could be similar to meditation, but that was very helpful to me. I would just go out and have quiet—turn off the phone, have time to just kind of process things, and swing on my swing. Grounding is also really good.

[11:10] Having somebody to talk to is important. I’m very lucky. My husband is very supportive, and he listened to me. I’m an out-loud processor, so he listened as I made all these hard decisions and changed my mind 500 times. Just the back-and-forth, talking about all the things I’m learning about food—you have to have a person who is willing to listen and not necessarily give advice. That was very helpful.

[11:42] I’m also back to the exercise, but running is a huge stress relief for me. That was one of the things I also tried to focus on—making sure I was getting in running and doing some deep breathing.

[11:55] One of the biggest things that feels overwhelming to a lot of people who have just been diagnosed with cancer or are at high risk is, “What do I eat?” That was one of the first things that I said to my doctor, “What should I eat? Is there a specific diet that I should be on?” I talk to women every day who are asking the same questions. It is one of the most impactful things that we can do, but also one of the most overwhelming, especially if you’re trying to navigate all of these things being thrown at you with a new diagnosis and high-risk genes.

[12:34] I am in a Master’s of Medical Nutrition program right now, which I love. I get to focus a lot on the research with cancer prevention and all of the new studies that are coming out. I love it. I’m very passionate about it, but I will also say that there is no perfect plan. There’s no perfect diet that we can all do to prevent cancer, right? There’s no 100% guarantee with anything when it comes to cancer. It does what it wants.

[13:10] Some of the best recommendations I can give are to eat a lot of plants. One of the best things you can do is eat lots of fruits and vegetables. I think the recommendation is 5 or 6 servings. I try to go for 8 to 10 every day, which sounds like a lot, but once you start incorporating them and finding different ways to do it, there are so many things—fruits, vegetables, nuts, legumes, whole grains—that have so many benefits for cancer and trying to prevent cancer and reduce your risk as much as possible.

[13:47] The reason that I like to share this kind of information is because, for me personally, moving from this place of overwhelm and trying to navigate everything into a space where I felt more empowered was huge for me. I remember thinking, “I’m a nurse, and how much of this did I not know from the start, and how much have I had to learn?” I felt very fortunate to have access to a lot of courses and certifications that not everyone has.

[14:26] I feel like I owe my life to my mom and genetic testing, and I would be in a very different place without that. After I went through all of this, I felt this huge responsibility to share with others because I know there are so many people who could benefit from this information. Even if it makes a difference for one person or helps one person feel more empowered in their decision-making and informed about the options that are available, even genetic testing—if it helps one person or prevents one cancer diagnosis—it’s totally worth it.

[15:12] No matter what phase you’re going through, it’s scary, and it’s overwhelming. Whether you have been diagnosed with cancer already or are a provider who is just starting out on your journey, just know that it’s not always going to feel like it feels right now.


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Treatments: Double mastectomy, neoadjuvant chemotherapy, hormone therapy Tamoxifen
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Symptom: Lump in breast

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Ariel’s Stage 4 High-Grade Appendix Cancer Story

Ariel’s Stage 4 High-Grade Appendix Cancer Story

Interviewed by: Taylor Scheib
Edited by: Katrina Villareal

Ariel, a fitness professional and single mother to an 18-month-old son, was diagnosed with stage 4 high-grade appendix cancer at age 30. Her symptoms began as sharp pains with gas and bowel movements, which she initially dismissed as menstrual-related. A routine OB-GYN visit revealed a large mass, leading to a diagnosis of mucinous adenocarcinoma, a rare and aggressive appendix cancer that had spread to multiple organs.

Ariel underwent a radical hysterectomy, which was one of the most challenging aspects of her journey, ending her ability to have more children. She found this loss deeply difficult and struggled with grief. However, she found gratitude in her role as a mother and the perspective gained through her experience, and found strength by focusing on the present and embracing her emotions.

Ariel went through 25 rounds of chemotherapy (FOLFOX and FOLFIRI) but unsuccessfully qualified for HIPEC (hyperthermic intraperitoneal chemotherapy). She participated in a clinical trial for PIPAC (pressurized intraperitoneal aerosol chemotherapy) at City of Hope, which led to two negative biopsies. To access specialized care, Ariel and her family relocated to be near the Huntsman Cancer Institute. This move provided her with crucial care and an integrated healthcare system.

Ariel encourages others to take control of their health care, actively participate in treatment decisions, and interview doctors to ensure comfort with their care team. She also stresses the importance of asking for help, staying flexible in beliefs, and giving freely to others as part of the healing process.


  • Name: Ariel M.
  • Age at Diagnosis:
    • 30
  • Diagnosis:
    • High-Grade Appendix Cancer
  • Staging:
    • Stage 4
  • Initial Symptom:
    • Sharp pain with gas & bowel movements
  • Treatment:
    • Radical hysterectomy
    • Chemotherapy: FOLFOX & FOLFIRI
    • Clinical trial: PIPAC (pressurized intraperitoneal aerosol chemotherapy)
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Symptom: Increasing urge to urinate

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Symptoms: Severe bloating, bad stomachache, elevated CA 125 and tumor markers

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Symptom: Severe abdominal pain

Treatments: Surgeries (right hemisphere colectomy, appendectomy, HIPEC), chemotherapy

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Symptom: Sharp pain with gas & bowel movements

Treatments: Surgery (radical hysterectomy), chemotherapy, PIPAC clinical trial (pressurized intraperitoneal aerosol chemotherapy)

Hannah R., Appendix Cancer, Stage 4



Symptoms: Bloating, fullness, UTIs, blood in urine, pain during intercourse, high blood pressure, spotting

Treatments: Surgery (appendectomy, cytoreductive surgery), chemotherapy, radiation (to treat recurrence)

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Callan’s Stage 3 Testicular Cancer Story

Callan’s Stage 3 Testicular Cancer Story

Interviewed by: Taylor Scheib
Edited by: Katrina Villareal

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Before his stage 3 testicular cancer diagnosis, Callan was actively engaged in mixed martial arts and Brazilian jiu-jitsu, maintaining a rigorous fitness regime. Upon discovering a lump in his right testicle, Callan immediately suspected cancer, a diagnosis that was confirmed after a series of medical consultations.

Initially, Callan underwent multiple chemotherapy treatments and one surgery, but the cancer recurred within six months. He subsequently tried a low-level chemotherapy regimen, which proved ineffective. Recently, Callan began participating in a clinical trial for a targeted treatment designed to attack the remaining tumor in his lung.

Throughout his treatment journey, Callan faced significant physical and emotional challenges. He experienced severe side effects from various chemotherapy regimens, including BEP (bleomycin, etoposide phosphate, cisplatin), cisplatin, and the high-dose TopCaT (topotecan, carboplatin, thiotepa) treatment with blood stem cells. These treatments caused debilitating symptoms such as extreme weight loss, nerve damage, temporary blindness, and a plethora of other health issues. Despite these setbacks, Callan remained determined, continuing to engage in physical activities whenever possible.

Callan’s resilience is evident in his ability to maintain a positive outlook and a sense of normalcy amid ongoing treatments. He has found solace in helping others by sharing his experiences and supporting fellow cancer patients. His participation in the trial, which targets a specific protein in his tumor, represents a glimmer of hope though it also comes with risks as his liver has recently been affected by the treatment.

Callan’s story is one of tenacity and hope, as he navigates the complexities of cancer treatment while striving to lead a meaningful life and support others facing similar battles.


  • Name: Callan R.
  • Diagnosis:
    • Testicular Cancer
  • Staging:
    • 3
  • Symptom:
    • Lump in right testicle
  • Treatments:
    • Chemotherapy: cisplatin, doxorubicin, BEP (bleomycin, etoposide phosphate, cisplatin), GemTaxol (gemcitabine & paclitaxel), TopCaT (topotecan, carboplatin, thiotepa)
    • Surgery: orchiectomy
    • Clinical trial: BNT142

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Lexie’s High-Grade Endometrial Stromal Sarcoma Story

Lexie’s High-Grade Endometrial Stromal Sarcoma Story

Interviewed by: Taylor Scheib
Edited by: Katrina Villareal

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Lexie’s life changed dramatically when she was diagnosed with cancer three times. Her symptoms started with a prolonged period and severe cramps. Initially misdiagnosed, she eventually discovered she had cancer. The first treatment involved surgery, but subsequent relapses required more aggressive treatments.

During her first relapse, severe cramps led to the discovery of a softball-sized mass. She underwent surgery and chemotherapy, maintaining a positive attitude with support from her husband and family.

Later, respiratory issues revealed another mass in her chest. Proton beam radiation followed by chemotherapy initially seemed successful, but cancer spread to her lung lining, necessitating further treatments.

Throughout her journey, Lexie faced severe side effects from chemotherapy. She learned the importance of self-advocacy in medical care and relied on her strong support system and medical team. She focuses on controlling what she can, finding silver linings, and encouraging others to seek support.


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  • Name: Lexie W.
  • Diagnosis:
    • High-Grade Endometrial Stromal Sarcoma
  • Symptoms:
    • Prolonged period
    • Severe cramps
    • Difficulty breathing
  • Treatment:
    • Surgery
    • Chemotherapy
    • Proton beam therapy
Lexie W.


I had a period that lasted over a month. I kept thinking that it was normal and that it was going to stop.

Introduction

I live in Scottsdale, Arizona, but I grew up in a small town in Minnesota.

I love going to different coffee shops and checking out the vibe and the coffee. I love hiking and being out in nature during the day. I did a lot of camping growing up. That was usually our vacation.

I love to travel and go to different places. It’s fun to see different cultures. I love to spend time with friends and family.

I have been diagnosed with cancer three times. What I have now is high-grade endometrial stromal sarcoma. It was low-grade at first, then it became high-grade.

Lexie W.
Lexie W.

Initial Cancer Diagnosis

One time, I experienced intense cramps but I knew they weren’t period cramps. I know my body very well and I knew that something was off, so I went to the emergency room. They gave me Midol and sent me home.

Another time, I had a period that lasted over a month. I kept thinking that it was normal and that it was going to stop, but my sister told me I needed to get checked so she scheduled an appointment for me.

I was eventually diagnosed with low-grade endometrial cancer, but I didn’t do chemotherapy or radiation. I felt I got off a little easier, having to undergo surgeries and then continue living my life.

A doctor came in and said, ‘You’ve got a huge mass the size of a softball that’s pushing up on stuff.’ I asked, ‘When are we going to find out if it’s cancer?’ He said, ‘It is.’

First Relapse

Symptoms

I experienced very similar symptoms and I was still being so ignorant of it. I didn’t think of cancer, which was crazy to me, but that’s how I live my life. I don’t try to allow those thoughts to come in too often.

At the time, my husband was traveling for work. I was walking with a friend and I was a little bit hunched over because I was having a lot of intense cramp-like feelings. I kept telling her I thought it was my appendix, thinking it was appendicitis.

I went to the ER and that was pretty tough because I was by myself. After they ran all the tests, a doctor came in and said, “You’ve got a huge mass the size of a softball that’s pushing up on stuff.” I asked, “When are we going to find out if it’s cancer?” He said, “It is. We can tell,” so that was tough.

Lexie W.
Lexie W.
Reaction to the Relapse

I was overwhelmed, but I never felt like my life was over. I thought it was another fight I was going to have to fight. It was more about putting my game face on. It was another obstacle in front of me that I had to conquer.

It was tough to make the phone call to my husband. I told him I was going to the ER and he knew the entire time what it could be. When I called, I could barely get words out. He said, “I’m on my way.” It’s so good to have such a good support system, so that was tough, but we got through it.

They all came to the same conclusion. Chemotherapy was necessary knowing that I already had cancer once before.

Treatment

I ended up going through surgery to get the mass out and then I had to decide whether I was going to do chemotherapy or not to make sure that we got rid of all cancer cells.

Make sure that you get a second opinion so that you’re as informed as possible before making a treatment decision. I ended up getting the opinion of a few different doctors. I gave them all of my test results and they all came to the same conclusion. Chemotherapy was necessary knowing that I already had cancer once before and it came back and is now high-grade.

Lexie W.
Lexie W.
Side Effects of Chemotherapy

Chemotherapy was intense. I also got pneumonia during treatment. There was one point when I was lying on the floor and, in that moment, I felt like my life was over because I was so done that I could not fight anymore.

Chemotherapy was brutal on me. The fatigue was pretty intense. The brain fog was pretty bad too. I had hair loss, but it never mattered to me, which is crazy because I was so superficial growing up.

Since the first time I got cancer, one of the silver linings is my priorities changed. It wasn’t about making sure my hair or makeup was perfect. I couldn’t care less. There was hair loss, but I never cared about wearing a wig. The only time I wear a head cover is to protect myself from the sun, but otherwise, it’s part of my journey, so I go with it.

I was exhausted. I’ve already done this twice. I didn’t want to do this again, but I wasn’t ready to give up.

Second Relapse

Symptoms

I’ve gone through cancer twice and I thought a cold was going to knock me out because, at the time, I couldn’t breathe very well and I was fatigued. I thought it was COVID.

I went to the ER because I also couldn’t breathe. They ran a test and said I didn’t have COVID. They ran a few tests to make sure and did a scan. The doctor came in and said, “You have a big mass in your chest that is pushing up on all of the important tubes that help you breathe.”

Lexie W.
Lexie W.
Treatment Decision-Making

I thought that they could remove the mass and then we were good, but the mass was next to some important organs. At that moment, I was exhausted. I’ve already done this twice. I didn’t want to do this again, but I wasn’t ready to give up.

After my first relapse and going through chemotherapy, I told my family that if it happened again, we’d be waving the white flag. I couldn’t go through the treatments again. It was too much. That was a hard pill for my family to swallow because it could cut my life short.

But when I was put in the actual situation, I decided I wasn’t done yet. I still had too much to do in my life. It was difficult because I had to think through. Was this something I wanted to do? Did I want to go through the different treatment options? Is this going to affect my quality of life? That’s how I choose to make my decisions these days.

When I looked at my PET scans, it looked like everything was gone. The only thing that was showing was a little bit of red near the scar tissue.

We ended up not doing surgery. We did proton beam radiation, which is different from the traditional one. I was so grateful to be able to go to a facility that had that available because that’s not very common everywhere. It has fewer short-term and long-term side effects.

After radiation, I did three cycles of chemotherapy. The radiation seemed to work, so that was great news.

When I looked at my PET scans, it looked like everything was gone. The only thing that was showing was a little bit of red near the scar tissue. According to my radiologist and doctor, they were pretty sure it was scarring, so I should be good to go and continue to live my life. We could do a couple more rounds, but ultimately, it was my decision. I weighed the pros and cons, and I felt good that it was gone.

Lexie W.
Lexie W.

Cancer Spread

I was able to live my life normally for a couple of months, so it was a nice little reprieve from a mental health standpoint. I needed it because I was tired of fighting.

I did my follow-up PET scan a couple of months later, which showed it had spread. It’s in the lining of my lungs. I don’t say I regretted my decision, but it was the decision I made.

Treatment

I had to do a lung surgery. I’ve been doing chemotherapy. I’m cautiously optimistic. I hope that the PET scan will show that it worked because I had to make another hard decision of what type of treatment plan I wanted to go with for this next round.

I had three different options. I took some time to think. I was tired of it. I wanted to move on with my life. I went with the most aggressive options, which also had the highest risk. If the PET scan doesn’t show what I hope and believe it will show, then I don’t have a whole lot of options.

I have a decent amount of anxiety, but I’ve been raised to focus on what I can control and then let the rest go.

Having a Strong Support System

With the medical team that I have, it’s a collaboration. They keep me informed and give me all the options. If they believe an option to be better than the others, they’re going to voice their expert opinion. One thing that I like about where I go now is they have a tumor board. As we talk about self-advocacy and getting second opinions, they’ve already integrated those into their model, which is so reassuring.

If they come across unique cases that they’re not as exposed to, they bring the case to the tumor board, so they can weigh in. They bring the information back to the patient to help the patient make an informed decision.

Because of that collaboration, I don’t feel like I’m on an island. All of my family members rally together during these times. They try to get as much information as they can and filter what’s valuable to help me make an informed decision. It’s a lot of weight to be the sole decider, but I guess that’s part of life. We have to make decisions all the time. How do you do that successfully? It’s a team effort.

Lexie W.
Lexie W.

Living Life

I’m like a duck where I’m calm on top of the water and swimming for my life underneath. I have a decent amount of anxiety, but I’ve been raised to focus on what I can control and then let the rest go.

There’s a lot in my life that I cannot control and this is one of those things. I remind myself that I’m doing everything that I can and I have to be okay with it. Then let the rest be what it is.

I didn’t understand that I could advocate for myself. You know what’s best for you, so it’s important to push for what you know is right.

Importance of Self-Advocacy

Self-advocacy is so important to be able to make an informed decision. You can’t do that without getting all of the information and advocating for what you feel is right. The reason why I think it’s so important to push for what you feel is right is because of my situation. They kept telling me that it was just period cramps when I knew it wasn’t, but they’re the experts and so I felt a little bit defeated and didn’t necessarily know what direction to take.

I needed my sister to advocate for me because I didn’t know what self-advocacy was. It was my first time going through cancer, so I didn’t understand that I could advocate for myself. You know what’s best for you, so it’s important to push for what you know is right.

Lexie W.
Lexie W.

Words of Advice

Live positively because the opposite sounds so miserable. Of course, we all have our moments. I’m not saying I’m positive 24/7; that’s unrealistic. I have days when I feel down. You need to have more up days than down days. I choose to be positive.

Go big or go home because life is too short. Take full advantage of your situation and find the silver lining.

You’re not alone. I don’t want people to ever feel like they’re alone. There are communities and resources out there to help you.

Life is too short. Take full advantage of your situation and find the silver lining.


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Don’s Relapsed Diffuse Large B-cell Lymphoma (DLBCL) Story

Don’s Relapsed Diffuse Large B-cell Lymphoma (DLBCL) Story

Interviewed by: Taylor Scheib
Edited by: Katrina Villareal

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Don was 1 of nearly 70,000 Americans diagnosed with non-Hodgkin lymphoma in 2013. Unfortunately, Don fell into the 20-50% of patients whose non-Hodgkin lymphoma came back 8 years later. But still, it wasn’t over. After a second round of chemo, within one year, the non-Hodgkin lymphoma came back.

Don underwent chemotherapy regimens twice. The third time doctors found his cancer, his treatment options were limited. The conversation became more difficult.

This is Don’s story of how he got diagnosed with cancer 3 times and the decisions that led him to no evidence of disease.


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  • Name: Don S.
  • Diagnosis:
    • Relapsed Diffuse Large B-cell Lymphoma (DLBCL)
  • Initial Symptoms:
    • Weight loss
    • Fatigue
    • Enlarged lymph nodes
  • Treatment:
    • Chemotherapy
    • Radiation
    • Immunotherapy: Epkinly (epcoritamab)
Don S.


I was losing weight, didn’t feel good, and was always tired. I was admitted to the hospital for three weeks to run tests and they discovered I had lymphoma.

Introduction

I grew up in Connecticut and then in 1979, I moved to North Carolina where I live with my wife. We’ve been married for over 20 years.

I worked for IBM for 25 years and while there, I got my master’s degree in electrical engineering from Syracuse University. I retired in the ‘90s and started my own computer business. I did that for another 20 years and then retired for good.

I used to race sailboats, but I’ve aged out of that and now I’m into golf.

Don S.
Don S.

Non-Hodgkin’s Diagnosis

In 2013, I was losing weight, didn’t feel good, and was always tired. I was admitted to the hospital for three weeks to run tests and they discovered I had lymphoma. Dr. Favaro was the on-call doctor then. I went with him when I got out and I’ve been with him ever since.

Eight years later, it came back and this time, it was the lymph nodes in my neck. We did treatment again but no radiation this time.

Less than a year later, it was back for a third time. The glands in my neck got swollen, so I knew something wasn’t right. I thought it might go away, but it never did, so I went to see my oncologist again.

Dr. Favaro said, “We have to do something different.” I looked into CAR T-cell therapy, but the problem was it required 24/7 care. My wife was still working, so we couldn’t do that. We then looked at Epkinly and we’ve been doing that since February.

The regimen for Epkinly initially starts with three weeks of low doses… it may be possible that after a year or two, I won’t even need to go once a month.

Making Treatment Decisions Together

Dr. Favaro set me up with another doctor in Charlotte. I went to see her and discovered that it was going to be more intense than we were able to do. Dr. Favaro said he could do the Epkinly. I got all the booklets and we read all about it. As it turns out, I’m his first patient with Epkinly and it’s gone very well.

Treatment Timeline

The regimen for Epkinly initially starts with three weeks of low doses. It becomes a full dose for about two months, every other week for another two months, and then once a month from then on.

Epkinly has been around since 2018. As they get more and more data, it may be possible that after a year or two, I won’t even need to go once a month.

Don S.
Don S.

Starting on a Newly Approved Treatment

Initially, you go in for a shot once a week. It goes in the stomach. It’s an easy pinch. You don’t feel anything and it takes less than 30 seconds. A rash will show up and I use medication on that, so that fixes that itch.

In addition to that, you get steroids. They do blood lab work to make sure everything’s going okay. You get fluids. Since I was on clopidogrel, a blood thinner, they couldn’t put a port in, so they put a PICC line in. The bad news is it has to be flushed every day and that was a challenge because my oncologist’s office isn’t open on weekends. My wife could do them, but when she went on a week-long vacation, I had to go to the local hospital.

I’ve got side effects, but they don’t last very long and for the most part, I can take medication and then I’m okay.

Getting Through Side Effects

I was on steroids and sleeping was very difficult.

I was pretty hungry all the time, even though I lost weight because of cancer.

One weekend, I had hot flashes. I’d have upset stomachs, but after taking ondansetron, within 15 minutes, I would get relieved.

I’ve got side effects, but they don’t last very long and for the most part, I can take medication and then I’m okay. A lot of people I know who have cancer have side effects that are difficult to handle, so I’m lucky.

Finally… Some Good News!

I went in for a PET scan and the results came out clean. No more cancer! The Epkinly works and I’ve stayed in remission so far.

My neck glands have gone down and haven’t enlarged. Dr. Favaro and I both think that Epkinly is working.

Don S.
Don S.

Importance of Having a Care Partner

Without my wife Chris, I don’t know if I could have gone through all of this. When I get my Epkinly shots, we text back and forth. The shot only takes 20 seconds, but we do lab work, so I’m there for maybe an hour plus a 45-minute drive.

Chris has a distribution list that goes to all the kids. We’ve got six kids between us and only one is within a half hour; everybody else is further away. When I was in the hospital, Chris would send daily messages to the kids.

My sister lives in the Charlotte area, so she’s kept in the loop and has become a mentor. She says, “Did you tell the doctor this? Did you tell the doctor that?” She’s in constant contact.

Planning Ahead

We could always do CAR T-cell therapy in the future since Chris will retire soon, but if Epkinly continues to work, I’ll stay with it. It’s easy. You go in for a shot once a week and it takes 20 seconds.

Without my wife Chris, I don’t know if I could have gone through all of this.

The Biggest Difference: Finding the Right Doctor

The best thing that’s happened to me is my oncologist, Dr. Favaro. He’s on top of his game. I trust him wholeheartedly and he cares. He has a lot of patients but when I go into the exam room, he’s there for me. We talk and he listens. If you’re not happy with who you’re going to, find another one.

Don S.

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Nick’s Stage 4A Colorectal Cancer Story

Nick’s Stage 4A Colorectal Cancer Story

Interviewed by: Taylor Scheib
Edited by: Katrina Villareal

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Nick’s symptoms began a year or two before his diagnosis, including changes in bowel habits, size, and consistency, blood in the stool, and abdominal pain, which he initially attributed to aging or irritable bowel syndrome. After experiencing fatigue and escalating pain, he went to the ER where he was diagnosed with diverticulitis and sepsis. Despite initial treatment, he required a laparoscopic washout due to a perforated colon and subsequent complications, including an abscess.

During a follow-up colonoscopy, doctors found a mass, which was later confirmed as adenocarcinoma. He underwent a sigmoid resection, removing part of his colon. While clear margins were achieved, 19 of 49 lymph nodes tested positive for cancer.

Nick began CAPOX chemotherapy, experiencing severe side effects like fatigue, neuropathy, and an acne rash due to the addition of Avastin (bevacizumab). When they noticed an elevation in his tumor marker and growth in his lymph nodes, he was switched to Keytruda (pembrolizumab), an immunotherapy, to reduce the cancer to a manageable level.

Nick emphasizes the importance of mental health support to manage anxiety. He advises listening to your body, advocating for yourself, and using support systems. He encourages seeking thorough medical evaluation for unexplained symptoms and finding strength in support groups, hobbies, and loved ones, stressing perseverance and finding reasons to keep fighting.


  • Name: Nick S.
  • Diagnosis:
    • Colorectal Cancer
  • Staging:
    • Stage 4A
  • Initial Symptoms:
    • Change in bowel habits, size & consistency
    • Blood in stool
    • Abdominal pain
    • Fatigue
  • Treatment:
    • Surgery: sigmoid colectomy
    • Chemotherapy: CAPOX (capecitabine & oxaliplatin),
    • Immunotherapy: bevacizumab, pembrolizumab
Nick S.

This interview has been edited for clarity and length. This is not medical advice. Please consult with your healthcare provider to make informed treatment decisions.

The views and opinions expressed in this interview do not necessarily reflect those of The Patient Story.



My symptoms started a year or two before diagnosis. It started with a change in bowel habits, size, consistency, some blood in the stool, and abdominal pain.

Introduction

I’m a stage 4A colorectal cancer fighter. My wife and I live in Chippewa Falls, Wisconsin. We have a wonderful 28-year-old daughter.

I’m a full-time firefighter and critical care paramedic. I’ve been doing firefighting for about 16 years and paramedicine for about 13 of those 16 years.

Nick S.
Nick S.

Pre-diagnosis

Initial Symptoms

My symptoms started a year or two before diagnosis with stage 4A colorectal cancer. It started with a change in bowel habits, size, consistency, some blood in the stool, and abdominal pain. I had some acid reflux type of reactions that my wife and I chalked up to aging and not being as healthy as I could be. My wife has irritable bowel syndrome and I thought some of it was IBS because some foods would trigger some reactions in me.

I was working full-time for the department for about a decade and a couple of years later, I decided to change over to a neighboring department. For these jobs, we have to pass a physical agility test.

I have been working by myself daily. I was in pretty good shape. The test is a pretty rigorous test to be able to do what we do. I was 48. I was doing this at an older age than the 20-year-olds they were usually hiring.

I was diagnosed with diverticulitis and sepsis, so they started me on antibiotics right away.

A couple of months later, we responded to a house fire. At some point, my battalion chief pulled me off the line and said, “You look wiped out. I’m going to sit you out for a little bit to catch your breath.” I felt a little tired, but, again, I was getting a little older.

I sat out and went back in for another round. This time, the chief was on the scene and said, “Nick, take your gear off. You don’t look good. Go back to the ambulance. You’re going to be doing rehab, making sure everyone else is doing okay, but we don’t want you going back in.” I thought something was weird.

I called my wife to meet me in the ER. I didn’t know what was going on. I’ve got bad abdominal pain. I haven’t slept. I’m going to go get checked out.

Nick S.
Nick S.
Diverticulitis & Sepsis

I was diagnosed with diverticulitis and sepsis, so they started me on antibiotics right away. They weren’t sure if surgery was going to be necessary, but they transferred me to another hospital. At that point, I was stable.

When I got transferred, I met with a thoracic surgeon and started to realize that things were serious. He said, “We’re not going to go in right away. We’re going to keep an eye on you tonight. Hopefully, things will subside with some more antibiotics and some steroids, if we have to. But we’re going to keep an eye on you and evaluate you. We’d like to avoid surgery.”

The next day, when they were getting my vitals, the nurses said, “We see you’re slated for surgery.” That turned into a laparoscopic washout. They found that I had a perforated colon in the sigmoid area, the area right before the rectum, but that had healed itself.

All of a sudden, I heard the doctors say, ‘That’s not good.’ I remember seeing a black mass on the screen.

They went in through a couple of small incisions, washed everything out to make sure there was no fecal matter, and stitched me back up. I had a couple of surgical drains. I was in the hospital for five or six days and then I was sent home to heal.

I ended up getting readmitted a couple of days later because I had some drainage coming from my drain sites. After a CT scan, they found I had an abscess. I believe E coli was one of the culprits. There was something else too, so they needed heavy-hitter antibiotics.

After another two weeks of antibiotics, the PICC line was removed. I met with the surgeon and everything was looking great. He said, “Let’s do a follow-up colonoscopy to check how the diverticulitis is.”

Nick S.
Nick S.
Colonoscopy

I wanted to sleep through it. I was joking with them and we were all relaxed when all of a sudden, I heard the doctors say, “That’s not good.” I remember seeing a black mass on the screen. He tried advancing past it and I said, “Ow,” but I didn’t feel it. I said “ow” instinctively. He said, “We can’t get past this mass. We’re going to pull out.” The tone changed. You could have heard a needle drop in that procedure room.

They wheeled me back into the recovery room where my wife was waiting. On the way there, one of the nurses handed me a polished stone that had the word “hope” stamped on it. I didn’t think that choked me up, but I carry it wherever I go. In hindsight, it meant a lot and drove home the seriousness of the situation. We didn’t know exactly what was going on, but something wasn’t right. I have enough medical training and field experience to read the room and know it wasn’t good.

The doctor eventually came back in and said they couldn’t diagnose it yet. They took a small sample to send off for testing to confirm what they thought it was. He wouldn’t say whether it was cancer or not.

The good news was they got the tumor with clear margins. They felt it hadn’t spread far…

Diagnosis

Getting the Biopsy Results

I was waiting for the results at home. When I finally got the notification on my phone, I checked it and it said adenocarcinoma. Now we know what we’re dealing with. It’s cancer of some sort. I never thought about it as a possibility.

Treatment

Sigmoid Colectomy

During the colonoscopy, he said we were going to have surgery because what it was had to come out. He referred me to surgery right away. Luckily, it was the same surgeon who performed my earlier surgery who I trusted with my life. 

I met with him about a week later. They were going to do an exploratory surgery until they knew exactly what it was in there and then do their thing.

Nick S.
Nick S.

I remember being in the room when my mother-in-law came out too. My wife was there, of course. They wheeled me in, put in the IVs, and told me to start counting back from 100. I don’t think I hit 95. Hours later, I woke up in my hospital room with a slightly sore throat. They performed a sigmoid resection. I can’t remember how much of my colon they took out, but I didn’t require an ostomy, thankfully. They were able to resect it and reconnect it right away.

The good news was they got the tumor with clear margins. They felt it hadn’t spread far, at least in the tissue of the colon. But the surgeon sampled some lymph nodes right next to the tumor site. They took out 49 and 19 of them tested positive for cancer.

I stayed positive. The whole reason I’m in this fight is my family.

CAPOX Chemotherapy

At that point, I was referred to oncology. I met with my oncologist. His nurse was a former ER nurse who I was familiar with and seeing a familiar face went a long long way.

He explained what he planned on doing based on the CT scans. They saw some inflammation in other lymph nodes and they weren’t sure if that was post-surgical. They wanted to do another CT scan to check, but they were happy about the margins being clear. I was staged at 3C then. It metastasized a little bit past the point of origin but not very far.

The first day of chemo was going to include labs and a CT scan to see where we were at. The plan was to do CAPOX: capecitabine, an oral medication, and oxaliplatin, an IV medication. I would do the oral chemo for two weeks and then on the third week, I would go in for the IV chemo. They would do labs on those days to make sure everything was okay.

Nick S.
Nick S.

Unfortunately, the doctor didn’t like what he saw on the CT. He wanted to get a little more defined imaging, so he set me up for a PET scan and delayed the chemo. A couple of days later, we came back to start chemo again and get the PET scan read.

The doctor confirmed that it had spread to the lymph nodes in the abdominal area, along my aorta, and up to my left shoulder. It had spread a lot further than we thought it had.

I felt like every time we made a plan to move forward, we were getting kicked back a couple of steps, but I stayed positive. The whole reason I’m in this fight is my family. I believe that someday, this cancer will get me, but I’m not going down without a fight. I’m stubborn, so it’s going to be a long fight. I won’t go down without swinging.

I have a four-day weekend so I tried to time my infusion, so I had a couple of days to recover post-infusion and feel somewhat human before returning to work.

Side Effects of CAPOX Chemotherapy

Chemo wasn’t fun. It knocks you out. I felt fatigued on the first day. For probably a week and a half, when you start getting the infusion, you can’t drink cold drinks. It felt like swallowing glass shards. A lot of fatigue and neuropathy kicked in.

I didn’t like being out in the cold and I love ice fishing. You’ll catch me outside at -20°F on a normal day, but with chemo, not a chance. I had to be bundled all the time.

My eyes were always drying out, so they hurt a lot. I had insomnia, joint pain, and muscle pain.

They added Avastin (bevacizumab), which is an immunotherapy, to my chemo routine. That caused a bad acne rash on my back from the waistline up to my neck. The doctor had never seen nor heard of it, but we can only attribute it to Avastin.

Nick S.
Nick S.

Working While in Treatment

I was able to go back to work full-time as a firefighter. I have a four-day weekend so I tried to time my infusion, so I had a couple of days to recover post-infusion and feel somewhat human before returning to work.

My work was very accommodating. We’re firefighters, so we don’t sleep all day, but the chief said if I needed to rest, I could go to the dorm, which I appreciate. I never took him up on it. I tried to stay with my brothers and sisters training or doing calls, and that worked great.

I was going to be on treatment for the rest of my life. I might get some time off if we get no evidence of disease at any point, but it will come back at some point and I’ll have to go back on treatment.

Switching to Immunotherapy

The initial plan was for six months or eight cycles of chemo and Avastin. Unfortunately, because of the restaging, I was going to be on treatment for the rest of my life. I might get some time off if we get no evidence of disease at any point, but it will come back at some point and I’ll have to go back on treatment.

My tumor marker was through the roof when this all started and it was dropping with chemo. We were seeing shrinkage in the lymph nodes. Chemo sucks, but it’s doing what it’s doing, so we stayed very positive.

When we got to cycle six, we noticed my CEA was going up a little bit. We were doing CT scans every three months and we noticed some growth in the lymph nodes. The doctor said, “We’re going to stop the chemo. It’s not working. You can only receive so much oxaliplatin before it becomes completely ineffective. This saves us a couple of cycles where if we need to go back to it, we can go back to it. We’re going to switch over to an immunotherapy called Keytruda (pembrolizumab).”

Nick S.
Nick S.

The side effects of immunotherapy are supposed to be much less than chemo and I’m all for that. I switched from chemotherapy to immunotherapy in August 2023. I still have very slight neuropathy every now and then in my toes and my fingertips. Nothing debilitating but a reminder that I was on chemo at one point and that probably won’t get any better or any worse, hopefully.

Keytruda is a half-hour infusion. Side effects are minimal. Between cycles two and three, while we were camping, I noticed that my resting heart rate was higher than it should be. I was not exercising as much and a little out of shape, but I shouldn’t have a resting heart rate of 130-140 beats a minute. I was sweating a lot without doing anything, so I couldn’t figure it out. I talked to the oncologist and they ran some thyroid tests.

One of the known side effects of Keytruda is thyroid burn. It’ll cause hyperthyroidism until the thyroid burns out and then it’ll cause hypothyroidism.

The support of my family, my work family, and my friends is what gets me through this.

Treatment Plan

We want to do Keytruda for 18 more months. It’s a two-year plan. We’ll see what it does and go from there. Hopefully, the response brings everything down to normal levels, I won’t have evidence of disease, and I can ride that out for a while.

Fingers crossed, maybe Keytruda is the cure for colon cancer, but realistically, I don’t think so. I think it’ll be a lifetime battle, but it’s going to be a long life. The support of my family, my work family, and my friends is what gets me through this.

Nick S.
Nick S.

Managing Scanxiety

As a paramedic, I’ve dealt with patients with panic attacks and anxiety. Anxiety’s a real thing. A lot of times, it doesn’t seem like it with the patients you’re dealing with, but now that I’m put in that position, it’s a real thing. I’ve dealt with it even before cancer through another set of unfortunate circumstances and luckily, I have a great support group in place.

We see a lot of things as paramedics and firefighters, so after a while, you realize things aren’t normal. I had to start paying closer attention to my mental health. I started seeing a therapist and she’s great. She taught me how to deal with stress, anxiety, and my feelings.

What we go through as cancer patients is not something most people go through nor is it something they understand.

Stay strong and recognize that the stress is real. What we go through as cancer patients is not something most people go through nor is it something they understand. Take a deep breath. Listen to what your mind and body are telling you.

Your feelings are valid. Don’t try to brush it off and try to be strong by pushing your way through it. Rely on your support team. If you have a therapist, talk to that therapist.

Most oncology teams come with a social worker. Use that resource. Rely on your family for strength. Tell your spouse what you’re feeling even when you don’t want to. Sometimes talking about it gets it out there and puts it away, as opposed to it weighing you down.

What helps me is retreating home, spending time with family, or staying busy with work. Rely on your hobbies if you have any. If you don’t, find some. I’m a big fisherman. I love fishing. You could put me on a lake and even if I couldn’t catch a fish for days, I would be in my happy place. Find something that helps you disconnect from the cancer and what you’re going through.

Nick S.
Nick S.

Words of Advice

For anyone who might be experiencing symptoms that you’re not quite sure of, listen to your body. Talk to your doctor. Advocate for yourself. If you feel something’s not right, push for tests to try and figure out what’s going on. The answer, “We don’t know what’s wrong with you,” is not acceptable. Push to find answers.

For cancer warriors who are going through this, keep going. You’re not alone. There’s support beyond your family, friends, and coworkers. There are a ton of support groups online. There are social workers available. There are platforms like The Patient Story.

(For more support options, please visit one of our many partners such as Colontown or the Colon Cancer Coalition.

You’re not in this alone. Some days, it may feel like it. Some days, I get down in the dumps, but I find something to get me back up. I find a reason to keep going. There are a million reasons to keep going and even if you find just one, that’s all it takes.

Listen to your body. Talk to your doctor. Advocate for yourself.


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Meghan’s Crohn’s Disease (IBD) Story

Meghan’s Crohn’s Disease (IBD) Story

Interviewed by: Taylor Scheib
Edited by: Katrina Villareal

Meghan B.

Meghan’s journey began with symptoms that are all too familiar to both Crohn’s disease and colorectal cancer patients: persistent diarrhea, blood in the stool, and severe stomach pain. Initially dismissed as stress-related by her doctor, it wasn’t until her condition worsened that another doctor suspected a more serious issue—possibly Crohn’s disease or colitis. This overlap in symptoms between inflammatory bowel disease (IBD) and colorectal cancer underscores the importance of thorough medical evaluation and early diagnosis.

After her diagnosis, Meghan tried various treatments. Initial oral medications didn’t work, so she switched to Remicade (infliximab), which put her in remission. Despite the medication’s risks, her symptoms improved and she was able to resume a normal life.

Five years later, her symptoms returned and after trying different medications, Entyvio (vedolizumab) helped manage her symptoms. In 2016, a routine colonoscopy revealed precancerous tissue, leading to the recommendation for a permanent ileostomy. Initially resistant, Meghan decided to proceed with the surgery after a pivotal conversation with her surgeon about her future. Despite initial concerns, she had two complication-free pregnancies and successful vaginal births.

Meghan’s husband has been incredibly supportive throughout her journey. She emphasizes the importance of finding a supportive community, maintaining a sense of humor, and living without regrets.


  • Name: Meghan B.
  • Diagnosis:
    • Crohn’s disease (a type of Inflammatory Bowel Disease or IBD)
  • Initial Symptoms:
    • Persistent diarrhea
    • Blood in stool
    • Stomach pain
  • Treatment:
    • Remicade (infliximab)
    • Humira (adalimumab)
    • Methotrexate
    • Entyvio (vedolizumab)
    • Surgery: proctocolectomy
Meghan B.

This interview has been edited for clarity and length. This is not medical advice. Please consult with your healthcare provider to make informed treatment decisions.

The views and opinions expressed in this interview do not necessarily reflect those of The Patient Story.



When I was in eighth grade, I started having diarrhea and it happened every single time I went to the bathroom.

Introduction

I’m from Charlottesville, Virginia. I love to travel. I love going to the beach, going on hikes, and being outside in general. I love spending time with my family.

I have Crohn’s disease as well as a permanent ileostomy. My biggest passion is disease advocacy and awareness.

Meghan B.
Meghan B.

Pre-diagnosis

Initial Symptoms

As a child, I was extremely active. I was an avid softball and basketball player, constantly going to camp. I spent tons of time outside. I was very active and very social.

When I was in eighth grade, I started having diarrhea and it happened every single time I went to the bathroom. Thankfully, my mom was very aware and thought it wasn’t normal. She told me we would go to the doctor because it was getting progressively worse.

I didn’t have any other symptoms. I went to the doctor and she said, “There’s nothing wrong with her. She’s just nervous and that’s why she’s having diarrhea.”

It felt like a punch to the gut because I never felt like a nervous child. It didn’t seem to be a good enough answer for what was happening. Thankfully, both of my parents advocated for me. They felt it didn’t sound right so we sought a second opinion.

I was in so much pain and my body was so weak. I was in and out of the hospital all the time.

Symptoms Worsen

I started having blood in my stool and horrible stomach pain. I went to see another doctor and at that point, they weren’t sure if I had Crohn’s or colitis. I continued to get worse. When I was a freshman in high school, I had to be homeschooled. I was too sick to get out of bed. It’s crazy to look back to see the 180 my life took. I was in so much pain and my body was so weak. I was in and out of the hospital all the time.

Diagnosis

I ended up having a colonoscopy and got diagnosed with Crohn’s disease. After getting a formal diagnosis, I began treatment. Compared to other people, I got diagnosed pretty quickly, but my health was rapidly declining.

Getting Diagnosed as a Teen

I turned lemons into lemonade. This was in 2006, so it was before social media and texting, but I could text 50 words a month. I was isolated from my friends. It was hard. I was homeschooled and a lot of people didn’t know where I was. All these rumors spread about me that I had died or had gotten pregnant and was sent away.

Meanwhile, I was in and out of the hospital and horribly sick, so it was hard. That was where the isolation came in plus not knowing anyone else going through this.

Meghan B.
Meghan B.

Treatment

I started various oral medications, but I wasn’t digesting them. I would take these medications, but they would go straight through me that I would see them in the toilet. Since the medications weren’t working, my symptoms weren’t getting better.

Remicade (infliximab)

I started taking infusion medications and went on a drug called Remicade (infliximab). By the time I started my sophomore year of high school, I was in remission. I was on monthly infusions, but I was well enough to go to school. I was so excited to find some type of normalcy and feel good for the first time in a long time.

Everything was going great. My symptoms, for the most part, were at bay. The next question was: what do we do now? The infusions were eight-hour-long sessions. I would go to the hospital and stay for eight hours to get my medication.

I made it through high school and the beginning of college with symptoms at bay. Then in my sophomore year, I started to go downhill drastically.

Before I started treatment, while driving to the hospital, I could hear my parents whispering about how they were going to have to sign a waiver saying that they would not sue the hospital if I died by taking this drug. It was that serious, but they didn’t want to freak me out.

Remicade was a scary drug. When I was responding to it and doing well, they had to decide if they wanted to keep me on it. It’s a harsh drug and I was so young. We decided to get off of it.

Going Off Treatment

I went the homeopathic route for around five years. I took different supplements and probiotics. Those bought me five years.

Meghan B.
Meghan B.

Recurrence

Symptoms Return

I made it through high school and the beginning of college with symptoms at bay. Then in my sophomore year, I started to go downhill drastically. College is stressful and stress is one of my big triggers.

New Treatment

It was time to return to my doctor and go back on medication. I tried Remicade again because it worked well for me in the past. Unfortunately, I could no longer take it this time, so I went on a trial-and-error phase.

I tried taking Humira (adalimumab), which I didn’t respond to. I also tried methotrexate, which was a weekly injection that I had to administer myself. I drove home every weekend from college to give myself these shots.

Finally, after a lot of trial and error, I responded to a drug called Entyvio (vedolizumab). It didn’t necessarily send me back into remission, but my symptoms were kept at bay. Entyvio worked until I ended up having my colon removed.

My doctor said, ‘There is precancerous tissue deep within your colon. There’s a high chance that you’re going to need surgery.’

Getting a Colonoscopy

The conversation of having my colon removed was something I never had with my doctors. I didn’t know what an ostomy bag was when I was told that I needed one. It had never been mentioned, I had never heard of it, and I never thought I would be living with one.

At this point, I had graduated. I met my husband in college. We dated and right after graduating, we got engaged and got married at 23.

Eight months after we got married, in July, I went in for a routine colonoscopy. I had been feeling fine. There was nothing drastic or new. My symptoms had pretty much stayed the same. They were present but not how I had previously been in the past. I was able to function and have a life.

I went into this appointment excited because I thought they were going to tell me I was doing well. After all, I felt like I had been doing well. At the appointment, they came out and said, “We saw a few things. We’re sending a few biopsies off to make sure everything is fine.”

Meghan B.
Meghan B.
Getting the Biopsy Results

A week later, while I was home alone and my husband was at work, I got a phone call and my doctor said, “There is precancerous tissue deep within your colon. There’s a high chance that you’re going to need surgery.”

I vividly remember that moment. I collapsed in my kitchen crying because even though my colon was precancerous, all I could hear was the word “cancer.” Immediately, all I thought was I didn’t want to die. I was terrified.

I couldn’t believe this was happening to me. I was angry and upset. There was a lot of dwelling and processing.

Treatment-Decision Making

My surgeon and I talked about the different options I had. He said, “We can do nothing and hope for the best. We can remove part of your colon, but you’re going to have to come in for routine monitoring probably every three months or so, possibly have colonoscopies to check for any progression and make sure nothing is happening. Or we can remove your colon and your rectum, you will have a permanent ostomy bag, but you will never have the chance of colon cancer.” I left that appointment thinking, There’s no way I’m getting an ostomy bag. I’m not doing that. I’m not having surgery. I absolutely refuse that.

A week later, my husband had to deploy and I moved back home with my parents. I had a month to make this decision if I was going to have ostomy surgery or not. In the meantime, we went for a second opinion, which I always highly suggest because it never hurts. Unfortunately, it was the same response. This is what needed to happen.

Meghan B.
Meghan B.

I was still adamantly against it. I’m 24 years old. I’m not going to ruin my body. Thinking back, it’s wild that I was willing to live with the threat of cancer to have this unscathed body for the aesthetic side of it. I was willing to possibly have cancer and that blows my mind today that I would feel like that.

I fell into a dark tunnel. I don’t think it was depression, but I fell into a dark space. I couldn’t believe this was happening to me. I was angry and upset. There was a lot of dwelling and processing until finally, I went to my next surgery appointment where I was going to have to give my decision.

We had a conversation that changed my mind forever… He said to me, ‘Imagine being a young mom and finding out you have cancer.’

Deciding to Have a Proctocolectomy

I was ready to go into the appointment to say, “I will have part of my colon removed with the monitoring, but I’m not doing an ostomy bag.” That’s where I was at, even though my parents didn’t agree. They wanted me to do the ostomy bag because they thought this wasn’t something to joke with and we needed to be serious about this. I wasn’t ready to do that. My surgeon knew how horrified I was and how adamantly against it I was.

We had a conversation that changed my mind forever. I still get chills and goosebumps and tear up whenever I think of it. He said to me, “Imagine being a young mom and finding out you have cancer.” That put everything into perspective for me because he knew how important having a family and having children was to me. I left that appointment with my surgery booked to have my colon and rectum removed with a permanent ileostomy bag.

Meghan B.
Meghan B.

That conversation made me stop and realize that this wasn’t just about me. It’s also about my family. I want to be around for my husband and my parents. At that point, I didn’t have children, so it was also for my future children. I want to be able to have children, be there to watch them grow up, and be a significant part of their lives.

It made me realize it was worth it. It was worth it to have an ostomy bag to be able to be here with my children for every milestone and witness everything. It put everything into perspective. That’s a conversation I will never forget. I think about it every single day. That’s what led me to get my ostomy bag.

Going into it with an open mind, a more positive mindset, a willingness to learn, and a willingness to educate made a huge difference in my situation.

Mentally Preparing for a Permanent Ileostomy

There are two avenues to getting an ostomy bag: either it’s an emergency or it’s a planned surgery. I felt lucky because mine was planned so I had time to process beforehand. Even though I only had a month to figure everything out, I did what everyone else does: I went online.

This was 2016 and I was trying to find anything. There was social media, but I didn’t see a lot of ostomy on social media. I read a couple of blogs and there was one called The Stolen Colon, which offered more information and insight. Everything else I saw was the ostomy being associated with older generations. No one in their 20s had an ostomy bag.

All of the negative stigmas were popping up as well as the negative sides of having an ostomy bag. I tried to research and educate myself as much as I could beforehand. What helped was going into it with the mindset that it could only get better. I had been sick for so long. At that point, it’s been 10 years and my colon turned precancerous because of the intense scarring from Crohn’s disease. It could only get better, so why not try? It couldn’t get worse than it already is.

Going into it with an open mind, a more positive mindset, a willingness to learn, and a willingness to educate made a huge difference in my situation. Before having surgery, I felt very negative towards an ostomy bag. But as soon as I was rolled out after surgery, I never had any negative, upset, or harsh feelings. I always felt this was my second chance at life, so I’ll figure it out and get going. I felt like I missed out on so much when I was a teenager and in college. Now it’s time to make up for that.

Meghan B.
Meghan B.

What is an Ostomy Bag?

I always tell everyone that, essentially, my ileostomy bag is how I go number two. I have a stoma, which is a little round, fleshy pink-looking thing that sticks out of the skin on my abdomen, and it’s part of my intestines. My surgeons created a hole through my abdomen and brought a little piece of my intestines out. I wear an ostomy bag over it so you don’t see it and that’s what collects my stool.

I have to wear an ostomy bag at all times because I have no control. I don’t know when I’m going to the bathroom. It happens all the time. I have no urge to go.

I also don’t have a rectum. I had my rectum removed and that means I will have my ostomy bag forever because there’s no possible way to reconnect anything down there.

I always tell everyone to try everything. Once you find what works for you, it will be so much easier.

Ostomy Care

I’m biased because I’ve had this for almost eight years. At first, it’s very difficult to figure out. Once you get the hang of it and find the appliance that works best for you, it’s so much easier.

Overall maintenance is not too terrible. I change the complete system every three or four days. You buy an ostomy bag from the distributors and you get a prescription for ostomy bags sent to your house. You take it off and clean the skin around it. A lot of times, people will tell you not to use any soaps or perfumes because you can have issues with the adhesive sticking to your skin or an allergic reaction.

You have to empty your ostomy bag daily. I got into the habit of emptying it every time I use the bathroom even if it’s not full yet. I don’t like walking around with a full ostomy bag because it’s not comfortable.

Meghan B.
Meghan B.

There are certain factors that people have to deal with, especially if you have skin irritation. You can get skin irritation if your ostomy bag leaks because sometimes your stool can seep through under the wafer and it can sit on your skin. When that happens, it’s essentially burning your skin until you clean it off and change it. It hurts so bad because you have this rash. It’s difficult to get it to heal because you’re constantly covering it up.

They have different products to help treat different rashes. There are different adhesives because people may have an adhesive allergy. That’s where the trial and error comes in and that can be frustrating in the beginning when you’re trying to find out what works best for you. It can be very overwhelming, but I always tell everyone to try everything. Once you find what works for you, it will be so much easier.

Tips and tricks for ostomy bags change. Everyone asks, “How are you not pooping everywhere when you change your ostomy bag? You always have clean bag changes.” A big part of that is being mindful of when you last ate. I’ve had my ostomy for almost eight years. I have learned my body and my ostomy. I know that if I eat lunch at noon, I’m probably going to have output at around 1:00 or 1:30 PM, so I’m not going to change my ostomy bag after I eat.

I had my ostomy bag for a year and on the first anniversary, I posted a picture. I wouldn’t say I was hiding, but I wasn’t public about it.

A lot of times, people would change it first thing in the morning because you’ve been asleep all night and things have slowed down.

Another tip that I love and I’m always so surprised that more ostomates have not heard of this is eating marshmallows before doing bag changes. Marshmallows, bananas, and bread can slow down your output so you can have a small window to have a clean bag change.

Knowing how to have a clean bag change is important because, a lot of times, people are horrified to have a messy one. It sounds gross, but if you get output on your hands, it’s not a big deal. It happens. You can wash it off. Also, I have two kids, so it’s nothing.

Meghan B.
Meghan B.
Being Comfortable with Having an Ostomy Bag

I had my ostomy bag for a year and on the first anniversary, I posted a picture. I wouldn’t say I was hiding, but I wasn’t public about it. My husband and I saw it, but that’s it. I didn’t want to talk about it. That was my year to process and figure it out. I wasn’t trying to hide it, but I wasn’t the proudest of it.

A year into it, I made an Instagram account and made a post. I had come to terms with it and a big part of me said, “When I went through this, I didn’t see anyone else my age, so I want to put this out there.”

I had no idea what the response was going to be, but I felt okay and safe because I did this on Instagram. None of these people knew me. I had no idea who these people were. All I knew was they were people on the internet. To my surprise, I got an overwhelmingly positive response and that fueled the fire.

Having an ostomy bag did not take away from me as a person. Having that positivity helped me to become more comfortable.

Social media was a coping mechanism for me because it allowed me to express myself. I love to write. Before Instagram reels, Instagram was about posting pictures with captions, so I would post a picture and pour my heart out. That allowed me to cope.

The biggest thing was that it allowed me to accept myself and my body because other people were so accepting of it. I didn’t know any of these people. They were random people on the Internet, but people were so kind and genuinely wanted to know more. Having an ostomy bag did not take away from me as a person. Having that positivity helped me to become more comfortable.

I kept sharing and reached more people. People then started coming to me, asking for tips and advice. It quickly became my passion. That’s honestly how I became more comfortable with it. Finally, after seven years, I wore my ostomy bag out at the beach for the very first time. It was amazing.

I’m learning not to worry about what other people think and having the mindset that life is too short. Ostomy surgery was a huge experience. It made me realize that I don’t want to grow old and look back having these regrets that I didn’t do what I wanted to do because I was worried about what other people would think about me. It’s weird and funny, but I always tell people that I feel more confident with an ostomy than I did without because I had that life-changing experience that put everything into perspective.

Meghan B.
Meghan B.
Being Pregnant with an Ostomy Bag

I had no idea what it was going to be like to be pregnant with an ostomy. There’s not a lot of research out there. With my first pregnancy, there weren’t a lot of other people who had been pregnant who were sharing their experiences. I was going to have to figure it out.

My doctors never said I wouldn’t be able to get pregnant, but I was concerned that it would be difficult because I had this massive surgery. I was worried there could be a lot of scar tissue. We tried for a year and a half, and while my husband was on his second deployment, I went to the fertility doctor to find out what was going on.

Thankfully, I only had a hormonal imbalance. It wasn’t ostomy-related at all. My husband had a short deployment, so he was gone for five months only. I did one round of Clomid (clomiphene) and got pregnant with our daughter.

On the ostomy side, there were a few changes but nothing crazy or out of the ordinary. As my belly grew, I had to switch ostomy appliances. I typically wear a convex wafer that helps push my stoma out, but because my belly was big and round, that wouldn’t fit anymore, so I had to wear flat wafers.

Everyone has a different situation and a different story, but pregnancy with an ostomy is possible.

My biggest concern was childbirth. Because I don’t have a rectum, I was scared to death that I was going to tear, which would cause issues with my rectum removal. My worst nightmare was having a baby and then going through “Barbie butt surgery” again and having to be stitched back up down there because that was by far more difficult than the ostomy recovery, in my opinion. I didn’t do the two surgeries at the same time.

Another concern I had was automatically assuming I was going to undergo a C-section, but thankfully, I had an incredible doctor who advocated for me. Dr. Bearling at Fort Carson was amazing. She asked, “Why do you think you’re going to have to have a C-section?” I said, “I don’t have a rectum and I have an ostomy.” She checked to make sure I still had muscle function down there and I did. I was still able to push, so she said, “You’re going to have a vaginal birth. You’re fine. You can do this.”

I am so glad I had that conversation with her. At the initial appointment when I first found out I was pregnant with my son, I gave them my history and told them that story. They said, “I’m glad you shared that because if you hadn’t, we were going to schedule a C-section for you.” There’s a difference in care.

Overall, I felt lucky with childbirth. I didn’t have any complications with my ostomy or during pregnancy. I’ve heard stories of people having stomach blockages and issues where they had to go in for surgery or deliver their baby early. People have said that the baby can kick inside where your stoma is located and that can be painful. Thankfully, my babies never did that. Overall, I had a great experience.

Meghan B.
Meghan B.

Postpartum with my son, our second-born, was wild. My hormones went crazy and, as a result, my skin broke out. Suddenly, I was reacting to the adhesive of ostomy appliances that I’d been wearing for five to six years at that point. My skin was an absolute nightmare. I had a 2-year-old and a two-week-old, and I am trying to get an ostomy bag to stick to my body. It wasn’t very pleasant.

My hormones readjusted after giving birth and the hormonal storm ended. My skin calmed back down and I was able to wear my appliance. Everyone has a different situation and a different story, but pregnancy with an ostomy is possible. It’s wonderful, it’s beautiful, and I’m lucky that I got to experience it twice.

I always think back to the conversation that I had with my surgeon because I’m at that age now. I’m that mom with young children. What if I did not have ostomy surgery? I could potentially have colon cancer right now with two young children. I’m so thankful every day that I made the hardest decision of my life to have surgery.

Ostomy surgery did not faze him. I’m sure he was freaked out and probably scared inside, but he didn’t let that show. He’d always been extremely supportive.

Having a Supportive Husband

Thankfully, I have a very wonderful and accepting husband. Before my ostomy, he had only ever known me as being sick. He’d never seen me healthy. I knew he was a keeper because I was sick all the time. There were numerous occasions where we’d been driving and we’d have to pull over to the side of the road because I was in excruciating pain and needed to use the bathroom or lay down in the car. He never batted an eye. He was always there to take care of me and help me with anything I needed.

Ostomy surgery did not faze him. I’m sure he was freaked out and probably scared inside, but he didn’t let that show. He’d always been extremely supportive. He fought tooth and nail to come home when I had surgery. They told him he couldn’t go home from deployment unless a close family member passed away. I don’t know how he did it, but he did and went back before I was discharged.

When he returned from his deployment, we had to navigate each other. We had been married, but it was like we were dating again. We had to relearn each other. He’d always been supportive, but deep down, I had these fears of being a different person compared to when he left. He took it with grace.

Meghan B.
Meghan B.

With intimacy, the best tip I can give is to have a sense of humor. Laugh it off. He’s my best friend and, thankfully, we can joke and laugh about things. Laughter and a sense of humor can be a great coping mechanism; it’s the best medicine. Nothing’s ever going to be perfect. Funny things are going to happen. They happen even to people who don’t have an ostomy bag.

He’s been so supportive since day one. Now he knows how to change my ostomy bag and we posted a video of him changing my ostomy bag. It’s so important to teach someone you know how to change your ostomy bag. If something ever happened to you or you were physically unable to do it, having someone close to you who knows how to take care of you and help you in that way is extremely important.

You can still live a long, beautiful, happy, healthy life with an ostomy bag. Try to keep a positive mindset and view this as your second chance in life.

Words of Advice

Finding a community is incredibly important. I turned to social media to find my ostomy community. You would be surprised at how many people in the world have an ostomy bag. People you know may have one, but you wouldn’t know it. Put yourself out there and be willing to find community.

I have made so many lifelong friends through social media. I’ve had the pleasure of meeting a couple of them in person. Being able to connect with someone who has gone through a situation like yours is earth-shattering. Someone could have all the empathy in the world, but it’s truly difficult to understand unless you have been through it. Having a community where you can talk about these things with other people who have similar experiences makes such a huge difference.

Meghan B.
Meghan B.

Ostomies save lives! You can still live a long, beautiful, happy, healthy life with an ostomy bag. Try to keep a positive mindset and view this as your second chance in life. You can do things that you didn’t get to do. This is what helped me and made me into the person that I am today. I’m a changed person since having an ostomy bag, but I’m so happy with where I am.

An ostomy bag is not the end. It’s all about how you perceive it and how you decide to live with it. I’ve grown to love and appreciate it. You can do everything with an ostomy bag. You can do anything that you want to do. It’s all about the decisions you make and how you decide to live with it.


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