Jessenia, a 35-year-old mother from New Jersey, shares her emotional journey of being diagnosed with and treated for stage 3 rectal cancer, a type of colorectal cancer.

Jessenia’s story begins when she was pregnant with her son. One day, after noticing blood after using the toilet, she went for a checkup and the doctor initially diagnosed her with hemorrhoids. However, persistent pain and symptoms led her to seek further medical help, culminating in a visit to the ER. Although an unempathetic doctor brushed her off, she was eventually diagnosed with rectal cancer.

Jessenia describes her shock at the diagnosis and the fear that followed, especially as she had recently lost a loved one to cancer. Despite these fears, she leaned on the support of her husband, who never left her side through the grueling treatment process, which included 6 weeks of radiation and oral chemotherapy. The treatment left her physically weakened, causing her to drop a considerable amount of weight and experience severe side effects like nausea.

Faced with the possibility of living with a colostomy bag for life, Jessenia initially resisted surgery, opting instead for aggressive chemotherapy and radiation. Unfortunately, the tumor only shrank slightly, and surgery became necessary. She ultimately had a temporary colostomy bag and struggled emotionally with this new reality. Despite her discomfort and initial reluctance to manage the bag, her husband stepped up, learning how to care for it and providing her with unwavering support.

Throughout her journey, Jessenia dealt with physical and emotional pain, from dealing with the side effects of her treatments to undergoing a full hysterectomy to reduce the risk of the cancer spreading. The loss of her reproductive organs was difficult to accept, especially as she only had one child. However, she and her husband made peace with the situation, focusing on their love for their son.

Jessenia learned to adapt, even eventually embrace life with her temporary colostomy bag, and resumed her daily activities. She reflects on her experience, offering advice to others facing health challenges: accept your situation, stay positive, and avoid stress. Her strength and determination helped her through the darkest times, and she emphasizes the importance of advocating for oneself in the healthcare system.

In the end, Jessenia shares her realization that one should live one’s life fully, regardless of one’s circumstances. She traveled and made memories throughout her cancer journey, determined to spread awareness and inspire others to get checked for symptoms. Her message is clear: don’t let fear stop you from living, and always seek help when something feels wrong.