Curiosity and Self-Advocacy Shaped Ian’s Stage 3C Colon Cancer Experience
Toward the end of November 2022, Ian was diagnosed with stage 3C colon cancer. This diagnosis came after he experienced subtle but worrying signs: fatigue, strange blood test results during his annual physical, and the appearance of blood in his stool.
Interviewed by: Nikki Murphy
Edited by: Chris Sanchez
Ian’s family has a history of cancer (his father also had colon cancer), which has made him extra vigilant. Additionally, his wife and sister, both strong advocates for his health, supported him and encouraged him to seek prompt medical help. Ian advocated for himself from the start, insisting on having diagnostic procedures done immediately, including a colonoscopy he refused to delay.

Ian was emotionally devastated after receiving his stage 3C colon cancer diagnosis, especially after he learned that it had spread to some lymph nodes. The timing of the diagnosis worsened his emotional burden, as his wife was pregnant with their second child at the time. But Ian refused to back down in the face of these challenges. He not only had a can-do approach; he was also determined to understand every aspect of his condition. This gave him the strength, clarity, and confidence to navigate through his complex healthcare decisions.
Ian’s experience shows how crucial it is to have a medical team that’s aligned with one’s values. In his case, it was paramount that they focused on his quality of life during treatment. He was happy to find an oncologist who didn’t just prioritize effective cancer treatment but also considered his well-being key. This included undertaking strategies to minimize debilitating side effects like neuropathy. Ian was also able to take part in a clinical trial that aimed to reduce chemotherapy-induced neuropathy.
Through his stage 3C colon cancer experience, Ian has remained a staunch self-advocate. He firmly believes in being the “squeaky wheel” — outspoken, persistent, and informed — to help ensure that one receives timely, appropriate medical care. As a survivor, Ian takes his role as a husband and father to heart, actively participates in cancer support communities, and shares his story to help inspire and support others facing similar challenges.
Watch Ian’s video to get a better grasp of:
- How Ian’s innate curiosity and intellectual approach turned out to be his greatest strength in facing stage 3C colon cancer
- Why being a “squeaky wheel” can make all the difference in healthcare
- How Ian balanced cancer treatment with family life, including a new baby on the way
- Choosing an oncologist based on far more than just credentials
- How clinical trials helped Ian maintain his quality of life during chemotherapy
- Name:
- Ian D.
- Age at Diagnosis:
- 38
- Diagnosis:
- Colon Cancer
- Staging:
- Stage 3C
- Symptoms:
- Fatigue
- Unusual blood test results during annual physical
- Blood in stool
- Treatments:
- Surgery: partial colectomy
- Chemotherapy
- Clinical trial
This interview has been edited for clarity and length. This is not medical advice. Please consult with your healthcare provider to make informed treatment decisions.
The views and opinions expressed in this interview do not necessarily reflect those of The Patient Story.

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