Abby’s Stage 4 Melanoma Experience Underscores Empowerment and Self-Advocacy
Abby, a firefighter paramedic from Arizona, shares her experience after being diagnosed with stage 4 melanoma, a form of skin cancer. This was her second experience with melanoma; during her college years, the discovery of a mole behind her ear had led to a diagnosis of stage 1 melanoma, which was successfully treated through surgery. Eight years later, a lump under her arm revealed that she had melanoma again and that that it was at stage 4 this time. Abby initially dismissed symptoms like monthly headaches and fatigue as dehydration. She only realized the severity of her condition after a biopsy afterwards confirmed the spread.
Interviewed by: Taylor Scheib
Edited by: Chris Sanchez
With a strong support system comprising her family and her unwavering faith in God, Abby approached her stage 4 melanoma diagnosis pragmatically, refusing to let it define her life. Her dermatologist initially emphasized the seriousness of her condition due to numerous tumors, including a significant one in her brain. But she subsequently maintained her composure and chose to focus on the positive aspects of her health.
Abby’s treatment plan, which combines radiation and immunotherapy drugs, began in 2023 and is set to conclude in June 2025. She concurrently complements her medical treatment with natural remedies, such as juicing, maintaining a paleo diet, and detoxification. Her treatments have led to significant cancer reduction.
Abby underlines the importance of regular health checks and awareness. She emphatically states that cancer can affect anyone, regardless of skin type or health history. She actively promotes this message through her Instagram account. Despite challenges like hair loss and digestive issues from treatment, Abby persists with a resilient mindset. Her experience has drastically altered her lifestyle, and she now prioritizes organic food and minimizing toxins, be they in diet or skincare. Her family’s presence and encouragement have been pivotal, though she acknowledges the emotional strain her condition placed on them.
Through her experience with stage 4 melanoma, Abby has embraced a new identity, combining her medical knowledge with personal insights to advocate for health prioritization. Above all, she encourages others to take preventive measures and remain positive. She emphasizes that health is a personal responsibility, and underscores the importance of mental wellbeing alongside physical health.
- Name: Abigail E.
- Diagnosis:
- Melanoma (Skin Cancer)
- Staging:
- Stage 4
- Symptoms:
- Small yet fast-growing, marble-like growth under right arm
- Intermittent headaches
- Treatments:
- Radiation
- Immunotherapy
This interview has been edited for clarity and length. This is not medical advice. Please consult with your healthcare provider to make informed treatment decisions.
The views and opinions expressed in this interview do not necessarily reflect those of The Patient Story.
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