Willow was diagnosed with a rare stage 3 pelvic cancer that was a combination of endometrial and cervical cancer. Initially, she had persistent flu-like symptoms, fatigue, a scratchy throat, and chills. Despite requesting cancer tests from her gynecologist, her concerns were dismissed as symptoms of aging. Eventually, more alarming symptoms like post-orgasm pain, heavy bleeding, and severe cramping led her to fabricate symptoms to expedite care because she couldn’t find answers. Multiple tests yielded no results until a naturopathic gynecologist ordered advanced imaging, which revealed a hidden tumor masked by scar tissue from her cesarean section nine years prior.

The diagnosis confirmed she was on the brink of stage 3 pelvic cancer. Willow underwent a radical hysterectomy, followed by six weeks of radiation and chemotherapy. Despite the rigorous treatments, she felt fortunate to have the tumor removed first, which alleviated her symptoms. Recovery, however, was daunting due to the internal nature of the surgery and the emotional toll of transitioning from intensive care to self-reliance. Post-treatment, Willow suffered from angioedema and the abrupt onset of menopause, leading to brain fog, brittle bones, and balance issues, causing several falls and broken bones.

Despite these challenges, Willow adopted hormone replacement therapy (HRT), which significantly improved her quality of life. She emphasized the importance of conventional cancer treatments, advocating against relying solely on holistic methods. During her treatment, Willow reached out to her community and received crucial support.

Her identity transformed post-cancer; she embraced a fearless, purpose-driven life. Willow’s candid discussion about intimacy post-surgery highlighted that recovery and fulfilling sex life are possible with proper care, including pelvic floor therapy. She encouraged others to pursue their passions without waiting for life-threatening circumstances, emphasizing that cancer is not a death sentence but a call to fully engage with life.